FabSwingers.com forum: So what's the crack with this

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So there's been on a few occasion now where I'm chatting away to a female, everything's going well, having a laugh, talking a bit of filth, so using fabs to it's full potential Ofcourse,

THEN!!!!! She asks for a face pic an I get, the old. "Your not my type" which ok, I can appreciate that I'm not the best of looking guys, but also, I wouldn't say I was a horror, so what I would like off you guys is just be blunt!! Let's have it???

WHATS WRONG WITH ME?????!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your not the only one i get it aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you fancy every woman in the world? You probably don't.

Women don't fancy every man in the world. It's nothing personal. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make life a little easier,exchange pics before you get into all the sex chat and then you each know from the start if theres a physical attraction

Im sure theres nothing wrong with you we just can't appeal to everyone

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

many people complain about not getting replies, you get a reply and it bothers you.

there is no real science to this and the second you start taking anything to heart, reconsider your position.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you fancy every woman in the world? You probably don't.

Women don't fancy every man in the world. It's nothing personal. Good luck."

Yes, I can appreciate that, but it happenes a bit more than i'd like it to, my self confidence was fine till I joined this bloody site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know, everyone has their preferences I suppose. Most guys get this to a certain extent I would think. Maybe they don't like beards?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start with the face pic it will save you time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send a face pic with every message I send, that way she knows straight away what I look like.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

no idea .. the high man woman ratio means ladies can afford to be fussy ... then i read a thread today moaning how they can't find a good man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"many people complain about not getting replies, you get a reply and it bothers you.

there is no real science to this and the second you start taking anything to heart, reconsider your position.

good luck

Oh I'm not taking anything to heart! By no means is this the be all and end all of my life!! I'm ok!! Just sometimes I'm after just a little bit more spice!!

Cheers for the advice tho dude!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't know, everyone has their preferences I suppose. Most guys get this to a certain extent I would think. Maybe they don't like beards?"

Yeah I thought that, but my beard is a temporary thing as I'm trying to gro a curly tash for my sisters vintage wedding an I think I'd look a right t#%$t with just a tash!

But yeah, maybe!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im very fussy with looks (and no, I don't go for chiselled, Hollywood or pretty boy looks)

Most guys won't be my type, I won't be lots of guys types either.

The disadvantage you have is you outnumber us 20 to 1. It skews womens perceptions. You'll need to be patient and never take it to heart.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swop face pics early and get it out the way . Find this approach less frustrating. It's pure random who likes who and what on here . Some women I've thought would not fancy me HAVE and visa versa . keep going , it happens eventually .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't know, everyone has their preferences I suppose. Most guys get this to a certain extent I would think. Maybe they don't like beards?

Yeah I thought that, but my beard is a temporary thing as I'm trying to gro a curly tash for my sisters vintage wedding an I think I'd look a right t#%$t with just a tash!

But yeah, maybe!! "

That's well funny.

Don't let it get you down. Though it sounds like you're not. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ermmm your behind a screen, there is a word called Next

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ermmm your behind a screen, there is a word called Next

I'm tooo fussy, lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ermmm your behind a screen, there is a word called Next

I'm tooo fussy, lmao"

if you can't beat em, join em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So there's been on a few occasion now where I'm chatting away to a female, everything's going well, having a laugh, talking a bit of filth, so using fabs to it's full potential Ofcourse,

WHATS WRONG WITH ME?????!!!!!! "

ieven if someone looks good in pics there are certain things on a profile that will put me off. everyone is entitled to their own opinion. if you are not their type, you cannot be mad about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So there's been on a few occasion now where I'm chatting away to a female, everything's going well, having a laugh, talking a bit of filth, so using fabs to it's full potential Ofcourse,

WHATS WRONG WITH ME?????!!!!!!

ieven if someone looks good in pics there are certain things on a profile that will put me off. everyone is entitled to their own opinion. if you are not their type, you cannot be mad about it. "

I'm not mad I promise, I'm just sharing my experiences and welcoming feedback, please don't be mistaking me with somebody who Is actually mad about it, just found it a bit rude, that was all,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do rude I posted it twice!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Why would anyone ask for a pic if you have them on your profile for everyone to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just send a face pic with your first message. No point wasting all that time if you're not their type and I'd rather someone not reply than message loads and then say sorry, not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you fancy every woman in the world? You probably don't.

