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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair enough people have life's, but when they ask you if you wana have some fun the next day.. They go offline and dont reply. We waited half hour before going to bed last night. Just logged on, checked sent, still no reply nor read his message as he hasn't n't been on!

Why do people as try arrange a meet if they know they're busy. Do they like winding people up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me at the weekend.

Some asked to meet on Saturday. I messaged them in the morning and didn't get a reply until 11pm.

????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def their loss!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe lost phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair enough people have life's, but when they ask you if you wana have some fun the next day.. They go offline and dont reply. We waited half hour before going to bed last night. Just logged on, checked sent, still no reply nor read his message as he hasn't n't been on!

Why do people as try arrange a meet if they know they're busy. Do they like winding people up. "

Unfortunately some people do like winding people up .... It's their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe lost phone "

Ever the optimist

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

Maybe real life got in the way.

As you said we all have lives away from fab. We have children and ageing parents. We have work which can interfere too. There could be any number of valid reasons for not replying as quickly as you would like them to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe real life got in the way.

As you said we all have lives away from fab. We have children and ageing parents. We have work which can interfere too. There could be any number of valid reasons for not replying as quickly as you would like them to"

If the meet is for the next day , they are not being unreasonable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe real life got in the way.

As you said we all have lives away from fab. We have children and ageing parents. We have work which can interfere too. There could be any number of valid reasons for not replying as quickly as you would like them to"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe real life got in the way.

As you said we all have lives away from fab. We have children and ageing parents. We have work which can interfere too. There could be any number of valid reasons for not replying as quickly as you would like them to

"

Ah , now I get it ...

Fab isn't real , and it doesn't really matter if people make arrangements then leave others in limbo .

It takes seconds to cancel , and to be decent enough to let others know that ' real life' has kicked in , and the unreal world on here will have to wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair enough people have life's, but when they ask you if you wana have some fun the next day.. They go offline and dont reply. We waited half hour before going to bed last night. Just logged on, checked sent, still no reply nor read his message as he hasn't n't been on!

Why do people as try arrange a meet if they know they're busy. Do they like winding people up. "

isn't it frustrating when you want to have a meet and they do that to you , think a search elsewhere might be adviceable

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Maybe real life got in the way.

As you said we all have lives away from fab. We have children and ageing parents. We have work which can interfere too. There could be any number of valid reasons for not replying as quickly as you would like them to

Ah , now I get it ...

Fab isn't real , and it doesn't really matter if people make arrangements then leave others in limbo .

It takes seconds to cancel , and to be decent enough to let others know that ' real life' has kicked in , and the unreal world on here will have to wait "

Please point me to where the op said they had made arrangements and then left others in limbo. You may be reading an entirely different post to me because I'm sure the op only stated that they had sent a message.

Now if firm arrangements have been made, that is a different situation completely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe real life got in the way.

As you said we all have lives away from fab. We have children and ageing parents. We have work which can interfere too. There could be any number of valid reasons for not replying as quickly as you would like them to

Ah , now I get it ...

Fab isn't real , and it doesn't really matter if people make arrangements then leave others in limbo .

It takes seconds to cancel , and to be decent enough to let others know that ' real life' has kicked in , and the unreal world on here will have to wait

Please point me to where the op said they had made arrangements and then left others in limbo. You may be reading an entirely different post to me because I'm sure the op only stated that they had sent a message.

Now if firm arrangements have been made, that is a different situation completely.

"

Perhaps I have misread it , but the guy messaged them and asked if they wanted fun the next day , to which I assumed they said yes to .

He then went quiet , leaving them in limbo so to speak .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They think you can't see it sometimes weighing up the options.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe real life got in the way.

As you said we all have lives away from fab. We have children and ageing parents. We have work which can interfere too. There could be any number of valid reasons for not replying as quickly as you would like them to

Ah , now I get it ...

Fab isn't real , and it doesn't really matter if people make arrangements then leave others in limbo .

It takes seconds to cancel , and to be decent enough to let others know that ' real life' has kicked in , and the unreal world on here will have to wait

Please point me to where the op said they had made arrangements and then left others in limbo. You may be reading an entirely different post to me because I'm sure the op only stated that they had sent a message.

Now if firm arrangements have been made, that is a different situation completely.

Perhaps I have misread it , but the guy messaged them and asked if they wanted fun the next day , to which I assumed they said yes to .

He then went quiet , leaving them in limbo so to speak ."

exactly that.

tbh we wasnt looking,he's on our friends list and asked if were free tomorrow (lastnight) and would we want a meet. so seen as were both off today and not had a daytime meet we thought ok then,why not he replied great,whats ya addy for skype we'll have a qucik chat. sent it..half hour later,still nothing.. and still nothing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair enough people have life's, but when they ask you if you wana have some fun the next day.. They go offline and dont reply. We waited half hour before going to bed last night. Just logged on, checked sent, still no reply nor read his message as he hasn't n't been on!

Why do people as try arrange a meet if they know they're busy. Do they like winding people up. "

Presumably he is now on your block list?

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