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Wife wants me to play alone is it a test?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So my wife is pregnant & has decided that she wants me to play alone for now. Which we have never done. Is it a test of loyalty or should I go out & play?

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

You should be asking her this and be sure of her answer .....once you have done that there is no going back...

be sure of her motives...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did but she said she's just not wanting it just now. N it's fine as long as she knows....

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I am guessing the fact you have posted means you don;t think this is necessarily the case?

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

Be prepaired for her to say "my turn" in the future.

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By *exyasMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"Be prepaired for her to say "my turn" in the future. "

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

or be prepared for her to say

I was pregnant and only offered because I knew it was what you wanted....you have ruined my pregnancy....

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

The right answer is....

No love, since you're going without, I'll go without.

That will earn you some brownie points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My if elects me play on my own as long as I tell her all about it when I get home and loves a few pics as well

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"So my wife is pregnant & has decided that she wants me to play alone for now. Which we have never done. Is it a test of loyalty or should I go out & play?"
Congrats!! And I would say as long as ye have chatted it through properly and ye are both happy with it, I say go have fun. J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to have an open chat fella and find out what's in her heart.

We play together and alone and it sure could test a relationship. It didn't just happen, we talked a lot about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've mixed thoughts on it. I know she's open about sex etc we are on here afterall but worried as u said ruining her pregnancy or even our life together. I think more chat & thought needs to be put into it. The whole you did it so it's my turn doesn't bother me in the slightest. Thanks for your input

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need to have an open chat fella and find out what's in her heart.

We play together and alone and it sure could test a relationship. It didn't just happen, we talked a lot about it.

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Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"or be prepared for her to say

I was pregnant and only offered because I knew it was what you wanted....you have ruined my pregnancy...."

Playing a way whilst your mrs is pregnant is pretty low mate even if she says it's ok.

Just take a break I am sure you won't die from not having sex for a while .

If your frustrated go dig the garden paint the nursery etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same thing happened to us I was granted permission to go play but I chose not too and to be honest once all was well again our sex life has been amazing and on a whole new level and as of yet we haven't had an offer to tempt us back to swinging, when we get round to want to start meeting again we will be looking for playmates that want to help us make some of our kinkiest fantasys come true but will need to find people who will play by our rules... if that's possable

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Same thing happened to us I was granted permission to go play but I chose not too and to be honest once all was well again our sex life has been amazing and on a whole new level and as of yet we haven't had an offer to tempt us back to swinging, when we get round to want to start meeting again we will be looking for playmates that want to help us make some of our kinkiest fantasys come true but will need to find people who will play by our rules... if that's possable"

Thanks for your input

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By *u and DuCouple
over a year ago

gosport

Duchess and I play together and on our own.

It took a lot of totally honest and open convos before we got there and that level of honesty has strengthened our marriage outside of the fun we have.

Neither of us would meet without telling the other.

Duke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you know your OH and how your relationship is, personally we play together or not at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So my wife is pregnant & has decided that she wants me to play alone for now. Which we have never done. Is it a test of loyalty or should I go out & play?"

Probably.

You're going to have to iron out the deets on this one. The fact that you've asked the question here shows that something similar has happened before?

Baby steps!

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

Although she says she doesn't mind she is pregnant remember, hormones all over the place, prob feels fat and unattractive (which she wont be she will be blooming with health) but she will think otherwise, and you don't fancy her anymore. This of course will be all in her head (however she might not think like this at all) but do you want to take a chance for a quick fuck?

Enjoy her pregnancy with her and don't do it....its not worth it.

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By *exy young x bitchWoman
over a year ago

barnsley


"Be prepaired for her to say "my turn" in the future. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So my wife is pregnant & has decided that she wants me to play alone for now. Which we have never done. Is it a test of loyalty or should I go out & play?

Probably.

You're going to have to iron out the deets on this one. The fact that you've asked the question here shows that something similar has happened before?

Baby steps!

"

Sorry, no pun intended!

Though, personally, I wouldn't bother. Take a break and enjoy the pregnancy with her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mrs here can't believe he put this up for discussion on here lol. All well here's my input...

The reason I said he can play is because I believe that since I'm not wanting sex just now I don't want him to not still be satisfied. I know if it was other way around I would still want to have fun. So he's free to do as he pleases as long as she's hot & not an ex lol

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

Fair enough xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest if you swing together you should be open enough to discuss this together and if not then perhaps question a few things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dig deep into your heart and ask yourself how much you love her then answer your question

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