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How do you spot other swingers??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, so there are loads of people on this site! So when walking around town some of the people you walk past must be swingers.

So how can you spot other swingers while walking around the local tesco's???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look out for the naked people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I carry this big 10ft neon sign on a shoulder rig, so everyone knows.

Sometimes I forget to put it on, then I look like everyone else!

LOL

Think it comes under "silly question".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look for the people with" Cum fuck with us we're swingers" t shirt on normally found in produce section between cu cucumbers and melons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when we go asda we all usually gather in the veg section in case we need a cucumber for that litle bit extra ahh thats asda price less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I openly look at fab on my phone in the hope that someone will comment. No one has...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"when we go asda we all usually gather in the veg section in case we need a cucumber for that litle bit extra ahh thats asda price less "

So best bet is hang around the fruit and veg, looking for people browsing fab on their phones?

I'll give it a go, and let you know if I get lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy - If its a woman, I look for her to be chased by a hundred guys and for her to ignored me and turn her back rapidly after a nice "hello, how are you doing". If its a bloke then I expect to get winked at a lot and a "gay! how very dare you!". If its a couple I look for the man to be overtly masculine (whilst eyeing up my bulge) and the woman to be strutting down the street loving the attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thinking a secret handshake: start a thumb war and just when you're about to start, do a pinky swear.

Secret wave: Do the Loser L with two fingers instead of one!

Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think you may be on to something, there should definitely be some kind of secret sign that others wouldn't recognise the significance of!

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By *IDNIGHTMADNESSMan
over a year ago

Nr Exeter

I suppose ankle brackets can be an indication of a hot wife, not always though as some people wear them just for fashion.

Iv spotted a couple recently but could never say anything!!

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

My wife has an ankle bracket tattooed on her right foot with the swingers bi logo. Xxx

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By *nne CallanWoman
over a year ago

Nothing to see here. Please move along.

I was spotted today by a fab member thismorning while doing yhe scjool run . He messaged me saying hi. Scary thing was it was in my road that i was seen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I simply look on here and then I no for sure lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pampas grass, if they are carrying pampas grass there is a pretty good chance that they may be swingers or gardeners (gardeners may be wearing wellies if that helps)

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By *uriouscouple34Couple
over a year ago

sunderland

Have you never thought that maybe people don't wanted to be "spotted" whilst going about their everyday lives. I for one spend a lot of time with my children and family members and would not be impressed if someone asked me about fab. This side of our lives is just for us and think I would nut a random stranger imposing on my family time

Mrs Curious x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I suppose ankle brackets can be an indication of a hot wife, not always though as some people wear them just for fashion.

Iv spotted a couple recently but could never say anything!! "

Ankle brackets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife has an ankle bracket tattooed on her right foot with the swingers bi logo. Xxx"

What's the logo? My wife and I both have chameleon tattoos. I'm getting the branch coloured pink next.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never heard that before, but just googled it! Off to check if any of my neighbours have Pampas grass in front garden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure, never seen any lol.

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By *uxtonMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"Have you never thought that maybe people don't wanted to be "spotted" whilst going about their everyday lives. I for one spend a lot of time with my children and family members and would not be impressed if someone asked me about fab. This side of our lives is just for us and think I would nut a random stranger imposing on my family time

Mrs Curious x"

thats the point, discretion its a must, if you want to spot swinger people, search on swingers areas, clubs, sites,...

Maybe not you but I think that most of the people wants to share that in privacy or at least not making a public announcement of their swingers condition

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Ok, so there are loads of people on this site! So when walking around town some of the people you walk past must be swingers.

So how can you spot other swingers while walking around the local tesco's???"

Can't imagine wanting to: time and place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think you may be on to something, there should definitely be some kind of secret sign that others wouldn't recognise the significance of!"

isn't there a car sticker to indicate swingers?? Cant quite remember now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We identify them by the pampass grass they carry around with them.

