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Why are so many men lying about their age??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the point?!! Grrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do so many men lie about their height??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And marital status

And skills

And cock size

And

And and and lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do so many men lie about their height?? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why do so many couples and women think they dont do the same...............weird that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And marital status

And skills

And cock size

And

And and and lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do so many couples and women think they dont do the same...............weird that"

This one doesnt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never seen the point of anyone male or female lying about Thier age....bound to get found out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because they are hoping to meet someone younger, and because they think women prefer tall men and they dont like being short.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do so many couples and women think they dont do the same...............weird that

This one doesnt!"

some do lol

my point IS,if u bring fabs largest group into any discussion that is about their negative actions, u will end up obviously singling out that group.

If men are lying its most likely to do with their want to get by age filters...if its women..its probably vanity....

and surely that combined, some cpls will also tell some porkies on their exact age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't lie, I really am a 104 year old, 8ft tall woman with an 18inch penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Silly to lie. You can't hide it when you meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 35 but unfortunately look older

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By *ingdong91Man
over a year ago

shropshire

I haven't lied I've been up front, am 22, and I am a genuine man that can't find a net cause of so many other single males Are LIERS

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon


"And marital status

And skills

And cock size

And

And and and lol "
I never lie about any of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually a 90yr old dwarf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Silly to lie. You can't hide it when you meet "

Exactly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't lied I've been up front, am 22, and I am a genuine man that can't find a net cause of so many other single males Are LIERS"

You're actually blaming other men on Fab for you not getting a meet because they are liars?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the point?!! Grrrr "

I'd imagine there are just as many women and couples who don't put their true age on, not just men.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It isn't just men who are economical with their age lots of couples are they also often lie about what they want to each other and therefore to any meets.

Single men are not the bad guys of swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It isn't just men who are economical with their age lots of couples are they also often lie about what they want to each other and therefore to any meets.

Single men are not the bad guys of swinging."

Indeed.

I find the number in a profiles name is normally what age they are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's the point?!! Grrrr

I'd imagine there are just as many women and couples who don't put their true age on, not just men."

Single women...maybe...but really no need

Couples...I doubt it.. Why would they need to lie?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It isn't just men who are economical with their age lots of couples are they also often lie about what they want to each other and therefore to any meets.

Single men are not the bad guys of swinging.

Indeed.

I find the number in a profiles name is normally what age they are."

Yes I am 561 years old Mr N is too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It isn't just men who are economical with their age lots of couples are they also often lie about what they want to each other and therefore to any meets.

Single men are not the bad guys of swinging.

Indeed.

I find the number in a profiles name is normally what age they are.

Yes I am 561 years old Mr N is too"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What's the point?!! Grrrr

I'd imagine there are just as many women and couples who don't put their true age on, not just men.

Single women...maybe...but really no need

Couples...I doubt it.. Why would they need to lie?

"

We have met couples who have quite clearly lied about their age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a thread on here two weeks ago where a man had put on his profile about not getting any meets blah blah blah people checked his profile which said he was 35 and challenged him over it amongst other things.

Just went back through our forum posts and seen that he had now put his profile age as 52!!! Cheeky beggar so tempted to bump that thread.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"What's the point?!! Grrrr "

Only men lie?!! Who knew!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Why are so many people inflating/ adjusting the truth I wonder? Well, for one they can..trouble is, the truth usually comes out when they meet others (who also may have inflated things a little.

Bottom line.. does it matter? You can still say no to further engagement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It isn't just men who are economical with their age lots of couples are they also often lie about what they want to each other and therefore to any meets.

Single men are not the bad guys of swinging."

I am "friends" with a handful of profiles (couples and women), who have admitted to me that they are not the age they have stated in their profile. I personally find it silly, but have also not given my true birth date. I reach 33 2 months earlier than I should lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It isn't just men who are economical with their age lots of couples are they also often lie about what they want to each other and therefore to any meets.

Single men are not the bad guys of swinging."

I don't think single men are the bad guys of swinging..we have met LOTS of great guys. My point is, why lie about your age? It's just not necessary. There's someone for everyone

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Well I don't lie about my height as that falsehood would be obvious upon meeting me.

As previously admitted a few weeks ago on another thread I lied about my age when I first joined as when my head is shaved and no face fuzz folk usually put me at 5-10 years, sometimes as much as 15 , less than my actual age.

