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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is it us or dont couples in their 30's swing? Been on here for about 6 months had a few meets with some gorgeous couples, played with a few more than once, our verifications say we are good looking and fun to be with. so I ask why we can't find a another couple who wants to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you expecting people to come and find you or do you take the initiative?

We message people who interest us, sometimes it leads to get togethers, others a thanks but no thanks. But we don't sit and wait for people to get in touch with us.

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

We would be happy to meet you hehe

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

[Removed by poster at 28/02/14 11:22:16]

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"is it us or dont couples in their 30's swing? Been on here for about 6 months had a few meets with some gorgeous couples, played with a few more than once, our verifications say we are good looking and fun to be with. so I ask why we can't find a another couple who wants to meet? "

the only test of good is my test of good hehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice advert! Unfortunately ur to far away from us.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe because you seem to be completely obsessed with sociatal ideas of 'perfection' you are putting those local couples that feel they dont fit into your ideals off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We message couples who interest us, but obviously we ain't there cup of tea . We don't mind been knocked back, but a simple sorry your not for us would be nice. We do the same, if a couple is not for us we try politely to let them down, and when we do they block us. That's just immature and childish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think we have discussed this lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it us or dont couples in their 30's swing? Been on here for about 6 months had a few meets with some gorgeous couples, played with a few more than once, our verifications say we are good looking and fun to be with. so I ask why we can't find a another couple who wants to meet? "

Your profile's been active 7 months, you have 5 veris, sooo.. I'm confused. Greedy much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we were closer we would meet up - you sound and look great - so far all the people we've experienced have been older - it will happen for you and will be all the better for it taking a bit longer x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We message couples who interest us, but obviously we ain't there cup of tea . We don't mind been knocked back, but a simple sorry your not for us would be nice. We do the same, if a couple is not for us we try politely to let them down, and when we do they block us. That's just immature and childish. "

Ah now you see that last sentence will not do you any favours, I spend way too much time reading the forums and when people say " immature and childish" when they are blocked it upsets many people. Blocking is an option on fab to deal with people who are not for you this helps to avoid repeat messages from these people. That simple statement will put people off simply because of the attitude you are taking about other people choices. I've seen many a single bloke torn to shreds in to forums for saying it.

Fab can have dry spells for everyone it might be worth stepping back from it for a while and trying the club or social scene, just throwing ideas out there.

No offence meant.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"We message couples who interest us, but obviously we ain't there cup of tea . We don't mind been knocked back, but a simple sorry your not for us would be nice. We do the same, if a couple is not for us we try politely to let them down, and when we do they block us. That's just immature and childish. "

It is not immature and childish. You have turned them down, to save them messaging you again, they block you. If you don't want to meet them, why would it bother you?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"is it us or dont couples in their 30's swing? Been on here for about 6 months had a few meets with some gorgeous couples, played with a few more than once, our verifications say we are good looking and fun to be with. so I ask why we can't find a another couple who wants to meet?

Your profile's been active 7 months, you have 5 veris, sooo.. I'm confused. Greedy much? "

pffff - that is not a lot of meets at all???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we played with couples we would be put off by claims of being good looking or by them asking for fit people to meet up with,we don't lack confidence in anyway but one persons definition of good looking or fit is different to anothers so we just used to skip happily past the profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your opinion and no offence taken, but our opinion should not offend anyone, everyone has the right to have an opinion andif we find it immature and childish then couples/men/women should respect that. But just not to reply and block is rude. Our opinion

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