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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi andy here gotta a question to guys who have had mff threesomes is it normal if you never done anything like before to be nervous in terms of performance

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Of course.thats a huge mental hurdle for guys.just try relax and enjoy.

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By *hynewguy2012Man
over a year ago

dartford

I'm nervouse on just 1 to 1 lol.

Get 2nd wind in and carry on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm nervouse on just 1 to 1 lol.

Get 2nd wind in and carry on. "

Cheers guys atleast its sort of normal lol thought I was just being daft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax and enjoy it.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Hi andy here gotta a question to guys who have had mff threesomes is it normal if you never done anything like before to be nervous in terms of performance"
Hey Andy. Of course it is mate. Meeting someone new especially in a situation you never done before is daunting. Have a drink or two but not much more as it might effect performance too. Take your time perform plenty of oral and time on the ladies and hope all goes well. Send me a message if you would like to chat privately. Good luck. J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a FFM 3'some. The girls had a wee plant together then I joined in. The Arsenal v Chelsea game was on the TV at the same time. Happy days.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

A bit of nerves or anxiety is completely normal.iv had many many mmfs and id still feel a bit nervous before

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Andy, the main thing to do is concentrate 100% on the girl........ you are there for HER pleasure and delight!

Just relax, be cool, and go with the flow... enjoy the moment, and do not worry about anything else but pleasing her.......pleasuring her, and teasing her...

And if in doubt do get in touch with me, and I will be pleased to team up with you to enjoy a wonderful, sensuous, sexy and relaxed MMF playtime!

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Sorry I thought it was mmf.

Ffm iv done before.thats a different story.bring your A game.all I can say.and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get nervous on every meet. MFM or MF. Ok when I'm balls deep tho lol

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Sorry I thought it was mmf.

Ffm iv done before.thats a different story.bring your A game.all I can say.and enjoy"
I'm not sure this helps him really? Telling some one who is nervous to bring there A game is like telling someone who is nervous about an interview - you'll be fine!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being nervous is pretty normal , but once things start your soon forget your nerves and enjoy the moment , just remember not to try and direct it like a porno shoot but to let everyone do what they want to do at the time

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

Great advice guys and great profile. That ass! Mmmm J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember your wife/partner! Don't make the mistake of making it all about the woman you bring in and forget your other half.

Anxiety about performance will guarantee that at some point your mojo will go off the boil so relax, be attentive to both women, be prepared to step back and allow the ladies to enjoy themselves while you 'recover'. There's plenty you can do to pleasure them while you await the '2nd coming'

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Remember your wife/partner! Don't make the mistake of making it all about the woman you bring in and forget your other half.

Anxiety about performance will guarantee that at some point your mojo will go off the boil so relax, be attentive to both women, be prepared to step back and allow the ladies to enjoy themselves while you 'recover'. There's plenty you can do to pleasure them while you await the '2nd coming' "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure I'd be nervous too if I had advanced notice. Every ffm we've had has been spontaneous in a club so no time to worry.

It can be easy to get over excited by the idea of what's going in and actually lose focus on the reality so just try to share your attentions and the rewards will come to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know this is a question for the guys, but i have to share. We usually meet guys and I am always incredibly nervous, and I always find the other guy is also just as nervous. But I find once we're all naked and playing, all the nerves fade away. So my advice is get down to it and you'll enjoy. If you don't like the sound of that, maybe you could meet the people socially a few times first, so that you make friends and are relaxed in each others company. Lauz xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, It's a very common fantasy but in reality you've got 2 horny women to keep happy and it really helps if they are into each other (both visually and other ways )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha don't flop and you will be fine. One on your face one on your cock

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"I know this is a question for the guys, but i have to share. We usually meet guys and I am always incredibly nervous, and I always find the other guy is also just as nervous. But I find once we're all naked and playing, all the nerves fade away. So my advice is get down to it and you'll enjoy. If you don't like the sound of that, maybe you could meet the people socially a few times first, so that you make friends and are relaxed in each others company. Lauz xx"
The social meet might be a good idea. Great profile guys. J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you Lauz xx

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Thank you Lauz xx"
You are very welcome. Message me if you fancy a chat. No hassle if you don't. J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just relax and you will love it. We've had a fair few MFF meets, and we both get nervous before each one. There's always the whole "how can I perform for TWO women?!" Issue. Somehow it just ends up being ok. After you've cum the first time you'll relax and ease up. If you need a break, suggest taking some photos of them together

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By *leasurexxWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Lucky sod is all I can come up with

Try n relax and enjoy...if the ladies are bi I'm sure they will let you have a break

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Hi andy here gotta a question to guys who have had mff threesomes is it normal if you never done anything like before to be nervous in terms of performance"

NO. You are that excited - the anticipation of it has you have a hardon when ya flying down the motorway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi andy here gotta a question to guys who have had mff threesomes is it normal if you never done anything like before to be nervous in terms of performance"

It is, as it can be sensory overload. But it is the same for the first fmmmm gb or any group experience. I believe it is the 'shock' of actually performing in front of other people. Not everyone can do it, but then not everyone can be a porn star. Best of luck, and enjoy yourself.... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course.thats a huge mental hurdle for guys.just try relax and enjoy."

was nerv wreckin for us, but the night went well and we had a good night

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Of course.thats a huge mental hurdle for guys.just try relax and enjoy.

was nerv wreckin for us, but the night went well and we had a good night "
The main thing is ever one has fun and the best advice is to take your time and not try too hard or force it. Unless they like a little force! ha lol J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this is a question for the guys, but i have to share. We usually meet guys and I am always incredibly nervous, and I always find the other guy is also just as nervous. But I find once we're all naked and playing, all the nerves fade away. So my advice is get down to it and you'll enjoy. If you don't like the sound of that, maybe you could meet the people socially a few times first, so that you make friends and are relaxed in each others company. Lauz xx"

Exactly our experience, I'm always a shaking nervous wreck and hubby is calmness personified. Always feel very differently once the action starts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tip: dont neglect the one you fancy the least.she will get pissed off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always nervous before any type of meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this is a question for the guys, but i have to share. We usually meet guys and I am always incredibly nervous, and I always find the other guy is also just as nervous. But I find once we're all naked and playing, all the nerves fade away. So my advice is get down to it and you'll enjoy. If you don't like the sound of that, maybe you could meet the people socially a few times first, so that you make friends and are relaxed in each others company. Lauz xx

Exactly our experience, I'm always a shaking nervous wreck and hubby is calmness personified. Always feel very differently once the action starts!"

Exactly the same with us! Andy is as cool as a cucumber and I'm shaking, heart racing, the works! X

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