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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a lady friend who really wants me to finger her cervix open.

Is this even possible? Any advice anyone?

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

childbirth makes it open im not sure fingering would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffs why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes all sorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would anyone want you to do that.....?!?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a lady friend who really wants me to finger her cervix open.

Is this even possible? Any advice anyone?"

is it possible? yes

but

it can cause lots of damage! the cervix, when a woman is aroused, is situated rather far ther back than normal and shouldn't easily be fingered. you'd have to manage to hook it andpull it forward to find the small opening which lets out mmenstrual did and lets sperm in, and attempt to open it in is normal rigid state. i really think that she would be in a great deal of pain during the attempt.

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By *usty_n_LustyCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Not gonna happen unless she gives birth at the same time! x

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By *usty_n_LustyCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Not gonna happen unless she gives birth at the same time! x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've just crossed my legs several times. That's gonna hurt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds most delightful

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

torn cervix= pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ffs why? "

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a lady friend who really wants me to finger her cervix open.

Is this even possible? Any advice anyone?"

Well, besides the clit, most pleasure giving nerve endings are only a couple of inches inside the vagina, so we can't see what she expects to gain even if it was possible, which seems doubtful.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the actual f ..........

FFs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a lady friend who really wants me to finger her cervix open.

Is this even possible? Any advice anyone?

is it possible? yes

but

it can cause lots of damage! the cervix, when a woman is aroused, is situated rather far ther back than normal and shouldn't easily be fingered. you'd have to manage to hook it andpull it forward to find the small opening which lets out mmenstrual did and lets sperm in, and attempt to open it in is normal rigid state. i really think that she would be in a great deal of pain during the attempt. "

Eeeeeekkkkk ffs! This is making me wince!

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

sure its fingering she wants and not fisting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"torn cervix= pain"

not to mention potential scarring which could interfere with conception, normal childbirth ifshe did cconceive... and possibly releasing menstrual fluid.

op you asked for advice.... the advice is.... DON'T

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 13/03/14 22:40:22]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a common procedure in late stages of labour. Otherwise known more commonly as a sweep. Uncomfortable but not particularly painful and of course possible!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it's a definite penetration of her cervix

Guess it's staying in the realms of fantasy and not reality"

It's horrific

I very much doubt she has had children else she would certainly not wanna be doing this

Either that it she is a nut job

Aaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy a blender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a common procedure in late stages of labour. Otherwise known more commonly as a sweep. Uncomfortable but not particularly painful and of course possible! "

The sweep actually releases hormones and and dislodges membranes doesn't open the cervix the body itself opens the cervix

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

if she had problems after it would you like to know you caused it?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

A baby might pop out

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By *atchadreamWoman
over a year ago

ST NEOTS

It is a medical procedure and you can get the proper equipment for it in BDSM.

Hope you and her do your homework before attempting it.

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

Into most things but this is most weird...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a common procedure in late stages of labour. Otherwise known more commonly as a sweep. Uncomfortable but not particularly painful and of course possible! "

the sweep, likewise, can only actually be done if the cervix has started to prepare for childbirth...i.e. its softer, usually moves closer to the vaginal opening, and may have opened slightly already. all done by medically trained people under conditions which are as sterile as possible. nothing remotely similar to the conditions of a not pregnant lady, an untrained male (no offense op) and a very unsterile environment.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I feel a bit faint!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg it's making me feel

I wanted to punch the midwife who gave me a sweep sooooo painful..!!

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

fab is so educational

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm wincing and I've not yet been able to find one of my own on ebay...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel a bit faint! "

So do I ohhhhhhhh my goodness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a medical procedure and you can get the proper equipment for it in BDSM.

Hope you and her do your homework before attempting it.

"

If done wrong it can tear & the bleeding will be profuse, not to be done lightly x

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Fucking hell. I am staying quiet!!!! PMSL

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By *ub bbw slutWoman
over a year ago

home is where the heart is


"I have a lady friend who really wants me to finger her cervix open.

Is this even possible? Any advice anyone?"

I'm curious about this ..let me know how it goes x

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By *ub bbw slutWoman
over a year ago

home is where the heart is


"I have a lady friend who really wants me to finger her cervix open.

Is this even possible? Any advice anyone?

I'm curious about this ..let me know how it goes x "

Ok just read through not so curious now xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a lady friend who really wants me to finger her cervix open.

Is this even possible? Any advice anyone?

