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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think I have been quite lucky over the years, but have kept my distance from a few men in saunas who have insisted I return to their flats.I have had one night stands with ladies who have turned out to be emotionally fragile..always made my excuses and left. Lots of people want to swing, but not many emotionally ready for it. A few guys on here certainly cannot take rejection very well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few unhinged people on here!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

oh good lord......... I could write a book

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've met men who come across as very needy or desperate. But no-one completely batso. Yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full of unhinged people, manipulative men and users. Welcome to FAB.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone who wasn't as advertised, although not unhinged they were odd - good job I'm agile and a very fast runner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YES

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to attract them

Hence I don't meet anymore sob sob

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've met men who come across as very needy or desperate. But no-one completely batso. Yet!"

Yes me too, you just want adult fun, not a cuddle with a stranger.some guys are just not cut out for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seem to attract them

Hence I don't meet anymore sob sob "

I'm thinking of taking going the same way x

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By *uywithaSmileMan
over a year ago

Rossendale

Just the one, a woman. Let's just say she has a self destructive personality, and I consider myself lucky not to be dragged into her world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy once who was a single dad, after meeting him only once he wanted to move himself and his daughter into my house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who wants to meet me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a guy once who was a single dad, after meeting him only once he wanted to move himself and his daughter into my house "

Frickin eck

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

yes.....

I'll leave it there......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seem to attract them

Hence I don't meet anymore sob sob

I'm thinking of taking going the same way x"

Me 3...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met men who come across as very needy or desperate. But no-one completely batso. Yet!

Yes me too, you just want adult fun, not a cuddle with a stranger.some guys are just not cut out for it "

I cuddle, kiss and hold hands with FWB as well as sex and it's fucking awesome

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Oh yes! lol mainly at clubs and socials though...we've seen tears, tantrums and some pretty shocking behaviour

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I met a guy once who was a single dad, after meeting him only once he wanted to move himself and his daughter into my house "

whoa!

There is one meet we had with a couple from another site that we still find it hard to talk about but apart from a couple of seriously deluded souls we have met genuine, friendly and warm people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. He took revenge when I wouldn't meet him.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I've met men who come across as very needy or desperate. But no-one completely batso. Yet!

Yes me too, you just want adult fun, not a cuddle with a stranger.some guys are just not cut out for it "

It doesn't help that I am not into regular meets or dating.

Oooh, I did forget one. He promised to arrange a GB for me, and get someone to give me a lift there. He neglected to tell the poor bloke he'd nominated about this and in the end the evening was cancelled. Then he blamed me, and start calling me names for being sexually open. I wouldn't mind but he approached me!

Block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello I am a swinger and I have Bi Polar at the moment I am on my meds and stable but I have a low libido so not interested in meeting not interested in much really but when I am manic I am insatiable but have very poor lack of judgement so that is not good and do go off the rails. It is from one extreme to the other but after a manic episode there is always a big crash so although I may be boring at the moment but I am safe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just the one, a woman. Let's just say she has a self destructive personality, and I consider myself lucky not to be dragged into her world. "

If in doubt - bang out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I have been quite lucky over the years, but have kept my distance from a few men in saunas who have insisted I return to their flats.I have had one night stands with ladies who have turned out to be emotionally fragile..always made my excuses and left. Lots of people want to swing, but not many emotionally ready for it. A few guys on here certainly cannot take rejection very well. "

I think we are all unhinged what ever that means! Why else would we be on this site if we where in a vanilla relationship! Or maybe we are all taking things to seriously instead of just having a bit of fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I walked away from a meet with a couple once, she was just swinging to keep him happy and quiet, another bloke happily banged away but i couldnt do it...had to walk

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I walked away from a meet with a couple once, she was just swinging to keep him happy and quiet, another bloke happily banged away but i couldnt do it...had to walk"

we've refused meets on similar grounds where one or the other partner was clearly only doing it to keep the other happy. That to me really is unhinged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooooooooooh, a thread for me.

*waves*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had insults when I stopped seeing one guy for reg sex - was a bit crazy.

One guy I dated cried don't leave me twice down the phone after 3 dates - that was scary

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I have narrowly avoided and also had to escape from a few very scary peeps from here....

I'm pretty careful now able make no excuses or exceptions from my process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a serious note I guess I've been fortunate with meets and dates. There was only one date who was a bit iffy, and if I'd listened to my intuition I wouldn't have suffered my ears talked off

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No, I can't say that I have.

Does that make me the unhinged one?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"No, I can't say that I have.

Does that make me the unhinged one? "

does your gate still hang level and swing both ways? If yes you are hinged correctly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not met but I've read a few threads by some that are very close to being unhinged this evening

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Not met but I've read a few threads by some that are very close to being unhinged this evening "

just this evening Legs!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a serious note I guess I've been fortunate with meets and dates. There was only one date who was a bit iffy, and if I'd listened to my intuition I wouldn't have suffered my ears talked off "

Was that our Ben? gave me ear ache too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not met anyone mental yet but I blocked all single men after receiving a message from a male couple a good 25-30 years older than me requesting "priest-alter boy roleplay".

Also been asked by 2 separate couples if is be interested in helping them conceive, they were blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a serious note I guess I've been fortunate with meets and dates. There was only one date who was a bit iffy, and if I'd listened to my intuition I wouldn't have suffered my ears talked off

Was that our Ben? gave me ear ache too "

, no it was a vanilla date. He was obnoxious but I got rid of him by telling him I was going swinging hahaha. He called me immoral and all sorts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unhinged? See most of above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not met but I've read a few threads by some that are very close to being unhinged this evening

just this evening Legs!? "

good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. He took revenge when I wouldn't meet him. "

I know another female (former fab member) who this happened to. Refused to meet a couple and they put her pics on facebook and contacted her parents!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I walked away from a meet with a couple once, she was just swinging to keep him happy and quiet, another bloke happily banged away but i couldnt do it...had to walk

we've refused meets on similar grounds where one or the other partner was clearly only doing it to keep the other happy. That to me really is unhinged."

