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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you meet someone and not looking to play alone anymore , can you still be on this site? And if yes why ppl being very rude when you reply to them that you not meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you meet someone and not looking to play alone anymore , can you still be on this site? And if yes why ppl being very rude when you reply to them that you not meeting. "

Ignore the idiots. And Only 117? Slacker!! (Your status lol)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Put that you aren't meeting in the title of your profile, not being single is no bar to looking for meets on here

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

oh and also there is no reason for you not to be on the site, some people think they can dictate terms...they can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what you like, ignore everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rejection can cut straight to the heart of a fragile ego lol

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Circumstances mean we haven't met for 18 months now.

That's no bar to still using the forums. Chatting costs nothing and implies nothing.

It's ignorant people who insist that you have to meet if you want to participate in the site.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"If you meet someone and not looking to play alone anymore , can you still be on this site? And if yes why ppl being very rude when you reply to them that you not meeting. "

Personally I'd make it clear in my profile that I'm not meeting so at least those that read profiles and don't go straight to the pix would be aware...any rudeness just gets a block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only 117 ? hu thats just a weeks worth for me !lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter what you do on here you get abuse and judgement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they can't read your profile, its their problem.

Do as you wish and enjoy

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 19/03/14 18:42:40]"

This site is for you to use however you want as long as you stay within the rules. So if instashag is your thing go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're not wanting to meet at the moment it's not a problem ~ you might want to add that quite clearly in your profile text though otherwise I'm sure you'll still get messages asking why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you meet someone and not looking to play alone anymore , can you still be on this site? And if yes why ppl being very rude when you reply to them that you not meeting. "

Your profile doesn't say that you're not meeting. They may have spent some time reading your profile and composing a nice mail, only for you to say you're not meeting....

If you delete everything off your 'looking for' list you won't show up on searches and that will cut down the mail.

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"If you meet someone and not looking to play alone anymore , can you still be on this site? And if yes why ppl being very rude when you reply to them that you not meeting.

Your profile doesn't say that you're not meeting. They may have spent some time reading your profile and composing a nice mail, only for you to say you're not meeting....

If you delete everything off your 'looking for' list you won't show up on searches and that will cut down the mail."

and 117 in approx 90 days isn't really that big a deal....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you meet someone and not looking to play alone anymore , can you still be on this site? And if yes why ppl being very rude when you reply to them that you not meeting.

Your profile doesn't say that you're not meeting. They may have spent some time reading your profile and composing a nice mail, only for you to say you're not meeting....

If you delete everything off your 'looking for' list you won't show up on searches and that will cut down the mail."

I don't mind them messaging i have started to talk to guys and still keeping in contact through site but if I reply / delete and get abuse back, that's what I don't understand. Sometimes feels like either way I'm in a wrong...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you meet someone and not looking to play alone anymore , can you still be on this site? And if yes why ppl being very rude when you reply to them that you not meeting.

Your profile doesn't say that you're not meeting. They may have spent some time reading your profile and composing a nice mail, only for you to say you're not meeting....

If you delete everything off your 'looking for' list you won't show up on searches and that will cut down the mail.

and 117 in approx 90 days isn't really that big a deal...."

Well because of circumstances I only get to play once a week so it's about 9.75 a meet so I'm still proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you meet someone and not looking to play alone anymore , can you still be on this site? And if yes why ppl being very rude when you reply to them that you not meeting.

Your profile doesn't say that you're not meeting. They may have spent some time reading your profile and composing a nice mail, only for you to say you're not meeting....

If you delete everything off your 'looking for' list you won't show up on searches and that will cut down the mail.

I don't mind them messaging i have started to talk to guys and still keeping in contact through site but if I reply / delete and get abuse back, that's what I don't understand. Sometimes feels like either way I'm in a wrong... "

Well that's where some of the tips given above might help you to filter out the unwanted new messages.

You can't control how people reply to you so just delete & block. Don't let it worry you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to meet with an old profile. I started this profile cos I missed the forums.

If a meet happens then cool.

But if I'm looking for sex, its much better to go out on a Friday Saturday night or use pof than it is on here!

So I'm here just for the forums too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do what you like, ignore everyone else. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who wont give me a sympathy shag shouldnt be on here

Shimples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust me on this, you can word your profile as bluntly as possible and quite a few folk won't take a blind bit of notice.

I changed to my current profile and started the counter in August last year.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I no longer play singly - I simply changed my profile text, took all the search criteria off - and hey presto - problem solved.

Yes - it's a single guy profile - but fox did the same on hers and whilst she still gets a few chancers it's nothing like the days when we met separately.

A few simple changes - all of them non-permanent - and your problems will be solved. Leave your profile as it is and only the psychics will know you're not meeting right now.

A

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