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"The amount of women that categorise every single male under one steriotype is just annoying! I mean yeah I understand you get a lot of creeps on here but they are quite obvious to point out!! Not every single male is pushy or aggressive or even wants to sleep with you! Just makes it 10x harder for genuine people to actually socialise on here... Am I the only one who's noticed this? " Oh the irony | |||
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"well most single guys that arent getting anywhere on the site chose to come and rant about it in the forums so maybe you asre just like the rest. We arent all stupid we can usually out the good ones "  | |||
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"The amount of women that categorise every single male under one steriotype is just annoying! I mean yeah I understand you get a lot of creeps on here but they are quite obvious to point out!! Not every single male is pushy or aggressive or even wants to sleep with you! Just makes it 10x harder for genuine people to actually socialise on here... Am I the only one who's noticed this? Oh the irony" | |||
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"Women that have brains understand very well that not all men are dicks......only some of them! "Ditto, unless a guy (or couple/female) proves they're a dick I treat them like decent human beings. | |||
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"well most single guys that arent getting anywhere on the site chose to come and rant about it in the forums so maybe you asre just like the rest. We arent all stupid we can usually out the good ones " It's not the fact I'm not getting anywhere I just see a lot of women ranting about how "all" single males are in that bracket in their profiles so I don't message them, just thought it would be a fair one to point out that not all single males are like that so it's unfair to put on their profiles that they are | |||
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"and at 19!!!! shouldnt you be out trying to find a single to play with...." I do play outside of this site but it would be a bit frank if I just asked a person at the pub what their sexual fantasies are haha, it makes it easier on this site as it states what they are into so I don't end up in awkward situations which I've been stuck in many, bit off topic though | |||
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"well most single guys that arent getting anywhere on the site chose to come and rant about it in the forums so maybe you asre just like the rest. We arent all stupid we can usually out the good ones It's not the fact I'm not getting anywhere I just see a lot of women ranting about how "all" single males are in that bracket in their profiles so I don't message them, just thought it would be a fair one to point out that not all single males are like that so it's unfair to put on their profiles that they are " Fair enough on that premis maybe it is a generalisation on there part, but you dont know what circumstances have led to them getting frustrated enough to post such a status, and if thats there opinion they are entitled to express it how they wish, and if you avoid the profiles that do I dont really see why you have an issue | |||
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"I don't stereotype single men or anyone else.....!! yes to loving the irony comment though "Shush you..x | |||
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"I don't stereotype single men or anyone else.....!! yes to loving the irony comment though
Shush you..x"Why the OP hasnt grasped what the irony is yet | |||
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"I don't stereotype single men or anyone else.....!! yes to loving the irony comment though
Shush you..x
Why the OP hasnt grasped what the irony is yet "I have because I'm ranting and put about aggressive and pushy people, but if I was in that bracket I'd be messaging the people who put it abusively. There is nothing remotely abusive in my post so there's nothing really ironic about it | |||
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"Women that have brains understand very well that not all men are dicks......only some of them!
Ditto, unless a guy (or couple/female) proves they're a dick I treat them like decent human beings." | |||
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"Can someone keep a tally on single guys complaining please... I've lost track. " sorry ive lost count too | |||
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"Can someone keep a tally on single guys complaining please... I've lost track. " Will "a lot" do? I have better things to do. | |||
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"The thing I have noticed is many single guys blame their lack of success on other single guys "And quite a lot blame the women. If we're not wowed by them, we're rude, up ourselves, arrogant, fakes... Anything to avoid looking at themselves for the reasons. | |||
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"The rant could be the irony or it could be that, by using the phrase 'the amount of single women' does imply you mean a lot of us, so are you not making a generalisation yourself, that the majority of us all have viewpoint about single guys " What I meant by the amount is like I've come across atleast 10 profiles around my area stating the same thing, which is a fair few so maybe I should of worded it differently I'm not saying all women are in that criteria If they are not interested in single males then fair enough but to slate us all off on their profile is a bit un needed, so thought it would be fair for me to defend myself, clearly not... | |||
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"The thing I have noticed is many single guys blame their lack of success on other single guys "I've not mentioned one bit about success on here haha? | |||
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"The thing I have noticed is many single guys blame their lack of success on other single guys
I've not mentioned one bit about success on here haha? "Who said I was talking about you | |||
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"The thing I have noticed is many single guys blame their lack of success on other single guys
I've not mentioned one bit about success on here haha? "It's usually the best unsuccessful guys who complain about how "women" treat single guys. You don't have any meeting in person verifications, which isn't conclusive but, taken with the OP is strongly indicative. | |||
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"The thing I have noticed is many single guys blame their lack of success on other single guys
I've not mentioned one bit about success on here haha?
