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By *800 M101 OP   Man
over a year ago

County Durham

This is my first post on the forum but just had to say something lol.

I've been on fab a while to now in fact a couple of years. So know what to expect. I just have to share this with everyone & your to comment your own opinion.

I'm minding my own business on fab when suddenly out of nowhere a woman messages me. "Wow" I thought & all was good. But then she started having a go at me because I was bi.

My thought is, why contact me when I'm not what your looking for in the first place? At least I don't hide it like some of the "straight" guys on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people have nothing better to do, ignore them, they are sad. I've had a couple of people message out of the blue calling me fat and one saying I was fake as I hid my verifications. My profile, I run it my way.

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By *800 M101 OP   Man
over a year ago

County Durham

Thanks I replied with none offensive messages to her & she eventually gave up on it.

I think she was just looking for a reaction. Well she got one just not how she expected lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks I replied with none offensive messages to her & she eventually gave up on it.

I think she was just looking for a reaction. Well she got one just not how she expected lol."

I'm always really nice and a little sarcastic when I reply to abusive messages but they normally block me so I can't!! Its an odd place on here at times!

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By *800 M101 OP   Man
over a year ago

County Durham

Well that's kind of how I replied. Guess she didn't like it lol.

I would never have a go at someone because they like a certain thing or are different. It would be a boring world if everyone was the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks I replied with none offensive messages to her & she eventually gave up on it.

I think she was just looking for a reaction. Well she got one just not how she expected lol.

I'm always really nice and a little sarcastic when I reply to abusive messages but they normally block me so I can't!! Its an odd place on here at times!"

I have had a spate of abusive messages recently from men and one particularly spiteful one from a woman. All have sent and then blocked, I don't take the messages personally, they are in no position to judge me since they don't know me.

I think it just shows them up for the pathetic and cowardly individuals they are that they feel the need to be unkind but don't have the bottle to let you reply - I do a great line in sarcasm but to be honest it would likely be wasted on them. Their messages say far more about them than they ever do about me.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm a bit bi, but only had two abusive messages. I feel I must be doing something wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks I replied with none offensive messages to her & she eventually gave up on it.

I think she was just looking for a reaction. Well she got one just not how she expected lol.

I'm always really nice and a little sarcastic when I reply to abusive messages but they normally block me so I can't!! Its an odd place on here at times!

I have had a spate of abusive messages recently from men and one particularly spiteful one from a woman. All have sent and then blocked, I don't take the messages personally, they are in no position to judge me since they don't know me.

I think it just shows them up for the pathetic and cowardly individuals they are that they feel the need to be unkind but don't have the bottle to let you reply - I do a great line in sarcasm but to be honest it would likely be wasted on them. Their messages say far more about them than they ever do about me. "

Totally agree. They are trying to boost their fragile egos as they have no self confidence, sad really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea why people send abusive messages out of the blue, they must be bored.

Sometimes I'd love to say something to a few people on here but it would be relevant to a forum post, but I don't

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By *800 M101 OP   Man
over a year ago

County Durham

Thanks for the support & positivity on here.

I was a bit hesitant at posting on here because I didn't know what reaction I would get.

We need more open minded people on fab after all its a swingers site & were all here to enjoy ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bit bi, but only had two abusive messages. I feel I must be doing something wrong. "

Weirdo!

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is my first post on the forum but just had to say something lol.

I've been on fab a while to now in fact a couple of years. So know what to expect. I just have to share this with everyone & your to comment your own opinion.

I'm minding my own business on fab when suddenly out of nowhere a woman messages me. "Wow" I thought & all was good. But then she started having a go at me because I was bi.

My thought is, why contact me when I'm not what your looking for in the first place? At least I don't hide it like some of the "straight" guys on here.

"

Agree with everyone else. She was no doubt bored... or not even a she. Chin up. x

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By *800 M101 OP   Man
over a year ago

County Durham


"This is my first post on the forum but just had to say something lol.

I've been on fab a while to now in fact a couple of years. So know what to expect. I just have to share this with everyone & your to comment your own opinion.

I'm minding my own business on fab when suddenly out of nowhere a woman messages me. "Wow" I thought & all was good. But then she started having a go at me because I was bi.

