FabSwingers.com forum: Bisexuality - does it become more appealing with age

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In my youth it never entered my mind to be anything other than St8 but over the years it's become more appealing and more appealing. It's not for everyone but it has certainly brought a new dimension to sex for me.

What are your views. Xx Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make you right on that, I was the same and I think that as you get older you become more confident with your sexuality without suffering from peer pressure or fear of being labeled

only wish I learnt that years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've played very little with ladies so only bi curious but I've decided I'd like to try more if I can and as you said years ago it was a big no for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was very similar to you, firstly feeling bi curious then finding the appeal more irrisistable with time. It can be so lovely in a 3sum, very erotic and voyeuristic. Xxx Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was very similar to you, firstly feeling bi curious then finding the appeal more irrisistable with time. It can be so lovely in a 3sum, very erotic and voyeuristic. Xxx Jim"

Bi curious here too so many different ways to get excited in a 3some rather than another male who would probs not want close contact with another male but bi many ways to enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was very similar to you, firstly feeling bi curious then finding the appeal more irrisistable with time. It can be so lovely in a 3sum, very erotic and voyeuristic. Xxx Jim

Bi curious here too so many different ways to get excited in a 3some rather than another male who would probs not want close contact with another male but bi many ways to enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree so much with you. Being comfortable with both sexed can enhance the seamless ness and sensuality of bi 3sum sex. Touching, kissing, licking and sucking. Tactility, sensuality, there is much more to pleasurable sex than trying to fuck one another's brains out. Well said xx Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found with age that it becomes more about the person rather than the gender. I'd happily play with a man or a woman, its the chemistry that counts. (My profile says straight only as a filter btw)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go through phases, less now than a couple of years ago. I had bi curious on one of my previous profiles and I met a lovely couple. Enjoyed but didn't feel it was a full bi experience. It's not put me off and if the curiosity bug bit me again, I'd probably seek a 1 on 1 experience with an understanding female.

In the meantime, I'm straight

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree Ditsy. It is all about the chemistry for me too and forming a really nice relaxed and pleasurable friendship whether within a bi 3sum or a 1on1with someone of the same sex. Xx Jim

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree Ditsy. It is all about the chemistry for me too and forming a really nice relaxed and pleasurable friendship whether within a bi 3sum or a 1on1with someone of the same sex. Xx Jim"

and its for that reason that if I were to have a mmf threesome, it would have to be with 2 bi guys, so that there is no awkwardness when swords cross, every transition is seamless, and who knows, I might pick up some new bj tips

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know where your coming from Less xx. A 1on1 is 0probablybthe true test to see if bisexuality is for you, but the difficulty is finding the right person. For me 3sum sex was the ideal format, but now both 1on1and 3sum sex with the right people appeal to me equally xx Jim

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be interested to know how many people are truly bisexual, and would have relationships with either sex.

Most people seem to think being bi relates only to fucking people of either sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be interested to know how many people are truly bisexual, and would have relationships with either sex.

Most people seem to think being bi relates only to fucking people of either sex."

Well I couldn't have a meet with just another guy ever , but the idea of playing in a 3some with my lady does appeal also would not kiss another guy only orally curious so if I was underneath and he was in the doggy position that's fine but we would prefer a bi or curious guy in our play

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd be interested to know how many people are truly bisexual, and would have relationships with either sex.

Most people seem to think being bi relates only to fucking people of either sex."

Yes you are right but when you fully embrace your bisexuality it adds a different dimension and synergies where a mans or females overall persona enhances the pleasure and friendship evolves

Thank you for your comment xx j

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London

"I'd be interested to know how many people are truly bisexual, and would have relationships with either sex.

Most people seem to think being bi relates only to fucking people of either sex."

Well the actual definition of bisexuality can mean romantic attraction but doesn't necessarily imply it, it can also just be sexual attraction.

So your definition of "truly" bisexual is not correct although sexuality is not suited to strict definitions.

(having a trans-gender psychologist as a FB has certainly been enlightening for me )

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd be interested to know how many people are truly bisexual, and would have relationships with either sex.

Most people seem to think being bi relates only to fucking people of either sex.

Well the actual definition of bisexuality can mean romantic attraction but doesn't necessarily imply it, it can also just be sexual attraction.

So your definition of "truly" bisexual is not correct although sexuality is not suited to strict definitions.

(having a trans-gender psychologist as a FB has certainly been enlightening for me )

Thank you for your comments. I enjoy both the sexual and the emotional aspects of my bisexual friendships. I've still to meet a transexual but I look forward to it if the chemistry is right.

Ps your long hair enhances your transexual it's. You also have a lovely soft lithe body. I'd imagine you would be very sensual in bed. Hope my comments don't offend you xx jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now this is a clever thought provoking thread .

Alot of truth in what ive read so far .

Im less hung up about things now and aslong as its fun ???

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London

"Thank you for your comments. I enjoy both the sexual and the emotional aspects of my bisexual friendships. I've still to meet a transexual but I look forward to it if the chemistry is right.

Ps your long hair enhances your transexual it's. You also have a lovely soft lithe body. I'd imagine you would be very sensual in bed. Hope my comments don't offend you xx jim"

To be precise, my FB is a non-transitioned (yet) F2M trans-gender person.

As for me I consider myself a Bi male but would never have a relationship with a man, it's purely physical for me and I prefer women to men in any case.

