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By *uriouscouple21 OP   Man
over a year ago

reading

Noticed alot of people on here have very tight/ closed up foreskins. Does that bother anyone when meeting? We find it a bit of a turn of as its not very hygienic and normally prone to splitting then them going out of action?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's called phimosis.

Mine used to split - didn't know at the time - probably too much adrenaline not feel any pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have never met anyone that has a foreskin that may be prone to splitting.

if someone you meet has one, then im almost certain they are old enough to have decided its not going to happen, so dont worry about it.

personally, V prefers a foreskin anyway.

and its not unhygenic as long as its cleaned, much like a cut cock.

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By *uriouscouple21 OP   Man
over a year ago

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I mean a foreskin that doesn't retract fully, can't see how that would be hygienic as you can't clean behind the skin. Mine is tight but retracts no problem. Surely if they got cut then they'd get more meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's not scientific proof that a uncut cock is healthier than a cut one.

Stetching exercises can help loosen the tightness. There is also steroid cream to help.

If it's an issue for you?

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By *uriouscouple21 OP   Man
over a year ago

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I don't mind a uncut cock I mean one that doesn't retract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen a couple of threads on here and many man have opted for circumcision.

As for cleanliness - water can get in all kinds of places. I suppose it depends on the guy to keep it clean.

If you think about it receiving BJs is good for tight foreskin - saliva could act as lubricant whilst the hand and mouth actions can help with the stretching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as said, never come across one, and everyone we have met have been uncut.

i would suggest the foreskins of these guys you have met are fully retractable when their penis is soft, so they are fully able to clean them properly.

that said, if we are travelling any distance to a meet, i like to nip to the bathroom when we get there, and give myself a little wash down below before doing anything, gets rid of travellers cock lol

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I have a foreskin and I can't imagine one that isn't fully retractable when the penis is flaccid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean a foreskin that doesn't retract fully, can't see how that would be hygienic as you can't clean behind the skin. Mine is tight but retracts no problem. Surely if they got cut then they'd get more meets?"

Don't clean it when it's hard do it when's it's soft and can retract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From research if read the foreskin can be so tight that the hole/geo can be as small as 6mm in diameter.

So you can't that being retracted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That should've said 'gap' not 'geo'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From research if read the foreskin can be so tight that the hole/geo can be as small as 6mm in diameter.

So you can't that being retracted."
if someone has a foreskin with a 6mm opening, i can guarantee before they are old enough to find out what to do with it, they will have had it chopped off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may not know it's an issue. There's nothing wrong with the foreskin being there and tbh when the option of surgery was given to me I said no.

If it doesn't retract at all then it shouldn't split - hence - no problem

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By *rav112Man
over a year ago

Calne

I'm new to this site and not sure what to say when msging people lil help anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm new to this site and not sure what to say when msging people lil help anyone"

Say what's on your mind, but imo try not to offend anyone.

Simples

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By *rav112Man
over a year ago

Calne

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Noticed alot of people on here have very tight/ closed up foreskins. Does that bother anyone when meeting? We find it a bit of a turn of as its not very hygienic and normally prone to splitting then them going out of action? "

With condoms you have less chance of them splitting but in general I avoid tight red looking ones as I don't want to see one split in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You may not know it's an issue. There's nothing wrong with the foreskin being there and tbh when the option of surgery was given to me I said no.

If it doesn't retract at all then it shouldn't split - hence - no problem"

A hole that small will.be quite crushing and cause considerable discomfort during erections and sex.

Also you don't need it cut off they can just cut a slit in it for you.

If it's tight but.not too bad (or retract when soft but not hard) a strong steroid cream applied to the tight ring if tissue as massaged in before a little stretching will work wonders quite quickly.

Can take some persuading to get your doctors to give it you they just prefer to refer for circumcising.

But a a good gp will prescribe it.

Mine used to be a little tight, now perfectly fine and I didn't have to go through the agony of having it cut

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By *evonTallGuyMan
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

I've met a few guys with foreskins that don't retract when hard but they've seemed clean and hygienic, not causing any problems.

Kind of limits the possibilities for fun though. The whole point of wanking and sucking is to stimulate the bell end, and it doesn't work as well when it's permanently covered by the foreskin.

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By *nysladMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

Circumsied is the answer if guys have any problems with forskins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit mine was fairly tight about 15 years ago, (could only retract about half way) then during sex it did split, I was in severe pain for about a week and at the time thought it wasn't going to stop bleeding, but on the plus side it did cure the tightness and have been able to fully retract since lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

_uriouscouple21 hasn't really had her question answered. as it was specifically about foreskins that won't retract.

