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"at the end of the day anyone who plays bareback is taking their own risks...that is their choice... If it's not for you then don't entertain it.. If you have concerns as long as you always play safe then it reduces your risk" Thanks. That doesn't really educate or make a point of _iew though. | |||
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"at the end of the day anyone who plays bareback is taking their own risks...that is their choice... If it's not for you then don't entertain it.. If you have concerns as long as you always play safe then it reduces your risk Thanks. That doesn't really educate or make a point of _iew though." They do it because they want to. What else is there to say? | |||
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" They do it because they want to. What else is there to say?" Two people answering, who; A. Miss the point B. don't state wether they have had any experience in the subject. Why bother replying? | |||
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" . Why bother replying?" Because they felt like it? | |||
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" They do it because they want to. What else is there to say? Two people answering, who; A. Miss the point B. don't state wether they have had any experience in the subject. Why bother replying?" It's an open forum! | |||
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"we drink and have in the past taken drugs and also on occasions drove over the speed limit like many on here, and also kitesurf a sport which has killed many people and even a friend, but we weighed up the risks beforehand and decided to go ahead. we all take risks and this is a risk they choose, they probably evaluate the risk reward ratio and decide it's for them simple as that !! " It's a case of each to their own , doesn't matter what anyone think about it or even how many post in utter contempt at their actions. It's the same as bi men , I personally won't have random sex with police , social workers traffic wardens or people that smell , or even people that are just down right rude. Just because I am on a swingers site does not mean I have to sleep with everyone that messages me , and conform to their idea of what it should be like. If someone wants sex with me it's on my terms and if you don't like it press block and move onto the next one , as quite a few have already | |||
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"at the end of the day anyone who plays bareback is taking their own risks...that is their choice... If it's not for you then don't entertain it.. If you have concerns as long as you always play safe then it reduces your risk Thanks. That doesn't really educate or make a point of _iew though." I replied with my point of _iew...if you don't want to play then don't..THAT is my point of _iew..it is everyone's choice - again THAT is my point of _iew on the subject.... As someone has said this is an open forum and I can reply with anything I like as long as it does not break the rules. As I feel I have done.. Perhaps if education is what you require then ask for people only to respond who actually only play bareback. I don't believe you did... | |||
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" They do it because they want to. What else is there to say? Two people answering, who; A. Miss the point B. don't state wether they have had any experience in the subject. Why bother replying?" A. What is your point? B. Everyone has at some point had sex with another person that has bareback sex. No need to state anything. I replied because my opinion was as I stated. I also agree with what Gloswingers said. Good point. | |||
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"Interested to hear the forums thoughts on the profiles insisting on bareback meets only. Common sense prevails ladies and chaps. Of course once you get to know people you can relax certain precautions, based on their living habits, general health and their approach to selecting partners and friends. " I'm just wondering what criteria you would use to inform that judgement? What is it about their general health or lifestyle, friends or sexual partners that would cause you to think about going bareback with them? | |||
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" They do it because they want to. What else is there to say? Two people answering, who; A. Miss the point B. don't state wether they have had any experience in the subject. Why bother replying?" Interesting that because the replies don't start having a go at BB you ask why reply. Can people only reply if it suits what you want to hear ? I await your reply | |||
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"Interested to hear the forums thoughts on the profiles insisting on bareback meets only. Common sense prevails ladies and chaps. Of course once you get to know people you can relax certain precautions, based on their living habits, general health and their approach to selecting partners and friends. Of course as we are all adults we know that your only as sexually healthy as your last partner that you practised unprotected sex with, and that you can't ever be 100% sure even about your fulltime spouse/partner (especially if like me you work away from home/country for lengthy periods lol) I'm really addressing the peeps who insist on bareback sex on the first instance of play, I've seen some couples for example who only play bareback whilst dogging, and incredibly simply state a time and a place, join the queue, no condoms chaps!fire in! I just don't understand the mentality, of course we all prefer skin on skin, and who doesn't like a messy facial! But with all the STD's and the current rise again of HIV, I'm simply asking, why? If you practise/request this on your profile, are you worried? Does the question arise? What makes it worth the risk, not just to get to know somebody first at least? Have you attended a bareback meet with a couple/single you have never met before? We're you worried afterwards? It's not a witch hunt, I personally find it incredibly irresponsible and reckless bit I'd be interested in your _iews. " we only have unprotected penetration with each other althoug we have met men who "forgot" their condoms or who laid there cock in te air looking all innocent waiting for me to jump on . My _iews are much like everyone elses that if someone states that they insist on bareback you can choose to meet them or not. I do find your opinion that once you know someone and their habits and method of choosing partners its ok to relax certain precaution a bit at odds with the rest of your post though, what precautions did you have in mind when you wrote that? | |||