Women don't fancy every man in the world. It's nothing personal. Good luck."

thats very true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why would anyone ask for a pic if you have them on your profile for everyone to see

Just put them as available before I entered the slaughter house!

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'm confused! You've clearly vivible face pics on your profile! (Unless you've changed them in the last half hour!)

Surely anyone you've been chatting to already knows what you look like?

As others have said - it's possibly just a personal preference thing - which there's not a lot you can do about. Surprised no-one's said 'try clubs and socials' yet. A common response, but one that generally works for those that are nice, sociable types!

Good luck!

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Why would anyone ask for a pic if you have them on your profile for everyone to see

Just put them as available before I entered the slaughter house!

Doh - that answers my question then! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been on before as part as a couple, mf an we had no probs , so 6 months down the line, thought if give the old single profile a try, and this is what I've found!

Thanks for your replays guys!! Pic with first msg is the answer I'm guessing! X

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Why would anyone ask for a pic if you have them on your profile for everyone to see

Just put them as available before I entered the slaughter house!

Ah, that explains it.

To your question, it is all about attraction, you didn't attract.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Do you fancy every woman in the world? You probably don't.

Women don't fancy every man in the world. It's nothing personal. Good luck.

Yes, I can appreciate that, but it happenes a bit more than i'd like it to, my self confidence was fine till I joined this bloody site!

If this site is affecting your confidence you need to back off. We have had incidences of the "great silence after face revelation" it isn't a case of anything being wrong with us or you just that we can't appeal to everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you fancy every woman in the world? You probably don't.

Women don't fancy every man in the world. It's nothing personal. Good luck.

Yes, I can appreciate that, but it happenes a bit more than i'd like it to, my self confidence was fine till I joined this bloody site!

I've just got back from a 9 mile run in nothing but a mankini an a leopard skin cowboy hat!!

So yeah! My confidence is in TATTERS! Haha

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Do you fancy every woman in the world? You probably don't.

Women don't fancy every man in the world. It's nothing personal. Good luck.

Yes, I can appreciate that, but it happenes a bit more than i'd like it to, my self confidence was fine till I joined this bloody site!

I've just got back from a 9 mile run in nothing but a mankini an a leopard skin cowboy hat!!

So yeah! My confidence is in TATTERS! Haha

xx"

Now that I would like to see. If you want to increase confidence can I suggest a floral mankini, they give off a confidence boosting aura apparently, just apply a little Vaseline to the thong part or your confidence won't be the only thing suffering

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you fancy every woman in the world? You probably don't.

Women don't fancy every man in the world. It's nothing personal. Good luck.

Yes, I can appreciate that, but it happenes a bit more than i'd like it to, my self confidence was fine till I joined this bloody site!

I've just got back from a 9 mile run in nothing but a mankini an a leopard skin cowboy hat!!

So yeah! My confidence is in TATTERS! Haha

Hahaha!! Will get on eBay straight away and is this you volunteering yourself to rub Vaseline on me?? You cheeky devil!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Make life a little easier,exchange pics before you get into all the sex chat and then you each know from the start if theres a physical attraction

Im sure theres nothing wrong with you we just can't appeal to everyone

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This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't smile in any of them... And the shaved head and beard combo is quite a distinctive look which is clearly not going to be for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You don't smile in any of them... And the shaved head and beard combo is quite a distinctive look which is clearly not going to be for everyone. "

Oh c'mon, every loves Charles Bronson !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't smile in any of them... And the shaved head and beard combo is quite a distinctive look which is clearly not going to be for everyone. "

The smile is a big thing too I think. If I see 10 moody pics im usually not taken. Love a smile, or even a hint at one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no idea .. the high man woman ratio means ladies can afford to be fussy ... then i read a thread today moaning how they can't find a good man "

Women can afford to be fussy !!!!!!

What, are we just supposed to Shag anyone then. We have preferences and most of us stick to them

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

OP, my initial thought when you first posted is that you have a 'thuggish' look that many women would find off-putting.

