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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm wondering about your thoughts with regards to winks.

Is it lazy?

Icebreaker?

For me I see it as interest has been shown, so if winked back a more formal introduction can be made.

Your thoughts please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say that I quite like a cheeky wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh winks !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to give and receive winks.

I usually accompany it with a message or if I get a wink back, I'll follow up with a message.

Just a nice, chilled way of getting someone's attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love to give and receive winks.

I usually accompany it with a message or if I get a wink back, I'll follow up with a message.

Just a nice, chilled way of getting someone's attention. "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem with winks, see it as a show of interest. If I send one and its reciprocated I follow it with a short friendly message and expect the same from a winker

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

I don't mind receiving winks, I see it as a quick and easy expression of interest. If I like the profile I usually send a message and I've had a few successful meets that way.

I don't send winks though! if a carefully thought out message gets deleted without a response what chance does a wink stand? or is that where I'm going wrong!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How about the profile that state all winks will be deleted?

Me I love a wink of interest and like to reply with a cheeky "how do you do"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a fan of both sending and receiving winks as well. For me it's just a nice way of saying "hey I'd like to get to know you" if they wink back then great...If not oh well.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I don;t respond to winks and I don;t give them.

I would much prefer someone to have read my profile and have found something to say..

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I never look at who has winked me, so I would never know who has and who hasn't winked.

Though I have winked 1 or 2 men lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message over winks gets our attention better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been known to send the odd wink or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple of winks after I'd fabbed their pics which ended in 2 good meets but also, messaged a guy who winked at me then he deleted my message without reply so bit baffled but on the whole I like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a couple of winks after I'd fabbed their pics which ended in 2 good meets but also, messaged a guy who winked at me then he deleted my message without reply so bit baffled but on the whole I like them. "

and why would a person delete a message from somebody as delightfully bonkers as you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a good Wink

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We check our winks every so often. Will wink back if we like what we see and they are fairly local.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oretanaCouple
over a year ago

slough


"I don;t respond to winks and I don;t give them.

I would much prefer someone to have read my profile and have found something to say..

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I always read someone's profile before winking, I'm showing interest and I hope they will read our profile. If they wink back, like others here, we then respond with a fuller message and maybe pics and tel no. Think it's a good way to break the ice. As for finding something to say, what are you looking for? Marks out of 10 for presentation?

Prefer to find something to say over the phone or face to face ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even check them

I never know if it means they are interested or they are just winking everyone woman on the site in hope one will reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely look to see who's winked as I take it to mean I like your profile but not enough to message you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it better to wink or fab a person photo to get someone attention.

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