Might of been same couple lol

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"There's a few unhinged people on here! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I walked away from a meet with a couple once, she was just swinging to keep him happy and quiet, another bloke happily banged away but i couldnt do it...had to walk

we've refused meets on similar grounds where one or the other partner was clearly only doing it to keep the other happy. That to me really is unhinged.

Might of been same couple lol "

We had a meet quite recently where the Lady of the couple admitted to my better half that she was only doing it to keep him happy, Thanks but no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh good lord......... I could write a book "

Ditto x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. He took revenge when I wouldn't meet him.

I know another female (former fab member) who this happened to. Refused to meet a couple and they put her pics on facebook and contacted her parents!"

That's what happened. He found me on Facebook and sent the link to my profile to all my Facebook friends. Including some family members on there. The creep

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I walked away from a meet with a couple once, she was just swinging to keep him happy and quiet, another bloke happily banged away but i couldnt do it...had to walk

we've refused meets on similar grounds where one or the other partner was clearly only doing it to keep the other happy. That to me really is unhinged.

Might of been same couple lol

We had a meet quite recently where the Lady of the couple admitted to my better half that she was only doing it to keep him happy, Thanks but no thanks "

How on earth do they think it will make the other person feel...."I don't want to have sex with you but I will to keep my partner happy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

A couple hadn't told us before we started playing that they only did anal... I don't do anal... she went ballistic when he asked me how his cock felt inside my arse and I answered I couldn't feel a thing up there as it was in the other hole!

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I walked away from a meet with a couple once, she was just swinging to keep him happy and quiet, another bloke happily banged away but i couldnt do it...had to walk

we've refused meets on similar grounds where one or the other partner was clearly only doing it to keep the other happy. That to me really is unhinged.

Might of been same couple lol

We had a meet quite recently where the Lady of the couple admitted to my better half that she was only doing it to keep him happy, Thanks but no thanks

How on earth do they think it will make the other person feel...."I don't want to have sex with you but I will to keep my partner happy" "

luckily it didnt get that far, it was a social in a pub and when we got home my better half told me what had been said n i cancelled the next meet, to be honest if it had been during action i would have just pulled my trousers up n left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a serious note I guess I've been fortunate with meets and dates. There was only one date who was a bit iffy, and if I'd listened to my intuition I wouldn't have suffered my ears talked off

Was that our Ben? gave me ear ache too

, no it was a vanilla date. He was obnoxious but I got rid of him by telling him I was going swinging hahaha. He called me immoral and all sorts."

Oh to have been a fly on the wall tried that on POF but it backfired as the guy was even more interested in me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I walked away from a meet with a couple once, she was just swinging to keep him happy and quiet, another bloke happily banged away but i couldnt do it...had to walk

we've refused meets on similar grounds where one or the other partner was clearly only doing it to keep the other happy. That to me really is unhinged.

Might of been same couple lol

We had a meet quite recently where the Lady of the couple admitted to my better half that she was only doing it to keep him happy, Thanks but no thanks

How on earth do they think it will make the other person feel...."I don't want to have sex with you but I will to keep my partner happy"

luckily it didnt get that far, it was a social in a pub and when we got home my better half told me what had been said n i cancelled the next meet, to be honest if it had been during action i would have just pulled my trousers up n left"

Yep it's one of many reasons we always meet socially only first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I walked away from a meet with a couple once, she was just swinging to keep him happy and quiet, another bloke happily banged away but i couldnt do it...had to walk

we've refused meets on similar grounds where one or the other partner was clearly only doing it to keep the other happy. That to me really is unhinged.

Might of been same couple lol

We had a meet quite recently where the Lady of the couple admitted to my better half that she was only doing it to keep him happy, Thanks but no thanks

How on earth do they think it will make the other person feel...."I don't want to have sex with you but I will to keep my partner happy"

luckily it didnt get that far, it was a social in a pub and when we got home my better half told me what had been said n i cancelled the next meet, to be honest if it had been during action i would have just pulled my trousers up n left

Yep it's one of many reasons we always meet socially only first. "

I couldnt agree more, disregarding the bollox i put on here for my own amusement neither of us NEED others, Its a lifestyle choice and without a connection between everyone involved we would prefer to shake hands and walk away

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I walked away from a meet with a couple once, she was just swinging to keep him happy and quiet, another bloke happily banged away but i couldnt do it...had to walk

we've refused meets on similar grounds where one or the other partner was clearly only doing it to keep the other happy. That to me really is unhinged.

Might of been same couple lol

We had a meet quite recently where the Lady of the couple admitted to my better half that she was only doing it to keep him happy, Thanks but no thanks

How on earth do they think it will make the other person feel...."I don't want to have sex with you but I will to keep my partner happy"

luckily it didnt get that far, it was a social in a pub and when we got home my better half told me what had been said n i cancelled the next meet, to be honest if it had been during action i would have just pulled my trousers up n left

Yep it's one of many reasons we always meet socially only first.

I couldnt agree more, disregarding the bollox i put on here for my own amusement neither of us NEED others, Its a lifestyle choice and without a connection between everyone involved we would prefer to shake hands and walk away "

that pretty much sums our philosophy up except its me L writing the bollox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not met but had a near miss. It got nasty.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't start me on this topic ..,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met men who come across as very needy or desperate. But no-one completely batso. Yet!

