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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is it with couples messeging asking to meet up as a 4sum but then only sending pics of the mrs with the messege?? Yh ok she's hot so don't matter what mr is like right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its the same with most couple profiles ,, only pics of the female ,, i like to see what im getting ,, when i meet as part of a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then pass by the ones that don't have the pics you want to see,it's not rocket science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if we email a Cpl or single then we send a face pic of us both and ok I'm not brad pit and if that's what they want then tough luck , we all know the ladies are main reason this site works. there's nothing worse than not getting a pic of the bloke from the cpls perspective .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Then pass by the ones that don't have the pics you want to see,it's not rocket science"

I don't remember saying we didn't pass them by

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

im afraid we are guilty as charged , but always send pics as and when required ,,,,,, usualy does the trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have no interest in cpls with just fem pics........ a cpl is 2 people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Clearly some couples don't mind 'taking one for the team' not doing that to my mrs thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then pass by the ones that don't have the pics you want to see,it's not rocket science

I don't remember saying we didn't pass them by "

Problem solved then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does the bloke go along as a puppet then and what happens if he is not liked once there how embarrassing, silly to themselves.

I send on our face pics, if we are not liked its oh well lol.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The main reason I (female) lose interest, and probably one reason why we haven't had any fun yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Then pass by the ones that don't have the pics you want to see,it's not rocket science

I don't remember saying we didn't pass them by

Problem solved then"

Indeed

Still won't stop me from having a rant tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does the bloke go along as a puppet then and what happens if he is not liked once there how embarrassing, silly to themselves.

I send on our face pics, if we are not liked its oh well lol.

Her"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then pass by the ones that don't have the pics you want to see,it's not rocket science

I don't remember saying we didn't pass them by

Problem solved then

Indeed

Still won't stop me from having a rant tho "

But that's my point,why rant about other people's profile.if they aren't what you are looking for,you are unlikely to want to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have pics of the both of us on our profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

exactly grey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread has made me realise we are woefully lacking of pictures of him...will have to rectify thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Then pass by the ones that don't have the pics you want to see,it's not rocket science

I don't remember saying we didn't pass them by

Problem solved then

Indeed

Still won't stop me from having a rant tho

But that's my point,why rant about other people's profile.if they aren't what you are looking for,you are unlikely to want to meet them "

I don't quite think u read my thread? Maybe a lil too keen to hit the reply button if you noticed I said they messeged US and sent pics to US don't think that's quite the same as ranting about there profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clearly some couples don't mind 'taking one for the team' not doing that to my mrs thanks "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have pics of us both but the Mrs is far more photogenic than me, hence having more pics

Still I think our pics give a good insight into how we look body-type wise

Obviously face pics are on friends only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then pass by the ones that don't have the pics you want to see,it's not rocket science

I don't remember saying we didn't pass them by

Problem solved then

Indeed

Still won't stop me from having a rant tho

But that's my point,why rant about other people's profile.if they aren't what you are looking for,you are unlikely to want to meet them

I don't quite think u read my thread? Maybe a lil too keen to hit the reply button if you noticed I said they messeged US and sent pics to US don't think that's quite the same as ranting about there profile "

I did see that,of course I saw that,but at the end of the day,they,as a couple,didn't have what you were looking for,so you passed them by,so why the need to highlight something that didn't suit your needs?

Actually don't answer that,you made your point,I made ours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Then pass by the ones that don't have the pics you want to see,it's not rocket science

I don't remember saying we didn't pass them by

Problem solved then

Indeed

Still won't stop me from having a rant tho

But that's my point,why rant about other people's profile.if they aren't what you are looking for,you are unlikely to want to meet them

I don't quite think u read my thread? Maybe a lil too keen to hit the reply button if you noticed I said they messeged US and sent pics to US don't think that's quite the same as ranting about there profile

I did see that,of course I saw that,but at the end of the day,they,as a couple,didn't have what you were looking for,so you passed them by,so why the need to highlight something that didn't suit your needs?

