FabSwingers.com forum: reading profiles

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Men complain that they have too many profiles to read and usually dont get a reply anyway but surely if they took the time to find out if they fit the woman's criteria they would have more chance of a reply. Also, it a hell of a lot harder for us woman to find a suitable guy, there is no filter for preference of body type, colouring, body type, cock size etc and when I try to narrow my search down as much as possible I get 300+ matches a male friend told me he only get about 20 so clearly it is harder for us to get through all the profiles.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And btw I know my profile is long atm, longest ive ever had it, but I thought that would narrow down the guys that message and help me make a more informed opinion. Also, I read it and it takes under 2 mins, I think that is a reasonable amount of time and effort to put in if you want to have sex with that person. After all it'd talk more than 2 mins to chat somebody up in a bar.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we should be able to filter our searches using them kinda preferences to make sure we find suitable men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think we should be able to filter our searches using them kinda preferences to make sure we find suitable men"

Put this in the wrong area lol. But I'll put it as a suggestion, probably won't work x

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men complain that they have too many profiles to read and usually dont get a reply anyway but surely if they took the time to find out if they fit the woman's criteria they would have more chance of a reply."

Sorry but whilst this is true to an extent, you simply have no idea how hard it is to get your foot in the door, and reading a woman's profile, making notes and writing a specifically tailored message has never, ever, got me any more success than the quick hello approach does. It makes no difference.

What women say and what they actually seem to react to are rather different things.

By *hameleons69Woman
over a year ago

good ship lollipop

Bloody hell we can't be pickie enough (although having virtually no morals helps)! Falling over ourselves for choice of meets but then suppose we have 'checked' nearly every box in the 'likes' choices