FabSwingers.com forum: saying hello to meets outside a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has this happened to anyone say like in a supermarket or pub and what would\did you do...And what if they were with another partner...

Just a simple smile and hi

A full on greeting

Or ignore each other knowing its a separate side if your lives..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who I was with and if they was alone, if they said hi first I would say hi back, I would only smile and say hello first if we was both alone, other wise just walk by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something I discuss with guys I meet to avoid any awkward situations. We generally agree to smile and leave it at that. Never run into anyone yet though x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Has this happened to anyone say like in a supermarket or pub and what would\did you do...And what if they were with another partner...

Just a simple smile and hi

A full on greeting

Or ignore each other knowing its a separate side if your lives.."

entirely depends. If they were alone we would say a cheery hello and walk on, if they were with other people we'd take our cue from them and acknowledge them if it looked as if we could do so and preserve their discretion. Met loads of people last Sauturday at a social and it could be awkward for some if we were to approach them while they were in company so we wouldn't dream of doing so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its never happened but id like to think we would definitely say hi and catch up, I have no regrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would depend on who it was. We have some local friends from the fet scene that we'd chat too, bit others who we know valuew their privacy who would would not speak to unless they spoke to us first.

If we don't know someone well enough to make an informed decision on whether it's appropriate then we pass them by with no acknowledgement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's something I discuss with local men I meet now. I very nearly put my foot in it when I went to say Hi to a 'single' man I'd met only to realise very quickly that the woman walking a few paces behind him was the wife he forgot to tell me about!

Someone mailed me the other day and said they thought they'd seen me in the supermarket but decided against saying Hi as they weren't 100% sure lol Not someone I've met so he only had the memory of my pic to go by.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would walk on.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

we've seen quite a few couples that we've recognised from their pictures on here although we haven't met them, we would never say hello to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, walk on by.

Discretion in the swinging world is a must.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saw someone we met today ....he said hi to Ian then i walked round corner he said hi to Me all we did was say hello think he was with partner so left it at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I scream "helloooo bigcockforguys69" at the top of my lungs, push his wife out of the way and start dry humping his leg while sticking my tongue in his ear.

Discretion is my middle name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I scream "helloooo bigcockforguys69" at the top of my lungs, push his wife out of the way and start dry humping his leg while sticking my tongue in his ear.

Discretion is my middle name."

genuinely chuckling loudly at this

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd expect a little 'off meet' discretion. My fuckbuddy and I have agreed to ignore each other if we ever see each other in Brighton. Unless we were alone, then a smile and hello would be polite.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I pride myself on discretion. Also when I'm outside, I'm in my little world.... I sometimes don't notice my best mate, she has to tap me on the shoulder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As most of those we've met have become friends we'd stop and have a good chat, maybe over a cuppa.

Might even go back to ours!

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"I scream "helloooo bigcockforguys69" at the top of my lungs, push his wife out of the way and start dry humping his leg while sticking my tongue in his ear.

Discretion is my middle name."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take my cue from them but wouldn't expect acknowledgement in the street particularly if either of us was with anyone else...that said with very good friends we've really connected with, we've majorly crossed over...been to family parties and work do's...I think relationships are constantly evolving...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have bumped into meets while out shopping and stopped and chatted,we've been on normal nights out with some,we make friends,we're more than able to control our sexual urges in a normal setting,I don't run up to people in the street waving my knickers above my head shouting "fuck me now"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have bumped into meets while out shopping and stopped and chatted,we've been on normal nights out with some,we make friends,we're more than able to control our sexual urges in a normal setting,I don't run up to people in the street waving my knickers above my head shouting "fuck me now"

AWWWWW!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I scream "helloooo bigcockforguys69" at the top of my lungs, push his wife out of the way and start dry humping his leg while sticking my tongue in his ear.

Discretion is my middle name."

Hahahah...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bumped into the wife of a couple I met with in a shop,we both pretended to ignore each other.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

regularly see a guy we met whilst walking our dog ...hes with a girlfriend/wife which came as abit of a shock as he was on a single guy profile so just a polite smile and walk on by

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

Pretty much everyone we have ever met we have remained friends with so bumping into them outside the play scene is not a problem

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

I had this happen last saturday on a night out, another fab member recognised me outside my hotel, he came up to me and said hello.