Yes me too, you just want adult fun, not a cuddle with a stranger.some guys are just not cut out for it

I cuddle, kiss and hold hands with FWB as well as sex and it's fucking awesome "

This is what I want with someone so I'm normal then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't start me on this topic ..,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard some real horror stories about men and women.on here but I've been lucky and stayed.friends with nearly all my meets xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I should count myself lucky I've yet to get a meet!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Don't start me on this topic ..,,,,"
Ahhhh go on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met men who come across as very needy or desperate. But no-one completely batso. Yet!

Yes me too, you just want adult fun, not a cuddle with a stranger.some guys are just not cut out for it

I cuddle, kiss and hold hands with FWB as well as sex and it's fucking awesome

Mmmm yes x very

This is what I want with someone so I'm normal then. "

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By *et_me_take_controlMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Had one woman who, a day after our 1 and only meet, and after being told we wouldnt be meeting again (because she was weird), proceeded to tell me she was pregnant and it was mine!

She carried this on for two weeks, and came round to mine in middle of night nearly every night!

Bloody nightmare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah people who get jealous and those who string me along and not just tell me they don't want to meet me.

...i mean, what's their to be jealous about? I ain't the best thing since sliced bread and i know i'm not everyone's cup of tea - it's amazing that i can actually handle rejection. And i'm the one who's meant to be 24.

#rant complete

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

A few I thought a bit weird but nothing I considered too extreme that I can remember as oh no never again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a single guy come round to ours and then when we started playing, invited him to join us and he just sat there hugging a pillow, felt really awkward so we stopped then he asked if he could stay the night! Not our best moment x

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By *aughtyNurse999Woman
over a year ago

Fabville !!!

Met a few unhinged persons think I attract them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I have been quite lucky over the years, but have kept my distance from a few men in saunas who have insisted I return to their flats.I have had one night stands with ladies who have turned out to be emotionally fragile..always made my excuses and left. Lots of people want to swing, but not many emotionally ready for it. A few guys on here certainly cannot take rejection very well. "

Oh my god yes my most recent rant is after having a woman decide to message me to tell every detail of my play partners chat with her as If he was planning on dating her...

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Who wants to meet me? "

Me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a few unhinged people on here! "

What? Where? When?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a serious note I guess I've been fortunate with meets and dates. There was only one date who was a bit iffy, and if I'd listened to my intuition I wouldn't have suffered my ears talked off

Was that our Ben? gave me ear ache too

, no it was a vanilla date. He was obnoxious but I got rid of him by telling him I was going swinging hahaha. He called me immoral and all sorts.

Oh to have been a fly on the wall tried that on POF but it backfired as the guy was even more interested in me."

On the date itself I got no vibes that he was interested in me. everytime he asked my opinion on something (IF I could get a word in edgeways), he shot me down.

A week later he asked if I was free at the weekend. I stated I had a date pencilled in. He was furious cos "I knew he was interested in me" . He came across as if I should have been grateful... That's when I added the swinging element.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who wants to meet me?

Me"

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yup.. Last year we had some guy threatening to kill me in the street as he "knew me" and then weve had our fair share of crazy couples.

I really do hate to say it but single guys top the crazy scale for us with being a bit over possessive and needy but weve seen the signs enough times now to know when to nip things in the bud. Mrs

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By *irtysweetlife100Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I have got an unhinged first time under the 3 years swinging just recently. Usually I notice who can be, but about this One i didnt think at all, looked absolutely normal for a long while.

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By *oody39Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells

This amuses me. Single guys get the rough end of the stick, but i have as have plenty of others horror stories from woman and couples.

One woman i met from here stole from me.

A couple i met where all she wanted to do was snort as much Coke as she possibly could.

Another couple i met, where she was single pissed when they arrived, i put it down to nerves, but it became clear she was only doing it to please him.

I do wonder if there truly are people here who want NSA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to here voices in my head.

But we're ok now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a guy once who was a single dad, after meeting him only once he wanted to move himself and his daughter into my house "

Sex must have been amazing.

You busy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean there are some hinged people on here?!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy on a diff site seemed nice enough. Met up again a week later and he had had my name tattooed on his leg and it wasn't a small tat either !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a married guy

Then found out he had a new baby

Then he wanted me to meet at his place whilst wife and baby where out !

Then ....

Wanted to leave his wife for me he had fallen in love with me !!!!

Was nightmare

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"No, I can't say that I have.

Does that make me the unhinged one? "

I'm batso and you've met me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met men who come across as very needy or desperate. But no-one completely batso. Yet!

Yes me too, you just want adult fun, not a cuddle with a stranger.some guys are just not cut out for it

I cuddle, kiss and hold hands with FWB as well as sex and it's fucking awesome

This is what I want with someone so I'm normal then. "

We spoke without the intention of meeting, took me 4 weeks to ask him can't wait to see him in a few weeks time, off to Blackpool! Club, arcades, use the dungeon at the club and he can make me his little sub! I'm his window licker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been lucky, cant say ive met any unhinged guys. Only one that was a bit odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dodged a big bullet with a single man recently. Just in messaging he got so very clingy and needy (no instant response from us got, 'oh so you dont want me to join you anymore??' etc) Asking to be our one and only and tag along as a third to all the events we were invited too.... before we had even met!! And we had never even indicated we were looking for any thing of the sort

We had set a date for a social but it got so bad she decided she wasn't interested.

Then we had a few days of messages to ignore and blocked him.

One of our worst experiences were of a single man we had played with a lot of times. Turned out he had been dishonest and left a path of sheit in his trail.

