FabSwingers.com forum: And I thought it was just the single guys...

By *otTheReal01 OP Man
over a year ago

London

I just sent a polite message to a TGirl inquiring about a meet in response to a "meeting today" request she's put up and got a torrent of abuse in reply.

And here was me thinking it was single guys who had the market cornered on this...

Sheesh. Blocked and reported.

Still, on the plus side, at least I've lost my "blocked list" virginity and actually have someone on there now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she was having a bad wig day

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By *r tickle 22Man
over a year ago

Sheffeld

"Maybe she was having a bad wig day

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so you seem evasive about why she said something like that.

did you ignore her profile by anychance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so you seem evasive about why she said something like that.

did you ignore her profile by anychance?"

My thoughts. I/we've never had abuse yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe she was having a bad wig day

haha maybe, woke up on the wrong side of the bed, shame some people are like that, even couples not just singles, just keep being polite and you'll go far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe she was having a bad wig day

haha maybe, woke up on the wrong side of the bed, shame some people are like that, even couples not just singles, just keep being polite and you'll go far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not too sure what the reporting them will achieve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can someone please explain the difference between a man and a 't girl'?

honestly, other than some frilly knickers and a frock, they seem the same to me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3. 2. 1.

cue the attack

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By *otTheReal01 OP Man
over a year ago

London

No, as I always do, I carefully read her profile (what there was of it) before messaging her.

In among the other insults she did tell me the things about me she wasn't in to, none of which was on her profile of course.

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By *otTheReal01 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Not too sure what the reporting them will achieve."

I'm not sure either, but there is an "abusive" option which is what I used.

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By *otTheReal01 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"so you seem evasive about why she said something like that.

did you ignore her profile by anychance?"

I'm struggling to see how you think I'm being evasive?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Was it TinaTitz?

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By *otTheReal01 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Was it TinaTitz?

No, if it had been Tina I'd be lying in a pool of blood as a result of the rapier wit.

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I read a mans profile the other day. He sounded my kinda man. I winked. He responded asking me for pics. I sent him my profile pics saying i dont show more until i click with some1. He came back insulted me and blocked me. So ur not alone no matter how much u read their profile and r polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so you seem evasive about why she said something like that.

did you ignore her profile by anychance?

I'm struggling to see how you think I'm being evasive?

well you've avoided any detail what so ever. so i'm going with you didnt fit requirements ie age etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3. 2. 1.

cue the attack"

wow that's possibly the worst attempt at trolling I've seen in quite a while.

At least put some effort into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe she was having a bad wig day

Hahaha

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By *otTheReal01 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"so you seem evasive about why she said something like that.

did you ignore her profile by anychance?

I'm struggling to see how you think I'm being evasive?

well you've avoided any detail what so ever. so i'm going with you didnt fit requirements ie age etc."

Quite a conclusion you've come to there, particularly considering I stated above that I carefully read her profile before messaging.

(I'm even complimented for paying close attention to profiles by one of my verifications...)

I never message anyone unless I fit all their requirements. There's no point, it's just a waste of time if you're not what they're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they were being abusive it sounds to me like you have done the right thing in reporting them,seems pretty straight forward to me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3. 2. 1.

cue the attack"

3. 2. 1 .... And nothing , no explanation ?

We woukd like to know too

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"3. 2. 1.

cue the attack

wow that's possibly the worst attempt at trolling I've seen in quite a while.

At least put some effort into it.

To be fair you are doing a good enough job for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, as I always do, I carefully read her profile (what there was of it) before messaging her.

In among the other insults she did tell me the things about me she wasn't in to, none of which was on her profile of course.

being a drama queen. Probably hormonal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so you seem evasive about why she said something like that.

did you ignore her profile by anychance?

I'm struggling to see how you think I'm being evasive?

well you've avoided any detail what so ever. so i'm going with you didnt fit requirements ie age etc."

or maybe he did and was a victim of something thinking they are too good for some on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so you seem evasive about why she said something like that.

did you ignore her profile by anychance?

I'm struggling to see how you think I'm being evasive?

well you've avoided any detail what so ever. so i'm going with you didnt fit requirements ie age etc.

Quite a conclusion you've come to there, particularly considering I stated above that I carefully read her profile before messaging.

(I'm even complimented for paying close attention to profiles by one of my verifications...)

