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By *iss-Pink OP   Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester

I checked the most recent face pic threads and this wasn't covered (but I expect it's been done before at some point!)

If a guy/ fem/ couple (delete as appropriate to your wants!)makes initial approach and has then sent a face pic (in response to your request) and you've declined as 'not my/our type' but they asked for one in return in their message with their pic, how many would send their pic in return? Personally, I don't - I don't see the need for them to know what I look like when I've declined a meet anyway. I appreciate I asked for their pic first..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your decorated nippage is outstanding!!! Never mind a face pic..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't send one. No point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never send one back if I am not interested in them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes I send one. Its only fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have stunt double for such occasions...I send one of the great noel Edmonds..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never send one back if I am not interested in them x"

Same here.

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By *iss-Pink OP   Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Your decorated nippage is outstanding!!! Never mind a face pic.."

Lol - thanks!! x

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By *iss-Pink OP   Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I never send one back if I am not interested in them x

Same here. "

Glad to see others feel the same way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't send one back. I'd never get rid of them

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I wouldn't bother sending a pic if I didn't fancy her. I like the word 'nippage' though.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't send one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do the 'show your face' threads.

If someone wants to ask - they can by other means.

*Doesn't guarantee a reply - or one fulfilling their request though.

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By *tupidityDictatesWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I don't send one back after the 'sorry you're not what I'm looking for'.

I got a right telling off the other day for this, I was bored so humoured him instead of blocking but apparently I'm a rude, stuck up, self-obsessed c**t. He couldn't understand why I didn't want to send him my face pic after I had pointed out that he wasn't my type and he sent a rather rude reply.

Yes dear, you're not my type, we are never going to meet, you have been incredibly rude to me, of course I'll send you my face picture for you to show the world whilst you continue throwing abuse at me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never send one after declining. There really is no point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't either especially if you declined because you knew them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your decorated nippage is outstanding!!! Never mind a face pic.."

Me too and Im not bi ! Lol x

No would not reply - no point x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No we don't send a face pic back if we are not interested.

Same as if we make first contact and send a face pic, wouldn't expect or ask to see one if they were not interested in us.

What would be the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo not send one. Been recognised by vanilla friend before. Explaining was difficult lol. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never send one back if I am not interested in them x

Same here. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we had no interest whatsoever, then no.

If we weren't sure and would happyily meet/chat at a club if we went on the same date then we would say that, but include a pic also. Who knows..

as an aside..

What we dont like is people asking if we have face pics, but yet not prepared to include one in their message.

Well obviously the answer is yes we do.. but your asking us, so you first..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What we dont like is people asking if we have face pics, but yet not prepared to include one in their message.

Well obviously the answer is yes we do.. but your asking us, so you first..

"

yet another asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do you mean the show ur face threads? i thought the whole point of them was to exchange face pics

i always sent one in return whether i fancied the person or not. it was just a bit of fun

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By *iss-Pink OP   Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"do you mean the show ur face threads? i thought the whole point of them was to exchange face pics

i always sent one in return whether i fancied the person or not. it was just a bit of fun"

Nope - I meant in private messages where a guy messages me and at some point quite early on I ask for a face pic (have chatted for ages before only to then get a face pic and it be a very definite 'not my type' - which is a waste of time for both parties) - and then discover they're not my type - inform them of this and they ask for a face pic in return 'as it's only fair'. I always decline to do this as I don't see the point.

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By *occosboysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Manchester

OK one reason many F and couples here ask for face pics is that many M profiles don't have any memorable pics on them so they forget who is who especially when they receive many messages.

The other is common sense - what you look like not just good looking but how old and if look like a nutter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread , a subject I feel strongly about .

Don't ASK for a face pic , if your not prepared to send one by return even if you don't fancy them. It's common courtesy and manners. If someone has the decency to fulfil your request why decline if they ask the same. If they have sent you one without you asking then that is different .

I always say to those that ask , are you prepared to send one also . Never had a problem since I've started making that clear first .

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Can't think of a single reason why you would want to see a face pic in return if you have sent yours to someone and based on that they aren't interested in you.

Unless you're playing Fab Top Trumps, maybe?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't think of a single reason why you would want to see a face pic in return if you have sent yours to someone and based on that they aren't interested in you.

Unless you're playing Fab Top Trumps, maybe?!"

It's called being human !!! It's actually quite nice to see the face of someone you've being having dialogue with. As I said don't ASK for it if your not prepared to have the common decency to send by return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point in a return pic but what I don't get is the people who ask to see a face pic tend to be those unwilling to send one first. I'll send my face pic happily but it's annoying as what tends to happen if I ask to see a face pic I get a 'you first' but if someone else asks I'm expected to show straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they not interested anyway we wouldn't bother sending a pic don't see the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we didn't fancy the sender we wouldn't send a picture back for two reasons.

1. Whats the point? It's not bullseye " lets see what you could have won"

2. Some people hate rejection and giving them face pic's to link with naughty fab pic's is to much ammunition. Sad but true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't think of a single reason why you would want to see a face pic in return if you have sent yours to someone and based on that they aren't interested in you.

Unless you're playing Fab Top Trumps, maybe?!"

This.

Though fab top trumps is a classy concept

Cock size : 7/10

Body shape :8/10

Oral skills : 6/10

Breathing through ears ability: 4/10

Probability of premature ejac :10/10

Likely hood of embarrassing silence through inability to achieve erection : etc etc

Hmmm I feel a thread coming on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we didn't fancy the sender we wouldn't send a picture back for two reasons.

1. Whats the point? It's not bullseye " lets see what you could have won"

2. Some people hate rejection and giving them face pic's to link with naughty fab pic's is to much ammunition. Sad but true

"

OK , that's fine and I empathise with point 2. So put on your profile " we may ask for a face pic , but if there is no attraction please note we will not be sending one in return" .

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