He'd been swinging YEARS and has hundreds of veri's (on here) from parties and all over the place.

I figured he was having a rough time somehow and it was a shame to cut contact but needs must. Neither of us is qualified to help him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. He took revenge when I wouldn't meet him. "
I had one like that and then got others to help have a go at me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago we met a couple and a fun time was had by all, we never arranged a repeat, but it was a possibility for the future.

Unfortunately the male made some ( what I assume must have been flattering) comments about me to her afterwards, and the green eyed monster came out.

Had a few days of her bombarding me with questions about what he said to me, what he did with me etc -despite the fact that all four of us had been in the same room!

After repeatedly explaining to her that she needed to ask him not me why he kept talking about me,I had to warn her not to contact me again.

The odd thing was that this was not their first meet, and they had met some couples multiple times, so there was no reason for this jealousy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Full of unhinged people, manipulative men and users. Welcome to FAB."

Completely agree with you xx

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I've met men who come across as very needy or desperate. But no-one completely batso. Yet!"

Same here!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Reading some of these makes me realise that we have probably avoided some massive bear traps by turning people down when we get a hint of something not quite right. The lady of a couple messaged me (L) quite nastily once before we'd even met, we declined to meet and the husband then messaged begging us to reconsider....no way were we going to walk in to that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thread. There will be " unhinged " individuals on Fab just as there will be in the vanilla world. It really depends how you want to define unhinged doesn't it ? I think it's pretty much impossible to define in a community that has no code of conduct .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been threatened by a couple of guys who we met and played with, but when I decided I didn't want to meet them anymore they got a bit nasty ...

A couple of odd meets where I think I'll put their odd behaviour down to too much alcohol.

But the one meet I couldn't figure was with a couple, where she shite herself on our bed whilst mrnotts was fingering her. When I pointed out there was something on the bed (I thought it was blood to start with ) she simply got up, went to the loo, presumably wiped her arse and came back into the room to resume play likewise her husband was still wanting to carry on fucking me. It was as if, this was a regular thing

Cost a few quid that meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been threatened by a couple of guys who we met and played with, but when I decided I didn't want to meet them anymore they got a bit nasty ...

A couple of odd meets where I think I'll put their odd behaviour down to too much alcohol.

But the one meet I couldn't figure was with a couple, where she shite herself on our bed whilst mrnotts was fingering her. When I pointed out there was something on the bed (I thought it was blood to start with ) she simply got up, went to the loo, presumably wiped her arse and came back into the room to resume play likewise her husband was still wanting to carry on fucking me. It was as if, this was a regular thing

Cost a few quid that meet "

Nooooooooo. I am glad we are unable to accommodate, as if someone shit on my bed, I would throw them out, with their clothes behind them!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Yes!

A couple hadn't told us before we started playing that they only did anal... I don't do anal... she went ballistic when he asked me how his cock felt inside my arse and I answered I couldn't feel a thing up there as it was in the other hole!

crystal"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes!

A couple hadn't told us before we started playing that they only did anal... I don't do anal... she went ballistic when he asked me how his cock felt inside my arse and I answered I couldn't feel a thing up there as it was in the other hole!

crystal

"

made me laugh too. I'd be gutted if someone couldn't tell the difference between my fanny and my arse

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I met a guy on a diff site seemed nice enough. Met up again a week later and he had had my name tattooed on his leg and it wasn't a small tat either !!!!"

Good lord!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been threatened by a couple of guys who we met and played with, but when I decided I didn't want to meet them anymore they got a bit nasty ...

A couple of odd meets where I think I'll put their odd behaviour down to too much alcohol.

But the one meet I couldn't figure was with a couple, where she shite herself on our bed whilst mrnotts was fingering her. When I pointed out there was something on the bed (I thought it was blood to start with ) she simply got up, went to the loo, presumably wiped her arse and came back into the room to resume play likewise her husband was still wanting to carry on fucking me. It was as if, this was a regular thing

Cost a few quid that meet

Nooooooooo. I am glad we are unable to accommodate, as if someone shit on my bed, I would throw them out, with their clothes behind them!"

And the reason why our profile is relatively new. We took a few months out of swinging following that one

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By *FlackoxCouple
over a year ago

London


"I walked away from a meet with a couple once, she was just swinging to keep him happy and quiet, another bloke happily banged away but i couldnt do it...had to walk"

Honestly i never knew they were people like yourself, it really disgust me to know some men allow their wives to do this .....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"We've been threatened by a couple of guys who we met and played with, but when I decided I didn't want to meet them anymore they got a bit nasty ...

A couple of odd meets where I think I'll put their odd behaviour down to too much alcohol.

But the one meet I couldn't figure was with a couple, where she shite herself on our bed whilst mrnotts was fingering her. When I pointed out there was something on the bed (I thought it was blood to start with ) she simply got up, went to the loo, presumably wiped her arse and came back into the room to resume play likewise her husband was still wanting to carry on fucking me. It was as if, this was a regular thing

Cost a few quid that meet "

I'm sorry but... ...oh my days!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just label anyone who doesn't want to meet me as unhinged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a mix and the ones who are weird and strange you learn from in some way . I do as like people and finding out the way there mind works.

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By *FlackoxCouple
over a year ago

London


"We've been threatened by a couple of guys who we met and played with, but when I decided I didn't want to meet them anymore they got a bit nasty ...

A couple of odd meets where I think I'll put their odd behaviour down to too much alcohol.