Who said I was talking about you "Just an off topic comment then? | |||
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"The thing I have noticed is many single guys blame their lack of success on other single guys
I've not mentioned one bit about success on here haha?
It's usually the best unsuccessful guys who complain about how "women" treat single guys.
You don't have any meeting in person verifications, which isn't conclusive but, taken with the OP is strongly indicative."It's "usually" doesn't necessarily mean I'm unsuccessful, like I said I pass by the ones complaining and as it's a forum thought id see others opinions, clearly very defensive opinions | |||
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"The thing I have noticed is many single guys blame their lack of success on other single guys
I've not mentioned one bit about success on here haha?
Who said I was talking about you
Just an off topic comment then? "No it was in relation to noticing things on here like you said. | |||
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"The thing I have noticed is many single guys blame their lack of success on other single guys
I've not mentioned one bit about success on here haha?
It's usually the best unsuccessful guys who complain about how "women" treat single guys.
You don't have any meeting in person verifications, which isn't conclusive but, taken with the OP is strongly indicative.
It's "usually" doesn't necessarily mean I'm unsuccessful, like I said I pass by the ones complaining and as it's a forum thought id see others opinions, clearly very defensive opinions "hand about the forums long enough and u will soon see that this/very similar topics, all by mainly singles guys pop up too many times a day to count so people just get fed up of seeing them, hence the 'defensive opinions' as u put it | |||
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"The thing I have noticed is many single guys blame their lack of success on other single guys
I've not mentioned one bit about success on here haha?
It's usually the best unsuccessful guys who complain about how "women" treat single guys.
You don't have any meeting in person verifications, which isn't conclusive but, taken with the OP is strongly indicative.
It's "usually" doesn't necessarily mean I'm unsuccessful, like I said I pass by the ones complaining and as it's a forum thought id see others opinions, clearly very defensive opinions "Unfortunately there is no forum rule that says only people who agree with you can reply. | |||
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"well most single guys that arent getting anywhere on the site chose to come and rant about it in the forums so maybe you asre just like the rest. We arent all stupid we can usually out the good ones It's not the fact I'm not getting anywhere I just see a lot of women ranting about how "all" single males are in that bracket in their profiles so I don't message them, just thought it would be a fair one to point out that not all single males are like that so it's unfair to put on their profiles that they are " Well My Wonka, even as couples we fall into brackets! I will be 46 this year, that puts me in the over 45 and out of 95% of couples/singles age bracket! 45 seems a bit of a cut off age. However, we will continue to go to socials and meet people. funny thing is, nobody asks your age at socials and we arrange lots of meets via them. I suggest you do exactly the same....get to a social and get some veri's or you will continue to be (in that bracket)!! | |||
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"I'm not saying there's anything wrong with the criticism, I'm just defending my point haha! It's like if I was to say all gays and strange and push their sexually too much I'm sure I'd get grief for that, my point being, just because some do doesn't mean all do" We know that not all the single men are the same lol... | |||
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"I'm not saying there's anything wrong with the criticism, I'm just defending my point haha! It's like if I was to say all gays and strange and push their sexually too much I'm sure I'd get grief for that, my point being, just because some do doesn't mean all do We know that not all the single men are the same lol... "I'm not saying you don't haha I was aiming it at the women who claim they are! | |||
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Best forget you ever started this thread, sign out of FAB for the evening, go and watch some porn and give the one eyed monster a good ole tug until you fall asleep. Tomorrow's another day and I guarantee you'll feel like a new man | |||
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"Women got so much choise they can afford to catogorize us lol." You forgot to mention your abs. | |||
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"Women got so much choise they can afford to catogorize us lol. You forgot to mention your abs. "YEs I did and oh yeah,, did few crunches earlier lol x. | |||
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"Your on a loser here Mr Wonka
Best forget you ever started this thread, sign out of FAB for the evening, go and watch some porn and give the one eyed monster a good ole tug until you fall asleep. Tomorrow's another day and I guarantee you'll feel like a new man "Don't need to tug off every night, not that desperate for my sack to be emptied unlike some, but thankyou for the suggestion | |||
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"Your on a loser here Mr Wonka
Best forget you ever started this thread, sign out of FAB for the evening, go and watch some porn and give the one eyed monster a good ole tug until you fall asleep. Tomorrow's another day and I guarantee you'll feel like a new man
Don't need to tug off every night, not that desperate for my sack to be emptied unlike some, but thankyou for the suggestion "Just a suggestion, works wonders for me | |||
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"The amount of times we hear this from single guys...Should be a singlle guy forum where they can have a whing and cry on each others shoulders..LOL...For every 1 genuine single guy we have met/chatted/been disapointed..sorry mate it aint rocket science..Yr looking to shag somebody's wife/girlfriend/lover...single guys have to be polite, chatty,and NOT abusive if they get knocked back..Beleive us its just as difficult for couples to find genuine friends, for some us we have been there /tried it and dont want to bother!!!!!!!!!!! and at 19!!!! shouldnt you be out trying to find a single to play with...." at 58...shouldnt u's be acting like older people or something lol
