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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just been asked by a slightly younger guy (him 36...me 45) if I have the stamina to keep up with him!

This guy is on a vanilla dating site and at present, has absolutely NO IDEA of my naughty side!

Answers on a postcard...suggestions? I want to say 'bless him' but I am too busy laughing!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been asked by a slightly younger guy (him 36...me 45) if I have the stamina to keep up with him!

This guy is on a vanilla dating site and at present, has absolutely NO IDEA of my naughty side!

Answers on a postcard...suggestions? I want to say 'bless him' but I am too busy laughing!!!! "

I'd let it be a terrifying surprise if you end up getting it on lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who larges it online tends to be cramp in the sack - from what other women have told me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet him and prove him wrong..lol every ones a winner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who larges it online tends to be cramp in the sack - from what other women have told me "

terrible thing cramp

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By *rnyashellcplCouple
over a year ago

Haydock

Dosnt he not know that woman are like a vintage red wine ?

We get stronger and taste better with age lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him you have the stamina to fuck him in bedroom, kitchen, bathroom and in living room.................Then tell him you live in caravan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who larges it online tends to be cramp in the sack - from what other women have told me

terrible thing cramp "

Oops typo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I simply told him that any man who wanted to 'date' me, better bring his game plan...or go and get one...before even considering spending any time with me!

Cramp? I'll give him more than cramp! Cheeky bugger!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

stamina is not just an age thing ...

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan
over a year ago

SPALDING

I have people my age who can't keep up with me. The ladies who are older than me like that im full of stamina. Gives us both a workout.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"stamina is not just an age thing ... "

Obviously! !! Thats my point??? Lol! I dont think anyone believes he is right!!!! He is a fool!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting that he is just starting to realise he is out of his depth! Poor thing! I think he realises he hadnt opened his mouth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My stamina builds the more sex I have. Funny enough

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan
over a year ago

SPALDING

Maybe you should meet up with him and chew him up and spit him out. He might learn a lesson then lol

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By *ity Slickers PartiesCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Brighton & Hove

Whatever you say... for Christ sake DO NOT tell him that you have been to a City Slickers Party and you used a tray full of condoms once! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell him you have the stamina to fuck him in bedroom, kitchen, bathroom and in living room.................Then tell him you live in caravan"

Lmao...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whatever you say... for Christ sake DO NOT tell him that you have been to a City Slickers Party and you used a tray full of condoms once! lol"

Lol!!!!! Sshhhhhh!!!!! Funny!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He says he is a generous and giving lover and just wanted to provoke a reaction as he really REALLY fancies me!!!!!

Really? Well he got one! I told him that NOONE who REALLY understands about a good sex life would ask such a dumb ass question and that his question told me everything I needed to know and saved me the bother of getting undressed!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't claim to have buckets of stamina, but I'm no five minute wonder either...for me the ideal time period for sex is whatever feels right for me and my partner at the time.

Anyway, we can always pillow chat between rounds x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He is begging for forgiveness now! See? Foolish smart ass words...coming back to literally bite him on the bum! Twit!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I won't claim to have buckets of stamina, but I'm no five minute wonder either...for me the ideal time period for sex is whatever feels right for me and my partner at the time.

Anyway, we can always pillow chat between rounds x"

Exactly! But you are talking as a wonderful lover who understands what great sex is! He is talking....like a man who clearly doesn't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take him up on his offer then teach his young buck ass a lesson

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Take him up on his offer then teach his young buck ass a lesson "

Nah! I am no ones teacher! He can get his private lessons elsewhere! He isn't that young! He is 36 so you would think he knew better but obviously not! I don't mind people being inexperienced or not knowing something. We are all learning! But no man should ask a woman older than him if she has the stamina to keep up with him! I am 45! Not 95!! Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you met him on a dating site he will be very careful what he says to a woman. Most women would run a mile if a man got too full on too early.

Presumably you haven't told him of your experiences yet. He may have had similar experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sooooo funny. Go on...take him on. I'm always being told that I'm going to be "ruined". I don't mind them trying though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who larges it online tends to be cramp in the sack - from what other women have told me "

I have to agree with that from my experience. 2 guys who larged it up weren't all that good and another no showed! The best meets I've had are ones who never felt the need to talk about sex and what they wanted to do etc.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Anyone who larges it online tends to be cramp in the sack - from what other women have told me

terrible thing cramp

Oops typo "

Yes it should have read "gets cramp" not "is cramp"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the chemistry is there, you will re-ignite each other time and again. I love the time-outs where you relax, and after a while feel the need build again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been asked by a slightly younger guy (him 36...me 45) if I have the stamina to keep up with him!

