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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do other ladies find this a turn off...? Guys seem to get a little put out when I tell them that chances are they won't just because they have made it all about the end result...

I rarely orgasm with meets just on technique alone. Its normally a combination but the biggest thing is if it happens then great cx if not.. it's no big deal.

I do with my play partner but he knows me well so it's different xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk is cheap.I find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total turn off. If anyone says anything like that the conversation ends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

V usually orgasms when we have a meet, but never with anyone else, just with me as we know each others bodies and likes.

arrogance is a turn off in general.

same with those guys that guarantee you to squirt.

kind of pathetic really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total turn off. If anyone says anything like that the conversation ends. "

Shocking, talking about sex on a swinging site, it should be banned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do other ladies find this a turn off...? Guys seem to get a little put out when I tell them that chances are they won't just because they have made it all about the end result...

I rarely orgasm with meets just on technique alone. Its normally a combination but the biggest thing is if it happens then great cx if not.. it's no big deal.

I do with my play partner but he knows me well so it's different xx"

Sounds harsh , but I wouldn't play with a woman that finds it hard to orgasm .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big ups are almost always a let down

I take no notice,unless they're actually giving me an orgasm at that moment in time I have no interest in how fanny adams on their last meet reacted when she was hanging by her knicker elastic from the light fitting

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What I'd like to know is how on earth do these people know that they can achieve this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No doesn't turn me off.

I like to give men a challenge and I always have a toy to hand if they will accept some help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total turn off. If anyone says anything like that the conversation ends.

Shocking, talking about sex on a swinging site, it should be banned "

no ones saying that.

she said if someone tells her they can guarantee an orgasm the conversation ends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total turn off. If anyone says anything like that the conversation ends.

Shocking, talking about sex on a swinging site, it should be banned

no ones saying that.

she said if someone tells her they can guarantee an orgasm the conversation ends.

"

I know, I was being pedantic

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"What I'd like to know is how on earth do these people know that they can achieve this? "

A tally of rosy cheeked results?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think people brag to hide their own inadequacies. If they claim they can invariably they cant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total turn off. If anyone says anything like that the conversation ends. "

Lol. Great reply as always. Serious.

Not serious.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What I'd like to know is how on earth do these people know that they can achieve this?

A tally of rosy cheeked results? "

Or a tally of rosy cheeked fakers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cum, don't cum, whatever....just have bloody fun I've walked away from sex happy as Larry even though I've not cum myself ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total turn off. If anyone says anything like that the conversation ends.

Shocking, talking about sex on a swinging site, it should be banned

no ones saying that.

she said if someone tells her they can guarantee an orgasm the conversation ends.

"

Exactly.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I getloads of men that guarantee to make me squirt and/or gush. I usually ask what I'm going to get when they fail on that guarantee. I don't squirt or gush and anyone that tries to make me usually gets booted out quicker then they got let in.

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By *eno_2004Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

the dog that barks comes to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total turn off. If anyone says anything like that the conversation ends. "

Yes, I agree - total turn-off and very annoying!

What is so hard about simply asking - "I'd like to please you - what would you like..?"

Instead, so many guys just seem to assume that all women come off the same production line as porn actresses and that we all want and need the same thing ....

Fortunately not all are like that - but sadly it is a common trait.

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

As a man I find it a big turn off if a woman boasts that! although it's usually true!

Experience tells me what works for one woman doesn't necessarily works for another ... no guarantees in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the guys who big their skills up aren't usually very much fun at all. Whereas those who are modest are often dynamite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a man I find it a big turn off if a woman boasts that! "

yep, just as bad are the women who say they can make any man cum from a blow job.

had one woman nearly suck my bleedin bell end off trying, ffs! lol

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

There's no guarantees tbh, I cum relatively easily once things are happening but that's once we've assert aimed if there's an attraction. Sometimes there's just no spark once u actually meet.

And I don't squirt or gush and don't understand some peoples fixation with this. (I've met a few lesbians who reckon only a woman could get me to go this...nonsense)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had this often with the male half of a couple beacause his Mrs squirts/ gushes they think there gonna work there magic on me . When it's actualy down to the women Wever her body does this or not ! I cum but rarely gush does not mean I've enjoyed it any less Z xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just ignore it because the ones who say they will never do.

i only cum sometimes when men play with my clit the way i like it or using my toy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do other ladies find this a turn off...? Guys seem to get a little put out when I tell them that chances are they won't just because they have made it all about the end result...

