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"We only look for bi guys and it's amazing how many 'straight' guys message us, we reply, "sorry, only looking for bi men" and they come back with ~i am bi ! Put it on your profile then, be honest " But the guys can't win frill, if they say bi the vast majority of couples won't have anything to do with them because of some silly perception that they'll pounce on the male if the couple.. I would never judge a bi guy for saying he's straight and that's why. | |||
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"We only look for bi guys and it's amazing how many 'straight' guys message us, we reply, "sorry, only looking for bi men" and they come back with ~i am bi ! Put it on your profile then, be honest " aarrgghh I have a rant thread on the subject.... i only meet bi guys | |||
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"We only look for bi guys and it's amazing how many 'straight' guys message us, we reply, "sorry, only looking for bi men" and they come back with ~i am bi ! Put it on your profile then, be honest But the guys can't win frill, if they say bi the vast majority of couples won't have anything to do with them because of some silly perception that they'll pounce on the male if the couple.. I would never judge a bi guy for saying he's straight and that's why. " I can understand that but I just feel it all needs to be honest, up front, from the start, when people start contradicting their profile when you pull them on something, it makes me wonder. | |||
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"no hang ups here and that is because I accept fully that I will not be the preferred sexual partner of many on here.... and that is really cool. A lot won't be mine. " And that's how it should be, the same as we aren't to everyones taste either, we don't complain about it. | |||
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"We only look for bi guys and it's amazing how many 'straight' guys message us, we reply, "sorry, only looking for bi men" and they come back with ~i am bi ! Put it on your profile then, be honest But the guys can't win frill, if they say bi the vast majority of couples won't have anything to do with them because of some silly perception that they'll pounce on the male if the couple.. I would never judge a bi guy for saying he's straight and that's why. I can understand that but I just feel it all needs to be honest, up front, from the start, when people start contradicting their profile when you pull them on something, it makes me wonder. " I know what you mean and you're actively looking for bi guys but I see it thus: The bi male is judged quite harshly by the community because it's mysoginistic, female bisexuality is clearly encouraged massively, male totally the opposite. Therefore either: The man can be honest and be judged and rejected by the majority. or The man can reveal his leanings in a one on one basis ( as we do our face pics generally) and be judged by the very people he's interested in most. I simply don't think this is just about honesty. I say _iew every man on his individual merits and try to think beyond your prejudices. | |||
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"We only look for bi guys and it's amazing how many 'straight' guys message us, we reply, "sorry, only looking for bi men" and they come back with ~i am bi ! Put it on your profile then, be honest But the guys can't win frill, if they say bi the vast majority of couples won't have anything to do with them because of some silly perception that they'll pounce on the male if the couple.. I would never judge a bi guy for saying he's straight and that's why. I can understand that but I just feel it all needs to be honest, up front, from the start, when people start contradicting their profile when you pull them on something, it makes me wonder. I know what you mean and you're actively looking for bi guys but I see it thus: The bi male is judged quite harshly by the community because it's mysoginistic, female bisexuality is clearly encouraged massively, male totally the opposite. Therefore either: The man can be honest and be judged and rejected by the majority. or The man can reveal his leanings in a one on one basis ( as we do our face pics generally) and be judged by the very people he's interested in most. I simply don't think this is just about honesty. I say _iew every man on his individual merits and try to think beyond your prejudices. " Very good point ( isn't it nice to have a proper debate on here ) Wouldn't call it a prejudice but playing as we do, we need honesty and Trust. We wouldn't immediately discount a guy that says straight on profile but then says he's not when we message, but it always puts a seed of doubt there, which isn't good | |||
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"We only look for bi guys and it's amazing how many 'straight' guys message us, we reply, "sorry, only looking for bi men" and they come back with ~i am bi ! Put it on your profile then, be honest But the guys can't win frill, if they say bi the vast majority of couples won't have anything to do with them because of some silly perception that they'll pounce on the male if the couple.. I would never judge a bi guy for saying he's straight and that's why. I can understand that but I just feel it all needs to be honest, up front, from the start, when people start contradicting their profile when you pull them on something, it makes me wonder. I know what you mean and you're actively looking for bi guys but I see it thus: The bi male is judged quite harshly by the community because it's mysoginistic, female bisexuality is clearly encouraged massively, male totally the opposite. Therefore either: The man can be honest and be judged and rejected by the majority. or The man can reveal his leanings in a one on one basis ( as we do our face pics generally) and be judged by the very people he's interested in most. I simply don't think this is just about honesty. I say _iew every man on his individual merits and try to think beyond your prejudices. Very good point ( isn't it nice to have a proper debate on here ) Wouldn't call it a prejudice but playing as we do, we need honesty and Trust. We wouldn't immediately discount a guy that says straight on profile but then says he's not when we message, but it always puts a seed of doubt there, which isn't good" No agreed prejudice is a strong word, but a judgement value is made according to how the bi guy approaches it. And it's a shame that it could prevent some great bi guys from being enjoyed by you and im sure enjoying you! Honesty and trust is big for us too, but it's the same for the guy if he's a genuine sort. | |||
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"My thinking on the "straight" guys is that I realise they do it to not be excluded by the majority who, for whatever reason, won't meet bi guys but if they've got one lie on their profile, what else are they lying about? (not that they have the market cornered on lying on profiles, but you get my point)" Well im not advocating lying but if almost all women are bi on here and all men straight (which is predictably what the majority of profiles say) then I think most everyone is lying because that's a genetic impossibility. | |||
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"Because they don't want to meet bi men. They just don't want to. Why should they have to defend their wishes??? It's like saying why won't someone meet old men. Because they don't want to!!!!!! You think they should change their mind just so the old men/ bi men can empty their balls? Ridiculous. " | |||
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"it's personal choice we don't care either way If a man is bi or not or cares to admit it or not. As for men lying about sexuality to get meets it's no different to people lying about their age or how big their cock is or even selectively displaying verifications. it's all done to increase the chances of getting a meet and not alienating ones self from potential meets. The rights and wrongs of such actions is another matter but it does happen ! When visiting the gum clinic your asked "do you have sex with other men " ? if you answer yes your classed as a higher risk and offered free hep B jabs if you answer no your a lower risk and have to pay for jabs. maybe this has a bearing on some people thinking ? " | |||
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