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By *oodmess OP   Man
over a year ago

yumsville

We all meet, and we all have sex and decent sex and good sex and all of it's varieties. But, anyone remember anyone stand-out, that was just a naturally good fuck.

Do you think it comes naturally, or with practice.

Discuss

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

There is no such thing - different people connect in different ways.

One mans pleasure is another mans poison.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's what you learn along the way and the effort you're willing to put in to an encounter that usually makes the chances of it being memorable greater. I've known a bloke who was simply unbelievable at going down on me and his Mrs agreed. The next woman might not like it in the least though.

I adore bjs and many guys have said they love my mouth (one asked me could he marry it lol), but not everyone has liked it, one positively did not.

For most if us what makes it good is sexual compatibility and in this game that's total pot luck.

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By *oodmess OP   Man
over a year ago

yumsville


"There is no such thing - different people connect in different ways.

One mans pleasure is another mans poison. "

So you only think people can have outstanding sex if they connect? Could it not be that those same people you connected with, have just as good sex with others?

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By *oodmess OP   Man
over a year ago

yumsville


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For most if us what makes it good is sexual compatibility and in this game that's total pot luck.

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agreed, an open mindset is one of the things that does open doors to memorable meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different strokes for different folks.

And I think it depends on the man I'm with in front of me,keep me amused and I will go all out.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no such thing - different people connect in different ways.

One mans pleasure is another mans poison.

So you only think people can have outstanding sex if they connect? Could it not be that those same people you connected with, have just as good sex with others? "

Good point, I think undoubtedly some peeps have more tricks in their toolkit by learning from experience, so more nurture than nature. If they're also confident they'll be generally well recieved, but still not necessarily universally. They may do things that some people really don't like.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"There is no such thing - different people connect in different ways.

One mans pleasure is another mans poison.

So you only think people can have outstanding sex if they connect? Could it not be that those same people you connected with, have just as good sex with others? "

You have to connect at the very least physically, and of course it is possible that they have equally good sex with other people, but my point is 'good at sex' is subjective and, ergo there is no such thing as generically being 'good at sex'.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"We all meet, and we all have sex and decent sex and good sex and all of it's varieties. But, anyone remember anyone stand-out, that was just a naturally good fuck.

Do you think it comes naturally, or with practice.

Discuss"

I think the 'thing' I seek is an innate thing, natural. For me it is not about skills or tricks, it is about their 'feel'. You either have good feel or you don't in my opinion.

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By *oodmess OP   Man
over a year ago

yumsville


"There is no such thing - different people connect in different ways.

One mans pleasure is another mans poison.

So you only think people can have outstanding sex if they connect? Could it not be that those same people you connected with, have just as good sex with others?

You have to connect at the very least physically, and of course it is possible that they have equally good sex with other people, but my point is 'good at sex' is subjective and, ergo there is no such thing as generically being 'good at sex'. "

I only ask, as I have had astounding meets with people who looked ok but I wasn't physically attracted to and others that weren't my type at all. One I remember was a very, very plane jane type, but her sex ..... she needed locking up! Another (who wasnt my type) was again - just absolutely up for it.

You must have had meets where they simply didnt know what they were doing. So why cant it follow that people do know what they are doing?

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"We all meet, and we all have sex and decent sex and good sex and all of it's varieties. But, anyone remember anyone stand-out, that was just a naturally good fuck.

Do you think it comes naturally, or with practice.

Discuss

I think the 'thing' I seek is an innate thing, natural. For me it is not about skills or tricks, it is about their 'feel'. You either have good feel or you don't in my opinion.

"

You can feel me anytime, sweetheart.

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By *oodmess OP   Man
over a year ago

yumsville


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I think the 'thing' I seek is an innate thing, natural. For me it is not about skills or tricks, it is about their 'feel'. You either have good feel or you don't in my opinion.

"

so, for example: say a guy had very bland verifications... all saying the same average, not very enticing things but you were attracted to him, would you meet him? (devils advocate)

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"We all meet, and we all have sex and decent sex and good sex and all of it's varieties. But, anyone remember anyone stand-out, that was just a naturally good fuck.

Do you think it comes naturally, or with practice.

Discuss

I think the 'thing' I seek is an innate thing, natural. For me it is not about skills or tricks, it is about their 'feel'. You either have good feel or you don't in my opinion.

You can feel me anytime, sweetheart. "

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"

I think the 'thing' I seek is an innate thing, natural. For me it is not about skills or tricks, it is about their 'feel'. You either have good feel or you don't in my opinion.

so, for example: say a guy had very bland verifications... all saying the same average, not very enticing things but you were attracted to him, would you meet him? (devils advocate)"

Of course. If I am not sure about the guy myself and the veris are bland it might put me off. But I meet guys without veris too, I go by my gut feel and have had some great meets that way.

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