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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do many women do this? What turns you on so much about being cought?

It is a turn on for me me seeing a women that I have never met before or most likely will never meet again....the only shame is not many women do it

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

We love it but get a lot of critism on here for our 'hobby'. Xx

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

wouldn't say that I want to get caught - as its only Flashing for hubbys camera..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Shame you live so far away as I would love to see you giving me a quick flash

Why do you get critism for it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love it but get a lot of critism on here for our 'hobby'. Xx"
Booooo ,ignore the criticism , I love to see it , such a turn on for me

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Because some think that we are imposing our 'hobby' on unwilling targets who may object. We have done it hundreds of times and never had any complaints. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha, the only compliant you would get from me is that you were too quick.....I would be chasing after you to ask you to do it again x

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Lol, xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can people criticise you guys for that? It's such a turn on, maybe they need to partake and give it a chance......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because some think that we are imposing our 'hobby' on unwilling targets who may object. We have done it hundreds of times and never had any complaints. Xx "
dear God , who in their right mind would complain about seeing you flashing your amazing body !!!! x

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"Because some think that we are imposing our 'hobby' on unwilling targets who may object. We have done it hundreds of times and never had any complaints. Xx dear God , who in their right mind would complain about seeing you flashing your amazing body !!!! x"

depends where ie if there are kids around or elderly people could give the a heart attack

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Just because we enjoy a bit of flashing does not mean that we have no common sense. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because we enjoy a bit of flashing does not mean that we have no common sense. xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time and a place for everything as long as it is done right then I cannot see the issue not my thing but hey each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to be an old bloke (prob was only in his thirties) who used to hang around the underpass with his dick out when I was a teenager. I can't say I was impressed, neither were the police, I think he actually got put away in the end, asked for 600 similar offences to be taken into account!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because we enjoy a bit of flashing does not mean that we have no common sense. xx"

I agree! I have done it a bit in the past but to truckers as it was safer from the perspective that I wouldnt accidentally flash someone and then see their kids etc.....!!!! Also...I am not sure who the undercover cops are!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Used to be an old bloke (prob was only in his thirties) who used to hang around the underpass with his dick out when I was a teenager. I can't say I was impressed, neither were the police, I think he actually got put away in the end, asked for 600 similar offences to be taken into account! "

There is a huge double standard which makes it ok in many peoples eyes for a woman to flash a man whether he has agreed to it or not. If you point this out you will be accused of taking the moral high ground whatever that is. I think flashing is great in a situation where you can be sure that the people who see you actually want to, it's fun and a massive turn on for all concerned. But saying that people are mad or crazy for not wanting to look at someone elses body without first being asked is a bit insulting.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just because we enjoy a bit of flashing does not mean that we have no common sense. xx

I agree! I have done it a bit in the past but to truckers as it was safer from the perspective that I wouldnt accidentally flash someone and then see their kids etc.....!!!! Also...I am not sure who the undercover cops are! "

So you knew that the truckers wanted to see and that them looking at you while driving a huge truck was safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the right circumstances....on an appropriate occasion....I may have.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull


"Just because we enjoy a bit of flashing does not mean that we have no common sense. xx

I agree! I have done it a bit in the past but to truckers as it was safer from the perspective that I wouldnt accidentally flash someone and then see their kids ietc.....!!!! Also...I am not sure who the undercover cops are!

So you knew that the truckers wanted to see and that them looking at you while driving a huge truck was safe. "

Just because we enjoy a bit of flashing does not mean that we have not got any common sense. Id rather that a lorry driver was always on the lookout for something or someone to look at than be asleep at the wheel. Its keeps their powets of observation keen. We are providing an invaluable service and the roads are safer as a result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because we enjoy a bit of flashing does not mean that we have not got any common sense. Id rather that a lorry driver was always on the lookout for something or someone to look at than be asleep at the wheel. Its keeps their powets of observation keen. We are providing an invaluable service and the roads are safer as a result.

"

From a trucker,,, thank you for this great service xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because we enjoy a bit of flashing does not mean that we have no common sense. xx

I agree! I have done it a bit in the past but to truckers as it was safer from the perspective that I wouldnt accidentally flash someone and then see their kids ietc.....!!!! Also...I am not sure who the undercover cops are!