I'm glad I waited to see how the thread developed as you certainly have the banter and come across well. If your messages to these women who stopped contact after seeing your pic are similar then I can only think you approach the ones who go purely for looks and not the ones who look further than aesthetics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok ok ok!! I get it, smile! I'm on it!! But to be fair!! I'm sure I am on one of em. Maybe again it's my tash throwing you off, there's at least a grin under the hairy lip I promise

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, my initial thought when you first posted is that you have a 'thuggish' look that many women would find off-putting.

Cheers bro!! Actually, go put a skirt on an lets get on the lash!! Lmao!!

Thuggish eh!! Well I guess I wouldn't look out of place with a leather waistcoat on while riding a Harley eh!!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i've just found some cobblers cream made by timpsons in my cupboard lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wish I'd of known, bought some just the other day!!

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By *oulcakeMan
over a year ago

Gornal

It happened to me on another site. I hadn't uploaded any pics. We were chatting for a while and she would send me pics of what my tales were doing to her. Night of our proposed meet and I managed to send a few picsGood job really as u wasn't her type she likes pretty boys. Could have been v bad for the ego if we had met only to see the disappointment on her face!! We speak daily on facebook though so not all bad. Everyone has a "type" weather they admit it or not. It's a natural thing. Don't let it affect you. After all, its not you but her choice.

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By *oulcakeMan
over a year ago

Gornal

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"OP, my initial thought when you first posted is that you have a 'thuggish' look that many women would find off-putting.

Cheers bro!! Actually, go put a skirt on an lets get on the lash!! Lmao!!

Thuggish eh!! Well I guess I wouldn't look out of place with a leather waistcoat on while riding a Harley eh!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, my initial thought when you first posted is that you have a 'thuggish' look that many women would find off-putting.

Cheers bro!! Actually, go put a skirt on an lets get on the lash!! Lmao!!

Thuggish eh!! Well I guess I wouldn't look out of place with a leather waistcoat on while riding a Harley eh!! "

Thuggish? No, you don't look thuggish.

A smile is good, the eyes are the windows to the soul, you see the life in the eyes when someone smiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the way, there's a lot that like that look

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's a bloody good look! Unfortunatly tho, I have a old vw camper an not a Harley!

But things may change when I get my patches!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the wrong picture to display..

People have to look so serious on a passport picture!

Mine would put a few off believe me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Do you fancy every woman in the world? You probably don't.

Women don't fancy every man in the world. It's nothing personal. Good luck.

Yes, I can appreciate that, but it happenes a bit more than i'd like it to, my self confidence was fine till I joined this bloody site!

I've just got back from a 9 mile run in nothing but a mankini an a leopard skin cowboy hat!!

So yeah! My confidence is in TATTERS! Haha

Hahaha!! Will get on eBay straight away and is this you volunteering yourself to rub Vaseline on me?? You cheeky devil!!

well with the correct health and safety procedures in place it would solve the problem of faces

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ofcourse, hi-viz, hard hat, ear defenders and goggles are a must!! Please bring your own dust mask as one won't be provided!

)) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ofcourse, hi-viz, hard hat, ear defenders and goggles are a must!! Please bring your own dust mask as one won't be provided!

)) x"

Phwoooar, now you're talking. Wear those in your pics.....and nothing else but a smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just need to send a better photo. Try smiling too. Kate says you look ok

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I find that whenever I try and smile for a face pic I look like a bloody pshycho...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The smiley pic is nice

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

You look happier on that one....I think most men don't smile on pics, not sure why

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right!!!! Get on this one!! Just took it now to shut you lot up!!!!' An look!! You would not trust me to push your shopping trolley, never mind try an get in your knickers!!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I find that whenever I try and smile for a face pic I look like a bloody pshycho..."

Ah that might have answered my question

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find that whenever I try and smile for a face pic I look like a bloody pshycho...

Ah that might have answered my question

Defiantly! A fake smile is killer material!! I'll try and suprise myself in the mirror after I've buried these lot!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you fancy every woman in the world? You probably don't.

Women don't fancy every man in the world. It's nothing personal. Good luck.

Yes, I can appreciate that, but it happenes a bit more than i'd like it to, my self confidence was fine till I joined this bloody site!

I've just got back from a 9 mile run in nothing but a mankini an a leopard skin cowboy hat!!