This guy is on a vanilla dating site and at present, has absolutely NO IDEA of my naughty side!

Answers on a postcard...suggestions? I want to say 'bless him' but I am too busy laughing!!!! "

Hes 36 so hes not that young and your not that old and like everyone says those who make out they are good usualy arent that good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I know is that I am 10 times better in the sack now then when I was 25 . Experience is a major asset when it comes to sex. The only thing is I don't repeat as well as I did when I was that age, but stamina is on a different level .

I'd take him on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who larges it online tends to be cramp in the sack - from what other women have told me

I have to agree with that from my experience. 2 guys who larged it up weren't all that good and another no showed! The best meets I've had are ones who never felt the need to talk about sex and what they wanted to do etc."

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

In my experience, older men tend to have more stamina. Maybe the experience and maturity has something to do with it?

We have only ever had one meet with a single male and he was young and his inexperience showed..

Us women need to be ruined!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience, older men tend to have more stamina. Maybe the experience and maturity has something to do with it?

We have only ever had one meet with a single male and he was young and his inexperience showed..

Us women need to be ruined!

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Experience and maturity for sure . I'm not worrying about coming too soon like I did when I was younger .

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Sooooo funny. Go on...take him on. I'm always being told that I'm going to be "ruined". I don't mind them trying though. "

Actually that's true, the ones who promise very rarely deliver. Still waiting....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you met him on a dating site he will be very careful what he says to a woman. Most women would run a mile if a man got too full on too early.

Presumably you haven't told him of your experiences yet. He may have had similar experiences."

I somehow can't see a man who HAS had similar experiences, asking such a question! Because he would know it isnt appropriate or relevant. Thats my view anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone who feels the need to brag about their sexual prowess and 'stamina' beforehand....is usually hugely disappointing in reality! Thats been my experience anyway..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you met him on a dating site he will be very careful what he says to a woman. Most women would run a mile if a man got too full on too early.

Presumably you haven't told him of your experiences yet. He may have had similar experiences.

I somehow can't see a man who HAS had similar experiences, asking such a question! Because he would know it isnt appropriate or relevant. Thats my view anyway."

Surely its more about the chemistry anyway though? I mean, if you like his pics and both enjoy your conversations, then isn't that more promising for an enjoyable meet rather than who has the most experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never cum untill she does. Stamina or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All I know is that I am 10 times better in the sack now then when I was 25 . Experience is a major asset when it comes to sex. The only thing is I don't repeat as well as I did when I was that age, but stamina is on a different level .

I'd take him on "

Well he is 37...not 25! But I agree with you. But I dont think its all about stamina anyway. Its soooo much more than that! He wants me to give him a chance but I always find braggars a turn off because they already have an attitude of something to prove and it just spoils it for me...especially when they rarely deliver what they say they can! I prefer men who are just themselves....relaxed and quietly confident.. not giving it large before they even met you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you met him on a dating site he will be very careful what he says to a woman. Most women would run a mile if a man got too full on too early.

Presumably you haven't told him of your experiences yet. He may have had similar experiences.

I somehow can't see a man who HAS had similar experiences, asking such a question! Because he would know it isnt appropriate or relevant. Thats my view anyway.

Surely its more about the chemistry anyway though? I mean, if you like his pics and both enjoy your conversations, then isn't that more promising for an enjoyable meet rather than who has the most experience?"

I agree! But he blew it for me....I just don't like that attitide some have...like they believe they are sooooooo amazing! 'I think its safer for a man to just let the womam decide for herself before building himself up for a letdown beforehand! I also don't think its all about stamina. Personally. ..I dont want just endless pounding! I like quality and chemistry and sensuality!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sooooo funny. Go on...take him on. I'm always being told that I'm going to be "ruined". I don't mind them trying though. "

Lol....clearly they havent ruined you yet! Still going strong!

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands


"In my experience, older men tend to have more stamina. Maybe the experience and maturity has something to do with it?

