FabSwingers.com forum: getting chatted up in a supermarket?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I always dress sexy in high heels, stockings, miniskirts etc..... even when shopping in a supermarket but Ive never been chattted up in there. I see plenty of guys having a sneaky peak but no more than that...

so any of you ladies been chatted up in a supermarket?

Or any of you gents .... have u chatted any ladies up in a supermarket?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was chatted up in the suppermarket. She wasn't quite my type but I couldn't help respect the guts it must have taken to do so.

I was very polite (as always ) in my rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always dress sexy in high heels, stockings, miniskirts etc..... even when shopping in a supermarket but Ive never been chattted up in there. I see plenty of guys having a sneaky peak but no more than that...

so any of you ladies been chatted up in a supermarket?

Or any of you gents .... have u chatted any ladies up in a supermarket?"

If you tell us where you shop, we will both be round to chat you up pronto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Paul) have been chatted up in a supermarket too, maybe women just are more self confident or maybe most men are worried about harrasing women ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Louise,

There's nothing I'd like more than to bump into you at tesco! I'd definitely start chatting you up.

Other ladies, probably not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so any of you ladies been chatted up in a supermarket?

Or any of you gents .... have u chatted any ladies up in a supermarket?"

I would certainly make sure I browsed down the same aisles as u but would never have the confidence to chat u up just too shy. Would certainly give u a big smile and also would need to hold my basket near the groin area to cover up the great big Hardon I would have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the natural.look in the supermarket may work better for you than stockings and heels....

i got.asked out at a play centre yesterday by a hot daddy. I said no, he was vanilla....

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By *oasterCockbumMan
over a year ago

Highway 61

Oh aye .... Shoppins a shite job only brightened by a blether to an attractive female .... You usually pass more than once as you zig zag through the aisles and a gander at the shopping basket often offers up a convo after a couple of eye contacts ........ Mind you , if I saw the op dressed like that she might not fancy a yak with a rather sheepish lookin guy in a trilby shufflin doon the aisle like a big question mark .....

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By *agicfingerslovelyMan
over a year ago

Rugby

Suggest the veg and the battery display are a good place to chat people up.

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

so any of you ladies been chatted up in a supermarket?

Or any of you gents .... have u chatted any ladies up in a supermarket?"

I wish supermarkets or certain other public meeting places had a discreet 'chat me up here' corner so similarly inclined people could bump into each other there.... Come to think of it that's why swinger clubs evolved...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did once at a B&Q...does that count?

Met her later for some fun later that day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been ........ in tescos and waitrose lol Waitrose a man come up to me said you should never have to get flowers for yourself as theres men like me who would love to get them for you I had 5 punches in my trolley . lol In tescos I was getting melons and had this man last summer stand there letting me know how to make sure ready to eat and after asking where I come from . lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I had a young man mail here saying see me in Tescos that morning and was looking at me going around the shop .. and he was working in town and would I meet him for coffee the next day , lol was weird getting mail like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would suggest you are possibly quit scary in real life, for a total stranger to chat up.

i dont mean it in a nasty way, but you have a kind of 'in your face' beauty, if you see what i mean.

not kind of a plain, good looking woman, but with the bright blonde hair, bright red lips, as you say, nice clothes and heels, i would say you look quite domineering.

please dont take it nasty as i dont mean it that way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Louise,

There's nothing I'd like more than to bump into you at tesco! I'd definitely start chatting you up.

Other ladies, probably not...

Keep an eye out for me sweetie.... I love a man in a suit.... xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i would suggest you are possibly quit scary in real life, for a total stranger to chat up.

i dont mean it in a nasty way, but you have a kind of 'in your face' beauty, if you see what i mean.

not kind of a plain, good looking woman, but with the bright blonde hair, bright red lips, as you say, nice clothes and heels, i would say you look quite domineering.

please dont take it nasty as i dont mean it that way"

I am just a sweet little thing.... what is there to fear apart from the fact I might break your balls....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the natural.look in the supermarket may work better for you than stockings and heels....

i got.asked out at a play centre yesterday by a hot daddy. I said no, he was vanilla...."

How do you know he was vanilla??!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

so any of you ladies been chatted up in a supermarket?

