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Swinging world v "normal world "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all !! Just wondered how many people are like me

I don't go into pubs clubs in my local town

I feel old and fat and out of place

Would rather hide away

I don't go on dates

I am shy don't even like to talk on the phone and hide if someone knocks on my front door

Swinging world

I go to a club and I am belle of the ball !

Full of confidence and chat to everyone

I feel happy and like I belong dance and laugh alllllll night long

So many friends

( and I don't play )

Anyone else like this ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just me then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just me then lol "

Not at all ...

I am exactly the same except for the bit about not playing .

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i see plenty of fat n old folk down reg pubs n clubs lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i see plenty of fat n old folk down reg pubs n clubs lol

"

I mostly see skinny young things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being young n skinny isnt a crime and it shouldnt stop you gong into pubs n clubs

ur not gonna be lusted after like you would in a swinging club but you can still have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"being young n skinny isnt a crime and it shouldnt stop you gong into pubs n clubs

ur not gonna be lusted after like you would in a swinging club but you can still have fun"

Wow you just made me feel a whole lot better .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm FLABULOUS! And don't intend hiding away from the "normal" world. Nobody looks at me like I'm a freak when I go out. I couldn't care less if they did anyway. I had a drink and some food with a very nice man yesterday in a pub then walked through town. He told me off for wearing my jeans and showing off my big bum. He said it was making him hard. Then he said I had to put on another half a stone for more curves. It's all in your mind x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ur so negative

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm FLABULOUS! And don't intend hiding away from the "normal" world. Nobody looks at me like I'm a freak when I go out. I couldn't care less if they did anyway. I had a drink and some food with a very nice man yesterday in a pub then walked through town. He told me off for wearing my jeans and showing off my big bum. He said it was making him hard. Then he said I had to put on another half a stone for more curves. It's all in your

mind x"

Lol

Saying all that still not gonna go into town

Nah nope and no way

Just wonder why I am so confident in swinging situation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

P s I have no problem attracting attention in either world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"being young n skinny isnt a crime and it shouldnt stop you gong into pubs n clubs

ur not gonna be lusted after like you would in a swinging club but you can still have fun"

sorry but you're wrong, it's just in the real world people aren't going to outwardly show their lust are they. Well,some do actually. The men who aren't into skinny women will. I had a man talk to me in the bar I go to one evening. He said slap my face. I said why? He said because I'm going to say something that deserves a slap and then said you have an amazing arse. I didn't slap him. My bum is always getting pinched when I'm at the bar and I get comments about my boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a old fart in real world i go to bingo accasional with mates and to the pub,i can be livewire in the real world much the same as i am in swingworld its my personality and still talk of work trip to brugge where my mate took a vid of me getting my baps out on a fountain they often bring that up lol but im too old for vanilla nightclubs though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel the same in both vanilla world and swing world . Its no different I get on and happy with both .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"being young n skinny isnt a crime and it shouldnt stop you gong into pubs n clubs

ur not gonna be lusted after like you would in a swinging club but you can still have fun

sorry but you're wrong, it's just in the real world people aren't going to outwardly show their lust are they. Well,some do actually. The men who aren't into skinny women will. I had a man talk to me in the bar I go to one evening. He said slap my face. I said why? He said because I'm going to say something that deserves a slap and then said you have an amazing arse. I didn't slap him. My bum is always getting pinched when I'm at the bar and I get comments about my boobs "

Go you ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i should clarify when i said lusted after i didnt mean noones gonna fancy you. i meant ur not gonna get as much male attention as you would a swinging club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i should clarify when i said lusted after i didnt mean noones gonna fancy you. i meant ur not gonna get as much male attention as you would a swinging club"

I do

Just as much

Just feel incredibly uncomfortable and unconfident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol right am stumped on this one so am out of here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just like you x without swinging I'd never get out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i should clarify when i said lusted after i didnt mean noones gonna fancy you. i meant ur not gonna get as much male attention as you would a swinging club

I do

Just as much

Just feel incredibly uncomfortable and unconfident

"

Imagine you're in a club when you're out and about. I don't mean start pole dancing round lampposts though.

It's obviously just all in your mind if you get attention in both clubs and the 'real world'. Maybe you're more wary of rejection in the real world? People are at clubs to meet other people and possibly more open, if that makes sense.

Hold your head up and smile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to your OP, I'm the same in clubs and the real world. People like me or they don't.

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

We're really quite shy people, reclusive and private. We like staying in, video gaming and just sticking to our close-knit family.

However, though we've not had hundreds of meets we consider ourselves very extravert sexually. We're vivacious, kinky and quite riotious when it comes to shagging.

Lol, really two different personalties depending on what we're up to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We're really quite shy people, reclusive and private. We like staying in, video gaming and just sticking to our close-knit family.

However, though we've not had hundreds of meets we consider ourselves very extravert sexually. We're vivacious, kinky and quite riotious when it comes to shagging.

Lol, really two different personalties depending on what we're up to. "

Yes that's what I was trying to say lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im the same wherever I go,I just wear less clothes if its a swinging night out ,I choose not to go to regular clubs much of the time though,they're generally full of pissed people and I don't find that very appealing,but I have great mad nights out whether they're with swinging friends or my non swinging friends,sometimes Ill have a normal night out with swinging friends too

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