Actually don't answer that,you made your point,I made ours"

Think I'll answer that thanks unless you are the forum police? No, ok great well this is a forum where people discuss matters on fab where it's a like or dislike

Hope that's an ok explanation for u xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clearly some couples don't mind 'taking one for the team' not doing that to my mrs thanks "

Or the profiles with pics of so many different people you can't tell who the heck is supposed to be the couple in the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

will I change anything ,,,,, nope ,,, why , because we do our meeting at clubs were folks can get to know us for who we are and not what they think we might be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then pass by the ones that don't have the pics you want to see,it's not rocket science

I don't remember saying we didn't pass them by

Problem solved then

Indeed

Still won't stop me from having a rant tho

But that's my point,why rant about other people's profile.if they aren't what you are looking for,you are unlikely to want to meet them

I don't quite think u read my thread? Maybe a lil too keen to hit the reply button if you noticed I said they messeged US and sent pics to US don't think that's quite the same as ranting about there profile

I did see that,of course I saw that,but at the end of the day,they,as a couple,didn't have what you were looking for,so you passed them by,so why the need to highlight something that didn't suit your needs?

Actually don't answer that,you made your point,I made ours

Think I'll answer that thanks unless you are the forum police? No, ok great well this is a forum where people discuss matters on fab where it's a like or dislike

Hope that's an ok explanation for u xxxx"

I'm too tired,and bored now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we got both - with heads on too - often we ask for face pics and thats the last we hear - often get blocked lol - ah well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hehehehe its fun love but he cant be that ugly loll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are two of us... So therefore always send a picture of.... The two of us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all comes down to personal choice and people will run their profiles how they want to run it with the pictures of their choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ya no love theys alot of mesers to or ya can call em pic colectors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the joys of this site it brings up the weird and the wonderful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"will I change anything ,,,,, nope ,,, why , because we do our meeting at clubs were folks can get to know us for who we are and not what they think we might be "

And that's great and who is anyone to tell you otherwise but our gripe was a couple asked us to meet as a 4sum but only showed us one half so how can we answer there proposal when we have no idea what the other half looks like (and that does matter to us)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes that is very true an a clever person should understand it at the first hint unless they dumb love

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are two of us... So therefore always send a picture of.... The two of us! "

Common sense prevails lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes thats what I get loads to, most couples only put up pics of the girl never the man loll. I gues they get more intersts then lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and the cheerfull

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

Our public pics show both of us and if we are asked for face pics we always send a few of us both together...

I can't understand why a couple wouldn't if they're both involved in the fun...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said love cos you must av heard the saying you cant judge abook by its cover wich alot of people to nowadays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with couples messeging asking to meet up as a 4sum but then only sending pics of the mrs with the messege?? Yh ok she's hot so don't matter what mr is like right "

After they sent just pics of her, did you ask them to send a pic of the guy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is it with couples messeging asking to meet up as a 4sum but then only sending pics of the mrs with the messege?? Yh ok she's hot so don't matter what mr is like right

After they sent just pics of her, did you ask them to send a pic of the guy? "

Nope as we know what would of happened

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon


"will I change anything ,,,,, nope ,,, why , because we do our meeting at clubs were folks can get to know us for who we are and not what they think we might be

And that's great and who is anyone to tell you otherwise but our gripe was a couple asked us to meet as a 4sum but only showed us one half so how can we answer there proposal when we have no idea what the other half looks like (and that does matter to us) "

and if I was in your situation i would carry on walking by ,,,,, I was just trying to put another angle on it , I know that im not every ones cup of tea and my best chance in this lifestyle is to meet face to face so others can judge me for who I really am ,

but I will say one thing , to succeed in this lifestyle I think you need to have a thick skin , dont believe everything your told and have a sense of humour when things go tits up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with couples messeging asking to meet up as a 4sum but then only sending pics of the mrs with the messege?? Yh ok she's hot so don't matter what mr is like right

After they sent just pics of her, did you ask them to send a pic of the guy?

Nope as we know what would of happened "

awwww you never know - we always ask often we get them - if you dont ask you dont get - we say we show them both of us and if they say no thanks we never know which one of us put them off - makes us laugh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is it with couples messeging asking to meet up as a 4sum but then only sending pics of the mrs with the messege?? Yh ok she's hot so don't matter what mr is like right

After they sent just pics of her, did you ask them to send a pic of the guy?

Nope as we know what would of happened

awwww you never know - we always ask often we get them - if you dont ask you dont get - we say we show them both of us and if they say no thanks we never know which one of us put them off - makes us laugh "

I suppose but there's just no point we've asked in the past and from past experience there's a reason they only sent the female half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are pics of both of us. But yes agree. The woman is hot but men are not so hot. Sorry guys

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

If we started a thread every time someone messaged us and it wasn't what we were looking for or would ideally like in a first message - there'd be more of those threads than the BBW/bareback/kiss, fuck, avoid/why can't I get any meets/why do all these rude people not reply/happy birthday/good morning (you get my drift) threads combined!!