Or any of you gents .... have u chatted any ladies up in a supermarket?

that sort of thing happens all the time... it gets quite boring.... a smile is nice though.... a good morning... good evening etc is even better... maybe even hand me a bunch of flowers with a smile..... where are the gents of today

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By *ymrocruMan
over a year ago

penygroes

so any of you ladies been chatted up in a supermarket?

i would definitely chat with you in the supermarket if i could take you home with me. Xxxx

Or any of you gents .... have u chatted any ladies up in a supermarket?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank goodness for women who dress sexily for a supermarket shop.I often food shop with my mum,I can't flirt with a woman when I'm with my mum.I certainly couldn't chat up.However if I'm on my own I definitely will try it on in an aisle with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will pay more attention when next in my local smkt.I have read similar posts in the past and each time I look for the tell tale signs but all I see are harassed looking women behaving like sychopaths with trolleys!

Perhaps I'm shopping inthe wrong places.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

so any of you ladies been chatted up in a supermarket?

Or any of you gents .... have u chatted any ladies up in a supermarket?

It's when you get to the checkout and realise he hasn't paid for the flowers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont go looking for men in supermarkets or anywhere else really.

My swinging hobby is kept entirely separate to my day to day life.

I don't dress sexily for other men to look at me when I'm not swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was chatted up in the suppermarket. She wasn't quite my type but I couldn't help respect the guts it must have taken to do so.

I was very polite (as always ) in my rejection.

G "
wow. Lucky bastard. Not many men can say theyv been chatted up by a woman. Its usually the men who gotta do all the chasing

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By *agicfingerslovelyMan
over a year ago

Rugby

Have peeps never seen futive looking single women shoppers have a look and feel of the cucumbers or almost sneaking up the battery display with a red face and quickly putting in the trolley hidden under neath something. Come on ladies spill the beans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so any of you ladies been chatted up in a supermarket?

Or any of you gents .... have u chatted any ladies up in a supermarket?

If you tell us where you shop, we will both be round to chat you up pronto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have and it's an ideal place to pull.

Ask "Do you know where the baked beans are?" then say "Do I know you?"

Next "Oh in that case my name is Mikey would you like a coffee in the cafe?"

Sometimes it works sometimes no but supermarkets are a target rich enviroment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so any of you ladies been chatted up in a supermarket?

Or any of you gents .... have u chatted any ladies up in a supermarket?

Possibly worrying about sexual harassment suits! I saw on this morning once a bloke got called sexist for offering a pregnant woman his seat on the bus!!! so the women who moan chivalry is dead blame

political correctness! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so any of you ladies been chatted up in a supermarket?

Or any of you gents .... have u chatted any ladies up in a supermarket?"

See what i'm missing by doing my shopping on-line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so any of you ladies been chatted up in a supermarket?

Or any of you gents .... have u chatted any ladies up in a supermarket?"

Just tell me which supermarket and what time you go there !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the natural.look in the supermarket may work better for you than stockings and heels....

i got.asked out at a play centre yesterday by a hot daddy. I said no, he was vanilla....

How do you know he was vanilla??!"

i asked him to drop me a message on fab... He looked confused. Lol i dont mind who knows what i do

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By *atWolfCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

I love to get dolled up and love my makeup. I definitely get chatted up more if I go out looking rough and bare faced. Trust me, I'm not some secret natural goddess who ruins herself with too much slap... Therefore I must simply seem more approachable when I'm looking less glam and less likely to be standing out.

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

So a question for the women. What di you think is the best way for a man to approach you in public? (I dont mean on their hands and knees though lol)

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I work in a supermarket and I get chatted up all the time in self scan. Then again it could be because men always require my assistance

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No, I look at women and wonder and wish they were on fab but I'm there to food shop and try to get out as soon as I can. I've been in supermarkets and not spoken to anyone.