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"Single men are much better than coupled men who are playing away ....... X" my wife disagrees | |||
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"Single men are much better than coupled men who are playing away ....... X" | |||
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"Single men are much better than coupled men who are playing away ....... X" Whys that then have they invented some new way of having sex? | |||
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"If this site wasn't so full of judgmental, single male bashers, there probably wouldn't be a need for a thread like this." don't get what's wrong with bashing the idiotic single male .If you're not the idiotic single male you're in a good minority position yey xx and not being bashed | |||
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"It's a buyer's market out there (the women on here being the buyers in question) The women therefore get to choose which product to buy (doing myself no favours at all with this analogy) which inevitably means a lot of fellas face disappointment. Women have long memories as a rule - which means they're pretty good at remembering whinging fellas. Personally - I take it at face value - plenty more fish in the sea and all that jazz. I might not be everyone's cup of tea - in fact I might not be many peoples cup of tea but I'm up for a laugh with anyone that fancys a normal chat and not gonna stress over not being someone's idea of perfection "couldn't of put it better myself. ..... women have the heinz variety of blokes to choose from...For every couple of hundred that I may not appeal to there's one who'll give me a chance and then it's up to me not to balls things up | |||
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"well we did have two threads yesterday by couples stating they couldnt find single men... so in that profiles a few couples then single women came on to say much of the same. Think about a new to the forums male (like the OP) and maybe if u didnt have so many meets, u might just like to get a point across when u read single men threads over and over again. I pretty much challenge anyone who believes they are in some elite group I cant touch..or that I shouldnt be part of this 'scene' some guys WILL jump through hoops(I think I might have a few times in my earlier years), but I wont be tarred with some brush about single guys when I know theres lots of us who are reliable and well behaved.Some use the site simply for sex reasons...just like lots of other groups. so long story short? I get tired of the threads myself, tired of pishy profiles that end up so far up their own arses I barely pay attention to them(no matter how hot I find the female half), I just wish some people would sort out how they like to have fun and not need to bring meet threads onto the forums that much.....................especially when its aimed at one particular group." | |||
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"OP - I don't think most women on here stereotype all single guys under one umbrella , so to speak. You're kind of stereotyping us by saying that. As you know , females on here can get a lot of messages & sometimes, it's just timing & luck of the draw as to whether you get a reply. Which doesn't mean we think "we're all that" . It's just the way it is on here. I can't explain why I might start a conversation with one person & not another. It generally is because their message stands out for a reason or we have chatted on the forums previously . I like the single guys I chat to on here. I certainly don't think they're creeps. Fab is about fun & laughter as much as anything else, so that's how I approach it. "I'm not stereotyping all women I'm aiming it at the ones who have put things along those lines | |||
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"well we did have two threads yesterday by couples stating they couldnt find single men... so in that profiles a few couples then single women came on to say much of the same. Think about a new to the forums male (like the OP) and maybe if u didnt have so many meets, u might just like to get a point across when u read single men threads over and over again. I pretty much challenge anyone who believes they are in some elite group I cant touch..or that I shouldnt be part of this 'scene' some guys WILL jump through hoops(I think I might have a few times in my earlier years), but I wont be tarred with some brush about single guys when I know theres lots of us who are reliable and well behaved.Some use the site simply for sex reasons...just like lots of other groups. so long story short? I get tired of the threads myself, tired of pishy profiles that end up so far up their own arses I barely pay attention to them(no matter how hot I find the female half), I just wish some people would sort out how they like to have fun and not need to bring meet threads onto the forums that much.....................especially when its aimed at one particular group. "OP you started a thread aimed at one particular group! | |||
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"The amount of women that categorise every single male under one steriotype is just annoying! I mean yeah I understand you get a lot of creeps on here but they are quite obvious to point out!! Not every single male is pushy or aggressive or even wants to sleep with you! Just makes it 10x harder for genuine people to actually socialise on here... Am I the only one who's noticed this? " no you're not and you have every right to air your opinion on here | |||
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"OP - I don't think most women on here stereotype all single guys under one umbrella , so to speak. You're kind of stereotyping us by saying that. As you know , females on here can get a lot of messages & sometimes, it's just timing & luck of the draw as to whether you get a reply. Which doesn't mean we think "we're all that" . It's just the way it is on here. I can't explain why I might start a conversation with one person & not another. It generally is because their message stands out for a reason or we have chatted on the forums previously . I like the single guys I chat to on here. I certainly don't think they're creeps. Fab is about fun & laughter as much as anything else, so that's how I approach it.