It happens. Always will. Best thing to do is say no thanks, ignore - or if after checking the profile you still feel you may be interested - ask for the missing pics of the other half.

It's the only chance of a positive outcome. Otherwise - just move on.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We found it irritating to have to ask for the missing pics but now we've been on here a while we just block & move on!

My question is how does the man feel before a meet knowing that nobody knows what he looks like ?

I'd be feeling worried that the other fem might not be attracted but might be playing anyway just because she's under pressure.

I'd also be worried they'd just get up & leave which could be embarrassing but my own fault for putting myself in that position.

Maybe they don't give a shit or just think there wife is so hot it compensates ?

The other thing is it doesn't feel very honest from the start.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We found it irritating to have to ask for the missing pics but now we've been on here a while we just block & move on!

My question is how does the man feel before a meet knowing that nobody knows what he looks like ?

I'd be feeling worried that the other fem might not be attracted but might be playing anyway just because she's under pressure.

I'd also be worried they'd just get up & leave which could be embarrassing but my own fault for putting myself in that position.

Maybe they don't give a shit or just think there wife is so hot it compensates ?

The other thing is it doesn't feel very honest from the start."

All very good points but the point about the hot wife compensating is so true I can imagine there thoughts 'hey my wife is hot, once the mr see's her he'll make his mrs meet regardless of what I look like'

Well not this mr! The shame is I'm guessing there are ppl who would!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We found it irritating to have to ask for the missing pics but now we've been on here a while we just block & move on!

My question is how does the man feel before a meet knowing that nobody knows what he looks like ?

I'd be feeling worried that the other fem might not be attracted but might be playing anyway just because she's under pressure.

I'd also be worried they'd just get up & leave which could be embarrassing but my own fault for putting myself in that position.

Maybe they don't give a shit or just think there wife is so hot it compensates ?

The other thing is it doesn't feel very honest from the start.

All very good points but the point about the hot wife compensating is so true I can imagine there thoughts 'hey my wife is hot, once the mr see's her he'll make his mrs meet regardless of what I look like'

Well not this mr! The shame is I'm guessing there are ppl who would! "

Yes & also plenty willing to take one for the team lol

Still like others have said just move on its not worth the time

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By *ickedxxxCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We've just added to our profile a little note at the end saying "pics of the guys please" in our experience if there's no guy pics on the profile then there must be a reason for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've just added to our profile a little note at the end saying "pics of the guys please" in our experience if there's no guy pics on the profile then there must be a reason for it! "

Great pics btw

Think we may do the same lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We found it irritating to have to ask for the missing pics but now we've been on here a while we just block & move on!

My question is how does the man feel before a meet knowing that nobody knows what he looks like ?

I'd be feeling worried that the other fem might not be attracted but might be playing anyway just because she's under pressure.

I'd also be worried they'd just get up & leave which could be embarrassing but my own fault for putting myself in that position.

Maybe they don't give a shit or just think there wife is so hot it compensates ?

The other thing is it doesn't feel very honest from the start.

All very good points but the point about the hot wife compensating is so true I can imagine there thoughts 'hey my wife is hot, once the mr see's her he'll make his mrs meet regardless of what I look like'

Well not this mr! The shame is I'm guessing there are ppl who would! "

my fella would totally agree with you - he has rejected many because he thinks the guy isnt suitable for me , its not a massive issue for us as we play mainly with fems , the couples are really special of which we have one we will meet again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We found it irritating to have to ask for the missing pics but now we've been on here a while we just block & move on!

My question is how does the man feel before a meet knowing that nobody knows what he looks like ?

I'd be feeling worried that the other fem might not be attracted but might be playing anyway just because she's under pressure.

I'd also be worried they'd just get up & leave which could be embarrassing but my own fault for putting myself in that position.

Maybe they don't give a shit or just think there wife is so hot it compensates ?

The other thing is it doesn't feel very honest from the start.

All very good points but the point about the hot wife compensating is so true I can imagine there thoughts 'hey my wife is hot, once the mr see's her he'll make his mrs meet regardless of what I look like'

Well not this mr! The shame is I'm guessing there are ppl who would!

my fella would totally agree with you - he has rejected many because he thinks the guy isnt suitable for me , its not a massive issue for us as we play mainly with fems , the couples are really special of which we have one we will meet again "

I couldn't agree more

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