I rarely orgasm with meets just on technique alone. Its normally a combination but the biggest thing is if it happens then great cx if not.. it's no big deal.

I do with my play partner but he knows me well so it's different xx"

The 'one size fits all' shagger? They concentrate on their 'tried and trusted' technique and pay absolutely no attention to how your body is responding...just like the 'I can make any woman squirt' brigade...*yawn*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will get it dripping down your legs, lick for hours, make you scream blah blah, I would even listen to.

What they have to realise, is if they didnt live up to their mouth, a little red faced they will be.

Her

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

surely great sex is a joint team effort .. not something you do .. or have done to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do other ladies find this a turn off...? Guys seem to get a little put out when I tell them that chances are they won't just because they have made it all about the end result...

I rarely orgasm with meets just on technique alone. Its normally a combination but the biggest thing is if it happens then great cx if not.. it's no big deal.

I do with my play partner but he knows me well so it's different xx

Sounds harsh , but I wouldn't play with a woman that finds it hard to orgasm . "

I'm so glad we'll never meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do other ladies find this a turn off...? Guys seem to get a little put out when I tell them that chances are they won't just because they have made it all about the end result...

I rarely orgasm with meets just on technique alone. Its normally a combination but the biggest thing is if it happens then great cx if not.. it's no big deal.

I do with my play partner but he knows me well so it's different xx

Sounds harsh , but I wouldn't play with a woman that finds it hard to orgasm . "

Why not? Male ego issues?

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"Do other ladies find this a turn off...? Guys seem to get a little put out when I tell them that chances are they won't just because they have made it all about the end result...

I rarely orgasm with meets just on technique alone. Its normally a combination but the biggest thing is if it happens then great cx if not.. it's no big deal.

I do with my play partner but he knows me well so it's different xx"

Franchine does orgasm very easily, just depends on how intense they are

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do other ladies find this a turn off...? Guys seem to get a little put out when I tell them that chances are they won't just because they have made it all about the end result...

I rarely orgasm with meets just on technique alone. Its normally a combination but the biggest thing is if it happens then great cx if not.. it's no big deal.

I do with my play partner but he knows me well so it's different xx

Sounds harsh , but I wouldn't play with a woman that finds it hard to orgasm .

Why not? Male ego issues?"

Certainly seems that way. Or he doesn't want to put the effort in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do other ladies find this a turn off...? Guys seem to get a little put out when I tell them that chances are they won't just because they have made it all about the end result...

I rarely orgasm with meets just on technique alone. Its normally a combination but the biggest thing is if it happens then great cx if not.. it's no big deal.

I do with my play partner but he knows me well so it's different xx

Sounds harsh , but I wouldn't play with a woman that finds it hard to orgasm .

Why not? Male ego issues?"

No , not at all .....just preferences . Just like I won't play with a couple if the guy is Bi . It's my choice .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do other ladies find this a turn off...? Guys seem to get a little put out when I tell them that chances are they won't just because they have made it all about the end result...

I rarely orgasm with meets just on technique alone. Its normally a combination but the biggest thing is if it happens then great cx if not.. it's no big deal.

I do with my play partner but he knows me well so it's different xx

Sounds harsh , but I wouldn't play with a woman that finds it hard to orgasm .

Why not? Male ego issues?

No , not at all .....just preferences . Just like I won't play with a couple if the guy is Bi . It's my choice . "

I'm so glad I meet real men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To turn offs for us are " I WILL make you orgasm" or "I'll be the best you've ever had...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two turn offs for us are " I WILL make you orgasm" or "I'll be the best you've ever had...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do other ladies find this a turn off...? Guys seem to get a little put out when I tell them that chances are they won't just because they have made it all about the end result...

I rarely orgasm with meets just on technique alone. Its normally a combination but the biggest thing is if it happens then great cx if not.. it's no big deal.

I do with my play partner but he knows me well so it's different xx

Sounds harsh , but I wouldn't play with a woman that finds it hard to orgasm .

Why not? Male ego issues?

No , not at all .....just preferences . Just like I won't play with a couple if the guy is Bi . It's my choice .