I'm not stereotyping all women I'm aiming it at the ones who have put things along those lines"Just avoid those ones !There are lots who aren't like that. | |||
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"OP - I don't think most women on here stereotype all single guys under one umbrella , so to speak. You're kind of stereotyping us by saying that. As you know , females on here can get a lot of messages & sometimes, it's just timing & luck of the draw as to whether you get a reply. Which doesn't mean we think "we're all that" . It's just the way it is on here. I can't explain why I might start a conversation with one person & not another. It generally is because their message stands out for a reason or we have chatted on the forums previously . I like the single guys I chat to on here. I certainly don't think they're creeps. Fab is about fun & laughter as much as anything else, so that's how I approach it.
I'm not stereotyping all women I'm aiming it at the ones who have put things along those lines"Which is about 10 to your knowledge, according to what you put earlier. Since you care about what is fair, is it fair to create a thread aimed at "women" or "many women" based on the actions and behaviour of about 10 women? | |||
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"I think the OP meant no harm.. I think it's early days and he noticed some women have very strong and at times abrupt profiles..but like I tried to point out you need to remember women get HUNDREDS of messages a day and a lot of them are either brain killing 'fuck me nows' or bizzare requests like watching them wet themselves...its a whole different game for women on here..they HAVE to be tougher..but just be yourself..they will spot you and if they seem angry try sending them a smile... "This is spot on! Well said. | |||
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" But its the only place where ladies that wouldnt get a second look in a pub actually have a que of guys after them because they think theres a chance of sex . "  | |||
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" But its the only place where ladies that wouldnt get a second look in a pub actually have a que of guys after them because they think theres a chance of sex . "I was waiting for a woman to pick that up... Loaded gun springs to mind...  | |||
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" But its the only place where ladies that wouldnt get a second look in a pub actually have a que of guys after them because they think theres a chance of sex . "Well in this paragraph Im guessing you've just given yourself the kiss of death to all women that read the forums | |||
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" But its the only place where ladies that wouldnt get a second look in a pub actually have a que of guys after them because they think theres a chance of sex .
I was waiting for a woman to pick that up... Loaded gun springs to mind... "It's such a disrespectful comment.... Ide castrate him | |||
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" But its the only place where ladies that wouldnt get a second look in a pub actually have a que of guys after them because they think theres a chance of sex .
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"This makes me laugh ! Ive personally been very succesful on here ! But its the only place where ladies that wouldnt get a second look in a pub actually have a que of guys after them because they think theres a chance of sex . Stop looking desperate guys Dont be pushy " lol | |||
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"Problem here is im the only one being honest ! I dont want to offend but i know alot feel the same ! Its just these people choise to invox me with support rather than say it here . And my meets have mostly been wonderful people ! I try and keep in shspe and would never chat or meet anyone who isnt ." You're brave...I'll give you that much.. | |||
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"Problem here is im the only one being honest ! I dont want to offend but i know alot feel the same ! Its just these people choise to invox me with support rather than say it here . And my meets have mostly been wonderful people ! I try and keep in shspe and would never chat or meet anyone who isnt ." I love it when people refer to all the messages they get in support of their racist/sexist/otherwise bigoted views after they post some claptrap. Am I supposed to be in awe of the 3 messages you got in the last 15 mins supporting you views that all women are a waste of time? Let me ask you an serious question. If all of us women are shallow and of low standard, why are you here? | |||
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"Problem here is im the only one being honest ! I dont want to offend but i know alot feel the same ! Its just these people choise to invox me with support rather than say it here . And my meets have mostly been wonderful people ! I try and keep in shspe and would never chat or meet anyone who isnt ." Thats personal preference. Though after looking at the profiles on your friends list I can say i'd not like to meet any of them as I dont find them attractive, but thats me we are all diffrent and like different things, therefore there is no need for you to be so rude in your comments to people that dont fit your type. | |||
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"Problem here is im the only one being honest ! I dont want to offend but i know alot feel the same ! Its just these people choise to invox me with support rather than say it here . And my meets have mostly been wonderful people ! I try and keep in shspe and would never chat or meet anyone who isnt . You're brave...I'll give you that much.." Congratulations on finding the silver lining well hidden in that cloud | |||
