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By *iggeroooo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Conwy

I need to rant... So here is where I'll do it.

You guys that copy and paste

We know your doing it so please stop!

How do we know?

Well mostly because we've had the same message off you 3 weeks ago lol, why can't you lazy *******s just take the time to personalise your message... It will pay off, trust me!!

Rant over...? ... NO!!

Friend requests

Why send one without even contacting first? ... Do you really, honestly expect people to randomly accept it?

We know you just want to see the private pics... Try google??

Pictures

If someone requests you only contact them with a clear face picture... Make sure you do so when you mail them.

What? ... You thought that six pac or your 1256 inch cock on your profile pic will excuse you? ... It won't!!

Profiles

Read them, they actually contain hints and tips for the PERSONAL message you should be creating.

Get a feel for what they want, if you can genuinely offer that... Then your message will flow more natural and will give you a better chance of a nice reply.

Other crap that annoys us...

You don't get a reply?

The reason is most likely that they are bogged down with emails .... You wouldn't reply to each and every one... Just take it as a "no thanks"

Status updates

Don't be negative!!!!

Say how beautiful the day is, tell us a funny joke ... Say anything nice or positive.

When we see "nobody wants me boohoo" or "giving up on here, it's crap" .... Yeah, we will fight to meet you!! Lol

Hmmmm, my mood is now changing and I think my rant has come to an end

Thank you for reading and be dirty!!

Xxxx

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks


"I need to rant... So here is where I'll do it.

You guys that copy and paste

We know your doing it so please stop!

How do we know?

Well mostly because we've had the same message off you 3 weeks ago lol, why can't you lazy *******s just take the time to personalise your message... It will pay off, trust me!!

Rant over...? ... NO!!

Friend requests

Why send one without even contacting first? ... Do you really, honestly expect people to randomly accept it?

We know you just want to see the private pics... Try google??

Pictures

If someone requests you only contact them with a clear face picture... Make sure you do so when you mail them.

What? ... You thought that six pac or your 1256 inch cock on your profile pic will excuse you? ... It won't!!

Profiles

Read them, they actually contain hints and tips for the PERSONAL message you should be creating.

Get a feel for what they want, if you can genuinely offer that... Then your message will flow more natural and will give you a better chance of a nice reply.

Other crap that annoys us...

You don't get a reply?

The reason is most likely that they are bogged down with emails .... You wouldn't reply to each and every one... Just take it as a "no thanks"

Status updates

Don't be negative!!!!

Say how beautiful the day is, tell us a funny joke ... Say anything nice or positive.

When we see "nobody wants me boohoo" or "giving up on here, it's crap" .... Yeah, we will fight to meet you!! Lol

Hmmmm, my mood is now changing and I think my rant has come to an end

Thank you for reading and be dirty!!

Xxxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, do these things really piss you off that much?

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By *iggeroooo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Conwy

Nope haha, just thought there's a lot of guys who do need the help

But I logged on to 3 useless messages

13 friend invites? .. Gets annoying

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

I actually do copy and paste messages if im hoenst but then i tweak them for the person im messaging so each one is slightly different and tailored to the audience.

there's only so many times you can write a simple introduction about yourself and what you are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And breathe.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to rant... So here is where I'll do it.

You guys that copy and paste

We know your doing it so please stop!

How do we know?

Well mostly because we've had the same message off you 3 weeks ago lol, why can't you lazy *******s just take the time to personalise your message... It will pay off, trust me!!

Rant over...? ... NO!!

Friend requests

Why send one without even contacting first? ... Do you really, honestly expect people to randomly accept it?

We know you just want to see the private pics... Try google??

Pictures

If someone requests you only contact them with a clear face picture... Make sure you do so when you mail them.

What? ... You thought that six pac or your 1256 inch cock on your profile pic will excuse you? ... It won't!!

Profiles

Read them, they actually contain hints and tips for the PERSONAL message you should be creating.

Get a feel for what they want, if you can genuinely offer that... Then your message will flow more natural and will give you a better chance of a nice reply.

Other crap that annoys us...

You don't get a reply?