So you knew that the truckers wanted to see and that them looking at you while driving a huge truck was safe.

Just because we enjoy a bit of flashing does not mean that we have not got any common sense. Id rather that a lorry driver was always on the lookout for something or someone to look at than be asleep at the wheel. Its keeps their powets of observation keen. We are providing an invaluable service and the roads are safer as a result.

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Beautiful! Keep up the good work!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do many women do this? What turns you on so much about being cought?

It is a turn on for me me seeing a women that I have never met before or most likely will never meet again....the only shame is not many women do it "

My ex-wife didn't flash, but a few times when wearing a full skirt and no panties she would go shopping for new shoes. She would try and get one of the young salesman, 20's or 30's. She would then lift her skirt up to her knees to look at her shoes while the salesman was putting them on her feet. If he tried to get a look at her panties he would instead get a nice view of her beautiful pussy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just because we enjoy a bit of flashing does not mean that we have no common sense. xx

I agree! I have done it a bit in the past but to truckers as it was safer from the perspective that I wouldnt accidentally flash someone and then see their kids ietc.....!!!! Also...I am not sure who the undercover cops are!

So you knew that the truckers wanted to see and that them looking at you while driving a huge truck was safe.

Just because we enjoy a bit of flashing does not mean that we have not got any common sense. Id rather that a lorry driver was always on the lookout for something or someone to look at than be asleep at the wheel. Its keeps their powets of observation keen. We are providing an invaluable service and the roads are safer as a result.

"

I'll be sure to look out for you on the next honours list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flashing sounds great fun maybe we could do this when we go on holiday ect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wish some ladys or guy would flash at me lol

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By *rymeplsMan
over a year ago

manchester

I do a lot of flashing usually. in my car when. a woman is trying to turn on a busy road

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because we enjoy a bit of flashing does not mean that we have no common sense. xx

I agree! I have done it a bit in the past but to truckers as it was safer from the perspective that I wouldnt accidentally flash someone and then see their kids ietc.....!!!! Also...I am not sure who the undercover cops are!

So you knew that the truckers wanted to see and that them looking at you while driving a huge truck was safe.

Just because we enjoy a bit of flashing does not mean that we have not got any common sense. Id rather that a lorry driver was always on the lookout for something or someone to look at than be asleep at the wheel. Its keeps their powets of observation keen. We are providing an invaluable service and the roads are safer as a result.

"

Yes I feel safer knowing that a truck drivet is looking atva womam in a car rather than where he's going... What an utterly moronic comment.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull


"Just because we enjoy a bit of flashing does not mean that we have no common sense. xx

I agree! I have done it a bit in the past but to truckers as it was safer from the perspective that I wouldnt accidentally flash isomeone and then see their kids ietc.....!!!! Also...I am not sure who the undercover cops are!

So you knew that the truckers wanted to see and that them looking at you while driving a huge truck was safe.

Just because we enjoy a bit of flashing does not mean that we have not got any common sense. Id rather that a lorry driver was always on the lookout for something or someone to look at than be asleep at the wheel. Its keeps their powets of observation keen. We are providing an invaluable service and the roads are safer as a result.

Yes I feel safer knowing that a truck drivet is looking atva womam in a car rather than where he's going... What an utterly moronic comment."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Used to be an old bloke (prob was only in his thirties) who used to hang around the underpass with his dick out when I was a teenager. I can't say I was impressed, neither were the police, I think he actually got put away in the end, asked for 600 similar offences to be taken into account! "

There is a massive double standard with the issue of flashing. With a man it is lewd and often leads to arrest. For womem it's supposedlt erotic and horny and she should be applauded and admired...

If any man admits on this thread to flashing I guarantee he will be torn apart - so what's the difference when it's a woman?

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

We agree its very unfair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't want to see someone's genitalia without consent whatever their gender. It is never a thrill at all and it almost an assault really isn't it?

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By *ohn and ChristineCouple
over a year ago

.this town

One of the best experiences we ever had was roughly 12 years ago when Christine needed new trainers.

