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By *axlf079 OP   Man
over a year ago

cambridge

I had a relationship with a married couple (yes both of them) who the woman was a pole dancer at a swinger club.

I was really happy in till jealousy got involved (husbands part)

I used to help them with everything ie: helped them with the woman's business, helped the husband at work when he was super busy at work (he's a coach mechanic) so he can get to spend more time with his mrs & family, looked after their 6 kids even more so the married couple can spend more quality time with each other, helped cook & clean and genially making their quality of life better.

Me and a lot of my friends play together (my moto friends who play together stay together lol)

But they was allowed to play with my friends but I wasn't allowed as I am the toyboy and she didnt want to share me with anyone soon as I realised this they tired to turn me against my friends and failed (me and my friends are really close)

I guess the husband wanted to give me a taste what jealousy was like and got the woman to have sex with people from his work behind my back and lying to me about it as it very hurtful being lied to the truth is easier to deal with than lies I believe and jealousy is a negative trait

I decided to leave the couple and try the swinging scene for my self as I wasn't allowed before and here I am today ;o) x

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By *axlf079 OP   Man
over a year ago

cambridge

Anyone else wanna share how they got on to the swinging scene ? ;o) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crikey. Epic story.

I got involved after meeting a woman via a chat line (this was mid-late 90s) who then introduced me to others who were into this scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A male. friend on face book said I should get on here as I was too sexy to go with out sex.....his words not mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea lol general chatting next thing you know we on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I needed more sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of fish....a woman who wanted "dating no commitment" mentioned fab and pandoras box opened.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I m a masseur by hobby...got in touch with some sexy girls those were in swinging back in my country...I thought of using my massage skills here as well...it gives me chance to use my massage skills as well as gives me a chance to meet some very sexy women and couples in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came in the back door...

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Through dogging and some of the early Yahoo hedgerowsexual groups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Several years ago when I lived in Brum I met a girl from London at a gig. We became an item of sorts but never expected it to go anywhere because of the distance so we were both very open about our fantasies. Few months later I was living in London with a girl and we both knew that we wnted to try group sex. Joined a swingers site, had a 4sum with a couple of "vanilla" friends. Crried on in a similar vein for a few years till the relationship ran it's course.

When we met, we had both been having group sex for years, we went to a fet club on our 2nd proper date crystal played with 2 other men and that pretty much set the tone for this relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a casual relationship together then some pillow talk about going to club. Went to a club never looked back no longer casual and enjoying ourselves ever since meeting some great people along the way.

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Lots of sex nom nom

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"Several years ago when I lived in Brum I met a girl from London at a gig. We became an item of sorts but never expected it to go anywhere because of the distance so we were both very open about our fantasies. Few months later I was living in London with a girl and we both knew that we wnted to try group sex. Joined a swingers site, had a 4sum with a couple of "vanilla" friends. Crried on in a similar vein for a few years till the relationship ran it's course. "

I remember the day you joined the other site, first time I ever offered to be a hand holder for newbies!!!


"When we met, we had both been having group sex for years, we went to a fet club on our 2nd proper date crystal played with 2 other men and that pretty much set the tone for this relationship"

And I'd do the same again!!!

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By *weetdebWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

A girlfriend told me to take a peek..i was mortified, as just the word "swinger" conjured up unsavoury images.A bottle of wine later and a rough draft was made ,another glass and the photo was on.I awoke in the morning to find a few hundred messages,,

Three years down the line and;;;;

Hello,my name is Debbie and im a FABAHOLIC

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By *andyCock4Man
over a year ago

Coventry

Both of us came out of sexually repressed marriages and wanted to live out our fantasies in safe environments with like minded people! We have never looked back and are loving our adventures and hope to have many more x

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

As for how I got into this.

I was recently single, bored and horny. Looked online. Found another site, joined initially to get laid without attachment, realised there was a huge social thing attached to it. Went to a munch, met loads of like minded people. And it's been part of my life ever since. Some of my best friendships have been forged in the swinging world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I remember the day you joined the other site, first time I ever offered to be a hand holder for newbies!!!