Oh and certainly no offence taken, I'm happy to receive compliments from anyone.

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London

And as for the original topic, my sexual tastes have certainly changed as I've gotten older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to have gone full circle on that one. When i was 16 i had a sexual relationship with a very good friend of mine. I fancied him for ages before we had sex. I found myself really wanting to stay with him but it was the 70s being gay or bi then was seen as so wrong. As i have got older tho i have often thought back to those days. Wishing i had the guts to admit to everyone that i felt attracted to men as well as women. I now find myself attracted to men and women and am desperate to find the perfect couple to enjoy sex with them both, or a special man who feels the same.

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

I was straight when I was young and that hasn't changed now I'm in my 50s.

I think I am more comfortable with bisexuality in others now. When I was a lot younger the thought of a man sucking another man would be unpleasant, now it wouldn't bother me. I wouldn't interested in looking though.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Not with me, I knew I was bi from my teenage years.

My 1st proper sexual experience was a bi MMF when I was 16(ish)

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By *ouple4couple7Man
over a year ago

Swindon

In my teenage years and early 20/30's my motto was "so many woman, so little time" Now in my early 50's and two ex wife's later, I have a more open view to sex! Lets face it, the days where you had one partner for life is a dated view in my humble opinion.

Question;

Would more people put on their profile "Straight / Bi tolerant" if it was in the options drop down box? I have bi curious in my profile however, I'm no longer curious but I'm not fully bisexual either, I am just happy to go with the flow and so laid back I'm almost horizontal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be interested to know how many people are truly bisexual, and would have relationships with either sex.

Most people seem to think being bi relates only to fucking people of either sex."

Reading back, my comment sounds really snobby. I didn't mean it that way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd be interested to know how many people are truly bisexual, and would have relationships with either sex.

Most people seem to think being bi relates only to fucking people of either sex.

Reading back, my comment sounds really snobby. I didn't mean it that way.

I don't think it sounds snobby. I understand what your meaning. Its valid point xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In my youth it never entered my mind to be anything other than St8 but over the years it's become more appealing and more appealing. It's not for everyone but it has certainly brought a new dimension to sex for me.

What are your views. Xx Jim"

I just wanted to thank you all for responding to my thread. Its lovely to see everyones thoughts.

For me being able to enjoy pleasure with both sexes has been lovely. It has made sex very interesting and stimulating xxx J

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By *icurguycovMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I discovered it by chance a few years ago. I was at a club fucking my FB in the pool and a guy was trying to get in on the act. I just grabbed his cock, started wanking him and liked it. Later met a couple of guys for mutual cock play but not the same without a woman. Best ever was licking a guy's balls as he fucked his wife as she sucked me. I'm hoping to go to Rio's in London soon and would be happy to do a bit of wanking with a guy in the jaccuzzi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bicurguycov, that's my line of thought too. As I've got older I'm more at ease sexually, I once felt another man's erection and found it very erotic while I was in a 4some. Would happily go there again with a woman involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes am totally bi and have had relationships with girls in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think you become more bi but I definitely became more confident, lost my inhibitions and admitted to being bi! A long way from pictures of Debbie Harry all over my bedroom wall...!!

Now get as much pleasure from playing with women as I do with men...

Do think there can be a lot of pressure in swinging for women to play with other women to provide 'a show' for the men though

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"I have found with age that it becomes more about the person rather than the gender. I'd happily play with a man or a woman, its the chemistry that counts. (My profile says straight only as a filter btw) "

I totally agree...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess it might if its not so easy to find an attractive lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes age does relax you I think as when I was 16 another guys cock was a no go area now in my fiftys if he is in a threesome with us then that's fine I think or should say sounds interesting in fact

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

when I was younger and in the Forces it was a definate no no.. but now I'm out then it isn't an issue if it comes up while playing in group fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As ive got older in more interested in bi play its just like going to the shop you can enjoy everything on same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonderful comment Ditsy and fully agree x

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I had no interest in men when younger. In fact, I would go so far as to say I didn't like seeing men naked at all. While I was never anti-gay, I really didn't find the idea of men together at all appealing.

I started to get a bit interested in my late 20s. I never ever fancy a bloke in real life, but I've started to find myself going through the occasional phase when I like looking at cocks on fab.

I find it a bit unfathomable really, but I don't worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wonderful comment Ditsy and fully agree x

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but no....im 46 now and never thought of sucking cock...just my view so dont slate me, just shows each to their own

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By *uckyman1992Man
over a year ago

Old Street

I'd love to try it with a woman present.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a Bisexual female, I have always been this way, and I suspect always will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to disagree,as you get older you do get more confident but the thought of touching another man intimately is a definite no no,I've always thought this and with age my feelings about it didn't change at all.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I was totally straight until I moved to Brighton then I was lured.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Never even considered it. Absolutely comfortable with my sexuality and certain of what I like or don't like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I desperately wanted to be straight as a teenager as that was the social norm in the 80's.

I then had a gay experience and thought I might be gay. At 19 I had a girlfriend and a boyfriend and neither knew of the other. I couldn't decide which I preferred as i liked both.

I accepted I was bi in my mid twenties and since have had male and female partners and fuck buddies.

It's actually easier to be accepted as gay or straight than bisexual.

Bisexuality seems to be more hidden.

As I've got older and taboos have broken down I certainly find that more people do want to try some bi fun.

I think access to porn on the computer has made people more liberated.

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