I'm so glad I meet real men "

So am I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big ups are almost always a let down

I take no notice,unless they're actually giving me an orgasm at that moment in time I have no interest in how fanny adams on their last meet reacted when she was hanging by her knicker elastic from the light fitting "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told I squirt and gush but I have never orgasmed. Is it essential as I always have fun hope they have too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im our experience we've found the more guys "big" themselves up about how good they are that we're usually in for a dull night. It's the ones who say very little who turn out to be the best.

Sometimes they don't talk much til we get there then go on and on about their experiences, and it all goes downhill from there.

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

I have had one orgasm in nearly 4 years from a random meet

Absolutelyboils my piss when a man promises me he will make me cum with his tongue.

"Mate, you won't, I dont cum from oral....never have"...is like a challenge.....it's not a challenge, I know my body....it ain't happening

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Big ups are almost always a let down

I take no notice,unless they're actually giving me an orgasm at that moment in time I have no interest in how fanny adams on their last meet reacted when she was hanging by her knicker elastic from the light fitting "

Now that really made me chuckle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do other ladies find this a turn off...? Guys seem to get a little put out when I tell them that chances are they won't just because they have made it all about the end result...

I rarely orgasm with meets just on technique alone. Its normally a combination but the biggest thing is if it happens then great cx if not.. it's no big deal.

I do with my play partner but he knows me well so it's different xx

Sounds harsh , but I wouldn't play with a woman that finds it hard to orgasm .

Why not? Male ego issues?

No , not at all .....just preferences . Just like I won't play with a couple if the guy is Bi . It's my choice . "

Fair enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big ups are almost always a let down

I take no notice,unless they're actually giving me an orgasm at that moment in time I have no interest in how fanny adams on their last meet reacted when she was hanging by her knicker elastic from the light fitting

Now that really made me chuckle! "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find the guys who big their skills up aren't usually very much fun at all. Whereas those who are modest are often dynamite "

This is my findings too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I orgasm lots with the right person but if someone wrote saying they will make me orgasm I'm sorry they won't be going anywhere near me to try ......no one makes someone do something if you are relaxed and having fun it will happen .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total turn off. I once actually got duped by a man who made me believe he would. Ended up telling him how shockingly shit it was afterwards. He wasn't happy!

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I don't know why guys say this as every woman is different and plenty find it very hard to orgasm no matter how good the guy thinks he is! J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total turn off. I once actually got duped by a man who made me believe he would. Ended up telling him how shockingly shit it was afterwards. He wasn't happy! "

And if a man told you that you're a shockingly shit shag... you'd be happy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total turn off. I once actually got duped by a man who made me believe he would. Ended up telling him how shockingly shit it was afterwards. He wasn't happy! "

It actually takes 2 to have sex good or bad its not a one person job unless you're having a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total turn off. I once actually got duped by a man who made me believe he would. Ended up telling him how shockingly shit it was afterwards. He wasn't happy!

And if a man told you that you're a shockingly shit shag... you'd be happy?"

Funnily enough no one has ever complained about anything i've done. But when someone falsely advertises one is entitled to put in a complaint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total turn off. I once actually got duped by a man who made me believe he would. Ended up telling him how shockingly shit it was afterwards. He wasn't happy!

And if a man told you that you're a shockingly shit shag... you'd be happy?"

Funnily enough no one has ever complained about anything i've done. But when someone falsely advertises one is entitled to put in a complaint.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Total turn off. If anyone says anything like that the conversation ends. "

This!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total turn off. I once actually got duped by a man who made me believe he would. Ended up telling him how shockingly shit it was afterwards. He wasn't happy!

It actually takes 2 to have sex good or bad its not a one person job unless you're having a wank "

Oh he enjoyed himself, so I kind of disagree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total turn off. I once actually got duped by a man who made me believe he would. Ended up telling him how shockingly shit it was afterwards. He wasn't happy!

And if a man told you that you're a shockingly shit shag... you'd be happy?

Funnily enough no one has ever complained about anything i've done. But when someone falsely advertises one is entitled to put in a complaint. "

Great attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total turn off. I once actually got duped by a man who made me believe he would. Ended up telling him how shockingly shit it was afterwards. He wasn't happy!

It actually takes 2 to have sex good or bad its not a one person job unless you're having a wank

Oh he enjoyed himself, so I kind of disagree! "

You're happy enough to tell him he was a shit shag but not able to guide him in the right direction to make it better for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone has absolutely no clue, what is the point?! It was over within minutes-there was NO improving it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total turn off. I once actually got duped by a man who made me believe he would. Ended up telling him how shockingly shit it was afterwards. He wasn't happy!