Wearing just a denim mini skirt (they were all the rage at the time ) we went into Preston shopping. And when we say just a denim mini skirt we mean 'no panties'

After several shops with no interest from any of the sales assistants we ended up in jjb being served by a girl in her early 20's

She didn't appear interested in the sale whatsoever until Christine parted her legs slightly to tie the laces. The asst, who was crouching down at the time got the perfect eyeline view. She did a double take looking away quickly but then just to make sure looked back again as quick as.....

That changed the whole 'trainer' routine as the asst insisted on finding the correct pair. She was continually bending or crouching to get a better view. Christine wasn't blatant with all the flashing but enough for occasional glimpses that the assistant was loving.

We were also facing a wall so it was discreet from the rest of the shop. I (john) stood back and watched.

It was such a horny experience that we often think about and it was only down to the perving/voyeurism of the asst that made it so good

We often wonder what the girl did that night when she got home.......

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull


" really don't want to see someone's genitalia without consent whatever their gender. It is never a thrill at all and it almost an assault really isn't it?"

You state in your profile that you are an exhibitionist and are interested in voyeurism? Is this not at odds with your previous comments.

Definition.

voyeuristic behaviour involves getting sexual pleasure from secretly watching other people having sex or taking their clothes off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" really don't want to see someone's genitalia without consent whatever their gender. It is never a thrill at all and it almost an assault really isn't it?

You state in your profile that you are an exhibitionist and are interested in voyeurism? Is this not at odds with your previous comments.

Definition.

voyeuristic behaviour involves getting sexual pleasure from secretly watching other people having sex or taking their clothes off

?? "

Yes when I choose to. Similarly I like being fucked but I'm not happy for someone to just come along and do it when it takes their fancy. The exhibitionism that I take part in involves someone else turning on their laptop, going to a chat room and clicking on my cam. It's all about consent

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull


" really don't want to see someone's genitalia without consent whatever their gender. It is never a thrill at all and it almost an assault really isn't it?

You state in your profile that you are an exhibitionist and are interested in voyeurism? Is this not at odds with your previous comments.

Definition.

voyeuristic behaviour involves getting sexual pleasure from secretly watching other people having sex or taking their clothes off

??

Yes when I choose to. Similarly I like being fucked but I'm not happy for someone to just come along and do it when it takes their fancy. The exhibitionism that I take part in involves someone else turning on their laptop, going to a chat room and clicking on my cam. It's all about consent

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Definitions

adjective

voyeuristic behaviour involves getting sexual pleasure from secretly watching other people having sex or taking their clothes off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The voyeurism that I happened to tick because my interests looked pretty tame and it seemed the least likely to get me into trouble comprises mainly of watching people have sex in swingers clubs, obviously with their consent or they wouldn't be doing it.

The principal characteristic of voyeurism is that the voyeur does not normally relate directly with the subject of his/her interest, who is OFTEN but not always unaware of being observed. Voyeurism may involve the making of a secret photograph or video of the subject during an intimate activity.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Just because we enjoy a bit of flashing does not mean that we have no common sense. xx

I agree! I have done it a bit in the past but to truckers as it was safer from the perspective that I wouldnt accidentally flash someone and then see their kids ietc.....!!!! Also...I am not sure who the undercover cops are!

So you knew that the truckers wanted to see and that them looking at you while driving a huge truck was safe.

Just because we enjoy a bit of flashing does not mean that we have not got any common sense. Id rather that a lorry driver was always on the lookout for something or someone to look at than be asleep at the wheel. Its keeps their powets of observation keen. We are providing an invaluable service and the roads are safer as a result.

Yes I feel safer knowing that a truck drivet is looking atva womam in a car rather than where he's going... What an utterly moronic comment."

Why is there an assumption that it's ok to flash at a male - trucker, passer by or anyone?

People seem to forget that not everyone is as 'open minded', 'sexually adventurous' and at the end of the day 'happy' to have someone else expose themselves to them.

You say you're using common sense.

How does you're 'common sense' determine how a total stranger out in the real world will react to your 'hobby'? Do you have psychic powers? Do you somehow know that the person you are flashing isn't gay, isn't religious (of any belief) and likely to be highly offended, an off duty policeman, an inexperienced driver (trucker or otherwise) who you're distracting from concentrating and putting others - including innocent families - at risk? Or someone with psychological issues who may be driven to replicate your actions and find themselves in trouble (and on the sex offenders register) due to your 'common sense' approach?