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"Let us try and get some statistical proportion on this matter. According to the FPA in 2009 the instance of diagnosed STI occurrence in this country are as follows expressed as a percentage of total population: Overall STI 0.774% Chlamydia 0.349% Genital warts 0.146% Gonorrhoea 0.028% Syphilis 0.005% Genital herpes 0.048% HIV/AIDS 0.011% STI are not however contracted every time someone comes into contact with them. For instance HIV/AIDS has a calculated probability of infection from man to woman of 1:1,000 sex acts (others infections vary of course). So the statistical probability of a woman catching HIV/AIDs from unprotected sex in this country is 0.000011% or 1:941,095,151 sex acts. Or she would have to have sex with a new man 43,000 times a day from 16 to 76 to get the statistical probability to 1:1. By way of comparison the chance of dying in a scheduled airliner crash is 0.000403% (1:248,138). The chance of dying on UK roads is 0.00594% (1:16,835). If you are a Farm worker your chances of being killed on the job are 0.008% or 1:12,500. Influenza has a kill rate of 0.00002% (1:5,000,000) But, as I have said before, if you are the one caught then statistics mean nothing. Personal choice folks but let us not assume every act of unprotected sex is like Russian roulette (probability of 1:6) Disclaimer: Nothing in this post should be taken as condoning or criticizing bareback sex. I am purely interested in putting the risks taken by bare-backers into proportion. " A brilliant reply! Can't argue with statistics | |||
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" They do it because they want to. What else is there to say? Two people answering, who; A. Miss the point B. don't state wether they have had any experience in the subject. Why bother replying?" Wow! And the point of making this statement? | |||
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" They do it because they want to. What else is there to say? Two people answering, who; A. Miss the point B. don't state wether they have had any experience in the subject. Why bother replying?" Why bother posting if you can't be bothered to respect an open forum. Very rude and ill mannered. With regards to BB. Not really my bag and wouldn't consider it in this lifestyle. But that's my own opinion and will never force it on anyone. If people want to take those risks, so be it. I have two kids...So does that count as having experience in BB? | |||
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" They do it because they want to. What else is there to say? Two people answering, who; A. Miss the point B. don't state wether they have had any experience in the subject. Why bother replying?" And one poster who; A. Is quite rude B. Doesn't seem to really understand how the forums work. People can respond in the way they like. Why bother asking? It doesn't seem like you're looking for a debate anyway? | |||
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" They do it because they want to. What else is there to say? Two people answering, who; A. Miss the point B. don't state wether they have had any experience in the subject. Why bother replying? And one poster who; A. Is quite rude B. Doesn't seem to really understand how the forums work. People can respond in the way they like. Why bother asking? It doesn't seem like you're looking for a debate anyway?" Here here | |||
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"Oh you are going to open a can of worms......we went to abfab and could not belive how many people did,nt have any condoms......to top it off,the club doesnt even sell them and if they do ,there not on public display Last time we had this cgat we got alot of abuse from couples so get ready my friend lol " Thanks, yeah I'm feeling the love lol. I couldn't care less to be fair but it is irritating reading the replies here that miss the point of the questions. | |||
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"I think it is cool. If people declare they play bareback only, then informed choices can be made. I respect their honesty. " I totally agree, honesty is rare on here and to know where you stand helps you make choices based on that. We are all adults on here (although sometimes I wonder lol) so we can all play the way we want to with people who want to play that way too | |||
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"Just a thought, but of all the solo cock pictures I've looked at on this site, I don't recall a single one of them wearing a condom. " Do they need to if they're not in a hole? | |||
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"Just a thought, but of all the solo cock pictures I've looked at on this site, I don't recall a single one of them wearing a condom. Do they need to if they're not in a hole?" Need? No hun, but I think it makes a powerful statement all on its own, IMHO. | |||
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"Just a thought, but of all the solo cock pictures I've looked at on this site, I don't recall a single one of them wearing a condom. Do they need to if they're not in a hole? Need? No hun, but I think it makes a powerful statement all on its own, IMHO." So you're saying all the non-sex cock shots the guys should wear a condom? Little bit extreme I think.. | |||
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"Just a thought, but of all the solo cock pictures I've looked at on this site, I don't recall a single one of them wearing a condom. Do they need to if they're not in a hole? Need? No hun, but I think it makes a powerful statement all on its own, IMHO. So you're saying all the non-sex cock shots the guys should wear a condom? Little bit extreme I think.." This. | |||
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"Just a thought, but of all the solo cock pictures I've looked at on this site, I don't recall a single one of them wearing a condom. " For the record I have one on, in one of my pics. When asked by a friend why, I said 'why not!' | |||
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"People who do b b on a site like this are fucking idiots What's the point in the risk But that's my opinion Thank you and good night " I once saw a profile with near on 500 verifications saying only bareback, I was amazed. Its totally their choice and they are clear about it so others can make a decision as to whether they want to meet them but personally, I think that's madness. Just my opinion. | |||
