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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For a couple to break my mmf cherry, I seriously would love to participate in a spit-roast, will it ever happen I wonder??

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"For a couple to break my mmf cherry, I seriously would love to participate in a spit-roast, will it ever happen I wonder??"

With that photo I'd be very surprised

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol thats a bit cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's blurred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol thats a bit cheeky"

But accurate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its deliberately blurred because I work with the public. I do however have private images

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably better to have a clear body pic instead then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should add something that at least shows something more of you, can leave out face.

I think that pic will actually put folks off more than no pic.

Hard to tell if we'd be interested as it stands.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

You want something a high percentage of men on the site want.

You're going to have to stand out and make an effort.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We meet single men for mfm occasionally and it isn't all about a spitroast, as the female I absolutely HATE that term but I do realise it's commonly used. There's more to one woman two guys than that. I recommend contacting couples with a clear body shot, address both partners in all your messages and wish you good luck.

PS the last guy we met who had a blurred photo wasn't really interested when it came down to the nitty gritty we now avoid anyone with out of focus pictures. Just thought I'd mention it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers for the advice but I DO have clear private and recent pictures available to send, once trust has been established. I am not here to mess others about, and I sympathise to others if they have had a bad experience. Its all about pleasure, is it not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers for the advice but I DO have clear private and recent pictures available to send, once trust has been established. I am not here to mess others about, and I sympathise to others if they have had a bad experience. Its all about pleasure, is it not?"

But as you've asked for advice to try to facilitate an would be helpful would it not if you at least thought about the advice properly?

Having been swinging for 14 years and not been hurt by it, I'm just saying why you might struggle to find that illusive mmf.

As others have said there are hundreds of you to every female/couple and as a couple who have mmf mainly, I can tell you there are hundreds of very enticing mens profiles looking for the same thing.

Many with pics that show nothing but reveal lots.

I'd rethink and put a decent public pic up, even one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being funny but if you click on pic and enlarge you can make out face so either pic was taken by someone wanking at time hence blurred or crap camera

Do another pic without face if worried about public but fact your face is recognisable indicates to me it cannot bother you too much.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I sympathise - most of the selfies I have taken on my new phone have come out like that, I can't seem to hold the damn thing still...

However, there are no problems that can't be overcome.

Oh, and not a single face pic on my profule by the way.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Cheers for the advice but I DO have clear private and recent pictures available to send, once trust has been established. I am not here to mess others about, and I sympathise to others if they have had a bad experience. Its all about pleasure, is it not?"

It is all about pleasure. I'm sorry I thought you were asking for advice and gave some about messaging etc.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I sympathise - most of the selfies I have taken on my new phone have come out like that, I can't seem to hold the damn thing still...

However, there are no problems that can't be overcome.

Oh, and not a single face pic on my profule by the way. "

I wouldn't ask anyone to have a face picture on their public profile, we don't. A clear body shot is something we appreciate but everyone must do as they wish

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Profule?

FFS Jimi...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Profule?

FFS Jimi..."

Lol! Remember Mr T.?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well, the best encounters I have had are with women who dont swing, or are at least are not on a swinging site. Maybe sometimes its better to be spontaneous?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Profule?

FFS Jimi...

Lol! Remember Mr T.? "

Just seen your age.....you won't

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Profule?

FFS Jimi...

Lol! Remember Mr T.? "

I pity the profule...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Well, the best encounters I have had are with women who dont swing, or are at least are not on a swinging site. Maybe sometimes its better to be spontaneous?"

Maybe it is, so have you had threesomes with women who aren't on swinging sites?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its deliberately blurred because I work with the public. I do however have private images "

Are you sure you didnt put your camera on the kiddies postman pat ride outside Tesco??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet you wished you never asked now.

You have to have some connection with the COUPLE if you struggle to build up a friendship with people you might end up with a mfm experience but probably one you will want to forget.

Take your time find a couple with similar interests andbecome a friend ( a real one) at the end of the day if they like you and you like them it will happen but naturally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers for the advice but I DO have clear private and recent pictures available to send, once trust has been established. I am not here to mess others about, and I sympathise to others if they have had a bad experience. Its all about pleasure, is it not?"

How are you going to establish trust?