But the one meet I couldn't figure was with a couple, where she shite herself on our bed whilst mrnotts was fingering her. When I pointed out there was something on the bed (I thought it was blood to start with ) she simply got up, went to the loo, presumably wiped her arse and came back into the room to resume play likewise her husband was still wanting to carry on fucking me. It was as if, this was a regular thing

Cost a few quid that meet "

wow wow wow wow kudos to you guys i bet you handled it way better than we would have handled it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just label anyone who doesn't want to meet me as unhinged"

Because someone doesn't find you attractive that makes them unhinged?

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By *FlackoxCouple
over a year ago

London


"We've been threatened by a couple of guys who we met and played with, but when I decided I didn't want to meet them anymore they got a bit nasty ...

A couple of odd meets where I think I'll put their odd behaviour down to too much alcohol.

But the one meet I couldn't figure was with a couple, where she shite herself on our bed whilst mrnotts was fingering her. When I pointed out there was something on the bed (I thought it was blood to start with ) she simply got up, went to the loo, presumably wiped her arse and came back into the room to resume play likewise her husband was still wanting to carry on fucking me. It was as if, this was a regular thing

Cost a few quid that meet

Nooooooooo. I am glad we are unable to accommodate, as if someone shit on my bed, I would throw them out, with their clothes behind them!

And the reason why our profile is relatively new. We took a few months out of swinging following that one "

you guys really did well its so bad that grown matured people would ever do something like that...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I walked away from a meet with a couple once, she was just swinging to keep him happy and quiet, another bloke happily banged away but i couldnt do it...had to walk

Honestly i never knew they were people like yourself, it really disgust me to know some men allow their wives to do this ..... "

There are an equal number of men whose wives coerce them, what goes on in their heads is a mystery to me.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I just label anyone who doesn't want to meet me as unhinged

Because someone doesn't find you attractive that makes them unhinged? "

I took his comment as tongue in cheek.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just label anyone who doesn't want to meet me as unhinged

Because someone doesn't find you attractive that makes them unhinged? "

That or a lesbian...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes!

A couple hadn't told us before we started playing that they only did anal... I don't do anal... she went ballistic when he asked me how his cock felt inside my arse and I answered I couldn't feel a thing up there as it was in the other hole!

crystal

made me laugh too. I'd be gutted if someone couldn't tell the difference between my fanny and my arse "

Where it gets really cringeworthy, the way she reacted was suggesting I was fucking her arse, I'm pretty sure I wasn't. .. So either I couldn't tell the difference or she was having a go at him for doing what she was doing anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been threatened by a couple of guys who we met and played with, but when I decided I didn't want to meet them anymore they got a bit nasty ...

A couple of odd meets where I think I'll put their odd behaviour down to too much alcohol.

But the one meet I couldn't figure was with a couple, where she shite herself on our bed whilst mrnotts was fingering her. When I pointed out there was something on the bed (I thought it was blood to start with ) she simply got up, went to the loo, presumably wiped her arse and came back into the room to resume play likewise her husband was still wanting to carry on fucking me. It was as if, this was a regular thing

Cost a few quid that meet

Nooooooooo. I am glad we are unable to accommodate, as if someone shit on my bed, I would throw them out, with their clothes behind them!

And the reason why our profile is relatively new. We took a few months out of swinging following that one

you guys really did well its so bad that grown matured people would ever do something like that..."

It was mrnotts I felt sorry for. At least he wasn't giving her oral or shagging her

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford


"Yes!

A couple hadn't told us before we started playing that they only did anal... I don't do anal... she went ballistic when he asked me how his cock felt inside my arse and I answered I couldn't feel a thing up there as it was in the other hole!

crystal

made me laugh too. I'd be gutted if someone couldn't tell the difference between my fanny and my arse "

I did giggle at this but then thought, what a compliment!

I know a single female on here who's just got into swinging who had a pretty disastrous meet with a guy, who now texts her daily saying he understands she doesn't want to see him but she's not allowed to see anyone else because it upsets him!!!

Nuts...

D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes!

A couple hadn't told us before we started playing that they only did anal... I don't do anal... she went ballistic when he asked me how his cock felt inside my arse and I answered I couldn't feel a thing up there as it was in the other hole!

crystal

made me laugh too. I'd be gutted if someone couldn't tell the difference between my fanny and my arse

Where it gets really cringeworthy, the way she reacted was suggesting I was fucking her arse, I'm pretty sure I wasn't. .. So either I couldn't tell the difference or she was having a go at him for doing what she was doing anyway!

"

bless you both oh my days. Please feel free to laugh at our shit experience

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I just label anyone who doesn't want to meet me as unhinged

Because someone doesn't find you attractive that makes them unhinged?

That or a lesbian..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully I've only met one guy that may be described as slightly unhinged. I have since tightened up my selection process and it seems to out anyone a bit odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting thread. There will be " unhinged " individuals on Fab just as there will be in the vanilla world. It really depends how you want to define unhinged doesn't it ? I think it's pretty much impossible to define in a community that has no code of conduct . "

Are you trying to intimate that swingers have no moral code?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ROFL, ROFL, ROLF

Bit like asking if there any dry people standing in the sea...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we all must have different _iews on unhinged and its very individual. I like people who are different and a little off the wall the ones who are individual .. I cant stand nasty people who are out to hurt others in some way and thank god I have not come across a lot over the years 4 stand out in my mind only . So not a lot really in ten years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes!

A couple hadn't told us before we started playing that they only did anal... I don't do anal... she went ballistic when he asked me how his cock felt inside my arse and I answered I couldn't feel a thing up there as it was in the other hole!

crystal

made me laugh too. I'd be gutted if someone couldn't tell the difference between my fanny and my arse

Where it gets really cringeworthy, the way she reacted was suggesting I was fucking her arse, I'm pretty sure I wasn't. .. So either I couldn't tell the difference or she was having a go at him for doing what she was doing anyway!

bless you both oh my days. Please feel free to laugh at our shit experience "

Oh we haven't mentioned that this happened in a club, she stormed off and locked herself in a toilet and the club very nearly had to resort to breaking the door down!

