FabSwingers.com forum: Single guys

By *andC2013 OP Couple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

You would think it would be easy to find a decent guy with a profile, pics and verifications to join us for some sexy fun and keep Cloe satisfied. How wrong we were lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only I was still up north.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Have you searched locally for guys and crafted a well written message to introduce yourselves to the guy, clearly stating what you are looking for and inviting to meet for a coffee first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You would think it would be easy to find a decent guy with a profile, pics and verifications to join us for some sexy fun and keep Cloe satisfied. How wrong we were lol"

Hellooooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bought my Jack Russel in Stoke......

If only I were still working "dahn saff"

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"You would think it would be easy to find a decent guy with a profile, pics and verifications to join us for some sexy fun and keep Cloe satisfied. How wrong we were lol"

At least there is "Plan B" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You would think it would be easy to find a decent guy with a profile, pics and verifications to join us for some sexy fun and keep Cloe satisfied. How wrong we were lol"

Get active in the forums , and you will find someone near I'm sure . Don't expect instant results though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You would think it would be easy to find a decent guy with a profile, pics and verifications to join us for some sexy fun and keep Cloe satisfied. How wrong we were lol"

Have you been looking yourselves or just waiting for one to message you?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

before all the "white knights" appear... you seem to have fallen into the same trap as a lot of couples....

the popular single guys are just that....popular

if you are after a single particular type of single guy... rather than waiting on them to come to you.... why dont you go after them!

the popular ones wont have to do half the chasing that you seem to believe... give them a reason to meet you! what makes you stand out for any other couple!!!

if you know what you want, then to be honest it almost smacks of laziness..... men would have to roll over at your beck and call....

nope.....

mindset adjustment!!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I struggle as well! Trying to find any single guys up here with a profile that says more then:

'Here for fun with women and couples'

Well, no shit Sherlock! Makes it really difficult for me to do my own searching!

Guys, women need something to read about you, so please take note!

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I'm fairly near to stoke, I'm off for a look

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee

13 meets in three weeks and moaning you can't get a meet. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"before all the "white knights" appear... you seem to have fallen into the same trap as a lot of couples....

the popular single guys are just that....popular

if you are after a single particular type of single guy... rather than waiting on them to come to you.... why dont you go after them!

the popular ones wont have to do half the chasing that you seem to believe... give them a reason to meet you! what makes you stand out for any other couple!!!

if you know what you want, then to be honest it almost smacks of laziness..... men would have to roll over at your beck and call....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"before all the "white knights" appear... you seem to have fallen into the same trap as a lot of couples....

the popular single guys are just that....popular

if you are after a single particular type of single guy... rather than waiting on them to come to you.... why dont you go after them!

the popular ones wont have to do half the chasing that you seem to believe... give them a reason to meet you! what makes you stand out for any other couple!!!

if you know what you want, then to be honest it almost smacks of laziness..... men would have to roll over at your beck and call....

nope.....

mindset adjustment!!!"

Spot on, if you have high expectations then you have to put in the effort, get messaging

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Some good suggestions above, maybe its an idea to place an advert in the meets & events section on the site describing what your looking for and see if the required person replies

Good luck in finding the lucky guy though and lt us al know how you get on please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Based on experience from using sites like Fab over a few years, we've found that the best way to find the kind of guys we want to meet is to put in the effort ourselves and make the first contact. In fact, these days we don't usually have any of the 'looking for' categories ticked, as we're pretty sure we've only ever met people we reached out to first. Consequently, our inbox is very quiet and we're only in contact with a small number of people we stand a reasonable chance of meeting one day.

It works for us, anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples and women must get hundreds of messages a week

A single male will be lucky to get one a week

I you send one to them am sure it will stand out and if they like you they will respond, simple

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"You would think it would be easy to find a decent guy with a profile, pics and verifications to join us for some sexy fun and keep Cloe satisfied. How wrong we were lol"

I'm not sure exactly where Stoke is but I'm sure there are suitable men around your area if you do a search

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"You would think it would be easy to find a decent guy with a profile, pics and verifications to join us for some sexy fun and keep Cloe satisfied. How wrong we were lol

I'm not sure exactly where Stoke is but I'm sure there are suitable men around your area if you do a search

Stoke is north of your location

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You would think it would be easy to find a decent guy with a profile, pics and verifications to join us for some sexy fun and keep Cloe satisfied. How wrong we were lol"

that is life, I am sorry to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They seem to find me ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You would think it would be easy to find a decent guy with a profile, pics and verifications to join us for some sexy fun and keep Cloe satisfied. How wrong we were lol

I'm not sure exactly where Stoke is but I'm sure there are suitable men around your area if you do a search

Stoke is north of your location

Not many aren't north of Brighton

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By *andC2013 OP Couple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

Thanks everyone some great tips, think we need to change our mind set as advised and go hunting instead of being hunted lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone some great tips, think we need to change our mind set as advised and go hunting instead of being hunted lol

Get in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"before all the "white knights" appear... you seem to have fallen into the same trap as a lot of couples....

the popular single guys are just that....popular

if you are after a single particular type of single guy... rather than waiting on them to come to you.... why dont you go after them!

the popular ones wont have to do half the chasing that you seem to believe... give them a reason to meet you! what makes you stand out for any other couple!!!

if you know what you want, then to be honest it almost smacks of laziness..... men would have to roll over at your beck and call....

nope.....

mindset adjustment!!!"

this

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