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"Problem here is im the only one being honest ! I dont want to offend but i know alot feel the same ! Its just these people choise to invox me with support rather than say it here . And my meets have mostly been wonderful people ! I try and keep in shspe and would never chat or meet anyone who isnt . You're brave...I'll give you that much.." just honest not brave ! And not desperate enough to meet a lady i wouldnt fancy in real life ! | |||
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"Problem here is im the only one being honest ! I dont want to offend but i know alot feel the same ! Its just these people choise to invox me with support rather than say it here . And my meets have mostly been wonderful people ! I try and keep in shspe and would never chat or meet anyone who isnt . You're brave...I'll give you that much..just honest not brave ! And not desperate enough to meet a lady i wouldnt fancy in real life !" And we women thats dont fit your rate of "attractiveness" do the same I dont just sleep with the first/every dick im offered just coz im a BBW thanks | |||
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"And im having great fun winding people up ! Its now 27 messages of support in 10 mins " Of course it is. | |||
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"And im having great fun winding people up ! Its now 27 messages of support in 10 mins Of course it is." I think it bull too especially since he like winding people up | |||
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"In defence of the poster (and noting it's perhaps not the most eloquently worded post) I have said something similar. We women behave badly just like men do. There is a bit of a sense of entitlement amongst some women and couples that they are the prize. I've seen it used "should be grateful" I've always said to my husband it's very important to keep perspective about who you are because the constant attention turns peoples heads and leads to less than modest/humble/polite behaviour. I've said the same thing in a sense as this guy, if you walked in to a pub would everyone fawn over you like they do on here. For most of us no is the answer. Slaughter me for this if you wish. It won't change my mind. I'm able to be rational in this pretty irrational world. Mrs D." stand next to me for the firing squad ! Lol | |||
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"And im having great fun winding people up ! Its now 27 messages of support in 10 mins Of course it is. I think it bull too especially since he like winding people up" its actually not and a good portion are ladies and cpls | |||
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"In defence of the poster (and noting it's perhaps not the most eloquently worded post) I have said something similar. We women behave badly just like men do. There is a bit of a sense of entitlement amongst some women and couples that they are the prize. I've seen it used "should be grateful" I've always said to my husband it's very important to keep perspective about who you are because the constant attention turns peoples heads and leads to less than modest/humble/polite behaviour. I've said the same thing in a sense as this guy, if you walked in to a pub would everyone fawn over you like they do on here. For most of us no is the answer. Slaughter me for this if you wish. It won't change my mind. I'm able to be rational in this pretty irrational world. Mrs D." I have a saying on here - no-one is entitled to a message, a reply, or a meet, and I include myself in that. If others come across like that (and I know they do) then OK, but surely everyone shouldn't be judged by the behaviour of certain members of the site? I sympathise with the OP because single men do get a bad rap, but that doesn't mean that they all then suffer. I know many with a long line of verifications from meets and if it wasn't for single guys, I would not be here. But people like to be treated like people, not things. | |||
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"In defence of the poster (and noting it's perhaps not the most eloquently worded post) I have said something similar. We women behave badly just like men do. There is a bit of a sense of entitlement amongst some women and couples that they are the prize. I've seen it used "should be grateful" I've always said to my husband it's very important to keep perspective about who you are because the constant attention turns peoples heads and leads to less than modest/humble/polite behaviour. I've said the same thing in a sense as this guy, if you walked in to a pub would everyone fawn over you like they do on here. For most of us no is the answer. Slaughter me for this if you wish. It won't change my mind. I'm able to be rational in this pretty irrational world. Mrs D. I have a saying on here - no-one is entitled to a message, a reply, or a meet, and I include myself in that. If others come across like that (and I know they do) then OK, but surely everyone shouldn't be judged by the behaviour of certain members of the site? I sympathise with the OP because single men do get a bad rap, but that doesn't mean that they all then suffer. I know many with a long line of verifications from meets and if it wasn't for single guys, I would not be here. But people like to be treated like people, not things."