In fairness to the couple they messaged us and apologised afterwards which was a much harder option than blocking us.

Oh and although we laugh about it now at the time, getting caught up in someones domestic was pretty unpleasant to say the least and the way the club reacted and looked after us was fantastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im chuckling at this thread, maybe I shouldn't be, some stories sound shocking. I'm guessing I should maybe remove the term unhinged off our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think everyone on fab is unhinged one way or another.

Just some more than others especially the women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think everyone on fab is unhinged one way or another.

Just some more than others especially the women"

sound of mind here thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a guy follow me from three sites now. Started chatting with " real" pics, then decided he was a bit mad so stopped. He set up a new profile on another site with fake pics. I ended up meeting him and realised it was the " original guy". The looked and smelled like a tramp so I walked away. He has since followed me again with original profile pics and another fake profile with the same fake pics ! As if I wouldn't notice !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was with some unhinged artist and I loved his work .... lol Some who are have a real gift . x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

ribbit !

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Not on here but on a similar site and I certainly found them more on dating sites when I was single!

People who get arsey because you won't give them your number on the 2nd message, people who profess love/propose marriage/want to move in after the first date, people who get paranoid if you don't message back within the first 5 seconds and accuse you of being up to all sorts... Again, sometimes only after a couple of messages.

No wonder they're single!

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Of course you do get some normal, lovely people as well but my God, I had some very big "WTF?!" moments with people off of dating sites. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's about time someone corrected the OP anyway.

It's not "as anyone", it's "has anyone"

Just thought I'd mention this. I don't usually post on the grammar threads. Now I feel dead cleva

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few years back when i first started using the site I was meeting with the same guy quite regularly. One night I agreed to him taking pics of us playing together (yes I know it was stupid of me)... Few weeks later I get a mail from a couple telling me this guy was private mailing pics with my face visible. At first i didnt believe them (thinking the site wouldn't approve these images on a single male account) but when they described the pics I knew they must have seen them. He denied this so I made up a second account, not letting on it was me, i mailed and asked him if he had more pics and yip he sent pics with my face clearly visible and his manhood in my gob.lol.. I can laugh at it now but was mad at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting thread. There will be " unhinged " individuals on Fab just as there will be in the vanilla world. It really depends how you want to define unhinged doesn't it ? I think it's pretty much impossible to define in a community that has no code of conduct .

Are you trying to intimate that swingers have no moral code?"

No. I haven't mentioned morals . What I'm saying is there is no rule book .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'e been threatened, ridiculed and sworn at by the minority of fukwits who cant take rejection in the form of a polite reply or stock "No thank you" A few of whom have verifications calling them "Gentlemen! Turns out the only thing they share with the "gentlemen" tag is that they were shithouses too!.

We tend not to reply at all now because of a spate of these deadheads

Must say weve had a two bitchy couples in our time too but very much suspect its the male whos wounded ego is responding without her permission.

Still these big girls blouses are far outnumbered by the polite and friendly guys who understand it isnt personal to them. Thanks guys sorry the wankstains spoil it for you all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting thread. There will be " unhinged " individuals on Fab just as there will be in the vanilla world. It really depends how you want to define unhinged doesn't it ? I think it's pretty much impossible to define in a community that has no code of conduct .

Are you trying to intimate that swingers have no moral code?

No. I haven't mentioned morals . What I'm saying is there is no rule book . "

There's a job for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting thread. There will be " unhinged " individuals on Fab just as there will be in the vanilla world. It really depends how you want to define unhinged doesn't it ? I think it's pretty much impossible to define in a community that has no code of conduct .

Are you trying to intimate that swingers have no moral code?

No. I haven't mentioned morals . What I'm saying is there is no rule book .

There's a job for you "

Not for me thanks ! I don't like rules ....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I met a guy on a diff site seemed nice enough. Met up again a week later and he had had my name tattooed on his leg and it wasn't a small tat either !!!!"

Aaaaaahhh!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao your that good ru Hun any room for me the Mrs an our kids lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think it's about time someone corrected the OP anyway.

It's not "as anyone", it's "has anyone"

Just thought I'd mention this. I don't usually post on the grammar threads. Now I feel dead cleva "
I know I know, school boy errors I will always make with my grammar

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By *ery curious maleMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

A few years ago we were in a club and got chatting to a couple

It was his birthday and she had arranged the visit as a surprise for him.

Unfortunately she was much keener in reality than him so much so that they argued and she went upstairs with two guys while he sat downstairs close to tears.

That was pretty odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who hasn't met an unhinged person or couple who shouldn't be swinging should have been the question

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Two separate coffee meets with recently split men who sobbed into their coffees about their exes - then asked if I wanted to go to a hotel!

The guys with fake pics who are flabbergasted that I won't play with them.

I no longer play with couples after being in the middle of some scary couples dynamics.

And let's not forget the couple I met at a club with my fuck buddy; he was fucking me selfishly and not at all to my liking so I looked to catch my friend's eye to extricate us and saw he was just chatting to her. Turns out she'd been asked on a date by a colleague and instead of dinner and movie had got a swingers club and been offered up to another man for sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had 2 meets where had to leave before did anything, both were couples.