And if a man told you that you're a shockingly shit shag... you'd be happy?

Funnily enough no one has ever complained about anything i've done. But when someone falsely advertises one is entitled to put in a complaint.

Great attitude. "

If you buy a vacuum cleaner which doesn't suck up dirt you would complain wouldn't you?!

If someone says they will lick you til you gush then don't even bother with foreplay you wouldn't be happy. Without knowing all the details don't judge my attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total turn off. I once actually got duped by a man who made me believe he would. Ended up telling him how shockingly shit it was afterwards. He wasn't happy! "

Nor would I have been if a guy said that to me, he might have been a pillock for talking the talk but that's just cruel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total turn off. I once actually got duped by a man who made me believe he would. Ended up telling him how shockingly shit it was afterwards. He wasn't happy!

It actually takes 2 to have sex good or bad its not a one person job unless you're having a wank

Oh he enjoyed himself, so I kind of disagree!

You're happy enough to tell him he was a shit shag but not able to guide him in the right direction to make it better for you? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total turn off. I once actually got duped by a man who made me believe he would. Ended up telling him how shockingly shit it was afterwards. He wasn't happy!

And if a man told you that you're a shockingly shit shag... you'd be happy?

Funnily enough no one has ever complained about anything i've done. But when someone falsely advertises one is entitled to put in a complaint.

Great attitude.

If you buy a vacuum cleaner which doesn't suck up dirt you would complain wouldn't you?!

If someone says they will lick you til you gush then don't even bother with foreplay you wouldn't be happy. Without knowing all the details don't judge my attitude. "

As far as I'm aware my Miele 1600 doesn't have feelings.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total turn off. I once actually got duped by a man who made me believe he would. Ended up telling him how shockingly shit it was afterwards. He wasn't happy!

Nor would I have been if a guy said that to me, he might have been a pillock for talking the talk but that's just cruel."

Oh boo hoo, i'm cruel, I have a bad attitude. Bore off.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Total turn off. I once actually got duped by a man who made me believe he would. Ended up telling him how shockingly shit it was afterwards. He wasn't happy!

And if a man told you that you're a shockingly shit shag... you'd be happy?

Funnily enough no one has ever complained about anything i've done. But when someone falsely advertises one is entitled to put in a complaint. "

I think you're right, if a guy brags how he's "gonna rock your world" and he's absolutely shite then yeah, bring him down a peg or three.

If he hasn't told you how brilliant he is but is equally as crap as the braggart and you can't be arsed to instruct and guide then best leave your feelings unsaid.

Oh, it's extremely rare for men to tell a woman she's not as good as she thinks she is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave an honest answer to a question, apparently one gets judged for being honest around here. If you have a problem with my blunt style, get over it, no need to gang up on me for being honest with you all and with a man who i'll never see again, quite frankly it probably gave him the kick up the arse he needed, but whatever. I'm obviously wrong wrong WRONG and guess what?! I don't give a hoot what you think. Toodles now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total turn off. I once actually got duped by a man who made me believe he would. Ended up telling him how shockingly shit it was afterwards. He wasn't happy!

And if a man told you that you're a shockingly shit shag... you'd be happy?

Funnily enough no one has ever complained about anything i've done. But when someone falsely advertises one is entitled to put in a complaint.

I think you're right, if a guy brags how he's "gonna rock your world" and he's absolutely shite then yeah, bring him down a peg or three.

If he hasn't told you how brilliant he is but is equally as crap as the braggart and you can't be arsed to instruct and guide then best leave your feelings unsaid.

Oh, it's extremely rare for men to tell a woman she's not as good as she thinks she is"

Some women don't take criticism very well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know why guys say this as every woman is different and plenty find it very hard to orgasm no matter how good the guy thinks he is! J "

This is so true..... 99% of mine have some kind of help from me

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


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Some women don't take criticism very well... "

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"I don't know why guys say this as every woman is different and plenty find it very hard to orgasm no matter how good the guy thinks he is! J

This is so true..... 99% of mine have some kind of help from me "
Cheers. J x

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


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Some women don't take criticism very well... "

And he may want to keep going back in the hope of improvement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Some women don't take criticism very well...