My thought is, why contact me when I'm not what your looking for in the first place? At least I don't hide it like some of the "straight" guys on here.

Agree with everyone else. She was no doubt bored... or not even a she. Chin up. x"

Your probably right there. Come to think of it. I've been having a flurry of time Wasters at the moment. I wouldn't be surprised if they are all from the same person with multiple accounts lol.

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

We 've found that we only get abusive mail onthis site . And come to the cconclusion its because it a free site .other site you have to pay a membership to contact people so yoy don't get the abuse .a shame really cos it just goes to show that negative things are cheap lol

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

Probably just opened yourselves up for more abuse now lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I'm a bit bi, but only had two abusive messages. I feel I must be doing something wrong.

Weirdo!

x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeahh there are some total fuckwits out there..glad to hear the arse was a woman lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an aside you have a really beautiful cock.

Sorry about the idiots, there are some but thankfully not that many. You did the right thing, deep breath and then move on up.

Don't make their issues your issues.

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By *800 M101 OP   Man
over a year ago

County Durham


"We 've found that we only get abusive mail onthis site . And come to the cconclusion its because it a free site .other site you have to pay a membership to contact people so yoy don't get the abuse .a shame really cos it just goes to show that negative things are cheap lol"

I wish I could afford the membership of those other sites lol

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By *800 M101 OP   Man
over a year ago

County Durham


"As an aside you have a really beautiful cock.

Sorry about the idiots, there are some but thankfully not that many. You did the right thing, deep breath and then move on up.

Don't make their issues your issues.

"

Thanks that made me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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We need more open minded people on fab after all its a swingers site & were all here to enjoy ourselves. "

I'm my experience of ten yrs playng swingers are the most closed minded people of all, they only see what they like and want and dismiss everyone else and their wants.

Just delete block and never feel the need to justify yourself to anyone.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i don't nunderstand why anyone would waste their time sending abusive messages oat random ... they are only going to get blocke d and deleted

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts


"As an aside you have a really beautiful cock.

Sorry about the idiots, there are some but thankfully not that many. You did the right thing, deep breath and then move on up.

Don't make their issues your issues.

"

I agree on both points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There really is sum dumb fucks about. Instead of being on here and enjoying themselves they hv to b nasty to ppl.

Hope karma bites them on their asses.

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By *800 M101 OP   Man
over a year ago

County Durham


"As an aside you have a really beautiful cock.

Sorry about the idiots, there are some but thankfully not that many. You did the right thing, deep breath and then move on up.

Don't make their issues your issues.

I agree on both points "

Thanks

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By *800 M101 OP   Man
over a year ago

County Durham


"There really is sum dumb fucks about. Instead of being on here and enjoying themselves they hv to b nasty to ppl.

Hope karma bites them on their asses."

Yeah I don't see the point in it. If you don't like someone for whatever reason. Pass them by, it's as easy as that.

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By *uy4couplesMan
over a year ago

south kent

don't let it get you down my friend get up dust your self down and walk on. you can always pm me, anytime, if you want to talk.

you will often find that's why so many single guys state they are straight, although some are not,

to avoid any come back as they all know that couples don't like bi guys when searching for straight guys,,

pm me

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By *800 M101 OP   Man
over a year ago

County Durham


"don't let it get you down my friend get up dust your self down and walk on. you can always pm me, anytime, if you want to talk.

you will often find that's why so many single guys state they are straight, although some are not,

to avoid any come back as they all know that couples don't like bi guys when searching for straight guys,,

pm me"

I'd of understanded if it was me that contacted her. But it was her that contacted me lol. I've had plenty couples say no when I've contacted then & it doesn't bother me because that's there preface. It was just her contacting me then having a go about it that got me a little wound up, mostly confused as to why in the first place lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bit bi, but only had two abusive messages. I feel I must be doing something wrong. "

If you'd like some I'm sure we could have a whip-round for some for you... xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't understand what posseses someone to message a profile purely to have a go about something that does'nt affect them or their life in the slightest

They need to go and have a wank to chill the fuck out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't understand what posseses someone to message a profile purely to have a go about something that does'nt affect them or their life in the slightest

They need to go and have a wank to chill the fuck out "

I guess it makes their sad pathetic self feel better to boost their fragile ego at someone else's expense!

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