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"Shagaloony.. that sounds a bit weird? hey, may be many people have different tastes and limitations.. shall we say??" How do you mean? I could be reading this the wrong way but it does'nt sound good the way I read it | |||
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"Shagaloony.. that sounds a bit weird? hey, may be many people have different tastes and limitations.. shall we say?? How do you mean? I could be reading this the wrong way but it does'nt sound good the way I read it " agree was curious too as to what was meant........ | |||
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"Shagaloony.. that sounds a bit weird? hey, may be many people have different tastes and limitations.. shall we say??" A work colleague became aware of his profile here, he passed it off as he was just having a nosey, but became concious that they could see he had been using it for meets, silly maybe, but he didn't want his work colleague to know what he gets up to in his private life. I explained that he would be taken more seriously if he was verified and that he could tell his work colleague that we was just mates that verified him to help. he could say he wasn't interested but didn't want to tell us that. His work colleague was not a member here, it was a mistake he made on work computer, our friend did become concious that this person could join just to have a chuckle at his expense. | |||
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"Once again a balanced well thought out comment from Fabio. " sush!!!! if people start thinking I am reasonable rather than "grumpy old man" you'll bloody blow my rep!!!! | |||
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"I agree, on the whole this is one way to spot a fake, but, We did meet a single guy with no verifications that had been on here for over 12 month, he was for real and said he didn't want verifying as he didn't want everyone knowing who he had met, etc. We also know for a fact he met others, as he met some others whilst with us. " This is the first site I've been on where people leave verifications, and more importantly, people take such notice of them!! I can understand some people not wanting them, even if you can hide them - it's a personal preference, and I find it annoying that others personal choices are questioned. I like to make my own mind up about people and what someone finds "hot" could be luke warm to me. Some people are happy shagging away so don't have time to be leaving feedback...and good for them!! | |||
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"well I was here for 6 months before I got my first meet... a cross between finding the right people and me being comfortable enough... so I wouldn't dismiss it out of hand.... anyway what right do you have to dictate how someone runs there profile? if you don't like it.... move swiftly on....." Considering the number of replies supporting my opinion, I think U are wrong Mr. | |||
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"Considering the number of replies supporting my opinion, I think U are wrong Mr." Oddly enough I don't think its a case of been right or wrong but rather us all been entitled to our own opinions..... | |||
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"well I was here for 6 months before I got my first meet... a cross between finding the right people and me being comfortable enough... so I wouldn't dismiss it out of hand.... anyway what right do you have to dictate how someone runs there profile? if you don't like it.... move swiftly on..... Considering the number of replies supporting my opinion, I think U are wrong Mr." Am I missing some posts here, I actually don't see so many posts supporting your opinion. I see more suggesting reasons against. But as wishful says, it's not right or wrong, but difference. | |||
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"Considering the number of replies supporting my opinion, I think U are wrong Mr. Oddly enough I don't think its a case of been right or wrong but rather us all been entitled to our own opinions....." I couldn't agree with you more! | |||
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" Considering the number of replies supporting my opinion, I think U are wrong Mr." okay then, For example: If there is something on the TV that you dislike.... do you? a)scream from the rafters about it? b)just change the channel??? If a shop has something in there shop window that you don't like... but isn't wrong... do you? a)dictate to the shop owner what must be put in it? b)walk on by.......... your profile is your shop window... leave it to them to decided what's in theres... and just concentrate on yours.. you can only affect yours.. Personally I don't loads of cock shots from different angles on a profile but in the grand scheme of thing is it worth the bother of complaining about it? Seriously............ | |||
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"we only display recent ones to show we are meeting now not 2,3 or more years ago! " This seems sensible. People with dozens of verifications just make it more difficult to scroll down to the pics anyway! | |||
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"Hi everyone.. Im really amused by the amout of friends some profile have. Majority of them have JOINED 'over a year ago' but sans any Verifications... Please beware, they may be pic collectors. Do you think it takes so long for a single meet on Fab? I dont think so... " It is known that it has taken some single men over a year to get a meet on here. It is known that there are picture collectors on here. It is known that there are some total anally retentive fuckwits on here. It is known that people sign up and then clear off, never to be seen again. It is known that some people join as a single, meet someone and then join as a couple, therefore, negating the need for their single profiles. It is known that people simply forget to delete their accounts. It is known, that swingers differ and not everyone on here is on here for the same reason. It is known that some people don't and won't show any verifications on here. Therefore, you have NO right to say who is a picture collector or not, who is genuine or not and how long it takes for someone to get a meet. It is YOUR opinion that these people may be picture collectors but unless you can prove it..... it is unsubstantiated crap! | |||
