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" tend to be masterfull rather than dominant" What's the difference? | |||
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"So which one are you?" Absolutely categorically sub...owned and collared.... This bitch don't switch... | |||
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"I'm sub on meets as the wife likes to watch me be dommed by her and who ever we are with " Now ye sound like a great meet. Endless possibilities!! J x | |||
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"Me - Dom. Shar is a natural submissive. We have a 24/7 DD/BG dynamic. " whats DD/BG ? | |||
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"I'm sub on meets as the wife likes to watch me be dommed by her and who ever we are with Now ye sound like a great meet. Endless possibilities!! J x" Yes they are great fun | |||
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"Its short for daddy domain/baby girl. Its not roleplay and I'm not a Pedo, nor does she regress into a baby or child. Its a dom sub relationship built on love trust and reward instead of punishment. She likes to please me and I like to give her support and comfort and guidance. I still tie her to things and flog her - but we never punish. If she pushes her boundaries she gets to do lovely naughty things Google it. Its not as bad as it sounds." Ta, I've heard of daddies and the Girl equivalent, just not of the acronym. It's not my scene, I prefer the woman to know herself | |||
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"Its short for daddy domain/baby girl. Its not roleplay and I'm not a Pedo, nor does she regress into a baby or child. Its a dom sub relationship built on love trust and reward instead of punishment. She likes to please me and I like to give her support and comfort and guidance. I still tie her to things and flog her - but we never punish. If she pushes her boundaries she gets to do lovely naughty things Google it. Its not as bad as it sounds. Ta, I've heard of daddies and the Girl equivalent, just not of the acronym. It's not my scene, I prefer the woman to know herself" Think most women do. I think all subs are well grounded, if not it, to me, it's just a form of abuse. | |||
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"Switch" Although to be more accurate, it's more a blend or blur along a continuum and mostly I'm neither or anything one can label in a meaningful way. | |||
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"Oh she knows herself. In fact she is the most well rounded and grounded person I have ever met. She is expressive and communicates better than anyone I have ever known. Subs generally know themselves very very well. Xxx" thanks for this...someone who gets us....yes we do normally know ourselves and are usually very confident females... quite the antithesis of what people presume.. | |||
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"I'm sub..I love to be dominated. It gets my juices flowing. " | |||
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"Dom Dom domdomdom lol... " Ooh hello! Now where do you want me? | |||
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"Its short for daddy domain/baby girl. Its not roleplay and I'm not a Pedo, nor does she regress into a baby or child. Its a dom sub relationship built on love trust and reward instead of punishment. She likes to please me and I like to give her support and comfort and guidance. I still tie her to things and flog her - but we never punish. If she pushes her boundaries she gets to do lovely naughty things Google it. Its not as bad as it sounds. Ta, I've heard of daddies and the Girl equivalent, just not of the acronym. It's not my scene, I prefer the woman to know herself Think most women do. I think all subs are well grounded, if not it, to me, it's just a form of abuse. " I am surprised all the time by stories of sub friends. These are women that I have played with in D/S. However, now, either their play, or more than likely the dom (as I know what they ask) has irreparably broken them. Now they presume their position is just fodder for what the dom sees fit. Which is entirely the opposite to the play they enjoyed with me. Quite sad really (and I am not making any assumptions on the people in this thread. Merely commenting) | |||
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"none, I just don't get the whole sub/dom things, I prefer sex to be on equal level " someone will always take control - one as the dominant, one as the submissive... if these roles exchange then it's classed as switch. But if there is only one taking the lead and prompting what to do then a d/s dynamic, however light is in effect. The difference is in the level of control and power exchange that goes on from casual play to more agreed d/s roles | |||
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"none, I just don't get the whole sub/dom things, I prefer sex to be on equal level someone will always take control - one as the dominant, one as the submissive... if these roles exchange then it's classed as switch. But if there is only one taking the lead and prompting what to do then a d/s dynamic, however light is in effect. The difference is in the level of control and power exchange that goes on from casual play to more agreed d/s roles" I didn't mean I don't get it as in I don't understand what sub/dom means, I ment I have tried it and don't get anything out of it, does nothing for me at all | |||
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"over here!!!!! " I'm on my way miss... .....I may be a while. | |||