I don't have the answer so all I can say is if it doesn't retract and you're happy to have it in your mouth then go for it

jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love playing with mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a fella posted on here a few days ago about this - was contemplating circumcision - but folk replied about stretching and creams for this from the doc - must be a common problem

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By *nysladMan
over a year ago

Anglesey


"a fella posted on here a few days ago about this - was contemplating circumcision - but folk replied about stretching and creams for this from the doc - must be a common problem "

yes i think circumcision is common these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say a retracting foreskin 'should' be more enjoyable to a woman than a cut cock...so enough of the prejudice guys Mine retracts and, when it does, it forms a nice chunky ridge that's just gotta be a major tingler for Mrs P

Of course I'm forgetting that this debate must only be about BJ's. I can't imagine all you guys are going bareback with anyone other than your lover and when a cock is in a condom having a foreskin is a total non issue. I'd say the most important thing for BJ's is not whether you're cut or not...but whether you are clean and you smell clean. Women might also want men to wash before hand so that might be where it's better if you can retract it or if you're cut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of all the extra protein you'll get with a foreskin

Smegma!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean a foreskin that doesn't retract fully, can't see how that would be hygienic as you can't clean behind the skin. Mine is tight but retracts no problem. Surely if they got cut then they'd get more meets?"

Oh yeah...I'll go and get circumsised In hope that girls find me irresistible... REALLY.., much easier than washing,, NOT!!.. I wouldn't worry about some men being unhygienic so much.,.just look at all the fannys that resemble the mud flaps on a beat up ford Escort...Jesus mines as clean as a whistle I've seen a lot of cut cocks on here with nice little white spots..known as thrush!!!

There's many many folk on here cut or not that need a good bloody wash!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's many many folk on here cut or not that need a good bloody wash!!!"

Lol that sounds grotesque and potentially painful very Stephen King...like that scene from Carrie where she gets a bucket of blood tipped over her. But I'm guessing you meant bloody good wash not good bloody wash lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phimosis isn't a laughing matter...

I was cut as a result of it. After about 2 months of permanent discomfort due to multiple splits it was an easy choice to make.

The problem you have is that every time you get a split then it leaves scar tissue where you heal. This is less elastic, so every split makes it less elastic and then more prone to splitting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is irrefutable evidence that circumcision is a great means of preventing the spread of HIV - fact - the HIV virus lives on germs under the foreskin. Studies in Africa are overwhelming on this point - not making a thing but just shows circumcised is more hygienic that's all

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its the one thing that would put me off a foreskin that doest retract. I don't mind if someone is circumzed or not but could play with non retractable foreskin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have to sit out of these threads Haven't had forskin since I was 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am cut and works perfectly lol!

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By *amamanMan
over a year ago

Inverness and around. ...

Uncut here clean,disease free ,fully retractable ,and in very good working order ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was circumcised earlier this year after splitting my foreskin and it tearing every time I had sex. It was the last thing I wanted to do as at 36 I was kinda attached to my foreskin. The most important thing however was to have a healthy sex life so I was prepared to do what was needed. Things are back to awesome now and I regret living the way I did for so long out of reluctance to get things fixed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am stunned by the level of ignorance here...but I guess people don't normally talk about this in real life so it's understandable. It is extremely easy to pull a foreskin totally back when the penis is flaccid so washing and hygiene is a total non-issue here. Yes..if someone is a lazy bastard and can't be bothered to wash properly then it can get stinky...but that's a problem with their mentality not their cock.

The issue here is about whether you can pull your foreskin back when your penis is swollen and erect, which is an entirely different matter as, by definition, your cock is much much bigger. Some can and some can't. But that has no impact whatsoever on the issue of hygiene.

That's your sex education lesson for the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell you what Mr Sex Education from a personal point of view my penis always feels so much cleaner now I've been cut, but hey you seem happy to shout down anyone with an opposing viewpoint and more importantly actual experience of the issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My uncut fully retracts when flaccid or when steel hard erect. ... gives me slightly longer before precum damp patch appears too when occasion warrants it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coquin I wasn't referring to your post. You seem to have had a problem with tearing whilst having sex i.e. with retracting your foreskin when your penis was erect. Did you have the same problem retracting your foreskin when it was flaccid? I'm guessing not... and that's my point. Some people on here seem to think that it's impossible to keep a penis with a foreskin clean. It isn't...it's really very very easy. That was the 'ignorance' to which I was referring...nothing to do with you and your issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair enough I do see a lot of hostility towards circumcision on the forums but either way is fine. I used to love my foreskin lol but a satisfying sex life was more important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are 2 types of this condition:

Phimosis - there is where the skin will not retract at all.

And

Para-phimosis - where the skin will retract buy very tight when erect and can split.

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