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"iv not been photo verified either " Your profile pic is rather tasty tho | |||
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"I agree, on the whole this is one way to spot a fake, but, We did meet a single guy with no verifications that had been on here for over 12 month, he was for real and said he didn't want verifying as he didn't want everyone knowing who he had met, etc. We also know for a fact he met others, as he met some others whilst with us. This is the first site I've been on where people leave verifications, and more importantly, people take such notice of them!! I can understand some people not wanting them, even if you can hide them - it's a personal preference, and I find it annoying that others personal choices are questioned. I like to make my own mind up about people and what someone finds "hot" could be luke warm to me. Some people are happy shagging away so don't have time to be leaving feedback...and good for them!! " L.S,the site we used before this one also had feedback from meets. As we've only used these two sites we thought it was common practice. We do however find the feedback/verifications useful in choosing our meets. Say for instance a couple habitually meet the sort of ppl we wouldn't,ie:bare backers etc,then we wouldn't contact/meet them. Likewise we're sometimes suspicious of ppl who don't display feedback,wondering what they have to hide. R XX | |||
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"What i find hard to work out is if there are fake people with year old profiles why don't they put a new one up after 3/4 months? The age thing isn't a fool proof. It just says they are either fake, lazy, shy or not the best looking to us" Dont agree with you there,we met a couple who had been on here for 9 months they had no pics on profile but they were happy to email them to us,we met them and they wernt mingers! But,we are wary with profiles that are ever a yr old,we got loads of friends invites of profiles with no pics and long friends lists. | |||
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"but if people ask i will show them just to prove im not a bloke!! xx " Oi, you sure your not a bloke? | |||
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"but if people ask i will show them just to prove im not a bloke!! xx Oi, you sure your not a bloke? " hmmm if i am i have got a very small penis and someone has stole my balls!!! xx | |||
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"What i find hard to work out is if there are fake people with year old profiles why don't they put a new one up after 3/4 months? The age thing isn't a fool proof. It just says they are either fake, lazy, shy or not the best looking to us" If they put up a new one every few month thy will lose all their friends they have collected and with it the chance to view their pics. | |||
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"I agree, on the whole this is one way to spot a fake, but, We did meet a single guy with no verifications that had been on here for over 12 month, he was for real and said he didn't want verifying as he didn't want everyone knowing who he had met, etc. We also know for a fact he met others, as he met some others whilst with us. This is the first site I've been on where people leave verifications, and more importantly, people take such notice of them!! I can understand some people not wanting them, even if you can hide them - it's a personal preference, and I find it annoying that others personal choices are questioned. I like to make my own mind up about people and what someone finds "hot" could be luke warm to me. Some people are happy shagging away so don't have time to be leaving feedback...and good for them!! L.S,the site we used before this one also had feedback from meets. As we've only used these two sites we thought it was common practice. We do however find the feedback/verifications useful in choosing our meets. Say for instance a couple habitually meet the sort of ppl we wouldn't,ie:bare backers etc,then we wouldn't contact/meet them. Likewise we're sometimes suspicious of ppl who don't display feedback,wondering what they have to hide. R XX" Aaah yes you have a point there! I have decided not to meet someone because of their verifications and thinking I'm stupid! Fellas if you have straight on your profile having a verification from a gay man is not cool! | |||
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"I agree, on the whole this is one way to spot a fake, but, We did meet a single guy with no verifications that had been on here for over 12 month, he was for real and said he didn't want verifying as he didn't want everyone knowing who he had met, etc. We also know for a fact he met others, as he met some others whilst with us. This is the first site I've been on where people leave verifications, and more importantly, people take such notice of them!! I can understand some people not wanting them, even if you can hide them - it's a personal preference, and I find it annoying that others personal choices are questioned. I like to make my own mind up about people and what someone finds "hot" could be luke warm to me. Some people are happy shagging away so don't have time to be leaving feedback...and good for them!! L.S,the site we used before this one also had feedback from meets. As we've only used these two sites we thought it was common practice. We do however find the feedback/verifications useful in choosing our meets. Say for instance a couple habitually meet the sort of ppl we wouldn't,ie:bare backers etc,then we wouldn't contact/meet them. Likewise we're sometimes suspicious of ppl who don't display feedback,wondering what they have to hide. R XX Aaah yes you have a point there! I have decided not to meet someone because of their verifications and thinking I'm stupid! Fellas if you have straight on your profile having a verification from a gay man is not cool! " Don't give it away, they will just hide that verification or claim it was just a friendly meet as they're local. | |||