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"In defence of the poster (and noting it's perhaps not the most eloquently worded post) I have said something similar. We women behave badly just like men do. There is a bit of a sense of entitlement amongst some women and couples that they are the prize. I've seen it used "should be grateful" I've always said to my husband it's very important to keep perspective about who you are because the constant attention turns peoples heads and leads to less than modest/humble/polite behaviour. I've said the same thing in a sense as this guy, if you walked in to a pub would everyone fawn over you like they do on here. For most of us no is the answer. Slaughter me for this if you wish. It won't change my mind. I'm able to be rational in this pretty irrational world. Mrs D. I have a saying on here - no-one is entitled to a message, a reply, or a meet, and I include myself in that. If others come across like that (and I know they do) then OK, but surely everyone shouldn't be judged by the behaviour of certain members of the site? I sympathise with the OP because single men do get a bad rap, but that doesn't mean that they all then suffer. I know many with a long line of verifications from meets and if it wasn't for single guys, I would not be here. But people like to be treated like people, not things." Actually sometimes I like to be treated like a thing but that's another forum topic. xx | |||
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"In defence of the poster (and noting it's perhaps not the most eloquently worded post) I have said something similar. We women behave badly just like men do. There is a bit of a sense of entitlement amongst some women and couples that they are the prize. I've seen it used "should be grateful" I've always said to my husband it's very important to keep perspective about who you are because the constant attention turns peoples heads and leads to less than modest/humble/polite behaviour. I've said the same thing in a sense as this guy, if you walked in to a pub would everyone fawn over you like they do on here. For most of us no is the answer. Slaughter me for this if you wish. It won't change my mind. I'm able to be rational in this pretty irrational world. Mrs D. I have a saying on here - no-one is entitled to a message, a reply, or a meet, and I include myself in that. If others come across like that (and I know they do) then OK, but surely everyone shouldn't be judged by the behaviour of certain members of the site? I sympathise with the OP because single men do get a bad rap, but that doesn't mean that they all then suffer. I know many with a long line of verifications from meets and if it wasn't for single guys, I would not be here. But people like to be treated like people, not things. Actually sometimes I like to be treated like a thing but that's another forum topic. xx "Hah, indeed! I like to be treated like people in messages, and maybe otherwise afterwards. | |||
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"Mmmm The wind is changing direction .... Lets be honest white Dee of benefit street would get a meet on here with a half decent guy ! " But let's be honest she'd probably turn a lot of men down on here too.. | |||
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"Mmmm The wind is changing direction .... Lets be honest white Dee of benefit street would get a meet on here with a half decent guy ! " Oh, don't sell yourself short! I am sure you could aim a bit higher. | |||
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"Mmmm The wind is changing direction .... Lets be honest white Dee of benefit street would get a meet on here with a half decent guy ! But let's be honest she'd probably turn a lot of men down on here too.." be careful youl be put against a wall and shot like me ! Lol | |||
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"Mmmm The wind is changing direction .... Lets be honest white Dee of benefit street would get a meet on here with a half decent guy ! Oh, don't sell yourself short! I am sure you could aim a bit higher." Ive not even seen the program so have no ides who hes refering to but that just made me almost choke on my tea lol | |||
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"Mmmm The wind is changing direction .... Lets be honest white Dee of benefit street would get a meet on here with a half decent guy ! Oh, don't sell yourself short! I am sure you could aim a bit higher.i like your wit " To right she would she a fine lady id marry her Lol | |||
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"Mmmm The wind is changing direction .... Lets be honest white Dee of benefit street would get a meet on here with a half decent guy ! Oh, don't sell yourself short! I am sure you could aim a bit higher.i like your wit To right she would she a fine lady id marry her Lol" i love the scouse sense of humour | |||
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"The amount of women that categorise every single male under one steriotype is just annoying! I mean yeah I understand you get a lot of creeps on here but they are quite obvious to point out!! Not every single male is pushy or aggressive or even wants to sleep with you! Just makes it 10x harder for genuine people to actually socialise on here... Am I the onwho'snoticed this? " Calm down, I'm sure your polite got manners but patience is a virtue. Fab takes time women & couples can't be rushed.it eventually will happen for you but hey just take it as it comes & enjoy it when it mums.  | |||
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"And look at the standard of ladies complaining ! Lol Enough said" Cheeky!! I certainly wouldn't fuck you!! That's standard !! | |||
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"Anyone up for a spot of shopping in IKEA on Sunday? ...see, some single guys like IKEA too lol. "wtf | |||
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"And look at the standard of ladies complaining ! Lol Enough said standard? wtf u on about lol.. cheers for essentially making my whole rant now redundant...now I'm dying to see the 'standard' of ur meets lol" so you can judge them? Or him on them? | |||
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"So come on all the ladies that disagree with the sentiment of my point of view ! When did your pics make it into the hottest pics section ??? U get The attention cos youve got a pussy and guys need sex ! " I certainly get more attention than you! As for pics, I don't give the tiniest mousefart who Fabs mine because I am on here for sex, not pic Fabbing. | |||
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"So come on all the ladies that disagree with the sentiment of my point of view ! When did your pics make it into the hottest pics section ??? U get The attention cos youve got a pussy and guys need sex ! I certainly get more attention than you! As for pics, I don't give the tiniest mousefart who Fabs mine because I am on here for sex, not pic Fabbing." Ile fab your pics | |||
