FabSwingers.com forum: stay or leave

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on here a while now and have very little interest from any1. Is it worth me stayin?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if you have tried everything, maybe this game is not for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cant get to clubs due to work. But ive tried gettin myself out there, bein myself and genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you will find that a cock pic on your profile is a big switch off for most women

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Been on here a while now and have very little interest from any1. Is it worth me stayin?

We're unable to make that decision for you!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

10 out of 15 pics showing your cock? We do know what one looks like! If that is all you can offer? Then fine, otherwise 1 is more than enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh its been ages since I saw one of these

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

"Oooh its been ages since I saw one of these"

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My cock is better to look at then me. Dont have that body that all u ladies want the guy to have.

Good, genuine guys dont get anywhere these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its not fun then go,the site will still be here if you want to come back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't have to be naked even, but something other than a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My cock is better to look at then me. Dont have that body that all u ladies want the guy to have.

Good, genuine guys dont get anywhere these days"

Let the women decide on your body, we don't all like six packs. Saying you're genuine means nothing on here until you veri yourself by phone, cam and turn up to a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My cock is better to look at then me. Dont have that body that all u ladies want the guy to have.

Good, genuine guys dont get anywhere these days"

Throws a lifebelt before you drown in self pity

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

These threads never ever go well.

Why not ask why you aren't having as much success as others? And then, most importantly of all, do something about it.

I can see several problems with your profile, but rather than spoon feed you what I believe to be a panacea recipe, think about it yourself for five minutes.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"These threads never ever go well.

Why not ask why you aren't having as much success as others? And then, most importantly of all, do something about it.

I can see several problems with your profile, but rather than spoon feed you what I believe to be a panacea recipe, think about it yourself for five minutes.

Don't be such a meanie Tina.....Some guys on here want to be spoon fed, even if they have no intention of acting upon it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Say what u think i should do. Ill listen x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Say what u think i should do. Ill listen x"

No one can tell you what to do! Only you can decide that!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Say what u think i should do. Ill listen x"

You may listen, but will you act? You've had about 40 mins to lose the cock avatar and it's still there. My opinion is that it's losing you meets. It's the first thing women see. Most women don't want to see a cock. There, nuff said.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What would u like to see foxy minx? Xx

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By *emon tart Double creamCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

You're quite negative....what's positive about someone being negative is that they will hardly ever get meets...

You also say a lot of what you don't want, rather than what you do....turning that around will make your profile a little more appealing.

Lose most of cock pics.

Go to socials...

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By *emon tart Double creamCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Oh and don't friends request people that you've never spoken to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on here a while now and have very little interest from any1. Is it worth me stayin?

Should I stay or should I go?

Only you will know

But if you stay what can you do?

That will make you feel no so blue

Be cool and abate

Wait for that perfect date

Her who is chastened and pure

Into you bed you can lure

Have you wicked way

Every moment of the day

Fulfil those boyhood dreams

Of lust and pleasure or so it seems

But then as if all in abrupt

The alarm went off and you woke up

Should you go or stay

In the words of Clint "make your day"

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've already said no cock pics! But it's still your avatar as Steve has pointed out.

I like to see imaginative pics, as I have stated on another thread, about taking good pics! Go and have a look for yourself!

All of my pics, have been taken by myself, so there is no real excuse when you think about it!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"What would u like to see foxy minx? Xx"

Listen, dude....she's not your target audience. She lives in Aberdeen. If you're a 'professional', get another 'professional' to proof read your profile and correct all the spelling, grammar and punctuation errors.

Also, why ask women what they want to see? Why not ask men how they get to be sexually successful on here?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"What would u like to see foxy minx? Xx

Also, why ask women what they want to see? Why not ask men how they get to be sexually successful on here? "

A very good point to make Steve, I think more guys would be more successful if they actually ask the successful guys on here, as they are the one's that know what they do, to make things happen in their favour x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Say what u think i should do. Ill listen x"

Hello. Take your status update off it sounds like self pity which us never attractive. Your profile text us basically ok but I would advise taking out the text speak and beefing it up a bit with information about what you're after. You will struggle a little because of your age but if you get involved in the forums in a positive way you might find people show interest. Good luck.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Thank you, Foxy in Aberdeen. Your avatar is very intriguing btw. Makes me want to read your profile and send you a saucy message

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

"Been on here a while now and have very little interest from any1. Is it worth me stayin?

Stay..... go...stay...no go, do one... sorry I mean stay....jeez Im so indecisive!!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Thank you, Foxy in Aberdeen. Your avatar is very intriguing btw. Makes me want to read your profile and send you a saucy message

Are you flirting with me again?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Thank you, Foxy in Aberdeen. Your avatar is very intriguing btw. Makes me want to read your profile and send you a saucy message

Are you flirting with me again?