So yeah! My confidence is in TATTERS! Haha

xx"

We need to see pics. Otherwise it didn't happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you fancy every woman in the world? You probably don't.

Women don't fancy every man in the world. It's nothing personal. Good luck.

Yes, I can appreciate that, but it happenes a bit more than i'd like it to, my self confidence was fine till I joined this bloody site!

I've just got back from a 9 mile run in nothing but a mankini an a leopard skin cowboy hat!!

So yeah! My confidence is in TATTERS! Haha

We need to see pics. Otherwise it didn't happen.

Says mrs friends only!! Come take the pics if ya like??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...you certainly have the banter and come across well..."

I have to say your attitude on this thread is fantastic and very funny

So very refreshing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you fancy every woman in the world? You probably don't.

Women don't fancy every man in the world. It's nothing personal. Good luck.

Yes, I can appreciate that, but it happenes a bit more than i'd like it to, my self confidence was fine till I joined this bloody site!

I've just got back from a 9 mile run in nothing but a mankini an a leopard skin cowboy hat!!

So yeah! My confidence is in TATTERS! Haha

We need to see pics. Otherwise it didn't happen.

Says mrs friends only!! Come take the pics if ya like??

I would... but your new smiley psycho pic scared me off.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I've said before, people should stick their mugshots onto their profiles, saves a lot of hassle and such like

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you fancy every woman in the world? You probably don't.

Women don't fancy every man in the world. It's nothing personal. Good luck.

Yes, I can appreciate that, but it happenes a bit more than i'd like it to, my self confidence was fine till I joined this bloody site!

I've just got back from a 9 mile run in nothing but a mankini an a leopard skin cowboy hat!!

So yeah! My confidence is in TATTERS! Haha

We need to see pics. Otherwise it didn't happen.

Says mrs friends only!! Come take the pics if ya like??

I would... but your new smiley psycho pic scared me off.

The fact I'm talking to a shoe scares the crap outta me!!!

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"I've said before, people should stick their mugshots onto their profiles, saves a lot of hassle and such like "

Yeah, well, some of us don't want to be inundated by unwanted attention

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"The smiley pic is nice

I'm glad its a look you like...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So there's been on a few occasion now where I'm chatting away to a female, everything's going well, having a laugh, talking a bit of filth, so using fabs to it's full potential Ofcourse,

WHATS WRONG WITH ME?????!!!!!! "

Consider yourself lucky! I don't even get to the chatting stage!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...you certainly have the banter and come across well...

I have to say your attitude on this thread is fantastic and very funny

So very refreshing "

Thankyou very much!! Life's tooo short for anything else!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So there's been on a few occasion now where I'm chatting away to a female, everything's going well, having a laugh, talking a bit of filth, so using fabs to it's full potential Ofcourse,

WHATS WRONG WITH ME?????!!!!!!

Consider yourself lucky! I don't even get to the chatting stage!

Chin up pal!' If you ever get lonely, just holla!! I've got ya back!!

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

You have to remember this is a target rich environment for the women so we can afford to be choosy . Though I would say loose the beard and tash it kind of makes you look like you got up and put your head on upside down

otherwise your by no means a munter happy hunting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened the other way with me on a few occasions, where the woman will not send pictures until "she gets to know me"...I just retort by saying I will not continue chatting until I get a face picture...saves a lot of time in the long run

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"So there's been on a few occasion now where I'm chatting away to a female, everything's going well, having a laugh, talking a bit of filth, so using fabs to it's full potential Ofcourse,

WHATS WRONG WITH ME?????!!!!!!

Consider yourself lucky! I don't even get to the chatting stage!

Start a thread asking for profile critique/help.

*Moderators - I have not actually critiqued

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have to remember this is a target rich environment for the women so we can afford to be choosy . Though I would say loose the beard and tash it kind of makes you look like you got up and put your head on upside down

otherwise your by no means a munter happy hunting"

I think if you thought a bit less of it being a tash an more of it as a added tickling device which will still be pleasing your clit as I chew on your outta libia's then you would love it!!! X

But at least I'm not a munter! At least that's covered! Phew!!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing bad about a beard. No beard, no good.

A man without a beard is a woman.

Van Damme, do what you want to do. It's better to meet someone who wants to meet you for you rather than meeting someone who wants to meet you because they think you're someone or something else.