We have only ever had one meet with a single male and he was young and his inexperience showed..

Us women need to be ruined!

Experience and maturity for sure . I'm not worrying about coming too soon like I did when I was younger . "

I was used to a ten minute session up until just a few years ago. I thought it was normal! Lol! Now I'm in my element...

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands


"Anyone who feels the need to brag about their sexual prowess and 'stamina' beforehand....is usually hugely disappointing in reality! Thats been my experience anyway.. "

And mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who feels the need to brag about their sexual prowess and 'stamina' beforehand....is usually hugely disappointing in reality! Thats been my experience anyway.. "

or imo desperate,there is so much desperation on here that it puts you off.

Whatever happened to going with the flow for a hour atleast hahah

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Maybe he said it tongue in cheek and in a joking way....

I tend to switch off if a man or woman, starts going on about how fantastic they are in bed. More often than not they are the most disappointing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had men only a couple of years younger than me with more stamina than a 25 year old. There are unfit young people too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had a similar message once on this site.

my reply was

'the question is not whether or not i can, but rather why on earth i would want to'

knocked him on his ass, a bit. we never got it on, but he's now one of my closest friends lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh gawwd!! I need to start running soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience, older men tend to have more stamina. Maybe the experience and maturity has something to do with it?

We have only ever had one meet with a single male and he was young and his inexperience showed..

Us women need to be ruined!

"

Women need to be ruined?

Speak for yourself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had men only a couple of years younger than me with more stamina than a 25 year old. There are unfit young people too "

What's the definition of sexual stamina ? I thought it was the ability to last a long time and to be able to control when you orgasm . I'm guessing there may be other views , like the ability to repeat several times in a single session . What's your views ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older guys are much better at holding back orgasm and have great stamina, usually.Well they do if they are fit and experienced

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands


"In my experience, older men tend to have more stamina. Maybe the experience and maturity has something to do with it?

We have only ever had one meet with a single male and he was young and his inexperience showed..

Us women need to be ruined!

Women need to be ruined?

Speak for yourself...

"

Ruined? Spoilt? Why the shocked faces?

I'm sure "some" women do. Myself included. It works both ways too doesn't it? I love to ruin/spoil my man, that's for sure!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Older guys are much better at holding back orgasm and have great stamina, usually.Well they do if they are fit and experienced"

I have found younger men better. Stamina to me is overall time, however it is achieved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mature ladies are the best much better bjs and Its like living out my fantasies haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience, older men tend to have more stamina. Maybe the experience and maturity has something to do with it?

We have only ever had one meet with a single male and he was young and his inexperience showed..

Us women need to be ruined!

Women need to be ruined?

Speak for yourself...

Ruined? Spoilt? Why the shocked faces?

I'm sure "some" women do. Myself included. It works both ways too doesn't it? I love to ruin/spoil my man, that's for sure!

"

Ah sorry it's a language thing. I understood ruin to be totally different to spoil. Apologies.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had men only a couple of years younger than me with more stamina than a 25 year old. There are unfit young people too

What's the definition of sexual stamina ? I thought it was the ability to last a long time and to be able to control when you orgasm . I'm guessing there may be other views , like the ability to repeat several times in a single session . What's your views ?? "

Stamina is a sliding scale. At the bottom you have the men who want sucking and riding most of the time and fuck for a few minutes in between then cum and it's all over. The top end that I have experienced is someone who lets you suck for a while then fucks for an hour and a half, cumming 4 times and then makes tea. The fucking was rapid and non stop. But like I said it's a sliding scale and men with stamina don't always want to bang away like a kango

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dosnt he not know that woman are like a vintage red wine ?

We get stronger and taste better with age lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the chemistry is there, you will re-ignite each other time and again. I love the time-outs where you relax, and after a while feel the need build again. "

Yes, it's a great part of a good meet, when you can both relax, chill-out, chat, refresh with handily placed glass of squash, and find out what really pushed each-others buttons, so that when its time for the next round it becomes even better... R.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then there is the bull joke.....

An old bull and a young bull enter the field where the cows are. The young bull sees them and says "There are the cows!! Let us run over and have one!!" then old bull replies. "Let us walk over and have them all."

If a dildo on the end of a Kango hammer was the ultimate pleasure device for a woman Love Honey would sell them.

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