I never message anyone unless I fit all their requirements. There's no point, it's just a waste of time if you're not what they're looking for. "

you would say that though, every guy says that when he messages a profile he's blatantly not read.

So what was the reason she said no then?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

just block and don't give it another thought....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so you seem evasive about why she said something like that.

did you ignore her profile by anychance?

I'm struggling to see how you think I'm being evasive?

well you've avoided any detail what so ever. so i'm going with you didnt fit requirements ie age etc.

Quite a conclusion you've come to there, particularly considering I stated above that I carefully read her profile before messaging.

(I'm even complimented for paying close attention to profiles by one of my verifications...)

I never message anyone unless I fit all their requirements. There's no point, it's just a waste of time if you're not what they're looking for.

you would say that though, every guy says that when he messages a profile he's blatantly not read.

So what was the reason she said no then?"

Every guy? Waw, sweeping statement

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I think take the guy at face value x unprovoked abusive messages should not be enforced even if a profile isn't even read abusive messaging is a poor reflection of the person and absolutely needless x

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Enforced should have read endorsed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey move on kid her loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was it TinaTitz?

No, if it had been Tina I'd be lying in a pool of blood as a result of the rapier wit.

DeathByTitz.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"so you seem evasive about why she said something like that.

did you ignore her profile by anychance?

I'm struggling to see how you think I'm being evasive?

well you've avoided any detail what so ever. so i'm going with you didnt fit requirements ie age etc.

Quite a conclusion you've come to there, particularly considering I stated above that I carefully read her profile before messaging.

(I'm even complimented for paying close attention to profiles by one of my verifications...)

I never message anyone unless I fit all their requirements. There's no point, it's just a waste of time if you're not what they're looking for.

you would say that though, every guy says that when he messages a profile he's blatantly not read.

So what was the reason she said no then?"

Looks like you have an axe to grind with the OP. The guy is only complaining at the rude response he got from a message, which has been posted by many people many times before without the third degree.

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Bloody TGirls. Who'd ave em?

D'oh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think take the guy at face value x unprovoked abusive messages should not be enforced even if a profile isn't even read abusive messaging is a poor reflection of the person and absolutely needless x"

well said. If I bollocked every man who didn't read my profile I'd turn into a bitter old woman

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By *otTheReal01 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"(I'm even complimented for paying close attention to profiles by one of my verifications...)

I never message anyone unless I fit all their requirements. There's no point, it's just a waste of time if you're not what they're looking for.

you would say that though, every guy says that when he messages a profile he's blatantly not read.

So what was the reason she said no then?"

I'm an ugly fucker, she doesn't do guys with long hair or those who are smooth (no mention of her preference for hairy guys or men with short hair on her profile) and my cock is nasty too.

Perfectly fine for her to have preferences (we all do) but it would be nice if they were on her profile and surely just blocking me would have been the sane response instead of the "throw abuse then block" option that single men are always being slated by women on here for doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with the fact she just didn't like you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The good thing is we can block them back lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" So what was the reason she said no then?

I'm an ugly fucker, she doesn't do guys with long hair or those who are smooth (no mention of her preference for hairy guys or men with short hair on her profile) and my cock is nasty too.

Sounds like you're still in with a chance. Unblock and try again

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By *otTheReal01 OP Man
over a year ago

London

" So what was the reason she said no then?

I'm an ugly fucker, she doesn't do guys with long hair or those who are smooth (no mention of her preference for hairy guys or men with short hair on her profile) and my cock is nasty too.

Sounds like you're still in with a chance. Unblock and try again

I think you're right, I'm well in there.

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By *otTheReal01 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Go with the fact she just didn't like you lol"

I may be reading too much into her message but I kind of got that feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said. If I bollocked every man who didn't read my profile I'd turn into a bitter old woman "

You'd turn into me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said. If I bollocked every man who didn't read my profile I'd turn into a bitter old woman

You'd turn into me.

you're not old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" So what was the reason she said no then?

I'm an ugly fucker, she doesn't do guys with long hair or those who are smooth (no mention of her preference for hairy guys or men with short hair on her profile) and my cock is nasty too.

Sounds like you're still in with a chance. Unblock and try again

I think you're right, I'm well in there.

She might just be playing hard to get.

Good luck.

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