It was 'kid in a sweet factory' time and a way of lessening restrictions. I always told meets my true age beforehand and guess what? Over half of them lied about theirs.

If/when I start to actively seek again I shall revamp my profile and include my real age, currently standing at two score and twelve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also...Who cares if their age is not accurate. Surely if you are attracted to that person and want a meet, then it becomes irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's the point?!! Grrrr

Only men lie?!! Who knew! "
:-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the point?!! Grrrr

I'd imagine there are just as many women and couples who don't put their true age on, not just men.

Single women...maybe...but really no need

Couples...I doubt it.. Why would they need to lie?

"

your making out couples wont lie?-they follow exactly the same rules of engagement as single people do..the fear of rejection.

some lie about smoking,some lie about how great their sex life is,some lie about how how happy they are sharing their partners, lie about their professional jobs etc etc.

I've been on the scene that long, single and cpld(in the proper fashion) to know there are many people who..will tell a huge or small porkie...

most of the time nobody will ask intrusive questions anyway...I'd never ask a cpl to show me their marriage certificate or perform a land registry check on their house...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where are all these guys hiding???? All of the ones I have met have been exactly what I was led to believe (and better in most cases). I think you need to re_iew who you are chatting to and meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also...Who cares if their age is not accurate. Surely if you are attracted to that person and want a meet, then it becomes irrelevant. "

Its just a bit silly though isnt it?

there are plenty of old timers on here who meet others for fun isnt there, short ones too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Also...Who cares if their age is not accurate. Surely if you are attracted to that person and want a meet, then it becomes irrelevant. "

It isn't irrelevant when you turn up to meet people who are ten years at least older than their stated age and photographs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lying is not the exclusive domain of men.

Jeez, feel like I'm stucking watching Loose Women on repeat the amount of slagging off that goes on about guys.

If you think men are so lame why be here at all?

Al

(Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm definitely 6' 2" and 54 although I look err 54

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Also...Who cares if their age is not accurate. Surely if you are attracted to that person and want a meet, then it becomes irrelevant.

Its just a bit silly though isnt it?

there are plenty of old timers on here who meet others for fun isnt there, short ones too. "

Me....me I'm a short old timer.

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

Every woman I've met has lied..... they all said I was a fantastic fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also...Who cares if their age is not accurate. Surely if you are attracted to that person and want a meet, then it becomes irrelevant.

It isn't irrelevant when you turn up to meet people who are ten years at least older than their stated age and photographs. "

Ah, I see. I was under the assumption that you would have already seen a recent pic of them before arranging to meet. If they also deceive you by sending a much older picture of themselves, then that really bites the biscuit. But if you had seen them and they didn't look their real age, Then I'm sure it wouldn't bother many people. But morally it's wrong, regardless.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Every woman I've met has lied..... they all said I was a fantastic fuck "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every woman I've met has lied..... they all said I was a fantastic fuck "

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Lying comes in many guises within the swinging world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it kind of funny, too. I mean, if you're 5'6", and you say in your profile you're 6'3", how in the hell do you think the meet is going to go? The same thing kind of goes with age too. The person usually bases their attraction or lack thereof on what you look like, not so much your birthdate.

I've seen women in their 50s and even 60s that I would have sex with just based on their looks...I don't really give a shit what their actual age is.

It just fascinates me the way some people think they can pull shit off and think they'll get away with it! You're screwed (and not in the good way) at your first meet!

Plus, it's just easier to be truthful anyway. Lying, and then remembering what lies you told to who is a hell of a lot of wasted effort.

-JD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most men i have met havnt lied about their age as far as i know, just the odd few older men saying they were younger or very young men saying they were a bit older.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Also...Who cares if their age is not accurate. Surely if you are attracted to that person and want a meet, then it becomes irrelevant.

It isn't irrelevant when you turn up to meet people who are ten years at least older than their stated age and photographs.

Ah, I see. I was under the assumption that you would have already seen a recent pic of them before arranging to meet. If they also deceive you by sending a much older picture of themselves, then that really bites the biscuit. But if you had seen them and they didn't look their real age, Then I'm sure it wouldn't bother many people. But morally it's wrong, regardless."

It's happened to us with couples and single men, we're not bitter about it and in fact have a laugh when we remember it. The one that makes us laugh the most is the guy (from another site) who in his photo was athletic with full head of dark glossy hair and 50, in person the only similarity was that he had hair .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"most men i have met havnt lied about their age as far as i know, just the odd few older men saying they were younger or very young men saying they were a bit older."

