FabSwingers.com forum: Shame & Name

By *ung hi OP Man
over a year ago

Northwest

Please can admin do us all a favour.

Can we have a name & shame column .

Am sure it helps everyone. Some people have busy life , don't want to get messed around.

It's awful .. Work hard play hard

Many thanks if you can look into this .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please can admin do us all a favour.

Can we have a name & shame column .

Am sure it helps everyone. Some people have busy life , don't want to get messed around.

It's awful .. Work hard play hard

Many thanks if you can look into this .

This man arranged to meet me and then left me standing outside pub as he never turned up. Add him to top of name and shame list please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please can admin do us all a favour.

Can we have a name & shame column .

Am sure it helps everyone. Some people have busy life , don't want to get messed around.

It's awful .. Work hard play hard

Many thanks if you can look into this .

This man arranged to meet me and then left me standing outside pub as he never turned up. Add him to top of name and shame list please

He didn't meet me either! Oh the scandal!!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

He didn't meet me either! Oh the scandal!!

He DID meet me! And was I scandalised when he looked better in a skirt that I and he had bigger boobies

OP, prove otherwise, as it's your word against ours and that's why there is no name and shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of you timewasters have met us. Pathetic

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By *ung hi OP Man
over a year ago

Northwest

People let's get real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People let's get real "

We are real it's our word against yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And when people get stroppy and have hissy fits as you don't want to meet them (yes, it happens!) they will abuse it by trying to get back at you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sent all of the above an unsolvable rubik's cube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People let's get real "

Maybe sort out your own selection criteria?

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By *ung hi OP Man
over a year ago

Northwest

Really true hurts

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"I sent all of the above an unsolvable rubik's cube.

Yes, you git. Dosing a Rubiks cube with superglue is very sneaky and come Ragnorak you are in trouble!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desiada arranged to meet me, Moody, Captain Pugwash and three Alaskan Eskimos to go on a swinging/fishing trip to the north pole - and stood us up.

And promised to bring fizzy pop and biscuits - so as well as not getting a shag we all starved to death.

Obviously we got better eventually otherwise we wouldn't be able to post these factually incorrect statements solely for the purpose of showing just why any 'name and shame' system wouldn't work.

Ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feck

I thought this thread was to do with something else!!

Shames and names won't ever work!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Desiada arranged to meet me, Moody, Captain Pugwash and three Alaskan Eskimos to go on a swinging/fishing trip to the north pole - and stood us up.

And promised to bring fizzy pop and biscuits - so as well as not getting a shag we all starved to death.

Obviously we got better eventually otherwise we wouldn't be able to post these factually incorrect statements solely for the purpose of showing just why any 'name and shame' system wouldn't work.

Ever.

I did get to shag Captain Pugwash though

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By *ung hi OP Man
over a year ago

Northwest

So they thinks it's joke time

Huh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres the other side of this ive met im verified from meeting and im very clear in all communications that we can arrange a meet for a specific night, but if my childcare lets me down I am stuck as i chose not to meet whilst my kids are in my care (my choice), then i have to let someone down for this very same reason and suddenly im a timewaster. There is no need to name and shame you can report these people privately yo admin ahould you feel you need to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So they thinks it's joke time

Huh"

I think you are missing the point. Anyone could fabricate any story against another user and abuse a name and shame system.

It just wouldn't work.

As crystalwheels suggested, the only real sensible option is to be a bit more rigourous with your own selection process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So they thinks it's joke time

Huh"

This has been done to death. Site owners wont allow it and mods will shut this thread soon enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So they thinks it's joke time

Huh

I think you are missing the point. Anyone could fabricate any story against another user and abuse a name and shame system.

It just wouldn't work.

As crystalwheels suggested, the only real sensible option is to be a bit more rigourous with your own selection process."

This

Oh - and I met crystalwheels and he's not as grumpy and argumentative as he can be on the forums.

Bloody fake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So they thinks it's joke time

Huh

I think you are missing the point. Anyone could fabricate any story against another user and abuse a name and shame system.

It just wouldn't work.

As crystalwheels suggested, the only real sensible option is to be a bit more rigourous with your own selection process.

This

Oh - and I met crystalwheels and he's not as grumpy and argumentative as he can be on the forums.

Bloody fake!

What do you mean? I'm not argumentative!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"So they thinks it's joke time

Huh"

no but they are all proving it is your word against them... and since there are a lot saying you are a timewaster... they are naming and shaming you......

and now do you see why it is unworkable...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So they thinks it's joke time

Huh

I think you are missing the point. Anyone could fabricate any story against another user and abuse a name and shame system.

It just wouldn't work.

As crystalwheels suggested, the only real sensible option is to be a bit more rigourous with your own selection process.

This

Oh - and I met crystalwheels and he's not as grumpy and argumentative as he can be on the forums.

Bloody fake!

What do you mean? I'm not argumentative!

Fight !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Point proven I think

I got called a timewaster once when chatting to.a bloke in Birmingham and he blocked me,never even arranged a meet,could have put my name on name and shame list and totally ruined my reputation of actually meeting,nobody would trust me again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I sent all of the above an unsolvable rubik's cube.

Pmpl, they probably havent got the noggin to even try and hv a go at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I sent all of the above an unsolvable rubik's cube.

Pmpl, they probably havent got the noggin to even try and hv a go at it

I've only wasted my own time then.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Admin have said many many times that naming and shaming is open to abuse and will never be allowed. Its against site rules and will stay so.

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