"

I'd have no issue with it if I was doing something someone didn't like, that happens, depends how it was said though! But sex isn't just something that happens to me, im a (very) active participant.For reference my standard joke once I get to know someone is that I'm a shit shag and tell guys they'll be disappointed.

We all hope we're good at this sex lark but in truth we're not all brilliant at everything. I do know though that selfishness is likely to result in a bad experience, be that a selfish man, woman or couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me the built up starts in my head. If you say 'I'm gonna make u cum by doing x y z' I switch off. Ain't gonna happen mate cos in my head I'm thinking you are an idiot. The whole idea is too explore, find out what turns me on. If you don't want to do that journey bye!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


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Some women don't take criticism very well...

I'd have no issue with it if I was doing something someone didn't like, that happens, depends how it was said though! But sex isn't just something that happens to me, im a (very) active participant.For reference my standard joke once I get to know someone is that I'm a shit shag and tell guys they'll be disappointed.

We all hope we're good at this sex lark but in truth we're not all brilliant at everything. I do know though that selfishness is likely to result in a bad experience, be that a selfish man, woman or couple."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's the taking part and effort that counts more than the result... Lol

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"

Some women don't take criticism very well...

I'd have no issue with it if I was doing something someone didn't like, that happens, depends how it was said though! But sex isn't just something that happens to me, im a (very) active participant.For reference my standard joke once I get to know someone is that I'm a shit shag and tell guys they'll be disappointed.

We all hope we're good at this sex lark but in truth we're not all brilliant at everything. I do know though that selfishness is likely to result in a bad experience, be that a selfish man, woman or couple."
Very well put. J

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"

Some women don't take criticism very well...

I'd have no issue with it if I was doing something someone didn't like, that happens, depends how it was said though! But sex isn't just something that happens to me, im a (very) active participant.For reference my standard joke once I get to know someone is that I'm a shit shag and tell guys they'll be disappointed.

We all hope we're good at this sex lark but in truth we're not all brilliant at everything. I do know though that selfishness is likely to result in a bad experience, be that a selfish man, woman or couple."

My experience is the women who say they aren't very good are usually more than a very pleasant surprise. The ones that say how great they are at this, that and the other invariably aren't.

Of course any claims I make as to my sexual prowess are true and can be fully backed up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No man can promise wh orgasm, no woman can promise q man to cum.

If you lay there like a sack of spuds or just stick it in, there is a possibility of a Shit shag, I never promise to deliver, different strokes for different folks.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had one orgasm in nearly 4 years from a random meet

Absolutelyboils my piss when a man promises me he will make me cum with his tongue.

"Mate, you won't, I dont cum from oral....never have"...is like a challenge.....it's not a challenge, I know my body....it ain't happening"

Ditto.

Also, far too many men think that causing me to gush = an orgasm. I wish, then I could leave my rabbit at home .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if the boot was on the other foot it would be like saying to guy. Right I am going to wank and wank your cock so hard you are guaranteed to shoot. Result would probably be Mr Limpy comes along and you could wank it for 24 hours and make it fall off. Nope telling someone you are going to guarantee an orgasm is just stupid and immature.

We did go to a party once where one guy had the seymour butts technique and seem to get total satisfaction from all the ladies I saw doing it. What a guy that Ace Rimmer is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take full responsibility for me. I had a few bad meets and it put me off meeting. But it's not their fault, I just didn't have a connection so it wasn't good. They no doubt thought I'm a shit shag... and I was.

I don't expect anyone else to figure me out. It's up to me to have fun. I prefer it when people tell me if something isn't working for them. I'm not at all offended, I just try something different/ ask what they want me to do instead. But there's a way of getting your point across. Tact goes a long way.

I prefer mutual fun. I'm not a free prostitute for a man/ woman/ couple to use. But neither are men/women/ couples free prostitutes for me to use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I've ever swung with a woman I DIDN'T bring to orgasm (or they were very good actresses), but still wouldn't assume I could make anyone climax.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Wouldn't dream of entertaining someone who is boastful. Quietly confident is how I like my men

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I don't think I've ever swung with a woman I DIDN'T bring to orgasm (or they were very good actresses), but still wouldn't assume I could make anyone climax."

They weren't good actresses, everyone knows that men from Coventry are the best lovers in the world

*I'm not from Coventry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I've ever swung with a woman I DIDN'T bring to orgasm (or they were very good actresses), but still wouldn't assume I could make anyone climax.

