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By *im53 OP   Man
over a year ago

Boldon

when i check some one who has looked at me in looked at me section

most times there profile states not looking for single males. wtf they must have gone to the men list to find me if they dont want a male why look

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Because they can

But , maybe they put no single males on their profile so that they are not swamped with mails, then they can look for single males themselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think maybe others do the same as me,when Im reading the forums, because Im a nosey person I just check out somebodys profile if what they say interests me, not always with a view to meet, just out of curiosity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looked at me section? whats that then? can you see whos viewed your profile on here? i did'nt know that lol

As in answer to you question maybe they just like cruesing mens profiles to see if theres some nice eye candy to wank over don't mean they want to meet them lol

Plus i think a lot of women and couple put they don't meet single guys when they do because of the mount of mail you get from single guys, so they put don't meet single guys and then if and when they do want one find it easier to look thro the adds and contact one themselves that way you hav'nt got a dozen messages to reply back to every single time you log on.....just a thought )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also check people out when read in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like the "looked at me" section

It tells us who is NOT interested in us, after all if they have read our profile and seen our pictures and not contacted us they can't be interested can they

That's cool as it stops us contacting people who don't find us compatible.

The bit we don't understand is why people "look at us" almost everyday and never contact us, surely they are interested or not interested ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like the "looked at me" section

It tells us who is NOT interested in us, after all if they have read our profile and seen our pictures and not contacted us they can't be interested can they

That's cool as it stops us contacting people who don't find us compatible.

The bit we don't understand is why people "look at us" almost everyday and never contact us, surely they are interested or not interested ?"

Thats a great way of thinking guys.. but sadly flawed honest.

Just Sat gone we noticed someone who kept peeking but no mail etc.. and they looked lovely.. We winked.. 2 hours later we were sharing a drink in a bar!

Sometimes.. maybe a tad shy??

Possible.. worked for us in this case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

possibly becuase they just like perving all the pics of the lovley Sasha.

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley


"We like the "looked at me" section

It tells us who is NOT interested in us, after all if they have read our profile and seen our pictures and not contacted us they can't be interested can they

That's cool as it stops us contacting people who don't find us compatible.

The bit we don't understand is why people "look at us" almost everyday and never contact us, surely they are interested or not interested ?"

Maybe they are waiting for you to make the "first move"... but if you havnt contacted them in spite of them "looking at you" almost daily you would think that they would have got the message??!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like the "looked at me" section

It tells us who is NOT interested in us, after all if they have read our profile and seen our pictures and not contacted us they can't be interested can they

That's cool as it stops us contacting people who don't find us compatible.

The bit we don't understand is why people "look at us" almost everyday and never contact us, surely they are interested or not interested ?

Maybe they are waiting for you to make the "first move"... but if you havnt contacted them in spite of them "looking at you" almost daily you would think that they would have got the message??!!"

Kinda my point lol.. if they KEEP looking some reason there eh lol... Missing something there I think..

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By *1sexypairCouple
over a year ago

Retford

We like the looked at me section seeing who has checked out our profile then looking at there’s. And we have come across some lovely profiles looking at us. But some words just stop you sending those messages. Not just the words like the list below.

Then you look at there Photo’s and you think not a bloody chance of meeting them

Age,

Won’t meet smokers,

Bi-curious (male)

Midweek days (Some of us work lol)

Some may disagree but isn’t that’s what this is all about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had a fem who stated on her peofile she was STR8T but looks at me..wtf that all about lol so i emailed her an asked if she was STR8T why look at a bi fems profile an guess wat..my email was read an deleted lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at lots of profiles just to see who and what they are looking for.

But as married male I know that there is little chance of them wanting to meet me for fun but still like to look

And yes it is sometimes to have a perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if it's ever the female half of the couple who fancies seeing what's out there but hubby is a bit unhappy about it?

Saying that, i remember thinking that a lot of guys who claim to be straight have checked my profile. Then it occured to me that i'll have a look at a guys profile out of curiosity, and i definitely have no interest in meeting them.

Most worrying though is the 2 or 3 guys who check my profile almost everyday :-S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i just checked out your profile, and guess what..my hubby wont mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a fem who stated on her peofile she was STR8T but looks at me..wtf that all about lol so i emailed her an asked if she was STR8T why look at a bi fems profile an guess wat..my email was read an deleted lol xxx"

Stunna...i just seen your profile and cant i have'nt seen it before!!

WOW ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a fem who stated on her peofile she was STR8T but looks at me..wtf that all about lol so i emailed her an asked if she was STR8T why look at a bi fems profile an guess wat..my email was read an deleted lol xxx"

Maybe she was just checking out someone you had met? easy enough done when checking verifications.

Or maybe shes just a stalker lol

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By *teve_SoleilCouple
over a year ago

Malaysia

how about calling it profile surfing???..:D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like the "looked at me" section

It tells us who is NOT interested in us, after all if they have read our profile and seen our pictures and not contacted us they can't be interested can they

That's cool as it stops us contacting people who don't find us compatible.

