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By *LF247 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

I'm strong, muscular, confident and have always been in control. I've been very lucky to have had beautiful women who have loved this about me and the respect I have for them, but I have this strong urge to be out of control and be totally sexually dominated by a women or at least try it!! Does anybody understand this? Or I'm I just wrong!

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By *0hnnyBrav0Man
over a year ago

Great Wyrley


"I'm strong, muscular, confident and have always been in control. I've been very lucky to have had beautiful women who have loved this about me and the respect I have for them, but I have this strong urge to be out of control and be totally sexually dominated by a women or at least try it!! Does anybody understand this? Or I'm I just wrong!"

Most of the sub women (I could be wrong!) as far as I know have strong personalities and jobs where they have to be in charge. This is where they find subbing erotic. They lose the control they have and are controlled by others.

I could be completely wrong in my thoughts here though but I do understand where you are coming from.

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By *LF247 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

The reverse of day to day life I suppose that's maybe why it's so apealing. For me anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be in control

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By *LF247 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

Apologies ladies the post should have said Domme not dom

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Apologies ladies the post should have said Domme not dom"

Not necessarily.

FemDom is the usual abbreviation for Female Domination.

A female Dominant is a Domme but Fem Dom makes sense the way you've used it.

As a Domme is female, in Fem Domme the Fem bit would be superfluous.

What you wrote is fine.

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By *LF247 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

He's a lucky man. Well I guess he loves it

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By *LF247 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

Thanks for your comments on how I spelt it, as somebody told me I'd got it wrong and it was offensive to women. Feel better about it now!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Thanks for your comments on how I spelt it, as somebody told me I'd got it wrong and it was offensive to women. Feel better about it now!"

Google for FemDom and you'll find it is a very commonly used abbreviation and perfectly acceptable.

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

Perks at Fem Domme

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By *LF247 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

What's perks at fem Domme?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Perks = pricks up ears

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By *LF247 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

Thanks but makes no sense with what she said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks but makes no sense with what she said!"

Oh yes it does....

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Thanks but makes no sense with what she said!"

Er yes it does.

"hears FemDom and pricks up her ears/perks up"

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By *LF247 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

Please explain? Sorry but new to this scene,as you can tel!!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It's nothing to do with any scene. I've just posted what she meant.

If you don't understand the phrase "to prick up one's ears" try Google.

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By *LF247 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

Not being funny but of course I know what that means as a normal saying but it made no sense as it was said. 'To prick up ones ears at fem Domme' If it said 'to' a femme Dom. It would have made sense to me and would have been great to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the best way to relieve the stress of day to day life is to submit, and give up all control .. I just love it. Keeps me alive. - fem or male dom. It does not matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am a sub in the bedroom. but as someone has already mentioned about sub/dom personalities i need to give up power and have release sexually.

my friends and co workers only see me as the hard as nails mean as fuck no nonsense bitch.

sexually the opposite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm strong, muscular, confident and have always been in control. I've been very lucky to have had beautiful women who have loved this about me and the respect I have for them, but I have this strong urge to be out of control and be totally sexually dominated by a women or at least try it!! Does anybody understand this? Or I'm

Most of the sub women (I could be wrong!) as far as I know have strong personalities and jobs where they have to be in charge. This is where they find subbing erotic. They lose the control they have and are controlled by others.

I could be completely wrong in my thoughts here though but I do understand where you are coming from."

That's very true, I'm a sub but if you met me out of 'play' you would think I was a domme

It is an amazing release to let go of all control. (With people that know what they are doing of course )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a very friendly easy going person in real life but have found out that I love being a domme in the bedroom and has given me so much confidence but hasn't change how I am in real life. I find it is the role reversal that is the biggest turn on its the mental switch. I have been domme to hubby and a fem sub and find both a massive turn on especially when I had both as my subs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm strong, muscular, confident and have always been in control. I've been very lucky to have had beautiful women who have loved this about me and the respect I have for them, but I have this strong urge to be out of control and be totally sexually dominated by a women or at least try it!! Does anybody understand this? Or I'm I just wrong!

Most of the sub women (I could be wrong!) as far as I know have strong personalities and jobs where they have to be in charge. This is where they find subbing erotic. They lose the control they have and are controlled by others.

I could be completely wrong in my thoughts here though but I do understand where you are coming from."

Exactly why I turn into a sweet little sub as soon as I'm home from work got it spot on!

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