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Confidence and arrogance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there just me who believed there Is thin line between confidence and arrogance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm not overly keen on confident people to be honest, they come over as cocky, I like people who are just normal, down to earth people

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Is there just me who believed there Is thin line between confidence and arrogance? "

It's a well known phrase so I guess many people have used it for years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'm not overly keen on confident people to be honest, they come over as cocky, I like people who are just normal, down to earth people "

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Another area where men can't win. To much confidence and your a big headed arsehole to little and your a pussy that needs to grow a pair

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Confident people don't need to say they are, arrogant people will always let you know 'they're just confident'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

exactly my point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to tread this line very carefully and do step over it at times.

As much from being boisterous as anything else.

That said if I come across as arrogant sometimes there are those that enjoy it as well as those who are put off by it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another area where men can't win. To much confidence and your a big headed arsehole to little and your a pussy that needs to grow a pair"

bit defensive there, who said only men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer a very confident guy so it wins with me.

As long as you're not a strutting peacock like a Ronaldo who appears to see no wrong in himself but hardly anyone is THAT vain.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to tread this line very carefully and do step over it at times.

As much from being boisterous as anything else.

That said if I come across as arrogant sometimes there are those that enjoy it as well as those who are put off by it x"

really? you have found some actually like arrogance?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Women can be equally arrogant also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women can be equally arrogant also "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

quietly confident does it for me everytime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm not arrogant I just know i'm basically gorgeous and even guy on this site should be grateful to meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people like you,they'll say you're confident

If they don't they'll say you're arrogant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another area where men can't win. To much confidence and your a big headed arsehole to little and your a pussy that needs to grow a pair"
who said it was just men ?

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over a year ago

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I like quietly confident men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to tread this line very carefully and do step over it at times.

As much from being boisterous as anything else.

That said if I come across as arrogant sometimes there are those that enjoy it as well as those who are put off by it x

really? you have found some actually like arrogance? "

Yes, I have. but then it's probably quite obvious from talking from me that coming across as that way doesn't necessarily mean you are. I try to be a nice guy at the base, and I like simple things. Opinionated, stubborn and confident might be better. To some, this will be arrogant, to others, confident. Just depends on the chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how can I be cocky when I know I have the best cock on fab or in the entire world ffs?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I dont agree. Some people on here have their heads so far up there own arses its unbelievable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to tread this line very carefully and do step over it at times.

As much from being boisterous as anything else.

That said if I come across as arrogant sometimes there are those that enjoy it as well as those who are put off by it x"

you? Arrogant..noooo!

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

A very thin line indeed...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

quietly confident i see

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Arrogance is good if they back it up nothing worse than all talk and no trousers!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or is it confidence that's needed to pull off ones arrogance..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Can't stand arrogance and there's certainly a few on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or all talk and a tiny cock lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to tread this line very carefully and do step over it at times.

As much from being boisterous as anything else.

That said if I come across as arrogant sometimes there are those that enjoy it as well as those who are put off by it x

you? Arrogant..noooo! "

hahahaha Thing is I'm a nice guy and I now my plus points and I know my flaws, to call them as such. But I'm also very open so I'll talk about anything and with complete honesty and if I happen to be talking about my track record in the bedroom or my abilities with IT for instance then yes, it will sound arrogant lol

But I've always been of the opinion to not worry too much about what others think about you, be yourself and if people want to judge then that's fine, if they get on with me then that's fine. By the same token I don't get too worried about what other folks are like or do. Live and let live xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arrogance is good if they back it up nothing worse than all talk and no trousers!!"

that's true, i've met some very arrogance men who really have nothing to be arrogant about, and yet I've met some really good looking guys who are just so modest and don't see it

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over a year ago

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Ok thanks guys, I just came here for an honest conversation, not to be character assasinated and have a few cheap one liners put to me."
your funny cause its obvious your playing up to it. Some people are just up their own arses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I even like a bit of arrogance, if the guy has the goods.