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"I definitely identify more with dom but have a long way to go with a lot of research and careful play and testing and learning to do before I would class myself as actually being a dam. However I do like to be dominant in the element of vanilla dom in the meantime if that makes sense " Even when you feel confident to refer to yourself as a dominant - you NEVER stop learning be it about yourself or your submissive - you never know it all | |||
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"I'm sub..I love to be dominated. It gets my juices flowing. " Haha! Just can imagine me and you together... We would never get anything done! | |||
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"I definitely identify more with dom but have a long way to go with a lot of research and careful play and testing and learning to do before I would class myself as actually being a dam. However I do like to be dominant in the element of vanilla dom in the meantime if that makes sense Even when you feel confident to refer to yourself as a dominant - you NEVER stop learning be it about yourself or your submissive - you never know it all" I totally get that as with anything we are always learning. You can never know too much as my dad always says | |||
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"I've been sub for quite a few years now, however the last 6 months ive been domme with a couple of guys too... soo i guess im switch, although i will do neither with anyone unless it feels 'right'. Its very much a mental state for me and very few people get me there. Hence i say im not looking to be sub for anyone on here. Too many men just think its an excuse to abuse or they dont understand the dynamic i need to be truly submissive to someone. " this is so common, heard this alot from Submissive women have met off here and other sites, some guys dont truly understand the mental side of a sub/dom relatonship or how to behave during these types of meets. | |||
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"Count Alfred Korzybski said (paraphrasing). The meaning of the communication is the response. Communication is paramount in this type of relationship, both verbal and physical. " And the art form is having the external awareness to recognise it..... | |||
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"I've been sub for quite a few years now, however the last 6 months ive been domme with a couple of guys too... soo i guess im switch, although i will do neither with anyone unless it feels 'right'. Its very much a mental state for me and very few people get me there. Hence i say im not looking to be sub for anyone on here. Too many men just think its an excuse to abuse or they dont understand the dynamic i need to be truly submissive to someone. this is so common, heard this alot from Submissive women have met off here and other sites, some guys dont truly understand the mental side of a sub/dom relatonship or how to behave during these types of meets." . | |||
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"I'm a very lucky sub, in a little while, will be putting myself in the hands of 2 doms. Good night ahead for me " Lucky you! I'm slightly envious here.. Have a great night xx | |||
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"It's interesting to see so many responses and there does seem to be a few kinky people on here too. We posted a thread on here the other day regarding blindfolds, mask and hoods yet don't think we had a response. Do you use the above, have you used the above at a meet or is this not your thing? " We have used a blindfold for a meet with a single guy. I was told to wait on the bed wearing a blindfold, knickers, heels and my huge smile... The anticipation was unbelievable. It was our first and only meet with a single guy... | |||
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"I'm a very lucky sub, in a little while, will be putting myself in the hands of 2 doms. Good night ahead for me " Same here ! very happy sub who likes to put herself in the hands of 2 dom men xx lucky sub | |||
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"I don't role play. If a man is naturally dominant I naturally go with it. " This - Dom isn't a role for me its part of who I am | |||
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"I don't role play. If a man is naturally dominant I naturally go with it. If he wants a strap on up his arse I'm there" | |||
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"It's interesting to see so many responses and there does seem to be a few kinky people on here too. We posted a thread on here the other day regarding blindfolds, mask and hoods yet don't think we had a response. Do you use the above, have you used the above at a meet or is this not your thing? We have used a blindfold for a meet with a single guy. I was told to wait on the bed wearing a blindfold, knickers, heels and my huge smile... The anticipation was unbelievable. It was our first and only meet with a single guy..." And I bet the smile was the only thing that you had to put on This is something that I would love to do with Mrs S...one day! | |||
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"It's interesting to see so many responses and there does seem to be a few kinky people on here too. We posted a thread on here the other day regarding blindfolds, mask and hoods yet don't think we had a response. Do you use the above, have you used the above at a meet or is this not your thing? We have used a blindfold for a meet with a single guy. I was told to wait on the bed wearing a blindfold, knickers, heels and my huge smile... The anticipation was unbelievable. It was our first and only meet with a single guy... And I bet the smile was the only thing that you had to put on This is something that I would love to do with Mrs S...one day!" I naturally beamed. Lol! No put on. I think nerves was all part of it though.. I think you need to treat Mrs S. I'm sure she would love it! | |||