They're going to receive your message and before read it click through to your profile, see the crappy picture and then delete your message.

Just how are you going to build trust when most,people won't even reply to you because of that.

Heck just have a nice clear body shit with your gave out of view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body shot and face lol, that's for that autocorrect

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Cheers for the advice but I DO have clear private and recent pictures available to send, once trust has been established. I am not here to mess others about, and I sympathise to others if they have had a bad experience. Its all about pleasure, is it not?"

Personally, if a profile doesn't have at least one decent public photo, (which certainly need not show a face), I move on. I'm not going to arse about when there are lots of great guys with great profiles here.

Yes, it's all about pleasure but there needs to be attraction. There are lots of men here and many have profiles and photos which tell me enough to know it's worth messaging or replying to them.

I'm single, not part of a couple but I know many couples feel the same way.

You want something an awful lot of men here want. You need to present yourself well and make an effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lolol!@ Jimi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers for the advice but I DO have clear private and recent pictures available to send, once trust has been established. I am not here to mess others about, and I sympathise to others if they have had a bad experience. Its all about pleasure, is it not?"

Here's a little experiment.

Having looked at your profile I would say I fit what you are looking for in a woman with regard to body type at least.

Now supposing I received three messages, one from Siman1000, one from Jimi (both have posted on this thread which is why I chose them!) and the third from you. Based on the avatars attached to those messages, which of the two messages and hence profiles would be most likely to grab my attention if I was looking for an mmf?

To be a successful single male on a site like this you need to stand out from the crowd to attract attention, the advice you have been given is worth taking note of.

If you are so confident that you don't need advice and believe your avatar works, carry on and good luck with your search for an mmf!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Blimey! All this because I happened to type out my personal thoughts! I was invited by a couple when I was 21, but at the time I was naive and not ready. I never asked for any advice lol but cheers anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You did ask a question...will it ever happen? So people are answering your question by making, what I think, are very helpful suggestions which might help your fantasy come true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blimey! All this because I happened to type out my personal thoughts! I was invited by a couple when I was 21, but at the time I was naive and not ready. I never asked for any advice lol but cheers anyway"

And 16 years on you are still hoping, even by single guy status on Fab that's a long time!

You chose to express your thoughts on a public forum on a sex site where everyone is equally entitled to share their own thoughts and as LouBiLou pointed out you did ask the question. What exactly were you expecting as an outcome?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blimey! All this because I happened to type out my personal thoughts! I was invited by a couple when I was 21, but at the time I was naive and not ready. I never asked for any advice lol but cheers anyway

You chose to express your thoughts on a public forum on a sex site where everyone is equally entitled to share their own thoughts and as LouBiLou pointed out you did ask the question. What exactly were you expecting as an outcome?!"

an inbox full of "omg come shag my wife" messages of course :p

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blimey! All this because I happened to type out my personal thoughts! I was invited by a couple when I was 21, but at the time I was naive and not ready. I never asked for any advice lol but cheers anyway

And 16 years on you are still hoping, even by single guy status on Fab that's a long time!

You chose to express your thoughts on a public forum on a sex site where everyone is equally entitled to share their own thoughts and as LouBiLou pointed out you did ask the question. What exactly were you expecting as an outcome?!"
err.. No, not quite. I was in a long term relationship between the ages of 24 and 32 with my childrens mother. I was not on the scene then. I didnt contemplate swinging until a month before my 34th birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your dream could happen plenty of people on here looking for an extra male.

However people are right if you don't happen to have an eye catching photo it's likely you will be passed over. Your photo does look terrible but you needn't show your face to catch people's eye.

Socials and clubs may help you find that couple and as you quite rightly say trust is involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust is a two way thing, as a single bloke you will have a very short time to make your mark on a Couple simply because you are trying to impress 2 people,Seeing you clearly is one of the first things most will look for and to be honest the excuse of "My job" has been heard so many times it becomes a yeah yeah onto the next one

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

Sometimes its a case of being in the right place at the right time.

I think if you are messaging a couple you need to send your clear pic with your first message...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For a couple to break my mmf cherry, I seriously would love to participate in a spit-roast, will it ever happen I wonder??

With that photo I'd be very surprised"
ha ha ha too right I thought I was d*unk lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No need for any more insults!

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