Yes we met a young man who had inflated his age. It just isn't possible in some cases to carry it off.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Also...Who cares if their age is not accurate. Surely if you are attracted to that person and want a meet, then it becomes irrelevant.

It isn't irrelevant when you turn up to meet people who are ten years at least older than their stated age and photographs.

Ah, I see. I was under the assumption that you would have already seen a recent pic of them before arranging to meet. If they also deceive you by sending a much older picture of themselves, then that really bites the biscuit. But if you had seen them and they didn't look their real age, Then I'm sure it wouldn't bother many people. But morally it's wrong, regardless."

We were under the assumption that we'd seen a recent picture too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women lie too! No idea why mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can asssure you that many couples lie too! There is a couple on this site with two separate profiles -I think to use in the chatrooms. Profiles are identical, except they are both eight years younger on the Mrs profile than on the Mr profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also...Who cares if their age is not accurate. Surely if you are attracted to that person and want a meet, then it becomes irrelevant.

It isn't irrelevant when you turn up to meet people who are ten years at least older than their stated age and photographs.

Ah, I see. I was under the assumption that you would have already seen a recent pic of them before arranging to meet. If they also deceive you by sending a much older picture of themselves, then that really bites the biscuit. But if you had seen them and they didn't look their real age, Then I'm sure it wouldn't bother many people. But morally it's wrong, regardless.

It's happened to us with couples and single men, we're not bitter about it and in fact have a laugh when we remember it. The one that makes us laugh the most is the guy (from another site) who in his photo was athletic with full head of dark glossy hair and 50, in person the only similarity was that he had hair ."

I would just feel sorry for that person and their deluded sense of reality lol I'm sure after they receive he same reaction several times, they will start to be more honest. We all learn by making mistakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this one won't lie 5 ft 5 dark hair blue eyes, 47 n bored out of my brains lol

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women lie too! No idea why mind! "

And men tend to be too polite to point that out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women lie too! No idea why mind!

And men tend to be too polite to point that out "

I'm polite.... honestly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well this one won't lie 5 ft 5 dark hair blue eyes, 47 n bored out of my brains lol

Her"

Hmmm...lets shag

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't believe much I read on the forums, bugger getting to the profiles..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women lie too! No idea why mind!

And men tend to be too polite to point that out "

They're just too busy moaning about how they can't get a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women lie too! No idea why mind!

And men tend to be too polite to point that out

They're just too busy moaning about how they can't get a meet! "

I never moan

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By *igbloke466863Man
over a year ago

Local if im near i may be up for fun

I'm clearly just too honest then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well this one won't lie 5 ft 5 dark hair blue eyes, 47 n bored out of my brains lol

Her

Hmmm...lets shag"

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Also...Who cares if their age is not accurate. Surely if you are attracted to that person and want a meet, then it becomes irrelevant.

It isn't irrelevant when you turn up to meet people who are ten years at least older than their stated age and photographs. "

Yes I had one of these for the first time last week, verified by someone familiar, 12 years older and considerably heavier! I walked out - who would put themselves through that? He had deleted by the time I got home.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Also...Who cares if their age is not accurate. Surely if you are attracted to that person and want a meet, then it becomes irrelevant.

It isn't irrelevant when you turn up to meet people who are ten years at least older than their stated age and photographs.

Yes I had one of these for the first time last week, verified by someone familiar, 12 years older and considerably heavier! I walked out - who would put themselves through that? He had deleted by the time I got home."

It's one of the reasons we a strict social only meet first rule, it tends to put people like that off unless they are truly deluded, lots hope that you'll think "oh well I'm here now I might as well"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the point?!! Grrrr

I'd imagine there are just as many women and couples who don't put their true age on, not just men.

Single women...maybe...but really no need

Couples...I doubt it.. Why would they need to lie?

"

Single women & couples would lie the same as everyone else ~ to meet their age preference & get around filters.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"What's the point?!! Grrrr "

I'm 29 as i have been for a few years now

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I'm 25, honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 25, honest. "

Yeah me too....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm 25, honest.

Yeah me too.... "

I was once, then I went round the clock and added a few miles, now I don't even have a measurement equalling 25

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just like to lie to make them sound good

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