Just appreciating...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curious as to why you can't get to clubs due to 'work'?

Nobody works 24/7

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

And something else, I've just noticed....you have been verified by a female, have you asked her what it was you did right, that she chose to meet you? Just wondering....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curious as to why you can't get to clubs due to 'work'?

Nobody works 24/7"

He's a spy, he can't blow his cover lol

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

You do have a verification so at least you're doing something right. Have you asked the date why she chose you? That may help..

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

attracted by strong minded positive men, not pussy cats.

As for the photos leave something to the imagination, go into chat rooms on cam interact, talk laugh etc, show women who you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My cock is better to look at then me. Dont have that body that all u ladies want the guy to have.

Good, genuine guys dont get anywhere these days"

not the best sell there "my cock is better than me" oh and its not all that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I either work nights in operating theatres or am runnin a cocktail bar i work at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" attracted by strong minded positive men, not pussy cats.

As for the photos leave something to the imagination, go into chat rooms on cam interact, talk laugh etc, show women who you are

erm erm have we got to

yeah go in the northern room and hunt natalie out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curious as to why you can't get to clubs due to 'work'?

Nobody works 24/7

He's a spy, he can't blow his cover lol"

I've been to a fair few clubs and mines never been blown!

Well - my cover anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would u like to see foxy minx? Xx

Also, why ask women what they want to see? Why not ask men how they get to be sexually successful on here? "

Yeah ask me I'm a right tart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Safe sex?"

just thinking that.

not by the look of that pic .

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Safe sex?

just thinking that.

not by the look of that pic ."

Nor yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Safe sex?

just thinking that.

not by the look of that pic ."

Instant turn off bareback pics on a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Safe sex?

just thinking that.

not by the look of that pic .

Instant turn off bareback pics on a profile"

Unless on a couples profile between the couple!

I think they're ok ?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Pops in to check how things have turned out.

As well as can be expected.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Safe sex?

just thinking that.

not by the look of that pic .

Instant turn off bareback pics on a profile

Unless on a couples profile between the couple!

I think they're ok ?

Samantha thought so

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Pops in to check how things have turned out.

As well as can be expected.

even better now you're here

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Pops in to check how things have turned out.

As well as can be expected.

even better now you're here

Like in the jail in Monopoly - just visiting

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

hahahaha, the lynx can would be a defo no way for me even if i was closer and you were what I was looking for. It screams cheesey and unoriginal, and I couldn't do anything for laughing. Your profile is a bit short and doesn't really say much. You might also want to explain why you can't accom, because everything you've said so far and that points to either living at home, or living with a significant other.

Try a night off and get to a club.

If its not working for you, then go.

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By *heltenmanMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Safe sex?

just thinking that.

not by the look of that pic .

Instant turn off bareback pics on a profile"

Instant turn off condom sex.

Personal choice.

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn

"Cant get to clubs due to work. But ive tried gettin myself out there, bein myself and genuine"

Do you work 7 days a week and not get any holiday time?

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

"Safe sex?

just thinking that.

not by the look of that pic .

Instant turn off bareback pics on a profile

Instant turn off condom sex.

Personal choice. "

And catching gonorrhoea isn't a turn off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on here a while now and have very little interest from any1. Is it worth me stayin?

I'm basically in the same boat as you (other than I havnt been here a while) but im not getting down about it. I've decided to give up on meets & live in the forums instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Safe sex?

just thinking that.

not by the look of that pic .

Instant turn off bareback pics on a profile

Instant turn off condom sex.

Personal choice. "
Good luck with getting meets .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good, genuine guys dont get anywhere these days"

Plenty of good genuine guys do just fine. No idea how self pitying ones tend to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cant get to clubs due to work. But ive tried gettin myself out there, bein myself and genuine

Do you work 7 days a week and not get any holiday time? "

I thought that

No job stops people clubbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good, genuine guys dont get anywhere these days

Plenty of good genuine guys do just fine. No idea how self pitying ones tend to do."

this I agree with totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woe is me is never good to be honest, woman want a man.

Her

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I know

Heads you stay tails you go,

Sorry fella tails it was ( honest I did it fair) see ya,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My cock is better to look at then me. Dont have that body that all u ladies want the guy to have.

Good, genuine guys dont get anywhere these days"

You are too young for some, mw included and some of your pics are a little strange. Also a bareback pic refutes your safe sex interest. Six packs aren't essential, I like both tbh but like a bit to cuddle as I'm not slim myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My cock is better to look at then me. Dont have that body that all u ladies want the guy to have.

Good, genuine guys dont get anywhere these days

"me"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Safe sex?

just thinking that.

not by the look of that pic .

Instant turn off bareback pics on a profile

Unless on a couples profile between the couple!

I think they're ok ?

Samantha thought so

lol this baby hubbys.

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