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By *atWolfCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"No, I look at women and wonder and wish they were on fab but I'm there to food shop and try to get out as soon as I can. I've been in supermarkets and not spoken to anyone. "

I love checking the who's near feature on my phone before heading in to our huge local supermarket. I also like briefly revealing a face pic just for that could spot or be spotted thrill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love to get dolled up and love my makeup. I definitely get chatted up more if I go out looking rough and bare faced. Trust me, I'm not some secret natural goddess who ruins herself with too much slap... Therefore I must simply seem more approachable when I'm looking less glam and less likely to be standing out. "

thats exactly it.

some men are very confident aand would chat up anyone, but most guys, when they see someone massively dolled up, it can be very intimidating, or they suspect you are heading out or meeting hubby, so why would they approach you.

have chatted with many unmade up women in supermarkets, some would say flirting (one accused me of stealing all the wine gums, when i was getting midgit gems, its all so hedonistic isnt it lol) to me its just being friendly.

funnily enough, not many men are chatty with other men in such surroundings.

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro

Supermarket - yes - only happened the once. Talked with the lady at the door as she was leaving. Familiar event - declared that she was actually married and hadn't "dated" for many years - but very polite and commented her admiration at my "courage" for being wiling to engage a "stranger" and express how I found her attractive.

If you find someone particularly attractive it's best to not let it go by, surely?

I've seen ladies fairly much skipping away delighted after propositioning them - gives a lift to their day.

Generally a positive experience both ways round

(and yes I have had success propositioning ladies I found attractive in public esttings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance of this for me as I always do the food shop with my oh. But I am also sometimes out alone in local supermarket so opportunity there I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so any of you ladies been chatted up in a supermarket?

Or any of you gents .... have u chatted any ladies up in a supermarket?"

Me that is jason , always chats the women up in supermarkets , that are in my checkout queue , even the old ones. And especially the checkout girl , lol the store staff are captured audience and it's practice

I would not look round for a woman dressed sexily though walking through the aisles , that just makes you look a creepy stalker or sex pest. On the few occasions that convo has started like that eg when asked to get something down from high shelf , it's open season

I do it in front of Paula as well, if someone is prepared to chat at me , I will always chat back and I usually make the first move,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with all shopping us men go in shop, get what we want, get out of shop as quick as possible !! No time for chatting up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I plod around Asda in jeans, jumper and my hair tied back. Been flirted with a few times, had a couple of cheerful smiles and head nods. Not been asked for my number though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too wear jeans or trousers, normal top, but do wear make up. will be round supermarket late afternoon today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont go looking for men in supermarkets or anywhere else really.

My swinging hobby is kept entirely separate to my day to day life.

I don't dress sexily for other men to look at me when I'm not swinging.

This is me too. I have never been chatted up in a supermarket and to be honest it's the last place I'd want to be chatted up in. I hate the places. I'm a head down and get in and out as quickly as possible kind of girl....unless I have the kids with me, that is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I plod around Asda in jeans, jumper and my hair tied back. Been flirted with a few times, had a couple of cheerful smiles and head nods. Not been asked for my number though "

It's not what you wear it's how you project yourself

I bet theirs going to be loads of guys hanging round supermarkets this afternoon from this post .

I always use Marks and Sparks or the sainsburys next door, not many wear jeans whilst shopping in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

where do you shop? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so any of you ladies been chatted up in a supermarket?

Or any of you gents .... have u chatted any ladies up in a supermarket?"

I wouldn't mind bumping into you in ASDA

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By *onnyforfunMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

so any of you ladies been chatted up in a supermarket?

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hi louise just looked at your profile and your pics your gorgeous id love to meet you in the supermarket id definately chat you up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so any of you ladies been chatted up in a supermarket?

Or any of you gents .... have u chatted any ladies up in a supermarket? hi louise just looked at your profile and your pics your gorgeous id love to meet you in the supermarket id definately chat you up x

your outfits may clash lol

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By *onnyforfunMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

no our outfits wouldnt clash because i only dress in clubs or in private with naughty females and couples who want me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so any of you ladies been chatted up in a supermarket?

Or any of you gents .... have u chatted any ladies up in a supermarket?"

Where do you shop....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See someone used that line.. Ok..

Clean up in aisle 9...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got chatting to a young lady in a B&M store ended up going for a drink and I got very lucky that night was quality I posted about it on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the manager of a supermarket, and only ever seem to get chatted up by lonely OAPs

Must be the uniform that puts guys off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to work in a supermarket (backstage, so glasses - no makeup) I'd sometimes pop in for some bits before a night out so I'd be dolled up (contacts, makeup, legs out) and even other staff wouldn't recognise me

p.s I shop online

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