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"So come on all the ladies that disagree with the sentiment of my point of view ! When did your pics make it into the hottest pics section ??? U get The attention cos youve got a pussy and guys need sex ! I certainly get more attention than you! As for pics, I don't give the tiniest mousefart who Fabs mine because I am on here for sex, not pic Fabbing. Ile fab your pics "I've only got two public. I save the fun ones for my friends | |||
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"So come on all the ladies that disagree with the sentiment of my point of view ! When did your pics make it into the hottest pics section ??? U get The attention cos youve got a pussy and guys need sex ! " WEll i may not have made it into the 'Hot Pics' section, but thats doesnt mean I'm not attractive. If you honestly want to klnow a bit about me as well as volunteering at a childrens centre, I'm actually a part-time plus size model in the vanilla world, and have a portfolio to back that up (ask one of th guyse whos verified me im sure he will set u right on that fact if he hasnt got single guys blocked), I do a lot of catalogue work for Simply Be the plus size ladies fashion company and have also worked for Evans and just shot for Your clothing last month. I know how to dress for my body so yes (and not to brag) but I do get a lot of attention when out on the town too. I'm single through choice, you can trust in the fact that I dont have to be. I'm 100% confident in who I am. | |||
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"So come on all the ladies that disagree with the sentiment of my point of view ! When did your pics make it into the hottest pics section ??? U get The attention cos youve got a pussy and guys need sex ! I certainly get more attention than you! As for pics, I don't give the tiniest mousefart who Fabs mine because I am on here for sex, not pic Fabbing. Ile fab your pics
I've only got two public. I save the fun ones for my friends "Well I fabbed the ones I could see | |||
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"Theres a pattern appearing here ! I dont see the attractive inshape women complaining ! Honest guys look at the ladies complaining profiles ... " I suspect the women you find attractive are looking at your posts and thinking 'NOPE!!!' Don't worry about it. If a complete monster like me can get a meet, you'll manage to con someone into it eventually. | |||
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"So come on all the ladies that disagree with the sentiment of my point of view ! When did your pics make it into the hottest pics section ??? U get The attention cos youve got a pussy and guys need sex ! I certainly get more attention than you! As for pics, I don't give the tiniest mousefart who Fabs mine because I am on here for sex, not pic Fabbing. Ile fab your pics
I've only got two public. I save the fun ones for my friends
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"Theres a pattern appearing here ! I dont see the attractive inshape women complaining ! Honest guys look at the ladies complaining profiles ... " That's because they don't give a flying fuck mate.
...erm, can those complaining, please lower your age range and message me .I've had my eyes on your profile for a while now.
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"In defence of the poster (and noting it's perhaps not the most eloquently worded post) I have said something similar. We women behave badly just like men do. There is a bit of a sense of entitlement amongst some women and couples that they are the prize. I've seen it used "should be grateful" I've always said to my husband it's very important to keep perspective about who you are because the constant attention turns peoples heads and leads to less than modest/humble/polite behaviour. I've said the same thing in a sense as this guy, if you walked in to a pub would everyone fawn over you like they do on here. For most of us no is the answer. Slaughter me for this if you wish. It won't change my mind. I'm able to be rational in this pretty irrational world. Mrs D." You've said "some" and referred to men, women and couples, which is entirely fair. I don't disagree with you. The issue most are taking with the OP, I think, is he is generalising about the behaviour of "many" women in the same breath as complaining about them generalising about men. It's true, there are arrogant women, but there are also arrogant men and couples. Some men behave badly, as do some women and couples. Some people are nasty pieces of work, some are always lovely and some have bad days sometimes. Some have a written style or a sense of humour that is easy to misinterpret. Threads that single one group out for criticism generally cause bad feeling with someone. If we could all ignore them, it would make for a nicer forum. However, if we could all ignore things that upset/insult/exclude us, nobody would post these threads anyway. It's part of the joy of fab. | |||
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"Theres a pattern appearing here ! I dont see the attractive inshape women complaining ! Honest guys look at the ladies complaining profiles ... " Hey you have no idea what I look like or how "in shape" I am . You are looking so pathetic now , looking for attention obviously ! Haha guys like you make me laugh | |||
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"Theres a pattern appearing here ! I dont see the attractive inshape women complaining ! Honest guys look at the ladies complaining profiles ... " I will say this again if you find "inshape" women to be attractive thats your personal preference, it isnt/doesnt have to be everyone elses! | |||
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...erm, can those complaining, please lower your age range and message me .I've had my eyes on your profile for a while now.
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"Theres a pattern appearing here ! I dont see the attractive inshape women complaining ! Honest guys look at the ladies complaining profiles ... I suspect the women you find attractive are looking at your posts and thinking 'NOPE!!!' Don't worry about it. If a complete monster like me can get a meet, you'll manage to con someone into it eventually." Hahaha love it!! | |||
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"Im loving this ! But afraid our fun has to end for tonight .. Goodnight ladies Its raining men hallalulah its raining men ... Amen " I am bereft! Oh wait, no, it was just wind. | |||
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...erm, can those complaining, please lower your age range and message me .I've had my eyes on your profile for a while now.
Tart! How much lower do I have to go before you'll take me roughly from behind? "Oi. You saying i'm too short?! Cheeky sod! | |||
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"Theres a pattern appearing here ! I dont see the attractive inshape women complaining ! Honest guys look at the ladies complaining profiles ... That's because they don't give a flying fuck mate.