Why is it ok to impose your fantasies on others you know absolutely nothing about?

A

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


" really don't want to see someone's genitalia without consent whatever their gender. It is never a thrill at all and it almost an assault really isn't it?

You state in your profile that you are an exhibitionist and are interested in voyeurism? Is this not at odds with your previous comments.

Definition.

voyeuristic behaviour involves getting sexual pleasure from secretly watching other people having sex or taking their clothes off

??

Yes when I choose to. Similarly I like being fucked but I'm not happy for someone to just come along and do it when it takes their fancy. The exhibitionism that I take part in involves someone else turning on their laptop, going to a chat room and clicking on my cam. It's all about consent

"

Choice and consent are words that will be conveniently glossed over in any counter arguments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Why is it ok to impose your fantasies on others you know absolutely nothing about?

A"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You state in your profile that you are an exhibitionist and are interested in voyeurism?

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We also enjoy these. Usually in clubs. That way it's consensual for all involved.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

If we see someone ugly we dont give them consent to be ugly, but we have the choice to simply walk away or look the other way. We just see nothing wrong with naked bodies, male or female. Some people would have had a very uncomfortable time 30, 000 or so years ago when no one wore clothes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indecent exposure or flashing is a criminal act? Indecent exposure is another form of sexual crime under the provisions of the Sexual Offences Act 2003. As the title suggests, indecent exposure involves the public display of parts of the anatomy in a manner that may be offensive to others and morally unacceptable.

Just sayin' is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We agree its very unfair. "

Straight question and hopefully you can give a straight answer.

Do you think it is acceptable for a man to publicly expose themselves non-consensually to a woman?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"If we see someone ugly we dont give them consent to be ugly, but we have the choice to simply walk away or look the other way. We just see nothing wrong with naked bodies, male or female. Some people would have had a very uncomfortable time 30, 000 or so years ago when no one wore clothes "

There's nothing wrong with naked bodies.

In the privacy of your own home or a club (swinging or naturist) or on public naturist beaches.

And it's 2014 - not 30,000 years ago .

You'd have struggled to have found trucks back then and would most likely have been clubbed over the head and dragged off for consensual or non- consensual sex.

Something of course that could still happen today should you pick the wrong individual to flash.

A

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

depends on the circumstances.If he is just naked then no. If he is running around pushing his penis in their face then yes. there is nothing wrong with nudity. If you see someone breast feeding in public do you feel that is wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we see someone ugly we dont give them consent to be ugly, but we have the choice to simply walk away or look the other way. We just see nothing wrong with naked bodies, male or female. Some people would have had a very uncomfortable time 30, 000 or so years ago when no one wore clothes "

Here is nothing wrong with naked bodies, I like 'em. The issue here is that exposing particular parts of ones body in order to satisfy ones own sexual gratification needs should be consensual. Sunbathing naked and naturism in general is not considered to be a sexual act especially in an area considered or designated to be naturist. Flashing your genitalia is by your own admission something that you find a turn on, therefore is an offence under the 2003 sexual offences act if other people present find it immoral or offensive. In the same way as the old man underpass flasher you could be arrested and convicted and find yourself on the sexual offenders register.

Just sayin is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" depends on the circumstances.If he is just naked then no. If he is running around pushing his penis in their face then yes. there is nothing wrong with nudity. If you see someone breast feeding in public do you feel that is wrong?

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Again it's the purpose of that exposure. Breastfeeding is necessary to shut the little bugger up. Flashing tits as an aid to sexual arousal is an entirely different thing

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


" depends on the circumstances.If he is just naked then no. If he is running around pushing his penis in their face then yes. there is nothing wrong with nudity. If you see someone breast feeding in public do you feel that is wrong?

"

Comparing breast feeding to flashing is ridiculous.

You are doing something the other party has not consented to.

Simple as that.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" depends on the circumstances.If he is just naked then no. If he is running around pushing his penis in their face then yes. there is nothing wrong with nudity. If you see someone breast feeding in public do you feel that is wrong?