I'm curious about this ..let me know how it goes x

Ok just read through not so curious now xx "

Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had my cervix pounded during sex, it's painful. I've had sweeps, they're painful. Touch my cervix on purpose and I'll %&@as##!!!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"I've had my cervix pounded during sex, it's painful. I've had sweeps, they're painful. Touch my cervix on purpose and I'll %&@as##!!!

"

wow - someones not doing it right.

ummmmmmmmm notsayinoutelse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had my cervix pounded during sex, it's painful. I've had sweeps, they're painful. Touch my cervix on purpose and I'll %&@as##!!!

wow - someones not doing it right.

ummmmmmmmm notsayinoutelse "

It depends on a man's endowment, his curvature and my position. It's easily corrected nerrrrr

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By *issy NickersWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I don't think op knows what a cervix is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my vagina just clamped itself shut out of pure horror.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like an uneducated blokes fantasy .. wanting to yet sooo far up .. i know some women like their cervix "knocked" during sex but forcing it open? WTAF ... OUCH *Clenches and winces at thought" .. you never know.. some guys like things pushed into their japs eye ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its actually quite pleasurably kinky and can be done quite safely with urethral sounds leading up to actual fingering...but do your research first...watch lots of vids online and see the techniques used before you try it...and tread carefully...good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is just so wrong!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a lady friend who really wants me to finger her cervix open.

Is this even possible? Any advice anyone?"

I can't imagine why ? Sounds painful/unpleasant.

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

I thought I was quite open minded and that nothing really shocks me...until now..

*plaits legs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought I was quite open minded and that nothing really shocks me...until now..

*plaits legs* "

It doesn't help that I no longer have one............. my legs are plaited & I feel slightly woozy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crickey X 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ffs why? "

And again ffs why ?????

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria


"It takes all sorts "

Aha... so that's what they mean by "Going Bertie?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any damage to the cervix may put a woman at greater risk of inflammation, infection and miscarriage - it might be possible with care OP but are you really prepared to share responsibility for the risk with your friend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you damage the cervix in this way - if serious would be classed as ABH - and you cant consent to being ABH'd on yourself - only minor assaults - so you could be guilty of an assault. Why anyone would want this done - think labour pains - ive no goddam idea. I think its horrific.

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

wow and I thought enjoying having the entrance to my urethra licked was a weird one lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got it done wen they were tryin to start labour wie me Avin my last child and omg it hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would probably get an infection. It would take hours to stretch. It would be really really painful.

What's the attraction for the lady in question ??.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You would probably get an infection. It would take hours to stretch. It would be really really painful.

What's the attraction for the lady in question ??. "

Is there a lady in question of just some guy thinking he's being sexy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its actually a pretty intense and pleasurable experience people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You would probably get an infection. It would take hours to stretch. It would be really really painful.

What's the attraction for the lady in question ??.

Is there a lady in question of just some guy thinking he's being sexy?"

He has a lady friend. Must be close lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its actually a pretty intense and pleasurable experience people"

I really can't imagine how it could be suppose it must depend on your cervix.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ouch "

Love this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its actually a pretty intense and pleasurable experience people

I really can't imagine how it could be suppose it must depend on your cervix..... "

I've had to have my cervix stretched and it's incredibly painful. They usually give you medication. The main worry for me about all this is infection as things like fingers hold tons of bacteria and you're introducing it into your body. Also it smacks of let's see who can push the biggest boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its actually a pretty intense and pleasurable experience people

I really can't imagine how it could be suppose it must depend on your cervix.....

I've had to have my cervix stretched and it's incredibly painful. They usually give you medication. The main worry for me about all this is infection as things like fingers hold tons of bacteria and you're introducing it into your body. Also it smacks of let's see who can push the biggest boundaries. "

I agree, I said earlier having a sweep was one of the most painful experiences I've ever had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's painful having the coil inserted there and that's tiny and thin compared to a finger. Why someone would want to try a finger very ouch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its actually a pretty intense and pleasurable experience people"

I never thought it was possible but something that happened to me recently while giving Molly a slow deep fingering has shown me otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its the sensation she's looking for, has she tried anal? Way more pleasurable and less invasive!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

OMG infection

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"It's painful having the coil inserted there and that's tiny and thin compared to a finger. Why someone would want to try a finger very ouch!"

This is what I was thinking. Sometimes when inserting a coil for a woman who hasn't given birth (naturally) anaesthetic is used.

I've done some kinky stuff but this is outside of my limits!

Incidentally though, since "sounds" were mentioned earlier, most things sold as "sounds" are actually cervical dilators. Sounds are usually sold individually. Anything sold as a set is probably actually a set of cervical dilators.

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