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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there etiquette when watching others playing whilst at a club. We discreetly watch, unless it's obviously a watching area.

We have had a couple of single guys standing right over us wanking while we play in a quiet corner and I really don't like this. What do others think. Is there watching etiquette?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanking over someone is bad manners.

Surely watching from a distance is ok if it's in a public area? Otherwise they'd be in a private room?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

how far away is a good distance .... three or four feet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I watch from a respectable distance asnin unobtrusive. I don't ever do the wanking thing that looks just pervie lol.

But I say give the couple space to enjoy themselves and be watched.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how far away is a good distance .... three or four feet ?"

About 10 Sky remotes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men openly wanking or all standing around women/couples does put me of from going to clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how far away is a good distance .... three or four feet ?

About 10 Sky remotes."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how far away is a good distance .... three or four feet ?"

close enough for eye contact with the lady but far enough that when the gentleman cums you don't get hit by a stray.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wanking over someone is bad manners.

Surely watching from a distance is ok if it's in a public area? Otherwise they'd be in a private room?"

That's what I thought. Didn't know if I was becoming a prude lol. Thank you

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men openly wanking or all standing around women/couples does put me of from going to clubs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would expect to have people watching and wanking if I was having sex in full view of them. I wouldn't be scared to ask them to move back if they were flicking pre-cum over me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If in a public play area then yes you expect people to see or watch you, but standing right next to you and wanking is a no no, I'd have asked them to move back. That is just being rude. ut think they are secretly hoping to get an invite to join in. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanking over someone is bad manners.

Surely watching from a distance is ok if it's in a public area? Otherwise they'd be in a private room?

That's what I thought. Didn't know if I was becoming a prude lol. Thank you

X"

I guess it depends on the club. We're happy to play in front of others in the public rooms at Chams but if we want company we will either invite it or if a guy approaches, decide on him at that point.

However, we're not shy in asking guys for space either if they encroach. At the end of the day, its your space and you should be able to set the rules x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite happy sitting there with a glass of wine, and a chesire grin :-

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanking over someone is bad manners.

Surely watching from a distance is ok if it's in a public area? Otherwise they'd be in a private room?"

I had to say to a guy once ~ "don't you dare cum over my head...!!"

if I'm not in a private room then I have no issue with people watching but not that close lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wanking over someone is bad manners.

Surely watching from a distance is ok if it's in a public area? Otherwise they'd be in a private room?

I had to say to a guy once ~ "don't you dare cum over my head...!!"

if I'm not in a private room then I have no issue with people watching but not that close lol "

Hmmm. This is why I wonder if it is me that is being a prude. It is in chams. It's on a couples night and there are these random single guys bodding about making me uncomfortable. I am still unsure if I am in too prudish or they are inconsiderate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're putting on a show guys are going to become aroused and when guys become aroused our cocks do the thinking.

Of course you should ask for space if they are too close.

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