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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What are peoples _iews on playing alone is it good idea or not ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what I've seen of peoples input on this if the girl does it it's fine if the lad does it it's a lad pretending to be a couple? But what ever floats your boats I guess!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are peoples _iews on playing alone is it good idea or not ? "

Do you mean if you are part of a couple? cos all singles play alone of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not for us to judge, if you are honest and open with each other I see no problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you feel like doing it do it, personally we'd not meet a single from a couples profile or a couple from a singles profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes if you in a couple should you play together or should you also play alone

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"What are peoples _iews on playing alone is it good idea or not ? "

It depends entirely on the people involved and how they feel about it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes if you in a couple should you play together or should you also play alone "

There's no should about it, some enjoy playing separately some don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think maybe it's not for many people, you have to be very secure in yourself, in one another and in the strength of your relationship. I'd say if someone isn't sure then don't do it, you can't take back what you've done.

We do play together and alone but when we met 14 years ago (on a sex site) we agreed at that point that monogamy wasn't important to either of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If neither of you cares if the other does it what's to discuss? You might enjoy telling each other what you got up to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeh understand that just wondered what peoples _iews was if someone messaged from a couple but was playing alone would that put you off

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

not for us but then neither are the 3ps lol but whatever keeps your boat afloat we say lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yeh understand that just wondered what peoples _iews was if someone messaged from a couple but was playing alone would that put you off "

Yes it would not because we have a problem with it just because it's not for us.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the only problem I see is 'if the lady gets more meets than the guy'......... and the odds are on that she will.

If any form of resentment appears, stop....

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

enjoy if you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very hungover and i read that as playing alone as in masturbating! dohhhh

although i have no probs playing alone in any way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very hungover and i read that as playing alone as in masturbating! dohhhh

although i have no probs playing alone in any way "

masturbating all good as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you SHOULDNT do either, its up to you to judge your own dynamic and decide what you do.

we wouldnt, and wouldnt entertain others that are.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"What are peoples _iews on playing alone is it good idea or not ? "

Wanking is dirty and makes you go blind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are fairly fluid in how we play and I played alone for the first time last night. We were at a fet event with a couples room and I played in there while crystal danced with friends (though she did join us later in the night).

We'd definately do it again but only if it felt right at the time and it's probably not something we'd actively plan to do. We've talked about it today and will only do it in quite strict circumstances - it would certainly have to be someone that we both knew and not just a random meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done, and would do.

However, if we were contacted by a couples profile and only one of them wanted to play we'd say no.

This is because we try and avoid single men posing as a couple (ok he might have a few fb's at various points) and as we are equal ops, because we would decline a male, we would also decline a female.

If a single gets in touch and then drops into pm that they have another... we report from that message; as they arnt single.

This is just our method though

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