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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We generally go to clubs for the social side and have private meets at home for playing. What does everyone else prefer. Clubs or private?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs for me every time - although I occasionally make exceptions for outstanding males but it is very rare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both really. We cant accommodate so either we book into a hotel or arrange to meet at a club !

Weve had 5 meets .... 3 at clubs and 2 private !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like a bit of both to be honest. Being watched by a few guys is always a turn on, but private meets are a bit more relaxed and laid back

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By *aul.J.JMan
over a year ago

Sedgley

As a newbie to the scene I'd say private (hotel) meet first until i get more confident then hey let the good times roll

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've never been to a club so private houses (mainly) for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private with guys I know well and clubs or parties for networking and meeting new people

Both can be awesome fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

clubs, unless we have met before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club meets are usually best - if you don't click, you can move on to the next!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs for sure makes it that lol bit more exciting and naughty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs, feels safer to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We generally go to clubs for the social side and have private meets at home for playing. What does everyone else prefer. Clubs or private?"

Clubs for meeting new people.

Private hotel meets for private playing.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"Clubs for sure makes it that lol bit more exciting and naughty! "

For us too...

You can have more than one meet in a night...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs for sure makes it that lol bit more exciting and naughty! "

Lil bit*

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We love the clubs! Doesn't matter if you get let down you can still have a great night.

We do meet private between club visits but more so with those we have already played with.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have been to the clubs 3 times and never played. Just used it more as a social and still had a really good laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs for me. Whilst I've had some great private meets and met some lovely people, the thrill and atmosphere of a club has the edge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has been private for me. Mutual trust and respect has always been there so have had some fab weekend meets.

...still a newbie to the clubs. But, i did like it there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private meets for me like to focus solely on what I am doing no distractions. I only go to clubs for socials every now and then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking forward to my first club visit in a few weeks but looking forward to the one on one before and after too

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

We prefer private meets small groups or just 4 of us. Although we did travel to meet a couple at their local club only because we had played a couple of times befor so chilled in club then took a private room with our friends for fun.

Not confident enough for big room fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs every time ... no let downs , it's great dressing up for the night , variety , the atmosphere and an all round night out

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

Definitely clubs. We love the atmosphere better

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We started out by clubbing and after a while started doing a few home meets. A couple of years later the balance had shifted from mostly clubbing to mostly home play. We tend to play at home with good friends and go clubbing mainly for casual sex with strangers.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

clubs and the occasional hotel meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends what we fancy...we like private meets and to accomodate ourselves generally...J just feels more in control...who's watching, who's touching etc and whether or not to initiate play...

we have had some fantastic times at clubs though...we do enjoy the social side and if we fancy being part of a larger group or making new connections they're ideal without the usual issues that you get on here...

we also like parties, for a bit of the best of both worlds but as in clubs, if it's not your party, you have to rely on someone elses vetting of the people who are there...in our own home, we have total control over that...

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer private meets myself to clubs as a single guy having tried it once on my own going to a club felt not right and a bit sleezy if honest, and after going to clubs with friends and seeing some of the antics of other guys there am not sure would want to be thought of, or associated as one of those single guys!!

I'm sure if went regulary to one and got to meet people there that would be ok.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Private meets, preferably at mine.

If I arrange to meet someone and they end up being a no show, only thing I've wasted is time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs for me. Whilst I've had some great private meets and met some lovely people, the thrill and atmosphere of a club has the edge. "

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

we like to meet at clubs , as said you can then find out if theres a chemistry there ,if not then you move on , I nmay not be to everybodys liking and cant think of a worse experience to turn up on a doorstep to having it flung shut in our faces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Primarily clubs for us. Our time is relatively precious and we have 2 clubs that are local to us so it makes sense to meet people there. To be honest we rarely use this site to arrange meets as it's just too much hassle.

We do meet privately but generally only with people we've met before.

I must admit though as a single man, it was pretty much the opposite way round and I loved the thrill of the chase.

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