...erm, can those complaining, please lower your age range and message me .I've had my eyes on your profile for a while now.
Tart! How much lower do I have to go before you'll take me roughly from behind?
Oi. You saying i'm too short?! Cheeky sod!
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"So, no ikea then lol i just wanted a new mattress you know. "depends what type of matress you like i only like firm ones | |||
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...erm, can those complaining, please lower your age range and message me .I've had my eyes on your profile for a while now.
Tart! How much lower do I have to go before you'll take me roughly from behind?
Oi. You saying i'm too short?! Cheeky sod!
Pops, you barely come up to my boobs."That's because you're meant to be on your knees.. | |||
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...erm, can those complaining, please lower your age range and message me .I've had my eyes on your profile for a while now.
Tart! How much lower do I have to go before you'll take me roughly from behind?
Oi. You saying i'm too short?! Cheeky sod!
Pops, you barely come up to my boobs.
That's because you're meant to be on your knees..
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...erm, can those complaining, please lower your age range and message me .I've had my eyes on your profile for a while now.
Tart! How much lower do I have to go before you'll take me roughly from behind?
Oi. You saying i'm too short?! Cheeky sod!
Pops, you barely come up to my boobs.
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"So, no ikea then lol i just wanted a new mattress you know.
depends what type of matress you like i only like firm ones
God! Me too...i've knackered my one. And i don't even know who i've been rolling around the grass with lol
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"The amount of women that categorise every single male under one steriotype is just annoying! I mean yeah I understand you get a lot of creeps on here but they are quite obvious to point out!! Not every single male is pushy or aggressive or even wants to sleep with you! Just makes it 10x harder for genuine people to actually socialise on here... Am I the only one who's noticed this? " I can't even be bothered reading the thread, if you can't meet them it's your problem, you should have realised this 150 plus posts ago. | |||
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...erm, can those complaining, please lower your age range and message me .I've had my eyes on your profile for a while now.
Tart! How much lower do I have to go before you'll take me roughly from behind?
Oi. You saying i'm too short?! Cheeky sod!
Pops, you barely come up to my boobs.
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"So, no ikea then lol i just wanted a new mattress you know.
depends what type of matress you like i only like firm ones
God! Me too...i've knackered my one. And i don't even know who i've been rolling around the grass with lol
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"He's a piece of work this boy! Next time a single guy complains about the bad reputation single guys have I think I'll refer him to this thread for a prime example in action. " | |||
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...erm, can those complaining, please lower your age range and message me .I've had my eyes on your profile for a while now.
Tart! How much lower do I have to go before you'll take me roughly from behind?
Oi. You saying i'm too short?! Cheeky sod!
Pops, you barely come up to my boobs.
That's because you're meant to be on your knees..
I like you.
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"Theres a pattern appearing here ! I dont see the attractive inshape women complaining ! Honest guys look at the ladies complaining profiles ... That's because they don't give a flying fuck mate.
...erm, can those complaining, please lower your age range and message me .I've had my eyes on your profile for a while now.
Tart! How much lower do I have to go before you'll take me roughly from behind?
Oi. You saying i'm too short?! Cheeky sod!
Pops, you barely come up to my boobs.
That's because you're meant to be on your knees..
I like you.
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"So, no ikea then lol i just wanted a new mattress you know.
depends what type of matress you like i only like firm ones
God! Me too...i've knackered my one. And i don't even know who i've been rolling around the grass with lol
so your matress is that knackered youve had to resortd to getting gras stains hey bad times lol
You know what they say...you need to be willing to get a bit of dirt under your nails lol
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"Im loving this ! But afraid our fun has to end for tonight .. Goodnight ladies Its raining men hallalulah its raining men ... Amen Oh deary I've just looked at your profile and it's seems you mailed me a while ago, guess I wasn't interested!! Hahaha "Obviously you were of a high enough standard for him. We are not worthy! | |||
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"So, no ikea then lol i just wanted a new mattress you know.
depends what type of matress you like i only like firm ones
God! Me too...i've knackered my one. And i don't even know who i've been rolling around the grass with lol
so your matress is that knackered youve had to resortd to getting gras stains hey bad times lol
You know what they say...you need to be willing to get a bit of dirt under your nails lol
now thats the kid of response a girl like me likes to hear "*kind not kid lol | |||
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...erm, can those complaining, please lower your age range and message me .I've had my eyes on your profile for a while now.
Tart! How much lower do I have to go before you'll take me roughly from behind?
Oi. You saying i'm too short?! Cheeky sod!
Pops, you barely come up to my boobs.now your talking on your knees
That's because you're meant to be on your knees..
I like you.
The feeling is rather mutual.
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