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So it's not ok if it's for sexual gratification?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is a bit of a difference between running around with a flasher mac on exposing your self to everybody compared to getting turned on by a guy having a sneaky peek up the mrs skirt knowing she's not wearing knickers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the rare occasions when I did flash someone. It was always safe...not in heavy traffic and very subtle. Even then ...it was in circumstances when it was OBVIOUS he wanted it.. so the issue of consent etc was pretty established without going into detail! I would never just randomly flash strangers without any suggestion from them...that we were both up for a giggle!

Usually it was during those awful bottle neck traffic jams on motorways...sat there...engine turned off...waiting for it to clear....so I am bored...so is he.....and then I get a cheeky wink...maybe some verbal banter if the window is open.....its OBVIOUS he is up for a little harmless CONSENSUAL fun! I am feeling hot...bored....so is he...I can assure you...in these circumstances I have NEVER had one man say...oh that offends me! Jesus! They loved it! It WAS consensual! !! Very!

I am NOT randomly getting my kit off and subjecting my nakedness on any passer by!!! Yes...I agree ..THAT is offensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey hey hey I am a trucker and I never see anything but road kill lol. I must travel the wrong roads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey hey hey I am a trucker and I never see anything but road kill lol. I must travel the wrong roads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would find it more erotic and horny to see someone scantily clad or or maybe in a position in a public place say slightly exposed to the point it could be accidental almost as opposed to someone walking up to me in a raincoat and opening it and running off. I think that's the image people visage when they think of flashing. Deerob keep enjoying your hobby guys. Me H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would find it more erotic and horny to see someone scantily clad or or maybe in a position in a public place say slightly exposed to the point it could be accidental almost as opposed to someone walking up to me in a raincoat and opening it and running off. I think that's the image people visage when they think of flashing. Deerob keep enjoying your hobby guys. Me H"

I agree! Usually the easiest way is the 'accidental' flash but only in situations where you have a pretty strong idea that they will enjoy it.

Completely different to just randomly flashing anyone ala rainmac man! Thats just horrid and creepy. We are talking sexy fun....with like minded people. ...and lets face it....its usually pretty obvious to a woman...when a man is up for it! Starts with eye contact and a smile. ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find flashing very erotic. For us, though, it has to be a per-arranged scene with someone we've met through Fab. Also, it must take place somewhere discreet, with no chance of 'collateral damage' We know of one or two quiet bars that fit the bill. It's just a role play between consenting adults.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"We find flashing very erotic. For us, though, it has to be a per-arranged scene with someone we've met through Fab. Also, it must take place somewhere discreet, with no chance of 'collateral damage' We know of one or two quiet bars that fit the bill. It's just a role play between consenting adults."

And this is fine - and worlds apart from random acts where consent hasn't been given - or considered by those getting their kicks at the expense of those given no choice in the matter.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We find flashing very erotic. For us, though, it has to be a per-arranged scene with someone we've met through Fab. Also, it must take place somewhere discreet, with no chance of 'collateral damage' We know of one or two quiet bars that fit the bill. It's just a role play between consenting adults.

And this is fine - and worlds apart from random acts where consent hasn't been given - or considered by those getting their kicks at the expense of those given no choice in the matter.

A"

But Obi...I have said that mine is NOT UNconsensual. .I would NEVER consider anything that carried any risk of offending anyone who did not actively indicate their positive interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because we enjoy a bit of flashing does not mean that we have no common sense. xx

I agree! I have done it a bit in the past but to truckers as it was safer from the perspective that I wouldnt accidentally flash someone and then see their kids ietc.....!!!! Also...I am not sure who the undercover cops are!

So you knew that the truckers wanted to see and that them looking at you while driving a huge truck was safe.

Just because we enjoy a bit of flashing does not mean that we have not got any common sense. Id rather that a lorry driver was always on the lookout for something or someone to look at than be asleep at the wheel. Its keeps their powets of observation keen. We are providing an invaluable service and the roads are safer as a result.

"

Id rather the lorry driver was always on the lookout at the traffic and on the road!!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"We find flashing very erotic. For us, though, it has to be a per-arranged scene with someone we've met through Fab. Also, it must take place somewhere discreet, with no chance of 'collateral damage' We know of one or two quiet bars that fit the bill. It's just a role play between consenting adults.