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By *kyhighstilettoCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Didn't exactly say hello but we saw a meet in tesco.unfortunately for him he was with someone who was clearly his girlfriend,who we knew nothing about(we don't see attached people if partners are not aware).

I clocked him,he clocked me,and nothing at all was said.he'd been rumbled being a naughty boy but I saw no sense in doing a reveal

he looked suitably embarrassed and kept his head down.i just smirked

Later on that evening we jumped on fab to check his profile; funnily enough it was gone, having been there,along with his verification for us, only the day before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happened to me the other day. I saw a guy that a met last year in boots but he was with another woman. I just carried on doing what I was doing and then left the store!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As we only like one off meets we would probably prefer to walk on by but thats sometimes difficult after a period of time as we forget what they look like. So when we pass someone who smiles and says hello wed probly say hello back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some did say "Hey cocksnogger" once and I made excuses to my friend and said it was a psychiatric patient at the hospital we were looking after. On the other side of the coin I followed a 'single ' guy round Asda I had met that somehow inherited a wife and kids he forgot to mention. Some would call it stalking I called it let's play the panic game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me try and get to meet someone from London first. Then' i'd get back to you lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would simply say hi and walk on ....just as i would if i saw anyone else i knew....I dont see what the drama in that is.

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By *obbobeanMan
over a year ago

dagenham

I think the main aim for everyone who swings is discretion, so this should be shown at all times. Like most people have said a simple smile wink etc as an acknowledgement should do. If you are both alone then maybe a quick chat is in order once your wink or smile was recpricated. In my experience where there are a lot of couples out there who openly swing there are more who do it secretly. And then of course there is the countless ones swinging behind a partners back. So for me its DISCRETION every time. I have met people outside and just winked/smiled like i say, had some wink/smile and walk by (no proboem with that) others stop chat and even share a beer with. And on one occasion ended up with another round of sex.

DISCRETION

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol x last week a guy said hi n then winked at me at a bar x

I've haven't experienced such terror in a long time x total opposite to how I normal feel here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll just smile or wink x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to us....We Just said hello as you would someone who you used to go to school with, she was with her kids after all

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We have seen a few people while out and about shopping etc. How we react depends on how well we know them and who they/we are with.

Some we will happily stop and chat with and others we would just smile at and walk on by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bumped into the wife of a couple I met with in a shop,we both pretended to ignore each other."

Can you pretend to ignore someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bumped into the wife of a couple I met with in a shop,we both pretended to ignore each other.

Can you pretend to ignore someone

Maybe acted would have been a better choice of word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some did say "Hey cocksnogger" once and I made excuses to my friend and said it was a psychiatric patient at the hospital we were looking after. On the other side of the coin I followed a 'single ' guy round Asda I had met that somehow inherited a wife and kids he forgot to mention. Some would call it stalking I called it let's play the panic game

Pmsl love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I scream "helloooo bigcockforguys69" at the top of my lungs, push his wife out of the way and start dry humping his leg while sticking my tongue in his ear.

Discretion is my middle name."

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

I like to keep the fab side separate from other aspects of my life. I'm honest and happy to chat about my life when I'm on a meet. However I would not want my fab friends to mix with my other friends.

So if I saw anybody outside a meet I would not approach them or want them to approach me if either of us had other friends with us. If we were both on our own then I'd say hello at least, maybe chat if they wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its never happened but id like to think we would definitely say hi and catch up, I have no regrets

This

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I stopped and had a chat with a meet after I bumped Into him in town with his mum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've just walked into a pub behind someone we know quite well but she was with people and didn't see us...dropped her a text and she came over and said hi...discretion was maintained and we had a nice catch up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've just walked into a pub behind someone we know quite well but she was with people and didn't see us...dropped her a text and she came over and said hi...discretion was maintained and we had a nice catch up...

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It doesn't bother me much as single and very open about my lifestyle, however I would probably smile at others. leave it up to them to say hello as you don't know who may be close by, kids, other half, friends etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have met them as a couple and on thier own at shops, local events...and wouldnt dream of walking by without saying hello as not just super sexy peeps but good friends too.....

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