They weren't good actresses, everyone knows that men from Coventry are the best lovers in the world

*I'm not from Coventry "

Northern France

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I've ever swung with a woman I DIDN'T bring to orgasm (or they were very good actresses), but still wouldn't assume I could make anyone climax.

They weren't good actresses, everyone knows that men from Coventry are the best lovers in the world

*I'm not from Coventry "

We only survived the blitz on account of our enormous dongs!

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I don't think I've ever swung with a woman I DIDN'T bring to orgasm (or they were very good actresses), but still wouldn't assume I could make anyone climax.

They weren't good actresses, everyone knows that men from Coventry are the best lovers in the world

*I'm not from Coventry

Northern France "

I'm laying here with a puzzled expression on my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder what the correlation is between those who brag they will make a woman cum and those that do not turn up/timewasters.....pretty high I bet

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I don't think I've ever swung with a woman I DIDN'T bring to orgasm (or they were very good actresses), but still wouldn't assume I could make anyone climax.

They weren't good actresses, everyone knows that men from Coventry are the best lovers in the world

*I'm not from Coventry

We only survived the blitz on account of our enormous dongs!"

lol did you use them to shield the women folk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I've ever swung with a woman I DIDN'T bring to orgasm (or they were very good actresses), but still wouldn't assume I could make anyone climax.

They weren't good actresses, everyone knows that men from Coventry are the best lovers in the world

*I'm not from Coventry

Northern France

I'm laying here with a puzzled expression on my face "

Not obvious that my best lover came from there?

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By *oulcakeMan
over a year ago

Gornal


"As a man I find it a big turn off if a woman boasts that! although it's usually true!

Experience tells me what works for one woman doesn't necessarily works for another ... no guarantees in life "
.

Totally agree. Women are as bad as men when it comes to this kind of promise. I have yet to meet a woman who can make me cum orally yet the usual response is :you've not had a blow job like mine before " . Sorry I probably have lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had one orgasm in nearly 4 years from a random meet

Absolutelyboils my piss when a man promises me he will make me cum with his tongue.

"Mate, you won't, I dont cum from oral....never have"...is like a challenge.....it's not a challenge, I know my body....it ain't happening"

Mine too ..I don't cum from oral...want to lick for hours? Don't waste my time. And it's not because I'm frigid or don't relax I just don't cum from oral..the pressure of the tongue isn't enough...so DONT say you will make me cum with oral...Sorry you won't !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I've ever swung with a woman I DIDN'T bring to orgasm (or they were very good actresses), but still wouldn't assume I could make anyone climax.

They weren't good actresses, everyone knows that men from Coventry are the best lovers in the world

*I'm not from Coventry

We only survived the blitz on account of our enormous dongs!

lol did you use them to shield the women folk? "

No, XXL Cricket Boxes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big ups are almost always a let down

I take no notice,unless they're actually giving me an orgasm at that moment in time I have no interest in how fanny adams on their last meet reacted when she was hanging by her knicker elastic from the light fitting

This "

I wouldn't know as I can't be bothered to even chat to guys that big themselves up. It just bores me.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I don't think I've ever swung with a woman I DIDN'T bring to orgasm (or they were very good actresses), but still wouldn't assume I could make anyone climax.

They weren't good actresses, everyone knows that men from Coventry are the best lovers in the world

*I'm not from Coventry

Northern France

I'm laying here with a puzzled expression on my face

Not obvious that my best lover came from there? "

Ahhhh, gotcha

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I don't think I've ever swung with a woman I DIDN'T bring to orgasm (or they were very good actresses), but still wouldn't assume I could make anyone climax.

They weren't good actresses, everyone knows that men from Coventry are the best lovers in the world

*I'm not from Coventry

We only survived the blitz on account of our enormous dongs!

lol did you use them to shield the women folk?

No, XXL Cricket Boxes "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had one orgasm in nearly 4 years from a random meet

Absolutelyboils my piss when a man promises me he will make me cum with his tongue.

"Mate, you won't, I dont cum from oral....never have"...is like a challenge.....it's not a challenge, I know my body....it ain't happening

"

so, how is any of this any different to the women that insist they are blow job queens, can make any man cum from a blowy, and laugh at you for suggesting they cant?

being boastful and full of shit isnt gender specific lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"being boastful and full of shit isnt gender specific lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know when people are feeding you bollox, so pull away.