And this is fine - and worlds apart from random acts where consent hasn't been given - or considered by those getting their kicks at the expense of those given no choice in the matter.

A

But Obi...I have said that mine is NOT UNconsensual. .I would NEVER consider anything that carried any risk of offending anyone who did not actively indicate their positive interest. "

That's why I've not quoted any of your posts - just other peoples!

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over a year ago


"We find flashing very erotic. For us, though, it has to be a per-arranged scene with someone we've met through Fab. Also, it must take place somewhere discreet, with no chance of 'collateral damage' We know of one or two quiet bars that fit the bill. It's just a role play between consenting adults.

And this is fine - and worlds apart from random acts where consent hasn't been given - or considered by those getting their kicks at the expense of those given no choice in the matter.

A

But Obi...I have said that mine is NOT UNconsensual. .I would NEVER consider anything that carried any risk of offending anyone who did not actively indicate their positive interest.

That's why I've not quoted any of your posts - just other peoples! "

Ok x

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over a year ago


"We find flashing very erotic. For us, though, it has to be a per-arranged scene with someone we've met through Fab. Also, it must take place somewhere discreet, with no chance of 'collateral damage' We know of one or two quiet bars that fit the bill. It's just a role play between consenting adults.

And this is fine - and worlds apart from random acts where consent hasn't been given - or considered by those getting their kicks at the expense of those given no choice in the matter.

A

But Obi...I have said that mine is NOT UNconsensual. .I would NEVER consider anything that carried any risk of offending anyone who did not actively indicate their positive interest.

That's why I've not quoted any of your posts - just other peoples!

Ok x"

Now you're all made up, I think Kitten should arrange to flash obi (in a consensual way, of course) as soon as possible

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over a year ago


"We find flashing very erotic. For us, though, it has to be a per-arranged scene with someone we've met through Fab. Also, it must take place somewhere discreet, with no chance of 'collateral damage' We know of one or two quiet bars that fit the bill. It's just a role play between consenting adults.

And this is fine - and worlds apart from random acts where consent hasn't been given - or considered by those getting their kicks at the expense of those given no choice in the matter.

A

But Obi...I have said that mine is NOT UNconsensual. .I would NEVER consider anything that carried any risk of offending anyone who did not actively indicate their positive interest.

That's why I've not quoted any of your posts - just other peoples!

Ok x

Now you're all made up, I think Kitten should arrange to flash obi (in a consensual way, of course) as soon as possible "

Lol!!!!! He would run a mile!!!!

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over a year ago


"I really don't want to see someone's genitalia without consent whatever their gender. It is never a thrill at all and it almost an assault really isn't it?"

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over a year ago


"We love it but get a lot of critism on here for our 'hobby'. Xx"

See what you mean.......

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over a year ago


"How can people criticise you guys for that? It's such a turn on, maybe they need to partake and give it a chance...... "

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over a year ago

Sometimes less is more a. Glimpse or a few buttons open etc x

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


"Sometimes less is more a. Glimpse or a few buttons open etc x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like that moment in the Marilyn film where she walks over the grate and her dress blows up... Mmmmm

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over a year ago

We do and we love it.

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By *eonlylive1seCouple
over a year ago

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"Just because we enjoy a bit of flashing does not mean that we have no common sense. xx

I agree! I have done it a bit in the past but to truckers as it was safer from the perspective that I wouldnt accidentally flash someone and then see their kids ietc.....!!!! Also...I am not sure who the undercover cops are!

So you knew that the truckers wanted to see and that them looking at you while driving a huge truck was safe.

Just because we enjoy a bit of flashing does not mean that we have not got any common sense. Id rather that a lorry driver was always on the lookout for something or someone to look at than be asleep at the wheel. Its keeps their powets of observation keen. We are providing an invaluable service and the roads are safer as a result.

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over a year ago

Im a trucker and we are looking at the road all the time but as were so high up we see things in cars that no one else can see from other vehicles. It does give you a boost when you see a bit off leg or stockings or more. Lets put it this way it wakes you up and puts a smile on your face (and other places) for the rest of the day/week so keep it up and out but most of all slow down!!! We can only do 52ish.

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