FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Define sexual maturity in a male

Jump to newest
 

By *utumn OP   Woman
over a year ago

leeds

I am often approached by men younger than my preferred age range stating that they prefer a mature lady.

I'm not drawn sexually to younger men and usually reply that I am only seeking sexually mature gents.

I realised I don't actually know what I mean! I can't find the right words or phrases.......... over to the team for help please!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

a man that realises that the things he has seen in porn are usually heavily edited and cleverly cut fantasy, who knows that foreplay is as least as important as penetration, who realises that not all women want hours of thrusting and banging away and who listens to what a woman wants rather than assuming he knows .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh that's a hard thing to define isn't it? I think it's really down to each individual. I've met my fair share of younger men and on the whole, my goodness they are certainly sexually mature! However, some just do have a lot more to learn. So, are older gentlemen always sexually mature?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So, are older gentlemen always sexually mature? "

not by my definition no .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not met one yet

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think the 'i'm not attracted to younger guys' part should suffice to be honest, i'd much rather have that than a statement that even you don't understand lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

When your first meeting, you dont know what experience is as it's just gratification. Even after a few years, although you are practised you are still aware of things you are not sure about. Sexual maturity for me, comes when you have the intuition of what is wanted, but have the ability to resit it until the time is right.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *utumn OP   Woman
over a year ago

leeds


"i think the 'i'm not attracted to younger guys' part should suffice to be honest, i'd much rather have that than a statement that even you don't understand lol "

I wasn't meaning to bore someone with an explanation! It just made me wonder what others defined as sexually mature

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"a man that realises that the things he has seen in porn are usually heavily edited and cleverly cut fantasy, who knows that foreplay is as least as important as penetration, who realises that not all women want hours of thrusting and banging away and who listens to what a woman wants rather than assuming he knows .

"

Wow, you've described me to a 'T'!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"a man that realises that the things he has seen in porn are usually heavily edited and cleverly cut fantasy, who knows that foreplay is as least as important as penetration, who realises that not all women want hours of thrusting and banging away and who listens to what a woman wants rather than assuming he knows .

Wow, you've described me to a 'T'! "

It was all in a dream tbh... (an no, you weren't in it) whoooo!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man who disposes of his used condoms

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I have an age limit due to how I meet! I like a nice social evening, with wine, chat, fun then sexy naked sofa chats more wine then more fun, I'd find it hard to be able to do this with someone 15 years younger than me, who all ask me to make an exception.....we all have preferences, no need to explain them in my view

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a young person, I've been told that I'm mature because I take care to specialise my technique and listen to what she wants in the bedroom. Foreplay is just as important as the penetration This takes time to learn especially with porn being so easily accessible.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"a man that realises that the things he has seen in porn are usually heavily edited and cleverly cut fantasy, who knows that foreplay is as least as important as penetration, who realises that not all women want hours of thrusting and banging away and who listens to what a woman wants rather than assuming he knows .

Wow, you've described me to a 'T'!

It was all in a dream tbh... (an no, you weren't in it) whoooo! "

There's no shame in admitting you have me joining you whilst you slumber

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"a man that realises that the things he has seen in porn are usually heavily edited and cleverly cut fantasy, who knows that foreplay is as least as important as penetration, who realises that not all women want hours of thrusting and banging away and who listens to what a woman wants rather than assuming he knows .

Wow, you've described me to a 'T'!

It was all in a dream tbh... (an no, you weren't in it) whoooo!

There's no shame in admitting you have me joining you whilst you slumber "

my intuition tells me you are not my type

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion it is about making a connection.The verbal forplay which anticipates what is to come but is mature enough not to rush.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"a man that realises that the things he has seen in porn are usually heavily edited and cleverly cut fantasy, who knows that foreplay is as least as important as penetration, who realises that not all women want hours of thrusting and banging away and who listens to what a woman wants rather than assuming he knows .

Wow, you've described me to a 'T'!

It was all in a dream tbh... (an no, you weren't in it) whoooo!

There's no shame in admitting you have me joining you whilst you slumber

my intuition tells me you are not my type "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"a man that realises that the things he has seen in porn are usually heavily edited and cleverly cut fantasy, who knows that foreplay is as least as important as penetration, who realises that not all women want hours of thrusting and banging away and who listens to what a woman wants rather than assuming he knows .

Wow, you've described me to a 'T'! "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top