"

I had no idea you had offered that! Harry Jones was our handholder at our first munch (Herts Tarts 6 I think), he was, and still is an utter legend. Introduced me to lots of people, whose names he couldn't remember and wasn;t sure where he'd met them previously!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was kidnapped by a swinging cult and haven't been allowed to leave

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"

I remember the day you joined the other site, first time I ever offered to be a hand holder for newbies!!!

I had no idea you had offered that! Harry Jones was our handholder at our first munch (Herts Tarts 6 I think), he was, and still is an utter legend. Introduced me to lots of people, whose names he couldn't remember and wasn;t sure where he'd met them previously! "

Yeah!!! Think it was actually the day you posted your hello thread! I pm'd Dippy I think offering!!!! That was before you even knew you were coming to Herts Tarts!!!

Alas, Harry got there before me!!! Probably for the best with how d*unk I was. Although I still have a vague recollection of an ironing board and a rather d*unk MissD.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

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By *axlf079 OP   Man
over a year ago

cambridge

Really cool hearing how everyone got into our lovely scene ;o) x

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By *axlf079 OP   Man
over a year ago

cambridge

This site is kinda like Facebook for horny fuckers lol ;o) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent even started it lol.

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By *axlf079 OP   Man
over a year ago

cambridge

Welcome to the scene then matey ;o) x

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By *axlf079 OP   Man
over a year ago

cambridge

Anyone else wanna share how they got into the swinging scene ? ;o) x

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By *aith boyMan
over a year ago

Worthing

a bloke i worked with used to have a group of us around to watch videos. sometimes he'd pot pornos on. him and he g/f used to chat about going to partied, but we all thought it was just their humour. I went round and after a bit oif chat they asked if i wasnted to see their polaroids. i said yes and they were of her getting shagged by different blokes. he said off you go , and me and his g/f went into the bedroom and fucked. he joined us, and we had a thing going for quite a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a bloke i worked with used to have a group of us around to watch videos. sometimes he'd pot pornos on. him and he g/f used to chat about going to partied, but we all thought it was just their humour. I went round and after a bit oif chat they asked if i wasnted to see their polaroids. i said yes and they were of her getting shagged by different blokes. he said off you go , and me and his g/f went into the bedroom and fucked. he joined us, and we had a thing going for quite a while "

Did something similar with a guy we had known socially although had already been involved with a couple of tohers prior to that through contact mags.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend texted me one Sunday morning and said get up you're coming with me. So I got up and went with her to her boyfriend's where we had some adult fun. I'd been meeting single men on my own before then and had a couple of mmf 3sums. She was my first playing with a couple. After that I did the same thing with her and her husband

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By *axlf079 OP   Man
over a year ago

cambridge

Anyone else want to share how they got on to the swinging scene ;o) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was feeling fed up. Went to mates she said...lets get ready Ile take you to a club.. It was a swingers club ha never looked back happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Referral from another site, ditched that one and never looked back, lots of happy experiences and memories!

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By *axlf079 OP   Man
over a year ago

cambridge

Really cool hearing how people got onto the swinging scene ;o) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a girl one night in a bar who was bi-sexual and she had a girlfriend who she'd known for some time before meeting me, she was just going through a divorce and wanted some fun, so we went with her girlfriend to couples nights at xanadu's in manchester together and ended up having threesomes together and this continued till she upped and moved out of the area some 6 months later.

I met someone else and been swinging on and off ever since.