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"It's interesting to see so many responses and there does seem to be a few kinky people on here too. We posted a thread on here the other day regarding blindfolds, mask and hoods yet don't think we had a response. Do you use the above, have you used the above at a meet or is this not your thing? We have used a blindfold for a meet with a single guy. I was told to wait on the bed wearing a blindfold, knickers, heels and my huge smile... The anticipation was unbelievable. It was our first and only meet with a single guy... And I bet the smile was the only thing that you had to put on This is something that I would love to do with Mrs S...one day! I naturally beamed. Lol! No put on. I think nerves was all part of it though.. I think you need to treat Mrs S. I'm sure she would love it! " Unfortunately for now Mrs S has no interest in playing with males. Mrs S is after some female play but at this rate she could be waiting some time! | |||
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"I'm a very lucky sub, in a little while, will be putting myself in the hands of 2 doms. Good night ahead for me " | |||
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"I'm a very lucky sub, in a little while, will be putting myself in the hands of 2 doms. Good night ahead for me Lucky you! I'm slightly envious here.. Have a great night xx " Thank you. We had a great night. I'm paying for it now though | |||
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"It's interesting to see so many responses and there does seem to be a few kinky people on here too. We posted a thread on here the other day regarding blindfolds, mask and hoods yet don't think we had a response. Do you use the above, have you used the above at a meet or is this not your thing? " I did comment. Love the mindfold and the hood. When the hood is being laced up i can almost space | |||
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"Sub, but it takes a special guy to get me there naturally. I cannot simply obey, I have to feel the authority." This if I don't feel it I will just take over | |||
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"I don't even think about it - just let things flow and be whatever feels right at the time, so I don't categorise myself at all " I don't even know what am I suppose to do or be if I classified myself! Is taking control in bed= being dom or does it necessarily involve BDSM? Does it mean humiliating and calling your partner names? Or is it a personality thing to be a leader or follower in a relationship? Does it mean when you are sub that you only do what you are told but not take what you want when you want it?. I don't know the answers to that but I am quite happy to let things flow naturally and see what the connection brings out. Sometimes I discover myself when being with a different person/personality. A tendensy that is possibly hidden that comes out of me and her unexpectedly. Its mind blowing when it happens. If I categorise myself and her prior to the fun, I am ruling out any chance for that to happen. | |||
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"I'm a very lucky sub, in a little while, will be putting myself in the hands of 2 doms. Good night ahead for me Lucky you! I'm slightly envious here.. Have a great night xx Thank you. We had a great night. I'm paying for it now though" Aww! Bless... That's usually very kinky though. Feeling fragile and knowing what caused it... | |||
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"I'm a very lucky sub, in a little while, will be putting myself in the hands of 2 doms. Good night ahead for me Lucky you! I'm slightly envious here.. Have a great night xx Thank you. We had a great night. I'm paying for it now though Aww! Bless... That's usually very kinky though. Feeling fragile and knowing what caused it... " It is | |||
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"Sub, but it takes a special guy to get me there naturally. I cannot simply obey, I have to feel the authority. This if I don't feel it I will just take over " Some people assume that identifying as Dom means they can dominate anyone who identifies as submissive without understanding that its the connection between a dom and sub that makes the dynamic work - it has to be earned | |||
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"none, I just don't get the whole sub/dom things, I prefer sex to be on equal level " | |||
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"Sub, but it takes a special guy to get me there naturally. I cannot simply obey, I have to feel the authority. This if I don't feel it I will just take over Some people assume that identifying as Dom means they can dominate anyone who identifies as submissive without understanding that its the connection between a dom and sub that makes the dynamic work - it has to be earned" Fully agree | |||
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"Sub, but it takes a special guy to get me there naturally. I cannot simply obey, I have to feel the authority. This if I don't feel it I will just take over Some people assume that identifying as Dom means they can dominate anyone who identifies as submissive without understanding that its the connection between a dom and sub that makes the dynamic work - it has to be earned Fully agree" Ditto. I had a guy who expected me to act in a certain way and accused me of not being sub because I was in a giggly mood | |||