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So there's been on a few occasion now where I'm chatting away to a female, everything's going well, having a laugh, talking a bit of filth, so using fabs to it's full potential Ofcourse,

WHATS WRONG WITH ME?????!!!!!! "

nothing is wrong with you. We all have different tastes, it would be a boring world if we didn't!

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

otherwise your by no means a munter happy hunting

I think if you thought a bit less of it being a tash an more of it as a added tickling device which will still be pleasing your clit as I chew on your outta libia's then you would love it!!! X

But at least I'm not a munter! At least that's covered! Phew!!! Xx

lol hate being tickled ,but thats just me.but glad you are of a possitive attitude that tends to go a long way to making a person attractive to others x

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Having said people are too fussy, I think it can work the opposite way too.

There was another thread on this where someone had been messaged by someone who they thought were out of their league.. and it was a case of they were nervous or put off from going as a result.

I am not saying I am Brad Pitt but I get more attention, flirts and brushes from women on the train to work than I do on here at times.

It's very strange as you wouldn't message if you weren't attracted. I rarely get messages back from people so now I hardly bother sending them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You handsome bugger. You applying for the UK Border Control or something on here? Why you got your passport photo up there with the application form? Lol.

...or is that meant to be kinky

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over a year ago

....and if you're Van Damme. Your profile won't be complete without some pictures of you doing the splits or a flying kick.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"You handsome bugger. You applying for the UK Border Control or something on here? Why you got your passport photo up there with the application form? Lol.

...or is that meant to be kinky

Me? It makes no difference what picture I put up, so I put the ones I like up

+ It's quite a good snap I think. I couldnt get the cam further away! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come to think of it. My passport photo isn't that bad either actually. But, that's when my hair was long and half way down my back...

...ahh the good old days of tresemme addiction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Come to think of it. My passport photo isn't that bad either actually. But, that's when my hair was long and half way down my back...

...ahh the good old days of tresemme addiction.

Oh here we go!! Here's a ex Chippendale with a goaty with more verifications than Gisselle black, if he's not gunna make me look like Adrian mole then I don't know who will!!'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Come to think of it. My passport photo isn't that bad either actually. But, that's when my hair was long and half way down my back...

...ahh the good old days of tresemme addiction.

Oh here we go!! Here's a ex Chippendale with a goaty with more verifications than Gisselle black, if he's not gunna make me look like Adrian mole then I don't know who will!!'

I'll catch u up bro!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come to think of it. My passport photo isn't that bad either actually. But, that's when my hair was long and half way down my back...

...ahh the good old days of tresemme addiction.

Oh here we go!! Here's a ex Chippendale with a goaty with more verifications than Gisselle black, if he's not gunna make me look like Adrian mole then I don't know who will!!'

I'll catch u up bro!!

...i got your back bro!

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over a year ago

"Don't know, everyone has their preferences I suppose. Most guys get this to a certain extent I would think. Maybe they don't like beards?

Yeah I thought that, but my beard is a temporary thing as I'm trying to gro a curly tash for my sisters vintage wedding an I think I'd look a right t#%$t with just a tash!

But yeah, maybe!! "

I think the tash might b off putting fror some

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over a year ago

"Come to think of it. My passport photo isn't that bad either actually. But, that's when my hair was long and half way down my back...

...ahh the good old days of tresemme addiction.

Oh here we go!! Here's a ex Chippendale with a goaty with more verifications than Gisselle black, if he's not gunna make me look like Adrian mole then I don't know who will!!'

I'll catch u up bro!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So there's been on a few occasion now where I'm chatting away to a female, everything's going well, having a laugh, talking a bit of filth, so using fabs to it's full potential Ofcourse,

WHATS WRONG WITH ME?????!!!!!! "

Send a picture with your first message. Save yourself and the other person the awkwardness.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"So there's been on a few occasion now where I'm chatting away to a female, everything's going well, having a laugh, talking a bit of filth, so using fabs to it's full potential Ofcourse,

WHATS WRONG WITH ME?????!!!!!!

Consider yourself lucky! I don't even get to the chatting stage!

Start a thread asking for profile critique/help.

*Moderators - I have not actually critiqued

Well done

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"It's the wrong picture to display..