The first one was met a couple like a few on here seem to have where the husband wanted the woman to swing, and he said she was up for it when she was at the bar, when he went to the bar i asked her was everything ok as she had been very quiet over the past hour and quite sheepish, and she said she was doing it for him!! So told them had to go and wasn't going to go back to their hotel they had in blackpool, he ran after me down the street knocking on my car window saying come back dont leave, shes up for it etc!! it was tragic and was only the 2nd meet had gone on!!

Second one was a couple of years back and because they were not like their pics, smelt of stale fags and booze and wanted me to pay for all their drinks in the pub we met in for a social (which was more run down than the jockey in shameless) and they also suggested we should goto a club and could I pay them in and also ferry them there and back across manchester. so had one quick drink and made up an excuse that had to go.

They asked as I was about to leave could I give them £50 so they could get a taxi and pay for themselves to go into the club, suffice to say left them a tenner for a couple of drinks and got out of there sharpish!! they then asked to meet again and if I could drive them to a club that weekend, they were blocked!!

So two pretty awful face to face meets over the past 15 years ain't too bad.

And have of course had a few women stalk me over text and one declare was in love with me after 3 meets, and then proceeded to contact my other meets telling them i was now in a relationship with them and not to contact me anymore, luckily they all contacted me to tell me what she was doing!! so left the site and came back on under different profile name etc.

Ah well its fun on here

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Two separate coffee meets with recently split men who sobbed into their coffees about their exes - then asked if I wanted to go to a hotel!

The guys with fake pics who are flabbergasted that I won't play with them.

I no longer play with couples after being in the middle of some scary couples dynamics.

And let's not forget the couple I met at a club with my fuck buddy; he was fucking me selfishly and not at all to my liking so I looked to catch my friend's eye to extricate us and saw he was just chatting to her. Turns out she'd been asked on a date by a colleague and instead of dinner and movie had got a swingers club and been offered up to another man for sex! "

Good God!!!!

I hope you stopped the selfish man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One guy I met for coffee spent the whole meet telling me that ALL women on here were fat slags and had no morals at all...!!! He then went on to say that Hitler had the right idea and all women from Fabs should have been sent to gas chambers....!!! All this while I was buying my coffee in the queue...didn't get to drink it as just walked out.... Seriously scary stuff.....

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Two separate coffee meets with recently split men who sobbed into their coffees about their exes - then asked if I wanted to go to a hotel!

The guys with fake pics who are flabbergasted that I won't play with them.

I no longer play with couples after being in the middle of some scary couples dynamics.

And let's not forget the couple I met at a club with my fuck buddy; he was fucking me selfishly and not at all to my liking so I looked to catch my friend's eye to extricate us and saw he was just chatting to her. Turns out she'd been asked on a date by a colleague and instead of dinner and movie had got a swingers club and been offered up to another man for sex!

Good God!!!!

I hope you stopped the selfish man "

Oh yes. It tainted my friends experience of clubs so much that he was reluctant to go again.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Two separate coffee meets with recently split men who sobbed into their coffees about their exes - then asked if I wanted to go to a hotel!

The guys with fake pics who are flabbergasted that I won't play with them.

I no longer play with couples after being in the middle of some scary couples dynamics.

And let's not forget the couple I met at a club with my fuck buddy; he was fucking me selfishly and not at all to my liking so I looked to catch my friend's eye to extricate us and saw he was just chatting to her. Turns out she'd been asked on a date by a colleague and instead of dinner and movie had got a swingers club and been offered up to another man for sex!

Good God!!!!

I hope you stopped the selfish man

Oh yes. It tainted my friends experience of clubs so much that he was reluctant to go again. "

I'm sure he was, I swear some people grow up in a vaccuum

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"One guy I met for coffee spent the whole meet telling me that ALL women on here were fat slags and had no morals at all...!!! He then went on to say that Hitler had the right idea and all women from Fabs should have been sent to gas chambers....!!! All this while I was buying my coffee in the queue...didn't get to drink it as just walked out.... Seriously scary stuff..... "

.

Just when I think I couldn't get any more along comes something more than the last . I feel as if we've got off lightly

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By *r n mrs swingCouple
over a year ago

pontefract

Met a few liars? Got massive Willis apparently till they remove there pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had insults when I stopped seeing one guy for reg sex - was a bit crazy.

One guy I dated cried don't leave me twice down the phone after 3 dates - that was scary "

oh my god thats pretty extreme

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

A very sweet young man who wanted me to have his baby... I had never even gone past the "little fumble" stage either...

He tried lots of stuff including emotional blackmail to encourage me to see him again.

For his own good I was firm and fair and told him I don't see him again and it's for the best.

Taxi....!

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington


"I have narrowly avoided and also had to escape from a few very scary peeps from here....

I'm pretty careful now able make no excuses or exceptions from my process."

Same here. Had a meet follow my taxi home, glad I wasn't dropped off at the front door. Meets getting aggressive when I said no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we met a very shy quiet couple , i thought they were a little odd but hubby got the horn for the wife as she was very pretty . We met up with them on two occasions once for a social once for rumpy . Hubby and i got naked and playing, as the couple went in to the bathroom as they said they wanted to put outfits on.

When they cam back she was dressed all in latex boobs / puusy showing .she led her hubby out with a coller and a chain and he was wearing a bloody onese ??? with holes removed for his bits . She looked at me straight in the eyes and shouted right bitch your my sub too and showed me one hell of a dildo.

A case of oh hold on a minute folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we met a very shy quiet couple , i thought they were a little odd but hubby got the horn for the wife as she was very pretty . We met up with them on two occasions once for a social once for rumpy . Hubby and i got naked and playing, as the couple went in to the bathroom as they said they wanted to put outfits on.