Funny though.. loads of them at the local garden centre.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My daughter is making me a car sticker that hangs in the window its says "this label swings so do I"....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can spot them here don't want people asking for cock pics in the street

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By *iceguy25Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

Well as its not normally a advertised thing you cant

there areload in and around the town i live on here and i recognise them through browsing but as im not a twat i never go say hi and even if there was "a look" i dout many would want to chat about it in the middle of tescos lol if at all

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By *ean299Man
over a year ago

Lucan

How about if someone on here is into designing jewellery and propose a few designs which can be voted on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy in tesco who had 6 doughnuts on his cock must be a swinger or show off mind every little helps

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By *rank_SimoneCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

The couple that has the shopping trolley in boots at the condom section.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

two words....

secret handshake.....

you have to be careful though... one wrong move and you get mistaken for a "mason".....

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I have a t shirt with a I love to swing logo on it

Mind it also advertising hp sauce most days as usually spill it down my front

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pampas grass, if they are carrying pampas grass there is a pretty good chance that they may be swingers or gardeners (gardeners may be wearing wellies if that helps)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear an anklet, have had a few knowing looks an smiles, its nice that they can't be sure, but usually wear a very short skirt so they assume I'm a naughty girl anyway,

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By *ick_u_nudeMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I wear an anklet, have had a few knowing looks an smiles, its nice that they can't be sure, but usually wear a very short skirt so they assume I'm a naughty girl anyway, "

Sweet!! I need to go to same places you go

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford


"Think you may be on to something, there should definitely be some kind of secret sign that others wouldn't recognise the significance of!

isn't there a car sticker to indicate swingers?? Cant quite remember now..."
Isn't it a little fish sign?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think you may be on to something, there should definitely be some kind of secret sign that others wouldn't recognise the significance of!

isn't there a car sticker to indicate swingers?? Cant quite remember now...Isn't it a little fish sign?"

What born again Christians lol!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wear an anklet, have had a few knowing looks an smiles, its nice that they can't be sure, but usually wear a very short skirt so they assume I'm a naughty girl anyway, "

Hmm love an anklet!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We've recognised a few people when we're out in the day time, one place in particular. We never make it obvious of course but it's a good reason not to have face pictures in public.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We've recognised a few people when we're out in the day time, one place in particular. We never make it obvious of course but it's a good reason not to have face pictures in public."

Hmm just curious as to how many people out there are into the lifestyle? Could be loads, could be hardly any? I guess we will never know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago gay men used to wear a ring on their little fingers, some still do, and t worked as a secret code to identify them to others.

They also used the hanky code, a handkerchief tucked in the back pocket identified either a top or a bottom guy depending on the side worn.

Colours also represented what the user was into, so light blue was into oral etc.

We just need someone to come up with an idea that could be universally adopted by swingers. Something you can wear is easiest.

I have a ying and yang tattoo to show I'm bisexual but if anyone asks any tricky questions, it's just a design I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check out the condom / lube aisle! could be a popular meeting place.

I thought that the chameleon was the swingers sign, I thought of a badge or tattoo being appropriate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had people come up to me in the past and ask if im "blondeminiminx" or an older id always denied it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deliberately dress down and dowdy in the "real" world. I don't want to be spotted! Ahhh...so...look for people dressed head to toe in black with flat unattractive shoes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call me old fashioned but I work on the basis that if we meet them in a club they probably are and if im not in a club I don't really think about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is for clubs, private parties, meets and sites like this. I seperate my real life from swinging and would never acknowledge someone outside of these areas. Waitrose is for shopping, not asking people if they play!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We've recognised a few people when we're out in the day time, one place in particular. We never make it obvious of course but it's a good reason not to have face pictures in public.

Hmm just curious as to how many people out there are into the lifestyle? Could be loads, could be hardly any? I guess we will never know!"

Oh there are loads like rats you're never more than ten feet away from a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the women wear fuck me shoes, low cut tops and short skirts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once saw a couple in asda looking at underwear the lady pick up an outfit guy said that would be nice with stockings about 20 min later they were picking up wine when he said how many bottles shall we get she replied a couple im on vodka have more fun that way we looked at each other both mouthed swingers

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