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By *axlf079 OP   Man
over a year ago

cambridge

Really nice hearing how people got onto our lovely swinging scene anyone else want to share how they got into it ? ;o) x

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By *leasurexxWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

An ex invited his mate round to watch the 'boxing' at about 2am....I can't remember if it was even put on lol x

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By *axlf079 OP   Man
over a year ago

cambridge

Anymore people wanna share how they got onto our lovely scene ;o) x

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By *IDNIGHTMADNESSMan
over a year ago

Nr Exeter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met someone on another site who thought I would enjoy it on here. She was right

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

Apologies to everyone on this post ..shouldn't vent in the forums over a personal issue ..I have asked admin to take my comment off.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

This way madness lies. I'm currently writing a book about my moral decline, the first chapter starts about 10 or so years ago. However it all began some 40 years before that. In the current moral climate I'm just glad I was into older women in those days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met up with a female friend (known for 20 years) at hers as she was on her laptop answering a post similar to this.

When I got home I turned on the pc and had a look. Now I can say that she was my first taste of swinging and I've not left the site since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the chuff is going on in forums at the moment? Seems there is a proper drama development in various threads (with a common theme!). As entertaining as it is to read whilst wasting some time with a cuppa it is becoming something of a car crash....not really the kind of enjoyable perverse viewing I expected....

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By *axlf079 OP   Man
over a year ago

cambridge


"What the chuff is going on in forums at the moment? Seems there is a proper drama development in various threads (with a common theme!). As entertaining as it is to read whilst wasting some time with a cuppa it is becoming something of a car crash....not really the kind of enjoyable perverse viewing I expected.... "

It's sad times ruins it for everyone else ;o(

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What the chuff is going on in forums at the moment? Seems there is a proper drama development in various threads (with a common theme!). As entertaining as it is to read whilst wasting some time with a cuppa it is becoming something of a car crash....not really the kind of enjoyable perverse viewing I expected.... "

The common theme is becoming quite creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What the chuff is going on in forums at the moment? Seems there is a proper drama development in various threads (with a common theme!). As entertaining as it is to read whilst wasting some time with a cuppa it is becoming something of a car crash....not really the kind of enjoyable perverse viewing I expected....

The common theme is becoming quite creepy "

I'm glad someone picked up on that reference!

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By *axlf079 OP   Man
over a year ago

cambridge


"What the chuff is going on in forums at the moment? Seems there is a proper drama development in various threads (with a common theme!). As entertaining as it is to read whilst wasting some time with a cuppa it is becoming something of a car crash....not really the kind of enjoyable perverse viewing I expected....

The common theme is becoming quite creepy

I'm glad someone picked up on that reference!"

Please fill me in lol ;os

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What the chuff is going on in forums at the moment? Seems there is a proper drama development in various threads (with a common theme!). As entertaining as it is to read whilst wasting some time with a cuppa it is becoming something of a car crash....not really the kind of enjoyable perverse viewing I expected....

The common theme is becoming quite creepy "

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By *axlf079 OP   Man
over a year ago

cambridge

Lol

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By *axlf079 OP   Man
over a year ago

cambridge

Pmsl

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By *axlf079 OP   Man
over a year ago

cambridge

The couple I had a relationship with are obviously sore that I left them telling the club she worked for load of bullshit lies and then the hosts can warn me off people I was getting along with and start loads of shit for me in the scene why can't people just let go ? maybe I should send her a 15" dildo because she's obviously not getting cock on demand like I used to give her lol ;o) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I discovered my parents where swingers when I was young I was shocked and thought I could never do that but in my early 20s I ended up in a 3 some with a married older couple, it became regular and they took me to a swinging party n I loved it, over the years I asked several girlfriends about it but no way would any of them do it, I could.nt believe my wife when she agreed to it and she got into it maybe a bit too much as it was our downfall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great post mate! I got into it through a friend but similar thing happened with me so I know exactly how u feel mate - not good #double #standards.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We had only been going out together for a few weeks and were watching porn in bed one night. The DVD was shot in La Chambre and starred ordinary clubbers, not porn stars. We both thought it looked fun, so we went to la Chambre the following Saturday - neither of us had been to a swinger club before - and we loved it. We have been swinging regularly ever since!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got into this at 28 through an ex partner the trouble is she no longer does this and well I'm hooked on it lol got the wife into this too so happy days

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