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"I have been told in the past I am a Power Submissive " like that | |||
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"It's interesting to see so many responses and there does seem to be a few kinky people on here too. We posted a thread on here the other day regarding blindfolds, mask and hoods yet don't think we had a response. Do you use the above, have you used the above at a meet or is this not your thing? " Have used blindfolds for sensory thrills certainly ups the anti for those that wear them have found. they get the excitement especially in group situations of just enjoying all the bodily sensations that are delbt them be they pain or pleasure. Recently a couple asked if I would come to theirs and wear a blindfold, come into their house, put it on lie back and they went to work on me, was a great feeling of just letting them both pleasure me will be doing that again, wasnt a sub dom thing just fun | |||
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"I have been told in the past I am a Power Submissive " I like the term Alpha Submissive It can appear to be a bit of a paradox but its easy to understand when you consider that confident, independent, assertive people can still enjoy being submissive but it does require a strong intelligent dominant to earn their submission and make the most of it but when you do..... WHOOOOOOWEEEEE | |||
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"There needs to be a kink section to the forum so many lovely kinksters here. Xxx" Yes please | |||
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"I have been told in the past I am a Power Submissive I like the term Alpha Submissive It can appear to be a bit of a paradox but its easy to understand when you consider that confident, independent, assertive people can still enjoy being submissive but it does require a strong intelligent dominant to earn their submission and make the most of it but when you do..... WHOOOOOOWEEEEE " The most (sexually) submissive person I met was a barrister, she was a total sub lady, only sexually though. To me the Dom/sub thing is an attitude, sometimes I feel reading posts people perceive it as mechanical actions not the fluctuating flow I sense it is. Think I need to do a Wurzel and change out of my serious head | |||
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"I have been told in the past I am a Power Submissive I like the term Alpha Submissive It can appear to be a bit of a paradox but its easy to understand when you consider that confident, independent, assertive people can still enjoy being submissive but it does require a strong intelligent dominant to earn their submission and make the most of it but when you do..... WHOOOOOOWEEEEE The most (sexually) submissive person I met was a barrister, she was a total sub lady, only sexually though. To me the Dom/sub thing is an attitude, sometimes I feel reading posts people perceive it as mechanical actions not the fluctuating flow I sense it is. Think I need to do a Wurzel and change out of my serious head " I work in the legal sector.... that is of no surprise to me at all when it comes down to it - its about having fun and getting your rocks off - the whole high protocol stuff does nothing for me just find someone you click with and explore, laugh, communicate, ENJOY Its that simple | |||
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"I have been told in the past I am a Power Submissive I like the term Alpha Submissive It can appear to be a bit of a paradox but its easy to understand when you consider that confident, independent, assertive people can still enjoy being submissive but it does require a strong intelligent dominant to earn their submission and make the most of it but when you do..... WHOOOOOOWEEEEE " I need an alpha male to match and then dominate my alpha female. It is no surprise that men in power is an aphrodisiac to a female. And behind every great (powerful) man is an equally powerful woman. | |||
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"I have been told in the past I am a Power Submissive I like the term Alpha Submissive It can appear to be a bit of a paradox but its easy to understand when you consider that confident, independent, assertive people can still enjoy being submissive but it does require a strong intelligent dominant to earn their submission and make the most of it but when you do..... WHOOOOOOWEEEEE I need an alpha male to match and then dominate my alpha female. It is no surprise that men in power is an aphrodisiac to a female. And behind every great (powerful) man is an equally powerful woman." Pssst I need an alpha male because I intimidate "ordinary" men, even though it is not my intention. | |||
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"intimidate? you? never I eat cupcakes for breakfast " If you're not ordinary, you'll never know . As for eating cupcakes for breakfast... yuk. Give me a bowl full of cereal, a boiled egg, a slice of toast and a banana if I'm lacking energy before the gym , oh and three drinks. | |||
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"intimidate? you? never I eat cupcakes for breakfast If you're not ordinary, you'll never know . As for eating cupcakes for breakfast... yuk. Give me a bowl full of cereal, a boiled egg, a slice of toast and a banana if I'm lacking energy before the gym , oh and three drinks." Three drinks - mmmm | |||