When they cam back she was dressed all in latex boobs / puusy showing .she led her hubby out with a coller and a chain and he was wearing a bloody onese ??? with holes removed for his bits . She looked at me straight in the eyes and shouted right bitch your my sub too and showed me one hell of a dildo.

A case of oh hold on a minute folks "
lol really did you play there kinky games or run out the door , ?

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

" Unhinged " lol, does anyone think we are actually called terry n june.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"snip

When they cam back she was dressed all in latex boobs / puusy showing .she led her hubby out with a coller and a chain and he was wearing a bloody onese ??? with holes removed for his bits . She looked at me straight in the eyes and shouted right bitch your my sub too and showed me one hell of a dildo.

A case of oh hold on a minute folks lol really did you play there kinky games or run out the door , ?"

Now if pre-arranged... may have given some credence to the role playing. But as a surprise I would just have laughed uncontrollably.

Whilst neither J nor I are Dom, we most certainly are never ever Sub. Think J would have probably put the Dildo where she thought it belonged just for getting called bitch

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

Everyone is nuts to a certain point - its just how you deal with it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is nuts to a certain point - its just how you deal with it..."

In all the years on and off fab, met some nasty pasties but only ever ONE unhinged. As a rule fab members are brill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm getting a little worried at all the fake profiles a lately..with young oriental pictures and 'fuck me now' profiles... Quite worrying..

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By *raggleRocCouple
over a year ago

Morpeth


"snip

When they cam back she was dressed all in latex boobs / puusy showing .she led her hubby out with a coller and a chain and he was wearing a bloody onese ??? with holes removed for his bits . She looked at me straight in the eyes and shouted right bitch your my sub too and showed me one hell of a dildo.

A case of oh hold on a minute folks lol really did you play there kinky games or run out the door , ?

Now if pre-arranged... may have given some credence to the role playing. But as a surprise I would just have laughed uncontrollably.

Whilst neither J nor I are Dom, we most certainly are never ever Sub. Think J would have probably put the Dildo where she thought it belonged just for getting called bitch "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i have, twice off here

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Yes we met a very shy quiet couple , i thought they were a little odd but hubby got the horn for the wife as she was very pretty . We met up with them on two occasions once for a social once for rumpy . Hubby and i got naked and playing, as the couple went in to the bathroom as they said they wanted to put outfits on.

When they cam back she was dressed all in latex boobs / puusy showing .she led her hubby out with a coller and a chain and he was wearing a bloody onese ??? with holes removed for his bits . She looked at me straight in the eyes and shouted right bitch your my sub too and showed me one hell of a dildo.

A case of oh hold on a minute folks "

Wow, they should have warned you in detail!

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By *entleman_PerveMan
over a year ago

peterborough

At a social i was dragged off to dark corner for some fun by the female half to a couple. Things were getting rather heavy and being a social i didn't have any condoms so i ask her if she wants to go to my car where i will have both condoms and a bit more privacy. On the way out to my car a friend comes up to me, hubby is looking for me and his wife and me and he was mad, me sensing self preservation kiss her good bye and duck out early.

The next morning at the hotel i learn this isnt the first time this has happened and apparently what happens is she gets a thrill from hubby defending her honour and beating seven shades of shit out of some poor hapless guy!

There are some seriously scary people out there But it gets worse a week later i learn he has been up in court on GBH the week before the swingers social.

But theres more about a month or so later i learn at that a club in Blackpool on another swingers social he was arrested and during an altercation he had bitten off part of the owners ear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At a social i was dragged off to dark corner for some fun by the female half to a couple. Things were getting rather heavy and being a social i didn't have any condoms so i ask her if she wants to go to my car where i will have both condoms and a bit more privacy. On the way out to my car a friend comes up to me, hubby is looking for me and his wife and me and he was mad, me sensing self preservation kiss her good bye and duck out early.

The next morning at the hotel i learn this isnt the first time this has happened and apparently what happens is she gets a thrill from hubby defending her honour and beating seven shades of shit out of some poor hapless guy!

There are some seriously scary people out there But it gets worse a week later i learn he has been up in court on GBH the week before the swingers social.

But theres more about a month or so later i learn at that a club in Blackpool on another swingers social he was arrested and during an altercation he had bitten off part of the owners ear "

Where are they from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealous women are not nice

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By *entleman_PerveMan
over a year ago

peterborough


"At a social i was dragged off to dark corner for some fun by the female half to a couple. Things were getting rather heavy and being a social i didn't have any condoms so i ask her if she wants to go to my car where i will have both condoms and a bit more privacy. On the way out to my car a friend comes up to me, hubby is looking for me and his wife and me and he was mad, me sensing self preservation kiss her good bye and duck out early.

The next morning at the hotel i learn this isnt the first time this has happened and apparently what happens is she gets a thrill from hubby defending her honour and beating seven shades of shit out of some poor hapless guy!

There are some seriously scary people out there But it gets worse a week later i learn he has been up in court on GBH the week before the swingers social.

But theres more about a month or so later i learn at that a club in Blackpool on another swingers social he was arrested and during an altercation he had bitten off part of the owners ear

Where are they from?

"

St Albans, she has a predilection for PVC he looks like a bouncer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes 2 couples and one single guy in 10 years of swinging

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Hello I am a swinger and I have Bi Polar at the moment I am on my meds and stable but I have a low libido so not interested in meeting not interested in much really but when I am manic I am insatiable but have very poor lack of judgement so that is not good and do go off the rails. It is from one extreme to the other but after a manic episode there is always a big crash so although I may be boring at the moment but I am safe x"

Fascinating thread this, I also have an under-control mental illness while swinging and it is okay.

I think this thread is more about people with undiagnosed neuroses etc who think they are quite sane!

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