People have to look so serious on a passport picture!

Mine would put a few off believe me "

I'd never get a meet if I had my passport picture (or driving license or works pass) up, I look like Myra Hindley's less attractive, slightly less evil sister

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over a year ago

"Don't know, everyone has their preferences I suppose. Most guys get this to a certain extent I would think. Maybe they don't like beards?

Yeah I thought that, but my beard is a temporary thing as I'm trying to gro a curly tash for my sisters vintage wedding an I think I'd look a right t#%$t with just a tash!

But yeah, maybe!!

I think the tash might b off putting fror some

Ya think??

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"So there's been on a few occasion now where I'm chatting away to a female, everything's going well, having a laugh, talking a bit of filth, so using fabs to it's full potential Ofcourse,

WHATS WRONG WITH ME?????!!!!!! "

Try sending a face pic of George Clooney

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So there's been on a few occasion now where I'm chatting away to a female, everything's going well, having a laugh, talking a bit of filth, so using fabs to it's full potential Ofcourse,

WHATS WRONG WITH ME?????!!!!!!

Try sending a face pic of George Clooney

Ohhhh, is that how ya do it ya dirty old Bugga?? Your secret is safe with moi!!

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

"Don't know, everyone has their preferences I suppose. Most guys get this to a certain extent I would think. Maybe they don't like beards?

Yeah I thought that, but my beard is a temporary thing as I'm trying to gro a curly tash for my sisters vintage wedding an I think I'd look a right t#%$t with just a tash!

But yeah, maybe!!

I think the tash might b off putting fror some

Ya think?? "

Let me do your tash for ya...i got the magic touch. Don't worry...it's not lubed hahaha

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over a year ago

"Don't know, everyone has their preferences I suppose. Most guys get this to a certain extent I would think. Maybe they don't like beards?

Yeah I thought that, but my beard is a temporary thing as I'm trying to gro a curly tash for my sisters vintage wedding an I think I'd look a right t#%$t with just a tash!

But yeah, maybe!!

I think the tash might b off putting fror some

Ya think??

Let me do your tash for ya...i got the magic touch. Don't worry...it's not lubed hahaha

If you can brush me a little of your luck to bro that would be appreciated,

Sod it, I'd grow my pubes an ya can style them too!!

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over a year ago

"Don't know, everyone has their preferences I suppose. Most guys get this to a certain extent I would think. Maybe they don't like beards?

Yeah I thought that, but my beard is a temporary thing as I'm trying to gro a curly tash for my sisters vintage wedding an I think I'd look a right t#%$t with just a tash!

But yeah, maybe!!

I think the tash might b off putting fror some

Ya think??

Let me do your tash for ya...i got the magic touch. Don't worry...it's not lubed hahaha

If you can brush me a little of your luck to bro that would be appreciated,

Sod it, I'd grow my pubes an ya can style them too!!

Don't grow your underarms though. That's just nasty lol

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

Leslie doesn't fancy all guys but she has played with guys she wouldn't fancy usually but meeting at parties etc you get to have more of a crack with them with out pressure of playing so may be try parties/clubs

Might work for you

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over a year ago

"Don't know, everyone has their preferences I suppose. Most guys get this to a certain extent I would think. Maybe they don't like beards?

Yeah I thought that, but my beard is a temporary thing as I'm trying to gro a curly tash for my sisters vintage wedding an I think I'd look a right t#%$t with just a tash!

But yeah, maybe!!

I think the tash might b off putting fror some

Ya think??

Let me do your tash for ya...i got the magic touch. Don't worry...it's not lubed hahaha

If you can brush me a little of your luck to bro that would be appreciated,

Sod it, I'd grow my pubes an ya can style them too!!

Don't grow your underarms though. That's just nasty lol

Yer, that's just gross, (="he says undoing his under arm platts*%)

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over a year ago

"Leslie doesn't fancy all guys but she has played with guys she wouldn't fancy usually but meeting at parties etc you get to have more of a crack with them with out pressure of playing so may be try parties/clubs

Might work for you"

I'm by no means struggling with attention from lady's, but sometimes I'd just like to be able to find a bit of a different chapter to explore different boundarys with somebody I don't have to see on a regular basis if you know what I mean!!

