FabSwingers.com forum: Meet without full sex

By * n S OP Couple
over a year ago

dundee

Due to a medical reason Mrs isnt able to have full sex very often at the momemt and if it happens can be quite uncomfortable for her.

So to keep a bit of excitement in our sexlife until shes back to full health Ive suggested we have a meet consisting of just hand and blow job with myself of course and another guy.

She isnt convinced guys would be interested in meeting if full sex isnt on the cards. I say different.

Any opinions?

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

A blow job followed by a slow seductive, oiled hand job from a lady would make an excellent meet for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Due to a medical reason Mrs isnt able to have full sex very often at the momemt and if it happens can be quite uncomfortable for her.

So to keep a bit of excitement in our sexlife until shes back to full health Ive suggested we have a meet consisting of just hand and blow job with myself of course and another guy.

She isnt convinced guys would be interested in meeting if full sex isnt on the cards. I say different.

Any opinions?"

Put it on your profile and those that don't mind will get in touch as long as discussed before a meet I do not see the issue

It's more than sex if you ask me !

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By *rGenuineMan
over a year ago

Purley

For me the excitement is in the scenario, the situation, the fact you are strangers, the foreplay and touching is the best bit.

I have often enjoyed meets without full sex, to be quite male about it an orgasm with a stranger is what, for me, the thrill is all about.

I hope you guys find what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nonsense.. guys like to meet just to say hi...some of us are genuine and like to say hello...and for the blow job thats a bonus...hope she gets well soon..take care both xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Realistically its soft play - we've recently changed to soft play only as we're trying for a baby. We have found that there is "less" interest, especially if we approach single guys, but soft play does still seem to leave enough options with couples (although the dynamics are, in our experience, more difficult with couples than singles of either sex)

So yes - I (we) would say that there would be people interested in it

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By *rGenuineMan
over a year ago

Purley

I am very genuine, however i'm also aware that this isn't match.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's in it for her?

Sounds a little selfish...

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By *rGenuineMan
over a year ago

Purley

What's in it for her?! Er, I thought I made that clear. I love giving attention. The kissing, the stroking, giving oral, taking my time, it's the sexiest part of any meet for me.

No penetrative sex is never a problem for me whatsoever, in fact it's sometimes a relief as most on here want a big black 28" cock that repeats all night, cooks and cleans, and picks up Sky Movies on it as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Due to a medical reason Mrs isnt able to have full sex very often at the momemt and if it happens can be quite uncomfortable for her.

So to keep a bit of excitement in our sexlife until shes back to full health Ive suggested we have a meet consisting of just hand and blow job with myself of course and another guy.

She isnt convinced guys would be interested in meeting if full sex isnt on the cards. I say different.

Any opinions?"

its called soft swing, and many have made a quite successful pass time of meeting people purely for this.

go for it.

some will say its too frustrating not to get to fuck someone else, but thats their loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its something that I enjoy! The touching and teasing and exploring is sometimes better than the sex.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

We never have any contact with other couples and have lots of sexy fun, we think more than those who swap. Xc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are soft swap & never had any complaints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always let the man have sex with you if he needs a tight hole

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"What's in it for her?! Er, I thought I made that clear. I love giving attention. The kissing, the stroking, giving oral, taking my time, it's the sexiest part of any meet for me.

I don't think that question was to you. I wonder the same about the op it seem that it's about the pleasure of the two men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me the excitement is in the scenario, the situation, the fact you are strangers, the foreplay and touching is the best bit.

I have often enjoyed meets without full sex, to be quite male about it an orgasm with a stranger is what, for me, the thrill is all about.

I hope you guys find what you are looking for."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always just see how the meet goes. Were always honest before hand through messages and then just see what happens x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love foreplay, hope you find what your looking for guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well full sex is nice but for some people it's unwanted. Surely bringing each other to climax is nice for all parties involved. Good company and fun is what we are all looking for....So carry on and do what makes YOU GUYS happy.

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