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advice for a new couple having meets

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By *spot50 OP   Man
over a year ago

rochester

So been on a while and have met a fantastic rampant lady who is looking for us to meet others as a couple, be it a single lady or a couple, just asking for advice on best approach on this as its all new for me to meet as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly make a couples profile

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By *spot50 OP   Man
over a year ago

rochester


"Firstly make a couples profile "

But do I still keep single profile as well as its not a full on relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you should both keep singles profile and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a male I'd female with singles profile asked me to meet them with someone else I wouldn't do it unless I knew them well hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should be or not I'd grt

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Set up a couples profilevand see how it goes

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By *spot50 OP   Man
over a year ago

rochester


"If a male I'd female with singles profile asked me to meet them with someone else I wouldn't do it unless I knew them well hope this helps "

I know her very well and its her idea to try a ffm meet, as you can guess I'm not going to resist to much lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meant if they asked me as a single to meet them as a couple but asking from a Singke profile

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By *spot50 OP   Man
over a year ago

rochester


"I meant if they asked me as a single to meet them as a couple but asking from a Singke profile "

Ok got ya thx for the heads up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

many wont meet fwb couples, however.

the dynamic isnt there, for other couples.

single women may well feel differently, however.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd think for a single women a Feb couple would be better as it's more Likley to be an even group meet than her ending up the couples play thing for their fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'd think for a single women a Feb couple would be better as it's more Likley to be an even group meet than her ending up the couples play thing for their fantasy"

you would think, but say, for arguments sake, its actually the guys idea to join forces and have an mff, and he pays more attention to the other female, is his fb going to accept that as one of those things, or kick off?

who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just as likely to happen with a couple I suppose.

Bit I think.the "new" person us probably always going to get a bit more attention/be the focus.

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By *spot50 OP   Man
over a year ago

rochester


"You'd think for a single women a Feb couple would be better as it's more Likley to be an even group meet than her ending up the couples play thing for their fantasy

you would think, but say, for arguments sake, its actually the guys idea to join forces and have an mff, and he pays more attention to the other female, is his fb going to accept that as one of those things, or kick off?

who knows"

But she would get the same attention isn't that what swinging is about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

new toy syndrome.

in a couple dynamic, you are fully aware of each other and concsious that you HAVE to give your time equally to your new plaything, as well as the one you already have.

however, when you havent got that connection, the whole caring about the feeling of the other person can, not will, get lost in the moment, and lead to one being left out

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By *spot50 OP   Man
over a year ago

rochester


"new toy syndrome.

in a couple dynamic, you are fully aware of each other and concsious that you HAVE to give your time equally to your new plaything, as well as the one you already have.

however, when you havent got that connection, the whole caring about the feeling of the other person can, not will, get lost in the moment, and lead to one being left

out"

But then don't all relationships get based on trust and knowing what a partner wants and allowing them to find what they like, your observations can happen in a lo g term relationship too, and be more damaging, just asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"new toy syndrome.

in a couple dynamic, you are fully aware of each other and concsious that you HAVE to give your time equally to your new plaything, as well as the one you already have.

however, when you havent got that connection, the whole caring about the feeling of the other person can, not will, get lost in the moment, and lead to one being left

out

But then don't all relationships get based on trust and knowing what a partner wants and allowing them to find what they like, your observations can happen in a lo g term relationship too, and be more damaging, just asking"

absolutely can do, im not saying it cant, and never said it would happen in your instance.

what i am saying is, long term couples generally think of each other on a par of thinking of themselves, so when they get involved with another play person, they would generally remember they are there with someone else.

much the same as going out drinking with friends.

i have found myself almost ignoring the person i came out with, whilst chatting with someone else.

its the same thing

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