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over a year ago

"Don't know, everyone has their preferences I suppose. Most guys get this to a certain extent I would think. Maybe they don't like beards?

Yeah I thought that, but my beard is a temporary thing as I'm trying to gro a curly tash for my sisters vintage wedding an I think I'd look a right t#%$t with just a tash!

But yeah, maybe!!

I think the tash might b off putting fror some

Ya think??

Let me do your tash for ya...i got the magic touch. Don't worry...it's not lubed hahaha

If you can brush me a little of your luck to bro that would be appreciated,

Sod it, I'd grow my pubes an ya can style them too!!

Don't grow your underarms though. That's just nasty lol

Yer, that's just gross, (="he says undoing his under arm platts*%)

I've always wanted to see a jungle. Guess i no longer need to go to the Amazon. Hahah

Joking OP.

Good luck bro

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over a year ago

"Don't know, everyone has their preferences I suppose. Most guys get this to a certain extent I would think. Maybe they don't like beards?

Yeah I thought that, but my beard is a temporary thing as I'm trying to gro a curly tash for my sisters vintage wedding an I think I'd look a right t#%$t with just a tash!

But yeah, maybe!!

I think the tash might b off putting fror some

Ya think??

Let me do your tash for ya...i got the magic touch. Don't worry...it's not lubed hahaha

If you can brush me a little of your luck to bro that would be appreciated,

Sod it, I'd grow my pubes an ya can style them too!!

Don't grow your underarms though. That's just nasty lol

Yer, that's just gross, (="he says undoing his under arm platts*%)

I've always wanted to see a jungle. Guess i no longer need to go to the Amazon. Hahah

Joking OP.

Good luck bro

Cheers dude!! Keep checking in on me tho! Need all the help/advice I can get!!

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over a year ago

"Don't know, everyone has their preferences I suppose. Most guys get this to a certain extent I would think. Maybe they don't like beards?

Yeah I thought that, but my beard is a temporary thing as I'm trying to gro a curly tash for my sisters vintage wedding an I think I'd look a right t#%$t with just a tash!

But yeah, maybe!!

I think the tash might b off putting fror some

Ya think??

Let me do your tash for ya...i got the magic touch. Don't worry...it's not lubed hahaha

If you can brush me a little of your luck to bro that would be appreciated,

Sod it, I'd grow my pubes an ya can style them too!!

Don't grow your underarms though. That's just nasty lol

Yer, that's just gross, (="he says undoing his under arm platts*%)

I've always wanted to see a jungle. Guess i no longer need to go to the Amazon. Hahah

Joking OP.

Good luck bro

Cheers dude!! Keep checking in on me tho! Need all the help/advice I can get!!

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over a year ago

"Don't know, everyone has their preferences I suppose. Most guys get this to a certain extent I would think. Maybe they don't like beards?

Yeah I thought that, but my beard is a temporary thing as I'm trying to gro a curly tash for my sisters vintage wedding an I think I'd look a right t#%$t with just a tash!

But yeah, maybe!!

I think the tash might b off putting fror some

Ya think??

Let me do your tash for ya...i got the magic touch. Don't worry...it's not lubed hahaha

If you can brush me a little of your luck to bro that would be appreciated,

Sod it, I'd grow my pubes an ya can style them too!!

Don't grow your underarms though. That's just nasty lol

Yer, that's just gross, (="he says undoing his under arm platts*%)

I've always wanted to see a jungle. Guess i no longer need to go to the Amazon. Hahah

Joking OP.

Good luck bro

Cheers dude!! Keep checking in on me tho! Need all the help/advice I can get!!

I'd look after you princess.

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

"So there's been on a few occasion now where I'm chatting away to a female, everything's going well, having a laugh, talking a bit of filth, so using fabs to it's full potential Ofcourse,

WHATS WRONG WITH ME?????!!!!!! "

Your head is the wrong way up !!

Jane x

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

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"So there's been on a few occasion now where I'm chatting away to a female, everything's going well, having a laugh, talking a bit of filth, so using fabs to it's full potential Ofcourse,

WHATS WRONG WITH ME?????!!!!!! "

There is nothing wrong with you. Nobody on fab is going to have everybody fancy them. We all have different types of people we fancy. You yourself OP are not going to fancy every woman on fab.

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