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"I agree, on the whole this is one way to spot a fake, but, We did meet a single guy with no verifications that had been on here for over 12 month, he was for real and said he didn't want verifying as he didn't want everyone knowing who he had met, etc. We also know for a fact he met others, as he met some others whilst with us. This is the first site I've been on where people leave verifications, and more importantly, people take such notice of them!! I can understand some people not wanting them, even if you can hide them - it's a personal preference, and I find it annoying that others personal choices are questioned. I like to make my own mind up about people and what someone finds "hot" could be luke warm to me. Some people are happy shagging away so don't have time to be leaving feedback...and good for them!! L.S,the site we used before this one also had feedback from meets. As we've only used these two sites we thought it was common practice. We do however find the feedback/verifications useful in choosing our meets. Say for instance a couple habitually meet the sort of ppl we wouldn't,ie:bare backers etc,then we wouldn't contact/meet them. Likewise we're sometimes suspicious of ppl who don't display feedback,wondering what they have to hide. R XX Aaah yes you have a point there! I have decided not to meet someone because of their verifications and thinking I'm stupid! Fellas if you have straight on your profile having a verification from a gay man is not cool! " Exactly,thats another reason but we didn't want to rattle any cages! XXXX | |||
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"I looked at the couples profile, it had 107 friends on the list Yet not a single verification of meeting anyone in 12 months." Yeah, but I bet they've got a huge collection of photos by now | |||
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"We received a friends invite yesterday, no message or anything to go with it. I looked at the couples profile, it had 107 friends on the list Yet not a single verification of meeting anyone in 12 months." and probably no pics of their own in their private gallery? | |||
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"Hi everyone, I mean no offence to genuine swingers on here. You can hide your personal pics, but what is there to hide who you met??? Hey, after all it is a Swingers site!! I'm only trying to put my view across... i do understand that different people have different opinions. Well, I still stick to my guns, no matter how you criticise me, cos the number of fakes outrun the number of genuine proiles on here... Just read the number of genuine people who are backing my opinion??? After all, you are on a swinger's site... " Don't agree with you there,the genuine people out number fakes on here,you must have been unlucky. Also,people hide their pics for different reasons,and because they can. we have face pics in private,does not mean we are fakes. | |||
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"In our case.....discretion....we like it and why we keep our own business to our ourselves. Obviously that might get us labeled as fakes, pic collectors or whatever else.....but to be honest, we don't care The only people that need to know who we are are the people we meet " The problem here is you are verified.. I think I started the thread with people not getting verified.. Try and open ur eyes when you reply to a forum | |||
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"In our case.....discretion....we like it and why we keep our own business to our ourselves. Obviously that might get us labeled as fakes, pic collectors or whatever else.....but to be honest, we don't care The only people that need to know who we are are the people we meet The problem here is you are verified.. I think I started the thread with people not getting verified.. Try and open ur eyes when you reply to a forum" Is there any need to be so rude? | |||
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"In our case.....discretion....we like it and why we keep our own business to our ourselves. Obviously that might get us labeled as fakes, pic collectors or whatever else.....but to be honest, we don't care The only people that need to know who we are are the people we meet The problem here is you are verified.. I think I started the thread with people not getting verified.. Try and open ur eyes when you reply to a forum Is there any need to be so rude?" You just took the words out of my mouth. | |||
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"Hi everyone, I mean no offence to genuine swingers on here. You can hide your personal pics, but what is there to hide who you met??? Hey, after all it is a Swingers site!! " I was answering this comment on my post......but sadly I didn't make myself clear enough as I hadn't quoted it. PS I will try and open my eyes more in future....you must forgive me as I am new | |||
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"In our case.....discretion....we like it and why we keep our own business to our ourselves. Obviously that might get us labeled as fakes, pic collectors or whatever else.....but to be honest, we don't care The only people that need to know who we are are the people we meet The problem here is you are verified.. I think I started the thread with people not getting verified.. Try and open ur eyes when you reply to a forum" lol, and you wonder why you are coming across so many fakes. | |||
