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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we are finding ourselves laughing more and more at the number of people on here that either wink then fail to return any kind of message after we take time to send one, or even wink or message us then block before we have chance to reply?? we only really contact verified profiles that have been on here a while but still feel that there are a lot of people on here that lack either the confidence or ability to communicate or understand simple english

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By *luffy_bunniesCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

We are still gobsmacked by the amount of people who just cant read plain English.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are still gobsmacked by the amount of people who just cant read plain English."
yep, us too, when your profile states your likes and dislikes and someone tries to convince you otherwise is a surefire way to get a meet

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"We are still gobsmacked by the amount of people who just cant read plain English."

Same. I learnt to read and write properly at school, construct properly formulated sentences and have some social skills to put meaning and interest into my messages and I was surprised when I first joined here about 2 years ago at the low quality of written communication from people, mainly younger. It doesn't bother me that much now but it was notable.

My 'wanna shag?' messages are superbly crafted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get winks from people from America. No idea what they're trying to say but as there's no chance us meeting I don't do anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are finding ourselves laughing more and more at the number of people on here that either wink then fail to return any kind of message after we take time to send one, or even wink or message us then block before we have chance to reply?? we only really contact verified profiles that have been on here a while but still feel that there are a lot of people on here that lack either the confidence or ability to communicate or understand simple english "
its annoying we get it a lot !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are still gobsmacked by the amount of people who just cant read plain English."

its a growing breed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get winks from people from America. No idea what they're trying to say but as there's no chance us meeting I don't do anything "
that's terrible, im sure they were expecting a last minute meet off the wink lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get winks from people from America. No idea what they're trying to say but as there's no chance us meeting I don't do anything that's terrible, im sure they were expecting a last minute meet off the wink lol"

a woman from new york saw her arse cos we wernt married - wtf lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting someone for chat n coffee leaving then totally ignoring message even sorry but im not interested now weve met is annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get winks from people from America. No idea what they're trying to say but as there's no chance us meeting I don't do anything that's terrible, im sure they were expecting a last minute meet off the wink lol

a woman from new york saw her arse cos we wernt married - wtf lol "

was she booked on her flight when you told her? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When people plan meets then just fall of the edge of the earth instead of having the politeness to say they busy or it too late or they just changed their minds!!' Manners people!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get winks from people from America. No idea what they're trying to say but as there's no chance us meeting I don't do anything that's terrible, im sure they were expecting a last minute meet off the wink lol

a woman from new york saw her arse cos we wernt married - wtf lol

was she booked on her flight when you told her? Lol"

think she wanted us to pop over - she was lovely mind you

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By *exxxesCouple
over a year ago

Newbury / London

Us too, we take the time to msg and say 'thanks for winking' and then quite often hear nothing back. We do move on and don't worry about it (before someone tells us that), but why wink in the first place!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are finding ourselves laughing more and more at the number of people on here that either wink then fail to return any kind of message after we take time to send one, or even wink or message us then block before we have chance to reply?? we only really contact verified profiles that have been on here a while but still feel that there are a lot of people on here that lack either the confidence or ability to communicate or understand simple english "

99% of people here can't do conversations it seems! One word replies do not count as a message either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont take much notice of winks if they were interested they would send you a message, i think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people are just shy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i dont take much notice of winks if they were interested they would send you a message, i think."
did you not understand the op?? We are on about people that wink or message us not the other way around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont take much notice of winks if they were interested they would send you a message, i think.did you not understand the op?? We are on about people that wink or message us not the other way around"

yes i know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i dont take much notice of winks if they were interested they would send you a message, i think.did you not understand the op?? We are on about people that wink or message us not the other way around

yes i know."
oh well, ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, never understand the wink-ignore mentality.

we like winks.

its almost like a nod or a smile at a bar.

if they smile back, then we will say hello, and quite similar the other way.

if someone smiles at us, and we smile back, say hi, and we can take it from there.

maybe some just accidentally click wink, dunno.

its a shame though cuz some of those that wink seem lovely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yes, never understand the wink-ignore mentality.

we like winks.

its almost like a nod or a smile at a bar.

if they smile back, then we will say hello, and quite similar the other way.

if someone smiles at us, and we smile back, say hi, and we can take it from there.100% agree

maybe some just accidentally click wink, dunno.

its a shame though cuz some of those that wink seem lovely"

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By *he GriswaldsCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Don't mind winks as long as they read the profile. If they wink and haven't read the profile then why should we be arsed replying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer your question it's both,gives affable single men a tough time trying to meet people.

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By *tarlight7365Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"i dont take much notice of winks if they were interested they would send you a message, i think."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the irony of the answers to this thread... its a thread pointing out ignorance that causes laughable annoyance, then its hi jacked by ignorants causing laughable annoyance because they are incabable of reading the op this just highlights exactly what we are struggling with on here ffs

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Beige

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats odd sending you a message then blocking you, maybe they thought you didnt reply quick enough.

i do get a lot of messages from people who i have a job to understand, the ones i have met as well, strange that they say they want to meet a couple then say to me at the last minite, they only want to see me on my own.

say one thing and mean another, its all very confusing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Beige"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beige "

i notice you have actualy met people though, so cant be all bad then.

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

As a man who always reads profiles (and enjoys doing so) I feel it's a shame that those who don't and send dumb messages or don't respond when someone has returned wink as it makes genuine people less likely to converse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just finished reading this thread, when up pops a message "fancy a meet then". Clearly didn't read a word of our profile.FFS

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