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"Let us try and get some statistical proportion on this matter. According to the FPA in 2009 the instance of diagnosed STI occurrence in this country are as follows expressed as a percentage of total population: Overall STI 0.774% Chlamydia 0.349% Genital warts 0.146% Gonorrhoea 0.028% Syphilis 0.005% Genital herpes 0.048% HIV/AIDS 0.011% STI are not however contracted every time someone comes into contact with them. For instance HIV/AIDS has a calculated probability of infection from man to woman of 1:1,000 sex acts (others infections vary of course). So the statistical probability of a woman catching HIV/AIDs from unprotected sex in this country is 0.000011% or 1:941,095,151 sex acts. Or she would have to have sex with a new man 43,000 times a day from 16 to 76 to get the statistical probability to 1:1. By way of comparison the chance of dying in a scheduled airliner crash is 0.000403% (1:248,138). The chance of dying on UK roads is 0.00594% (1:16,835). If you are a Farm worker your chances of being killed on the job are 0.008% or 1:12,500. Influenza has a kill rate of 0.00002% (1:5,000,000) But, as I have said before, if you are the one caught then statistics mean nothing. Personal choice folks but let us not assume every act of unprotected sex is like Russian roulette (probability of 1:6) Disclaimer: Nothing in this post should be taken as condoning or criticizing bareback sex. I am purely interested in putting the risks taken by bare-backers into proportion. A brilliant reply! Can't argue with statistics " And that is why politicians use statistics so often. There are lies, lies and statistics | |||
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" Not being funny but why do you consider yourself exceptional. To me you seem to be extremely arrogant and have no interest in anyone's point of _iew. Shame really. Uh oh another stalker. Why are guys who don't look after their bodies constantly following me around the forum? If you don't like the fact that I'm exceptional due to actually being choosy, rather than being a desperate tryhard who will do anything and anyone, just don't _iew my profile. If that's how you choose to live cool. But it's not for me. Maybe visit a gym, or eat a balanced diet, but please stop following me and disagreeing constantly, it's getting a bit boring. How the hell did you come to the conclusion that they are stalking you? It's very rude to make comments about another's memebers pictures when they haven't asked for them to be criticised, And then to suggest that they visit a gym or eat healthy wow that's extremely rude!!! We are all different so opinions will always be different... Just because some aren't agreeing with you, doesn't give you the right to be rude to them! And in answer to you OP If grown ups want to play BB then that's their choice.... Personally we only BB with each other and not with our play meets " On account of the amount of profile visits and threads that I've posted in and had replied to by them. That's how I conclude. I'm not trying to be rude, just getting about tired with it. Thank you for the last paragraph actually addressing the thread | |||
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"Most mathematicians know statistics can be influenced depending on the proportion of population who are measured and environmental factors can skew the results. A recent report posted by the NHS shows swingers are at high risk in the Netherlands. Wouldn't you want to know the statistics for swingers in the UK before you support bareback sex. The results are significant. It doesn't take into chance the risk of getting it. http://www.nhs.uk/news/2010/06June/Pages/Swingers-greater-risk-of-STIs.aspx" This. I love wiki 'facts' that people bring to the party | |||
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"Most mathematicians know statistics can be influenced depending on the proportion of population who are measured and environmental factors can skew the results. A recent report posted by the NHS shows swingers are at high risk in the Netherlands. Wouldn't you want to know the statistics for swingers in the UK before you support bareback sex. The results are significant. It doesn't take into chance the risk of getting it. http://www.nhs.uk/news/2010/06June/Pages/Swingers-greater-risk-of-STIs.aspx This. I love wiki 'facts' that people bring to the party" Are swingers at greater risk or just more likely to go to gum clinics? | |||
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"Most mathematicians know statistics can be influenced depending on the proportion of population who are measured and environmental factors can skew the results. A recent report posted by the NHS shows swingers are at high risk in the Netherlands. Wouldn't you want to know the statistics for swingers in the UK before you support bareback sex. The results are significant. It doesn't take into chance the risk of getting it. http://www.nhs.uk/news/2010/06June/Pages/Swingers-greater-risk-of-STIs.aspx This. I love wiki 'facts' that people bring to the party Are swingers at greater risk or just more likely to go to gum clinics?" good question. I wonder how many undiagnosed cases there are | |||
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"Most mathematicians know statistics can be influenced depending on the proportion of population who are measured and environmental factors can skew the results. A recent report posted by the NHS shows swingers are at high risk in the Netherlands. Wouldn't you want to know the statistics for swingers in the UK before you support bareback sex. The results are significant. It doesn't take into chance the risk of getting it. http://www.nhs.uk/news/2010/06June/Pages/Swingers-greater-risk-of-STIs.aspx This. I love wiki 'facts' that people bring to the party Are swingers at greater risk or just more likely to go to gum clinics? good question. I wonder how many undiagnosed cases there are" Very good point. | |||
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"Cheers _iew but that just wound me up. Totally uncalled for." why get so wound up by what someone has said on a website that you feel the need to list how fit you are... its just words from someone who lets be honest you wont ever meet and whose opinion is just that... they're probably sat there giggling at your response.. rise above it.. | |||
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" is there something in the water it is it the rising sap?" Just replying to unintentionally hilarious tantrums. Nothing to see here | |||
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