FabSwingers.com forum: If it walks like a duck....

By *rnortholt OP Man
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

I've never paid for sex, so cannot even guess what the going rate is.

My use of this site id about more than me getting a quick shag. The idea in my mind is adults get together and have fun that isn't exactly run of the mill in a whole host of scenarios from multiple players to - well you know the rest!

On occasions, that's included attending parties with friends where we've all chipped in for a venue, a few drinks etc.

Having a few days free and seeing an "event" type meet mentioned on here, I dropped the couple a mail and after a text exchange back came the venue and along with the info that "cples are £25, single guys are £60"

Now to me, that's a price list for sex.

Before you ask, I could get a suite at the hotel they're using for £148 on the day and for less than they'd want from one single and two couples a few days in advance.

Now unless the room is truly trashed, they wont have any other costs. Maybe they'll spend a few minutes even half an hour tidying up. But when I have friends round at mine for play or a vanilla party, I've never expected to be paid for putting it on.

Just in case you're wondering, that doesn't mean I haven't put my hand in my pocket for shared room costs on meets or with others present, made sure friends who've organised parties with food and drink were left footing the bill.

However in this case, I just sent a polite thanks but no thanks.

Some will of course say in the vanilla world people may buy a partner a drink, a meal, hey even a diamond ring.

But all jokes aside on that front, none of those come with what is pretty much a written contract of sex. And that to me is.....well you have probably guessed what I think already!

I guess this is the point others can call me an arsehole, naive or whatever.

All I'd say is, discuss.....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

What can I get for £3.47?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was the event advertised as ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What can I get for £3.47?"

me and a kit kat chunky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read it but don't understand about the duck :/ am i being dumb

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"What can I get for £3.47?

me and a kit kat chunky

Damn! Where's the howling wolf emoticon? Hhhooowwwlllll !!!

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By *rnortholt OP Man
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

"What can I get for £3.47?

me and a kit kat chunky

Yeah but you can't get to Cornwall on the train for love nor money....

Glos - in answer to you - it was down as a GB but the invite was out to couple, single men and women.

Maybe GB should be a warning but I've played before where it's been mmmf and more and it's been pure fun and filth and definitely not commercial.

I guess part of the reason I responded this time was the couple were down the road and ok I admit - I was daft!

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Read it but don't understand about the duck :/ am i being dumb"

Yes, I'm afraid you are

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"Read it but don't understand about the duck :/ am i being dumb"

Yip

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By *rnortholt OP Man
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

"Read it but don't understand about the duck :/ am i being dumb

Yes, I'm afraid you are

I've explained privately so the rest of you don't feel talked down to!

But hey I'm the guy who thinks do they need a licence for that when I see BBC on a profile!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel sorry for the duck how can it pay if it's not got a job

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By *rnortholt OP Man
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

I guess from what I've seen on this site, enough single fellas will turn up for the duck to buy an eiderdown to keep it warm all winter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What can I get for £3.47?

me and a kit kat chunky

Yeah but you can't get to Cornwall on the train for love nor money....

Glos - in answer to you - it was down as a GB but the invite was out to couple, single men and women.

Maybe GB should be a warning but I've played before where it's been mmmf and more and it's been pure fun and filth and definitely not commercial.

I guess part of the reason I responded this time was the couple were down the road and ok I admit - I was daft!"

Not daft at all op ... You did the right thing for you , and that's what it's all about .

This particular event went against your judgement so you said no , quite right .

We have been offered free entry to gang bang events as Sabrina can be a greedy girl , but have refused the offer , and paid our way regardless as we do this for our pleasure , and the pleasure of our playmates .

However , if the arrangers of the gang bang are looking to guarantee the costs are covered , they will need 3 guys to pay up if they have offered free entry to 2 couples .

Not much point anyone going if there are no girls is there ?

Not everyone is like us , and some would happily accept a freebie

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

If you think " contributions " for a meet are excessive then the best thing to do is report it to Admin and let them check it out

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