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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would like to visit more clubs and parties and dont mind travelling and staying over sometimes but I feel nervous going to a new club I don’t know as a single woman alone.

I was wondering if other single women feel the same as it could be fun to meet before and go together?

Any thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really? Just me who gets nervous then? Surprised but ok! Ladies...you are braver than me! Hats off to you all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmm....this amazes me!!! All shy lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't go to a new club on my own if I hadn't been before. I probably just wouldn't go at all. The one I have been to on my own I've been to a few times with a friend so I know the layout and the staff are great.

Maybe see if there's a social type night and go to that. Less pressure but you'll get a feel for the club and it won't be as daunting to go on your own.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

im not shy

and i,m gonna start going to different clubs but alas you are wrong end of the country x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't go to a new club on my own if I hadn't been before. I probably just wouldn't go at all. The one I have been to on my own I've been to a few times with a friend so I know the layout and the staff are great.

Maybe see if there's a social type night and go to that. Less pressure but you'll get a feel for the club and it won't be as daunting to go on your own."

I cant say I would find going to a social any less daunting although I dont see any round here except eurekas which is always excessively crowded and I dont find particularly friendly as full of regulars who stick together....or groups of the kind of single guys that just hassle.

I have been to other clubs where I know people so easier. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to go to clubs with a lady friend, or a guy. I'd never go alone x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer to go to clubs with a lady friend, or a guy. I'd never go alone x"

None of my friends know about my swinging side....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have visited new clubs on my own, very nervy, but got chatting and was fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a member at chams darlaston ,, and would visit this one on my own ,, but not a new club on my own,, if you get to the midlands id be more than willing to go with you or youd be welcome to join me at chams

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By *hameleons.ws10Couple
over a year ago

Darlaston

i go to chams alone a lot plenty of friendly people hun xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i go to chams alone a lot plenty of friendly people hun xx"

If you go a lot then you must know people then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With clubs i tend to go with a bloke first time then im happy to go alone,it a case of getting to know my surroundings,

With partys i have gone alone to loads,my first was a organised party with 100. People and i wasnt nervous at all,got such a good Welcome and was chatting straight away and felt very comfortable, i have also gone to smaller house partys alone too,being a woman who is confident helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to visit more clubs and parties and dont mind travelling and staying over sometimes but I feel nervous going to a new club I don’t know as a single woman alone.

I was wondering if other single women feel the same as it could be fun to meet before and go together?

Any thoughts?"

I'm definitely too nervous to attend on my own. I kind of want to go with someone, I do have a partner in mind, however we've never discussed it.

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Before I met mr Ch33ky I used to go to clubs on my own.....staff always looked after me and I had a great time

We've taken a single fem friend to a club recently and are always happy to take single fems to clubs (with no obligation to play with us).

Mrs Dirty

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I've been to clubs on my own many times with very mixed results. The worst was the time I was invisible/unwanted and the best was bloody amazing!

It is a little 'odd' at first because I imagine as a rarity, others will be sussing you out and quite a bit of assuming will be going on but be confident, chatty and honest. If you feel nervous, tell the staff, you'll be well looked after.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I go to clubs alone sometimes, if you are approachable you are likely to have a great time, I most socialise but there are plenty of play opportunities if you want them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a great idea, for single girls to meet up all go together.

All looking after one another at parties and clubs.

Her

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I've been to clubs on my own many times with very mixed results. The worst was the time I was invisible/unwanted and the best was bloody amazing!"

I agree with this. People say that single women get the best of things but in a club popular with couples that's not always the case.

I visit my local club alone all the time, and tend to arrange to meet a Fab friend if I go further afield. Its worked out so far. The club socials are amazing and I've visited clubs I would have never gone to on my own through them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for anyone interested, i'm holding a social at partners in Bury on the 12th April, starts at 8pm finishes at 3am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes same here ide go alot more if I had females friends to go along with Ide feel a bit out if I went on my own.

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By *aughtyladyYummymanCouple
over a year ago

In a place not far from Exeter

I wish I was brave enough to go to a club on my own .. but just not

Would love to try Chameleons on bi night if anybody is interested in coming with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been to clubs on my own many times with very mixed results. The worst was the time I was invisible/unwanted and the best was bloody amazing!

I agree with this. People say that single women get the best of things but in a club popular with couples that's not always the case.

I visit my local club alone all the time, and tend to arrange to meet a Fab friend if I go further afield. Its worked out so far. The club socials are amazing and I've visited clubs I would have never gone to on my own through them."

I agree with this. People say that single women get the best of things but in a club popular with couples that's not always the case.

Yes...had similar experiences. Some clubs can be very clicky...even with single women. Its a myth that we are always popular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer to go to clubs with a lady friend, or a guy. I'd never go alone x

None of my friends know about my swinging side.... "

Likewise. Im not a million miles from you. If youd like to chat pm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find quite a lot of single women visit Kestrel Hydro during the day when I'm there. They visit there with confidence, and have no worry about being pestered by some idiot, because that hardly ever happens there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take you to VA..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer to go to clubs with a lady friend, or a guy. I'd never go alone x

None of my friends know about my swinging side....

Likewise. Im not a million miles from you. If youd like to chat pm me "

I would happily darling but you have blocks on women! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id never go alone -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been alone. Prefer going with FWB tho or friends.

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