Her

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"You know when people are feeding you bollox, so pull away.

Her"

Not into teabagging then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know when people are feeding you bollox, so pull away.

Her

Not into teabagging then? "
Now that's a different story lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had one orgasm in nearly 4 years from a random meet

Absolutelyboils my piss when a man promises me he will make me cum with his tongue.

"Mate, you won't, I dont cum from oral....never have"...is like a challenge.....it's not a challenge, I know my body....it ain't happening

so, how is any of this any different to the women that insist they are blow job queens, can make any man cum from a blowy, and laugh at you for suggesting they cant?

being boastful and full of shit isnt gender specific lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Orgasm or not....

Squirt or not....

Gush or not....

I just bloody enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha

A man make me orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Orgasm or not....

Squirt or not....

Gush or not....

I just bloody enjoy it "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have had one orgasm in nearly 4 years from a random meet

Absolutelyboils my piss when a man promises me he will make me cum with his tongue.

"Mate, you won't, I dont cum from oral....never have"...is like a challenge.....it's not a challenge, I know my body....it ain't happening

so, how is any of this any different to the women that insist they are blow job queens, can make any man cum from a blowy, and laugh at you for suggesting they cant?

being boastful and full of shit isnt gender specific lol"

I think I'm okay at bj... But I do it because I enjoy it... No two men are the same... If I make a guy Cum then mmmmm but I dont cry if I can't.. and some guys hold back xx

But yes women are just as bad... I couldn't be that conceited xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"surely great sex is a joint team effort .. not something you do .. or have done to you "

well said xx

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By *allen MadonnaWoman
over a year ago

In my own little world

I won't meet guys who are on a 'mission' to make me cum or that state they are an oral expert. From experience it ends in disappointment as everyone is different in terms of sensitivity etc. As for making it a mission, then that is really for their gratification and not for mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cum, don't cum, whatever....just have bloody fun I've walked away from sex happy as Larry even though I've not cum myself ......"

That's the whole idea, enjoyment and having fun and so long as I get both that's fine by me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cum, don't cum, whatever....just have bloody fun I've walked away from sex happy as Larry even though I've not cum myself ......

That's the whole idea, enjoyment and having fun and so long as I get both that's fine by me"

I cannot do the fuck and go that some people like. For me it is about the total experience. Do I want an orgasm? Of course, but my measure of pleasure isn't about orgasming, it is about connecting with some hot guy whose company I am enjoying and that pleasure is reciprocated .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Orgasm or not....

Squirt or not....

Gush or not....

I just bloody enjoy it "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I only got a short bit down the thread before it turned into ner ner ner .....

Can anyone tell me ...... PLEASE and just those with the ability to enter into dialogue without the fucking one upmanship...

Nah..... I'll start another thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every woman is different, just because you can make one lady squirt, doesn't mean you can make any girl squirt.

It would be like a footballer and scoring one shot but they will never score them all, to say so would be pig headed.

Main thing is to just have fun and not focus on the climax but enjoy the whole experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cum, don't cum, whatever....just have bloody fun I've walked away from sex happy as Larry even though I've not cum myself ......

That's the whole idea, enjoyment and having fun and so long as I get both that's fine by me

I cannot do the fuck and go that some people like. For me it is about the total experience. Do I want an orgasm? Of course, but my measure of pleasure isn't about orgasming, it is about connecting with some hot guy whose company I am enjoying and that pleasure is reciprocated ."

That isn't what we are saying, people can still connect, and I prefer to, without coming or having an orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when guys tell me they will make me cum .. we meet for sex afterall! love confident men who get my body and mind going ... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it when guys tell me they will make me cum .. we meet for sex afterall! love confident men who get my body and mind going ... x"

and that just goes to prove that no matter what us guys say or do it WILL NEVER BE RIGHT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talk is cheap.I find "

Absolfuckinglutely! !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never say or expect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it when guys tell me they will make me cum .. we meet for sex afterall! love confident men who get my body and mind going ... x

and that just goes to prove that no matter what us guys say or do it WILL NEVER BE RIGHT "

please don't tell me it has taken you this long to figure it out!! we are complex creatures!!

when I have sex I like to enjoy as much as possible, and a bit of dirty talk adds to the excitement!!

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