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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Unread sent messages?

Ever sent a message for it to be permanently unread? Do the people recieving the message just never read it or delete or does it kind of 'drop off' when their inbox is full? If an inbox has a limit, I don't know. I just imagine that ladies and couples will get snowed under with messages and if there is a limit, they'd be the people to know.

Am just wondering because sometimes I think i'd like to message a person again but don't want to go annoying them given they haven't read my first message in a couple of days....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do it!

There is nothing more annoying than getting more messages when you havn't even read the first one yet,if someone wants to reply to you they will

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't do it!

There is nothing more annoying than getting more messages when you havn't even read the first one yet,if someone wants to reply to you they will"

I never do, well, did once by mistake message the same person twice...oops

Was more trying to figure out what's happened to my message really, weather its just sat getting ignored, which I have no problem with or its just dropped out of the bottom of their inbox as it were? It's more curiosity than anything.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could have dropped down,it could be being deliberately ignored,it could be that whoever it is has been doing other things online rather than dealing with their messages (something im guilty of)

Its in the inbox still,it just has'nt been read yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best thing is send a message don't look if it's been read or not if you get a reply happy. Days if not the person or persons are not interested what can you do just be happy with the messages you get

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It could have dropped down,it could be being deliberately ignored,it could be that whoever it is has been doing other things online rather than dealing with their messages (something im guilty of)

Its in the inbox still,it just has'nt been read yet"

Ah ok, that's cool to know....I just wasn't sure if there was an inbox limit with the older messages getting ejected into cyberspace somewhwere....

Ta very muchly for your help

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The best thing is send a message don't look if it's been read or not if you get a reply happy. Days if not the person or persons are not interested what can you do just be happy with the messages you get

I don't mind it not being read particularly, I was more just curious as to what happens to them after a while and if it did vanish off somewhere is it worth trying again....its just a gap in my fab knowledge that needed filling is all and I think it has been now

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very annoying that only so many messages can be shown on the page. Mine keep adding up and I do like to try and answer most messages but i'm fighting a losing battle!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's very annoying that only so many messages can be shown on the page. Mine keep adding up and I do like to try and answer most messages but i'm fighting a losing battle!"

i believe it gets like that for you ladies....i'm sure i'd give up in your position and people who had messaged me would be asking in the forums what's happened to their messages lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your a site supporter you can see a full conversation so technically you can read the last opened message and not ever have to open the newest and you can still see it...this is what I do for someone who sends two messages to every one...i tend to only open one of them as can read both anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If your a site supporter you can see a full conversation so technically you can read the last opened message and not ever have to open the newest and you can still see it...this is what I do for someone who sends two messages to every one...i tend to only open one of them as can read both anyway"

oh eye, that never occured to my tiny and tired man brain.. thank you

so if i send one and it gets read, any further sent messages need never appear opened to me? i try never to send to the same person twice but that's a good little bit of knowledge, ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....they could just be fuckin wit ya also lol :P

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"....they could just be fuckin wit ya also lol :P"

that is entirely possible, but it'd have to bother me for that game to work =) i'm just curious as to what happens to my message at the 'other end' as it were

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