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By *my-black OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Poole

I find a polite excuse usually works.

Not really experienced rejection the other way as i very rarely make the first contact as im totally lacking in self confidence as amy so always wait for others to make the first contact.

as for people getting the hump and blocking you - its easy for people to be like that on the net and i would just think that they are the ones with the problem and leave them to it and not give a second thought.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you know the script that guys prefer to get an answer but a small minority react like fools....

he blocked you, move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds to me like you have just experienced the behaviour of the lesser spotted male assclown...

This breed of fucktards roam sites like this expecting all the females to be in awe of a small piece of flesh they have between their legs..they tend to let said piece of flesh think for them and rule their actions...with no car to the consequences...

There's not much you can do to deter them as they are drawn to pictures of flesh.. Your best bet is to just move on...

Seriously hun..you did NOTHING wrong you got a bad vibe and rightfully went with your instincts..put it to one side and move on...xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like a dobber...stick to wee small scottish mixedrace guys in my personal opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a tease if you reply but without intent to have sex and ignorant if you dont reply.

I was a single woman on here many moons ago, so I know first hand you cant win.

As they say, you cant please all the people, so just be yourself and dont let the issues of others change you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a good chit chat sometimes,its almost impossible on here without the word 'meet' being involved at some point,on the one hand I think thats a shame and on the other I should'nt expect any less because the site is what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey man, I may be an assclown but I certainly don't have spots.

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By *atinbootsTV/TS
over a year ago

Market Rasen


"Sounds to me like you have just experienced the behaviour of the lesser spotted male assclown...

This breed of fucktards roam sites like this expecting all the females to be in awe of a small piece of flesh they have between their legs..they tend to let said piece of flesh think for them and rule their actions...with no car to the consequences...

There's not much you can do to deter them as they are drawn to pictures of flesh.. Your best bet is to just move on...

Seriously hun..you did NOTHING wrong you got a bad vibe and rightfully went with your instincts..put it to one side and move on...xx

"

This reply is damn right You've done nothing wrong, some people just can't take being told "thanks but no thanks"... He's clearly not worth the time of day - sounds like a good job you never met him in person! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey man, I may be an assclown but I certainly don't have spots. "

We all have a little assclown in us we just learn to suppress it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this a lot as well . I get couples messaging and I never know weather to reply or not . If I say sorry I am not bi and FMF is not my cup of tea they get funny with me and ask if I have ever tried it . How can I say it's not my thing if I haven't tried it !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey man, I may be an assclown but I certainly don't have spots.

We all have a little assclown in us we just learn to suppress it "

You mean like clenching butt cheeks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds to me like you have just experienced the behaviour of the lesser spotted male assclown...

This breed of fucktards roam sites like this expecting all the females to be in awe of a small piece of flesh they have between their legs..they tend to let said piece of flesh think for them and rule their actions...with no car to the consequences...

There's not much you can do to deter them as they are drawn to pictures of flesh.. Your best bet is to just move on...

Seriously hun..you did NOTHING wrong you got a bad vibe and rightfully went with your instincts..put it to one side and move on...xx

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agree totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get this a lot as well . I get couples messaging and I never know weather to reply or not . If I say sorry I am not bi and FMF is not my cup of tea they get funny with me and ask if I have ever tried it . How can I say it's not my thing if I haven't tried it !! "

I've never tried setting my cock on fire but I'm pretty sure its 'not my thing'..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get why lads find rejection so bad, I couldn't sleep with someone who I wasn't attracted to and I also wouldn't want to sleep with someone who wasn't attracted to me, without a mutual attraction the sex would just be dead! Which is why it baffles me when people sleep with anything with a pulse!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rejection some cant take its his problem he has to sort out if you were nice about it then he has to ask himself why he reacted so bad you just stick to being the way you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind having a chat and if am not for you hey go what can you do some people are up there own arse on here but what can you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get this a lot as well . I get couples messaging and I never know weather to reply or not . If I say sorry I am not bi and FMF is not my cup of tea they get funny with me and ask if I have ever tried it . How can I say it's not my thing if I haven't tried it !! "

OMG yes I've had this loads of times too. So many women have asked if they can sway my decision but I know if i'm straight or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for all your posts.

I certainly don't think I did anything wrong, and I couldn't give two hoots if he was abusive, or blocked me I'm much thicker skinned than that and the furthest from arrogant as you could get.

It's laughable really

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I get this a lot as well . I get couples messaging and I never know weather to reply or not . If I say sorry I am not bi and FMF is not my cup of tea they get funny with me and ask if I have ever tried it . How can I say it's not my thing if I haven't tried it !!

OMG yes I've had this loads of times too. So many women have asked if they can sway my decision but I know if i'm straight or not "

I went to my first club last year and was questioned by a female why I was straight! Just said I had no inclination...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get this a lot as well . I get couples messaging and I never know weather to reply or not . If I say sorry I am not bi and FMF is not my cup of tea they get funny with me and ask if I have ever tried it . How can I say it's not my thing if I haven't tried it !!

OMG yes I've had this loads of times too. So many women have asked if they can sway my decision but I know if i'm straight or not

I went to my first club last year and was questioned by a female why I was straight! Just said I had no inclination... "

does that mean i can untuck my cock now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get this a lot as well . I get couples messaging and I never know weather to reply or not . If I say sorry I am not bi and FMF is not my cup of tea they get funny with me and ask if I have ever tried it . How can I say it's not my thing if I haven't tried it !!

OMG yes I've had this loads of times too. So many women have asked if they can sway my decision but I know if i'm straight or not

I went to my first club last year and was questioned by a female why I was straight! Just said I had no inclination... "

Questioned why you are straight? Can you imagine the backlash if we questioned why someone was bisexual or gay? Good grief!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Trust your gut feelings and instinct! (Never fails us)... And quite right, no ones business who got kids or not... And frankly totaly irrelevent ... Always gonna be the odd one out there. Least you saw the true colours straight away! Just carry on and enjoy

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I get this a lot as well . I get couples messaging and I never know weather to reply or not . If I say sorry I am not bi and FMF is not my cup of tea they get funny with me and ask if I have ever tried it . How can I say it's not my thing if I haven't tried it !!

OMG yes I've had this loads of times too. So many women have asked if they can sway my decision but I know if i'm straight or not

I went to my first club last year and was questioned by a female why I was straight! Just said I had no inclination...

does that mean i can untuck my cock now..."
lol

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed the OP sorry. Not sure the guy in question would appreciate half of a conversation being posted on the forum

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