I think cocky is very sexy in the moment and if you're feeling submissive you want the guy to be confident and dare I say have an air of arrogance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok thanks guys, I just came here for an honest conversation, not to be character assasinated and have a few cheap one liners put to me.your funny cause its obvious your playing up to it. Some people are just up their own arses

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There is an element of caricature and probably an element of real arrogance too I'd imagine, I'm not perfect

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

same here hunni x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I even like a bit of arrogance, if the guy has the goods.

I think cocky is very sexy in the moment and if you're feeling submissive you want the guy to be confident and dare I say have an air of arrogance. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are always going to get some people for and against , but in my experience of life I've found that those who feel threatened by confident people , quite often have self esteem issues , and often mistake it for arrogance .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people like you,they'll say you're confident

If they don't they'll say you're arrogant "

So true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are always going to get some people for and against , but in my experience of life I've found that those who feel threatened by confident people , quite often have self esteem issues , and often mistake it for arrogance . "

Often self esteem can be situational or contextual. It may be something about that person that reminds them of another person from their past which gave them a bad experience.

You know how when some people pick baby names and for some reason they say NO to a perfectly fine name, then you discover that 13 years ago at school they knew another "Incontinetia Buttocks" who just was very annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant stand arrogant people but sometimes i like them if they are arrogant in a funny way, not taking themselves too seriously. someone might come across as arrogant because you dont realy know them properly.

me and my son think that my sister in laws arrogant, where as she thinks shes confident, she likes to think she knows it all a lot of the time.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often use the sniffing gusset method when selecting a possible partner, then make a decision based on the level of estrogen detected.

It's not arrogance, it's confidence in my abilities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have low self esteem and I've never been overly confident but I'm working on it I like people who are quietly confident. Arrogance is very off putting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have low self esteem and I've never been overly confident but I'm working on it I like people who are quietly confident. Arrogance is very off putting!"

This but I'm not working on it. After all what's the point really. Oh and very low self-esteem yet again has reared it's ugly head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence can be shown by body language. Arrogance usually comes out of the mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have low self esteem and I've never been overly confident but I'm working on it I like people who are quietly confident. Arrogance is very off putting!

This but I'm not working on it. After all what's the point really. Oh and very low self-esteem yet again has reared it's ugly head "

I'm sorry you feel like that. The point is to want to feel better about yourself. I'm not going to let the b****d who sapped all my confidence win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone got any spare confidence? You can deliver in person lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am neither confident nor arrogant.

probably a little too shy for my own good, but meh, i seem to get by

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'm afraid I do seem to specialise in the arrogant narcissist, haha!! I've always liked confident men of all sorts, and cocky or even arrogant men don't phase me, some of my best friends are total peacocks!!

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Woman can get away on this site tho. An arrogant/overly confident woman will still get just as many messages and offers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is a preference of the habitual voyeur of what is known as....

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I don't need to be arrogant , I'm far too good looking and exceptional x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are always going to get some people for and against , but in my experience of life I've found that those who feel threatened by confident people , quite often have self esteem issues , and often mistake it for arrogance .

Often self esteem can be situational or contextual. It may be something about that person that reminds them of another person from their past which gave them a bad experience.

You know how when some people pick baby names and for some reason they say NO to a perfectly fine name, then you discover that 13 years ago at school they knew another "Incontinetia Buttocks" who just was very annoying."

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By *ingjayMan
over a year ago

exeter

It's good to have both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance 'I am better than everyone else'

Confidence 'I am as good as anyone else'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogant people lack confidence in themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arrogance 'I am better than everyone else'

Confidence 'I am as good as anyone else'"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arrogance 'I am better than everyone else'

Confidence 'I am as good as anyone else'"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have low self esteem and I've never been overly confident but I'm working on it I like people who are quietly confident. Arrogance is very off putting!

This but I'm not working on it. After all what's the point really. Oh and very low self-esteem yet again has reared it's ugly head

I'm sorry you feel like that. The point is to want to feel better about yourself. I'm not going to let the b****d who sapped all my confidence win. "

Good for you. Ive allowed my lack of self esteem to be men related

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woman can get away on this site tho. An arrogant/overly confident woman will still get just as many messages and offers. "

and thats mens faults for putting up with their shit rather than slap them down like women would men.

only got yourselves to blame

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