The bit we don't understand is why people "look at us" almost everyday and never contact us, surely they are interested or not interested ?

Maybe they are waiting for you to make the "first move"... but if you havnt contacted them in spite of them "looking at you" almost daily you would think that they would have got the message??!!

Kinda my point lol.. if they KEEP looking some reason there eh lol... Missing something there I think.."

Fair point but we don't get any joy from winks so using "we looked at you" to get a response from you isn't going to work for us, we get winks, we check the profile, we wink back and then ......... Nothing, I understand what your saying (and others) but we will stick to our "looked but didn't contact" they aren't interested, "look daily but don't contact" maybe only 1 half likes perving Sasha or maybe they like perving Sasha but don't wanna meet me, that's more likely and truly acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like the "looked at me" section

It tells us who is NOT interested in us, after all if they have read our profile and seen our pictures and not contacted us they can't be interested can they

That's cool as it stops us contacting people who don't find us compatible.

The bit we don't understand is why people "look at us" almost everyday and never contact us, surely they are interested or not interested ?

Maybe they are waiting for you to make the "first move"... but if you havnt contacted them in spite of them "looking at you" almost daily you would think that they would have got the message??!!

Kinda my point lol.. if they KEEP looking some reason there eh lol... Missing something there I think..

Fair point but we don't get any joy from winks so using "we looked at you" to get a response from you isn't going to work for us, we get winks, we check the profile, we wink back and then ......... Nothing, I understand what your saying (and others) but we will stick to our "looked but didn't contact" they aren't interested, "look daily but don't contact" maybe only 1 half likes perving Sasha or maybe they like perving Sasha but don't wanna meet me, that's more likely and truly acceptable "

Without sounding like an arse then... seriously, if thats your way why do you look anyway?? Serious question, honest..

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By *lirty14uMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Well, I just went and looked because everyone is talking about perving Sasha and I didn't want to miss out..... :o)

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I think I said this on the other thread about this....I generally take it as a compliment if the same people keep looking,but what would be nice is that if you have blocked someone they would'nt be able to look at your pics,theres a couple of people I would block if this was the case lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I said this on the other thread about this....I generally take it as a compliment if the same people keep looking,but what would be nice is that if you have blocked someone they would'nt be able to look at your pics,theres a couple of people I would block if this was the case lol

"

Iv'e said it before too... I'd willingly pay for that one feature alone.. and add more pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

right ok am i doing something wrong, never heard of this looked at me section till this thread, i've just had a look and found it but its written in a different colour to the other links and when i try to click it it does nothing, like its there but not linked to anything? is there some kind of extra you have to pay for to get this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you have to be a site supporter to get this feature!! I agree that if someone has looked at you and NOT contacted you then they are obviously not interested in your profile !! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2NOTTS2 Asked "why do we look anyway"

A number of reasons, we are human beings and human being have to check something out if its there.

and as we said its interesting to see who looked at us and never got in contact, it saves us contacting them.

This thread has helped us understand a little better why people dont contact us but look at the pictures daily and we dont find this annoying any more.

So thank you OP for this thread

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By *lackboaWoman
over a year ago

greenock

will add my twopenny worth.....i look at the forums....and then look at the profile of the person who has posted....but I'm just nosey....I'm straight....not even curious....but yes i look at girls profiles..not because i fancy them or want to meet....just to see what makes them tick..see what gear they are wearing..like i said...I'm just nosey....E xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"will add my twopenny worth.....i look at the forums....and then look at the profile of the person who has posted....but I'm just nosey....I'm straight....not even curious....but yes i look at girls profiles..not because i fancy them or want to meet....just to see what makes them tick..see what gear they are wearing..like i said...I'm just nosey....E xx"

ditto this

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By *lackboaWoman
over a year ago

greenock

mmmmm....smooch in jeans....worth another look....E xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all look and be nosy.. human nature. But when someone looks loads of times without mailing or winking even maybe.. just maybe, they are just shy, or think they don't stand a chance or are just stuck for words and hope you may take the initiative..

We had noticed this and tried this last week.. Works ok lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like the "looked at me" section

It tells us who is NOT interested in us, after all if they have read our profile and seen our pictures and not contacted us they can't be interested can they

That's cool as it stops us contacting people who don't find us compatible.

The bit we don't understand is why people "look at us" almost everyday and never contact us, surely they are interested or not interested ?"

We don't think that is has anything to do with being interested or otherwise. Boots and I look at profiles when reading forums or just searching. Sometimes we do this seperately and maybe point out a profile or two to the other. That makes us look at a profile more than once in a day. Then there is the fact that our memories aren't what they were, and we forget who we've looked at, so we look again.

Because we aren't offering a great deal to the site in general (ie we are offering exhibitionism/voyeurism and, er, um, thingy!) we tend not to contact others. Doesn't mean we aren't interested in them though, it just means we haven't contacted them.

Boots and Enigmatist xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you have to be a site supporter to get this feature!! I agree that if someone has looked at you and NOT contacted you then they are obviously not interested in your profile !! xx"

See what we mean? Yours is a very interesting profile! Pity you're so far away!!

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