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"I am primarily a Dom. I'm not very good at letting a woman stay on top of me for long. I just have to take over. However orally I am sub. When my tongue makes contact with a woman's pussy it is to worship." Actions are not domiance or submission though - I eat pussy - Love to eat pussy - but that isnt a dominant OR a submissive act - its the attitude and how you are naturally that is dominant or submissive. A woman on top physically doesn't mean she is in charge either...you retain your dominance and ensure she remains feeling submissive just because who and how you are | |||
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"In day to day life Mrs S is far from submissive so that's probably why she like to take the submissive role between the sheets. That's why I love it so much, to let go of all control is wonderful I am generally Dom but am more that happy to swap the blindfold from time to time. " | |||
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"I am primarily a Dom. I'm not very good at letting a woman stay on top of me for long. I just have to take over. However orally I am sub. When my tongue makes contact with a woman's pussy it is to worship. Actions are not domiance or submission though - I eat pussy - Love to eat pussy - but that isnt a dominant OR a submissive act - its the attitude and how you are naturally that is dominant or submissive. A woman on top physically doesn't mean she is in charge either...you retain your dominance and ensure she remains feeling submissive just because who and how you are" | |||
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"I'm Dom crystal is sub. She has quite a sadistic streak and can switch, I don't. " | |||
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"Definitely Dom, no way I could be a switch, the feelings you get from being in control and someone giving themself and control over them to you is intoxicating " as is, the giving of oneself | |||
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"So it's probably a stupid question - but how do you start...? I'm naturally strong-willed, and used to describe my job as "Scaring the crap out of Managing Directors"... But... Inside, there is a part of me who longs to find another woman who could take control - who could reach in and make me let go of those inhibitions... but it's never happened. I'm not interested in it from a guy, and it has nothing to do with pain - it's much deeper than that... I fight it, deny it - but long for it.....! Is there something wrong wrong with me..? " Nothing wrong with you at all, good luck with finding what you desire Pandora x | |||
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"Sub, but it takes a special guy to get me there naturally. I cannot simply obey, I have to feel the authority." +1 | |||
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"I read something interesting the other day where a usually dominant woman had said that she didn't feel she could be a great dom until after she had learnt to be totally sub aswell. What are peoples thoughts on that?" I saw something a while ago that was similar. She started out as a sub and over time switched. She was a porn star but this was in her private life with her partner of years. I'm pretty sure that in the end she preferred to take the dominant role and split with her partner. | |||
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"I read something interesting the other day where a usually dominant woman had said that she didn't feel she could be a great dom until after she had learnt to be totally sub aswell. What are peoples thoughts on that? I saw something a while ago that was similar. She started out as a sub and over time switched. She was a porn star but this was in her private life with her partner of years. I'm pretty sure that in the end she preferred to take the dominant role and split with her partner. " Ooooo I thought no one had noticed my post lol. Its interesting to think about someone who switches their role but the piece I read someone who was naturally dom and identified with dominant sexuality chose to become a mans sub for a while so that she could truly learn the feelings, emotions etc of the sub to be able to fully and effectively dominate them and she felt like a much better and more caring dom for the experience | |||
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"All the way 100% dominant, but with the intelligence to know that doesnt mean I can dominate anyone who identifies as sub - some dominants seem to not get that. Also - 'Dommes' who see fit to claim that I should try being sub......Like they would ever suggest to a gay guy that he should 'try' pussy - I always reply with that analogy because being sexually dominant is that much a part of my sexuality.." Agree!!! Its exactly how I feel when I describe myself as sexually submissive. I can't be anything else as it doesnt feel natural... | |||
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"I have been told in the past I am a Power Submissive I like the term Alpha Submissive It can appear to be a bit of a paradox but its easy to understand when you consider that confident, independent, assertive people can still enjoy being submissive but it does require a strong intelligent dominant to earn their submission and make the most of it but when you do..... WHOOOOOOWEEEEE " . | |||
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"Not really sure if there is an exact definition, and there are probably "degrees of " . I normally take full control of a meet , so does that make me dominant ? " to me, that would make you assertive. it's a dominant quality, rather than a Dominant quality. | |||
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