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"Hi everyone, I mean no offence to genuine swingers on here. You can hide your personal pics, but what is there to hide who you met??? Hey, after all it is a Swingers site!! I was answering this comment on my post......but sadly I didn't make myself clear enough as I hadn't quoted it. PS I will try and open my eyes more in future....you must forgive me as I am new " Consider yourself told off! | |||
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"Hi everyone, I mean no offence to genuine swingers on here. You can hide your personal pics, but what is there to hide who you met??? Hey, after all it is a Swingers site!! I'm only trying to put my view across... i do understand that different people have different opinions. Absolutely, different people have different opinions. I do agree, but the whole point of this thread is to understand what people think about profiles that have no verifications or approved faces, YOU HAVE THEM BOTH - I am very curious with people with proiles, which are not photo verified or verified by meets. your thoughts will be much appreciated Well, I still stick to my guns, no matter how you criticise me, cos the number of fakes outrun the number of genuine proiles on here... Just read the number of genuine people who are backing my opinion??? After all, you are on a swinger's site... Don't agree with you there,the genuine people out number fakes on here,you must have been unlucky. Also,people hide their pics for different reasons,and because they can. we have face pics in private,does not mean we are fakes." | |||
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"Please do, that will do you no harm.. " It might do you no harm to read the forums too As others have said, there really is no need to be rude to others when getting your point across | |||
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"Please do, that will do you no harm.. It might do you no harm to read the forums too As others have said, there really is no need to be rude to others when getting your point across " Yeah jobbie face xxx | |||
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"I know was teasing, your verifications says you're not jobbie face Spreading the luuuurve " I was teasing too what is jobbie btw? lol | |||
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"does anyone go up to someone in a pub and say hi can i speak to some of the people you been with to verify you?? or can you give me a list of people you have had sex with?? " Can just imagine it now, is there anyone in here can verify that you’re up for it and not a timewaster | |||
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"I love you teasing me lol...a jobbie........erm.....erm......its a pooh " So you were teasing me and saying I had a face like a turd!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lmao mad woman.......and you learn something new every day.......a jobbie lol | |||
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"Hi everyone, I mean no offence to genuine swingers on here. You can hide your personal pics, but what is there to hide who you met??? Hey, after all it is a Swingers site!! I'm only trying to put my view across... i do understand that different people have different opinions. Well, I still stick to my guns, no matter how you criticise me, cos the number of fakes outrun the number of genuine proiles on here... Just read the number of genuine people who are backing my opinion??? After all, you are on a swinger's site... " Just because it is a swingers site it doesn't mean we all have to do the same thing and try to conform to what you (and others) may see as a genuine swinger! It's our own profiles, pics, verifications, etc and we can do what we want with them without others wanting us to be what they want us to be! If you don't like a certain profile then move onto one that you do like, it's not that difficult to work out! All of the above is said with my eyes open wide too | |||
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"Hi everyone, I mean no offence to genuine swingers on here. You can hide your personal pics, but what is there to hide who you met??? Hey, after all it is a Swingers site!! I'm only trying to put my view across... i do understand that different people have different opinions. Well, I still stick to my guns, no matter how you criticise me, cos the number of fakes outrun the number of genuine proiles on here... Just read the number of genuine people who are backing my opinion??? After all, you are on a swinger's site... " Some hide because they are discreet, some because to show who've they've met will limit potential meets, as I've said, men with straight on their profile verified by gay men!! But, the bottom line is people are free to do what they wish with their profiles. | |||
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"I am concerned with a person with no pics, no verfications and nout on their profile but interested in meeting me. I tend to look at a bit of everything to see. I read the profile and comments if they have them, ask the questions, maybe see them on cam if I am unsure they are who they say they are.... Lots of checks to keep myself safe. " Oooh...sorry for going off topic OP but I do like your corset! | |||
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"I am concerned with a person with no pics, no verfications and nout on their profile but interested in meeting me. I tend to look at a bit of everything to see. I read the profile and comments if they have them, ask the questions, maybe see them on cam if I am unsure they are who they say they are.... Lots of checks to keep myself safe. Oooh...sorry for going off topic OP but I do like your corset! " Thanks very much....ebay shop in china and very cheap. | |||
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"but if people ask i will show them just to prove im not a bloke!! xx Oi, you sure your not a bloke? hmmm if i am i have got a very small penis and someone has stole my balls!!! xx" There's a few guys like that on here | |||
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