The reason is most likely that they are bogged down with emails .... You wouldn't reply to each and every one... Just take it as a "no thanks"

Status updates

Don't be negative!!!!

Say how beautiful the day is, tell us a funny joke ... Say anything nice or positive.

When we see "nobody wants me boohoo" or "giving up on here, it's crap" .... Yeah, we will fight to meet you!! Lol

Hmmmm, my mood is now changing and I think my rant has come to an end

Thank you for reading and be dirty!!

Xxxx"

This should appear on your page when you try to message someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cut and paste messages really piss me off, especially when they they've been contacting a couple and haven't even noticed that they've contacted a single woman, they're being lazy so they can get their dick wet

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

oh and the random friends request actually happen to everyone not just couples and women, though my random requests come mainly from men though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed )) I totally get it ....and also when I get a message saying

' how are you guys' !!!!!!

Im a single fem ...ggrrrrr lol ))

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By *iggeroooo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Conwy

Yes I get what your saying there

But then there must be moments where you'll send a message to someone who had pretty much the same one just days or weeks ago ... That's where we lose interest, knowing loads others had the same thing and no effort was really made

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

that is a great news... they will definitely stop now.

that's cleared that up, now to tackle the males posing as females and the shy straight bi lads...

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By *iggeroooo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Conwy

Yes, you've reminded me.

One line messages.. How's you?

Want to fuck?

Then, you get a decent message, nice picture ... Oh, your just 196 miles away in bloody Scotland? haha

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By *iggeroooo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Conwy


"that is a great news... they will definitely stop now.

that's cleared that up, now to tackle the males posing as females and the shy straight bi lads..."

Don't find that an issue, them out at first glance.

Appreciate your sarcasm though, cheers

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"that is a great news... they will definitely stop now.

that's cleared that up, now to tackle the males posing as females and the shy straight bi lads...

Don't find that an issue, them out at first glance.

Appreciate your sarcasm though, cheers "

the pleasure was all mine...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hasn't made first contact yet

Apart from Hi/Hello/How are you/Would you like to meet

What else do you say

Something about yourself

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Yes I get what your saying there

But then there must be moments where you'll send a message to someone who had pretty much the same one just days or weeks ago ... That's where we lose interest, knowing loads others had the same thing and no effort was really made "

i don't think (at least i hope not) that hasn't happened to me to date (famous last words)

The site also warns you when you have messaged someone and they haven't replied so if you still aren't paying attention then thats the fault of the sender and i totally understand your frustration

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By *iggeroooo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Conwy


"that is a great news... they will definitely stop now.

that's cleared that up, now to tackle the males posing as females and the shy straight bi lads...

Don't find that an issue, them out at first glance.

Appreciate your sarcasm though, cheers

the pleasure was all mine... "

Oh ... You didn't pick up on my sarcasm then?

Haha just messing with you, have a fantastic day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, do these things really piss you off that much? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh and the random friends request actually happen to everyone not just couples and women, though my random requests come mainly from men though "

Glad it's not just me then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the messages that get sent, that clearly belong in the stories and fantasises section of this forum that annoy me. I'm here to live out my fantasises, not read about them and from the odd one i have met like that can easily say they have been my worst meets, all talk and no real action!

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By *iggeroooo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Conwy


"Its the messages that get sent, that clearly belong in the stories and fantasises section of this forum that annoy me. I'm here to live out my fantasises, not read about them and from the odd one i have met like that can easily say they have been my worst meets, all talk and no real action!"

Haha absolutely agree

I've got this, that and can cum over and over... Different story in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I copy and paste about 50% of my messages (the basic stuff about me that I don't feel I should have to write for every message). I then personalise it.

It's just a bit infuriating spending ages writing a long, personal message only to not get a reply.

I also have a fairly big profile but also covers a lot.

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By *iggeroooo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Conwy


"I copy and paste about 50% of my messages (the basic stuff about me that I don't feel I should have to write for every message). I then personalise it.

It's just a bit infuriating spending ages writing a long, personal message only to not get a reply.

I also have a fairly big profile but also covers a lot."

Exactly ... The stuff your going to say over and over about yourself then yes, copy n paste the shit out if it lol

Then personalise as you say.

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